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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

To be honest, we've given up looking. Any that respond seem to be "fab bi" and just wanting to play with kay, have no verifications that say they've played bi or are complete time wasters.

So we alwarespond with a no thanks now.

Also we aren't playing at the moment due to a major operation before we get inundated with messages

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We don't meet singles. I know what your problem is though,it's that so many straight guy's pretend to be bi to get with a female within the couple, genuine bi guy's don't get believed unless they have loads of veris saying that they have met men, another thing that doesn't help is that some bi men have on their profile they don't meet men, which to us is a red flag, either they are bi or aren't. How can they just become bi when they're with a couple. Another confusion is that men with straight on their profile contact us and say they're bi, but it's not on their profile incase someone see's it, like it's something to be ashamed of or something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, we've given up looking. Any that respond seem to be "fab bi" and just wanting to play with kay, have no verifications that say they've played bi or are complete time wasters.

So we alwarespond with a no thanks now.

Also we aren't playing at the moment due to a major operation before we get inundated with messages"

Yes the old Fab Bi trick just to get into the wife's pants !!!!

To be fair that has a put a bad spin on things for the genuine guys

Sorry to hear about the ill health get well soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't meet singles. I know what your problem is though,it's that so many straight guy's pretend to be bi to get with a female within the couple, genuine bi guy's don't get believed unless they have loads of veris saying that they have met men, another thing that doesn't help is that some bi men have on their profile they don't meet men, which to us is a red flag, either they are bi or aren't. How can they just become bi when they're with a couple. Another confusion is that men with straight on their profile contact us and say they're bi, but it's not on their profile incase someone see's it, like it's something to be ashamed of or something."

Again I understand where you are coming from.

But if you take a look at my profile o don't meet men !!!

I am not attracted to men, but I love to play fully Bi with a couple, so will fully interact with the guy in that scenario, anything goes but no kissing

So sometimes no veris from meeting guys is not always suspicious ??

Andy

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

I am very bi - I put that I don't meet men, because like Fs, I can find that at the drop of a hat.

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It’s possible they are not looking for what you want

We are not looking for MF interaction, we want mm or ff fun, we have each other for mf action

We may consider other options including sharing sucking a cock or variations of mmf or mf but not going to involve our m fucking any f or any m fucking our f

As mentioned by others you are not helped by messages from straight males who are pretending to be bi

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We find it hard to find anybody who is just similar to us....

We are looking for more couples than single people but just finding anybody who was actually bi-curious or by whom is genuine would be nice...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s possible they are not looking for what you want

We are not looking for MF interaction, we want mm or ff fun, we have each other for mf action

We may consider other options including sharing sucking a cock or variations of mmf or mf but not going to involve our m fucking any f or any m fucking our f

As mentioned by others you are not helped by messages from straight males who are pretending to be bi"

I totally understand that they may not want the same as me and vice versa,

What you are looking for is very specific to yourselves and I get that, but you have also said that you would entertain mmf or ffm mainly for oral and foreplay but not full sex with another person and that is great.

If I were to message you guys it would be for mmf,but you would reply saying we only do mm and ff play and thats your thing I get that and that would be it,

But if you replied well we can do mmf but only the male has full sex with the male and oral and licking and wanking etc with the female as a 3sum,fir me that would be perfectly reasonable.

Sorry hope that wasn't too long winded lol

Andy

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

There is a whole spectrum between straight and bi. It's about choice attraction and what floats your boat.

Just because I've had bi encounters with couples doesn't mean that I want bum sex with every man on the site. There usually has to be some negotiation of preferences and boundaries before jumping into three way play.

For me the thrill is in the woman's reaction to watching her man with another guy. Also I have to have some attraction to the guy as well. It's surprising how many couples are looking for bi guys but don't put pictures up of the male half.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Do people think it would help if the bi category was split between top, bottom or both for males?

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I've given up on meeting a bi cpl on here. Get meets with men or ladies individually not a problem but both together seems impossible.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Do people think it would help if the bi category was split between top, bottom or both for males?

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Or the ability to block straight males?

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"another thing that doesn't help is that some bi men have on their profile they don't meet men, which to us is a red flag"

Interesting point that I’ve never really thought about - I do meet men one-on-one, but I don’t use FS for that because I’ve got fabguys for that.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I think it would help if there was an only bi if I'm with a couple section. Don't hear woman who say they are only bi when they're with couple's though.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I think it would help if there was an only bi if I'm with a couple section. Don't hear woman who say they are only bi when they're with couple's though."
I think an easy solution for you guys is to block single guys to make it easier for you and the guys not reading that you never have or will meet single guys.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We have nothing against single guy's we talk to a lot of them, why should couple's block single guy's, they have a right to view our profile and chat to us, they pay their fee's, just because we don't meet them doesn't mean we shouldn't talk to them, you don't meet men either do you talk to them?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We have nothing against single guy's we talk to a lot of them, why should couple's block single guy's, they have a right to view our profile and chat to us, they pay their fee's, just because we don't meet them doesn't mean we shouldn't talk to them, you don't meet men either do you talk to them? "
The main reason couples block single guys is they don't want to meet them so the easiest way of reducing the hi or wanna fuck messages is to block guys and contact the guys they do want to chat to directly themselves. It's just one approach, yours works for you so it all good.

Do I chat to guys; Sure I'll chat to anyone.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I didn't realize what a problem this appears to be.

So guys say they are bi to have sex with the woman? I get it, much like a lot of people lie on here.

As a bi man, genuinely bi, I suppose that is why I do get quite a few contacts from people who see that I am genuine in how I present.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I didn't realize what a problem this appears to be.

So guys say they are bi to have sex with the woman? I get it, much like a lot of people lie on here.

As a bi man, genuinely bi, I suppose that is why I do get quite a few contacts from people who see that I am genuine in how I present."
this profile look's totally genuine if we were looking for a single bi man then this is what we would be looking to see all the info is there.

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to. "

Ha yes I get it,and let's face it you can't deny the wife ??

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to.

Ha yes I get it,and let's face it you can't deny the wife ??

"

Haha best not Mrs J here this time! x

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"We find it hard to find anybody who is just similar to us....

We are looking for more couples than single people but just finding anybody who was actually bi-curious or by whom is genuine would be nice...

Well shame you dont like beards, thats me out.

"

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Now iam Bi, say Curious as its more complex than that for most people and the categories are limited. At 6'3" I Don't really fit in a box.

I have had lots of men and woman and the occasional Bi couple more straight couples and like OP would enjoy more.

The thing that gets me is the number of guys who say they are Straight but love to watch and be watched wanking in the Bi Room. Come out of the Bi Room closet brothers!

Guys who say they are bi to play with the fem only are pretty stupid as they are going to get what they don't want anyway. And if the Hubby is big the fool maybe walking like a cowboy for a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy "

I've found that with most couples who claim to be bi on her its mainly the lady wanting an other female to join the couple and the guys say they are 'straight' so it could be a ploy for the husband to get more pussy. I only ever contact couples where the guy at least claim to be bi curious! But not curious enough to actually want to meet a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to.

Ha yes I get it,and let's face it you can't deny the wife ??

Haha best not Mrs J here this time! x"

ha, hello Mrs J, yes I can see there would be no denying you

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to.

Ha yes I get it,and let's face it you can't deny the wife ??

Haha best not Mrs J here this time! x

ha, hello Mrs J, yes I can see there would be no denying you"

Haha well exactly!

We are both here for bi fun and our profile states both bisexual. Straight mf fun is just for us

I totally agree there seems to be men who say bi to get more opportunities with women and guys who say they’re straight but might not be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now iam Bi, say Curious as its more complex than that for most people and the categories are limited. At 6'3" I Don't really fit in a box.

I have had lots of men and woman and the occasional Bi couple more straight couples and like OP would enjoy more.

The thing that gets me is the number of guys who say they are Straight but love to watch and be watched wanking in the Bi Room. Come out of the Bi Room closet brothers!

Guys who say they are bi to play with the fem only are pretty stupid as they are going to get what they don't want anyway. And if the Hubby is big the fool maybe walking like a cowboy for a while!

"

This is so true, and it just makes the true Bi couples suspicious of Bi guys.

Must be a royal pain in the ass (pun intended)for couples to out the real Bi guys from the "Fab" Bi guys !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally get where you’re coming from, but as a couple where the wife wants some fem fun, Mmf kind of defeats the object. So it’s just not our first go to.

Ha yes I get it,and let's face it you can't deny the wife ??

Haha best not Mrs J here this time! x

ha, hello Mrs J, yes I can see there would be no denying you

Haha well exactly!

We are both here for bi fun and our profile states both bisexual. Straight mf fun is just for us

I totally agree there seems to be men who say bi to get more opportunities with women and guys who say they’re straight but might not be! "

I have read your profile and it clearly states what you are looking for, so anyone getting in touch for anything other than that are just chancers and a waste of your time.

There is the Fab bi guy phenomena where they really aren't bi but try and tell you they are, there is also the Fab straight guy phenomena where when you look at their profile they have met loads of TVs and TS's !!!!!

Is this just a guy thing, coz I don't recall seeing this phenomena on the forums where Bi women have the same problem ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are bi, but prefer it within the context of a couple though. That's my preference, but not exclusively though.

Massive amounts of veri's puts me off tbh. Field players, yuk!


"We don't meet singles. I know what your problem is though,it's that so many straight guy's pretend to be bi to get with a female within the couple, genuine bi guy's don't get believed unless they have loads of veris saying that they have met men, another thing that doesn't help is that some bi men have on their profile they don't meet men, which to us is a red flag, either they are bi or aren't. How can they just become bi when they're with a couple. Another confusion is that men with straight on their profile contact us and say they're bi, but it's not on their profile incase someone see's it, like it's something to be ashamed of or something."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.


"We don't meet singles. I know what your problem is though,it's that so many straight guy's pretend to be bi to get with a female within the couple, genuine bi guy's don't get believed unless they have loads of veris saying that they have met men, another thing that doesn't help is that some bi men have on their profile they don't meet men, which to us is a red flag, either they are bi or aren't. How can they just become bi when they're with a couple. Another confusion is that men with straight on their profile contact us and say they're bi, but it's not on their profile incase someone see's it, like it's something to be ashamed of or something.

Again I understand where you are coming from.

But if you take a look at my profile o don't meet men !!!

I am not attracted to men, but I love to play fully Bi with a couple, so will fully interact with the guy in that scenario, anything goes but no kissing

So sometimes no veris from meeting guys is not always suspicious ??

Andy "

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We have had a few bi meets always been fun in all honesty though some of the guys we met were just available right place right time perseverance is all i can suggest and look for local statuses and try be available at short notice on a Friday or Saturday night

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy "

We are a bi couple who get loads and loads of msgs from mainly single guys who have either bi curious or straight..quite a few if not the majority of them say...I really wasn't to try my first cock..our reply is always "there are plenty guys on here that you could experiment with and if its your thing and it's verified then come back to us...or my hubby will say..cool we can have a one on one then..and you never hear from them again..and they do this just hoping that during play assuming they are invited that they can say..no sorry its not for me...and then continue to fuck me..nope that's not happening mate...so it could be that that's the problem..and even though you have bisexual on your profile..couples are just wary of it.

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By *oubleA123Couple
over a year ago

berwick


"Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy

We are a bi couple who get loads and loads of msgs from mainly single guys who have either bi curious or straight..quite a few if not the majority of them say...I really wasn't to try my first cock..our reply is always "there are plenty guys on here that you could experiment with and if its your thing and it's verified then come back to us...or my hubby will say..cool we can have a one on one then..and you never hear from them again..and they do this just hoping that during play assuming they are invited that they can say..no sorry its not for me...and then continue to fuck me..nope that's not happening mate...so it could be that that's the problem..and even though you have bisexual on your profile..couples are just wary of it. "

To put it bluntly, we look for a bi guy who is happy for us both to share his cock in all ways. Very difficult to find for all the reasons above! We have found one or two but guys who are happy to fuck us both are an elusive species for sure Still looking .........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy

We are a bi couple who get loads and loads of msgs from mainly single guys who have either bi curious or straight..quite a few if not the majority of them say...I really wasn't to try my first cock..our reply is always "there are plenty guys on here that you could experiment with and if its your thing and it's verified then come back to us...or my hubby will say..cool we can have a one on one then..and you never hear from them again..and they do this just hoping that during play assuming they are invited that they can say..no sorry its not for me...and then continue to fuck me..nope that's not happening mate...so it could be that that's the problem..and even though you have bisexual on your profile..couples are just wary of it.

To put it bluntly, we look for a bi guy who is happy for us both to share his cock in all ways. Very difficult to find for all the reasons above! We have found one or two but guys who are happy to fuck us both are an elusive species for sure Still looking ......... "

Yes I agree with all the reasons as well

I was lucky enough to find a lovely couple in 2014 and we became really good friends

Although they no longer play we are still in touch.

I state on my profile what I am looking for and go into more detail when we chat, me being a versatile top means I enjoy an awful lot lol

Its a pity you guys are so far away

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the holy grail I'm desperate to find d a local bi couple I don't think they exist

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By *ay.81Man
over a year ago

UK

Any 8 inch plus please give me a shout

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Any 8 inch plus please give me a shout "

From a guy with a straight profile. Lol

Exactly the point

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP: you've not asked for profile advice so can't give it, but if you messaged us, we'd have opened your profile and decided it's a "no thanks". Whether we deleted or replied to that effect very much depends on our mood and the general level of dickness in our inbox at that moment.

However - more relevant is the numbers. We think we're pretty average in the number of meets we do...no more than one each week. Half of those are with guys we've seen before, so we're really only looking for two, maybe three new guys each month. If we get just twenty messages per day, that's 600 over the month and we need just three of them....rounding up, just 1% of the guys that mail us will get to meet us.

It's very, very hard to get in the top 1% of anything, unfortunately.

(Bry)

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

Watching this with interest it's hard to find a bi Dom couple who wants to meet a bi guy to be there kinky play thing! Verified on fab guys too. Inbox open x

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Well now i have to say i get so many men wanting to play that it gets a little boring. The ones iam interested in know who they are.

Iam not available at the drop of your Nickers or your jockstraps.

Genuine bi couples to the front of the que please. The joy of bi is i like it all! But dont think just because iam a man that iam desperate and will drop my life for some C&C.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Ok I know this has been done quite a few times,but how bloody hard is it to find a Bi couple that want to play with a Bi guy ?.

I have contacted most couples were I fit their brief within 50 miles of my postcode,and very few have replied.

I send a really nice message that incorporates what they have in their profile,give a load of info about myself as well.

But very very few replies,and the couples that do reply unfortunately its a no, which I accept.

I know I am not going to be attractive to everyone but surely with the amount of messages sent you would think there would be one or two positive replies.

I know my profile is new,but I have been on Fab since 2007 with various different profiles, so not a newbie in that sense.

Anyway not a rant more of an observation and maybe a bit of an advert for my profile and maybe for other Bi guys as well.

Looking forward to everyone's comments and hey if any Bi couples would like to PM me please feel free ??

Andy "
plenty of bi couples about but its just a case of if any are close enough to where you live and if you fit into the age range they want,, and if they want a bottom vers or top guy to join them,,, so many hoops to jump thro to get a meet most of the time its not worth the effort,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP: you've not asked for profile advice so can't give it, but if you messaged us, we'd have opened your profile and decided it's a "no thanks". Whether we deleted or replied to that effect very much depends on our mood and the general level of dickness in our inbox at that moment.

However - more relevant is the numbers. We think we're pretty average in the number of meets we do...no more than one each week. Half of those are with guys we've seen before, so we're really only looking for two, maybe three new guys each month. If we get just twenty messages per day, that's 600 over the month and we need just three of them....rounding up, just 1% of the guys that mail us will get to meet us.

It's very, very hard to get in the top 1% of anything, unfortunately.

(Bry)"

Hi Bry,

Yes I get your point about my profile and have adjusted accordingly ??

I also understand re the amount of messages both couples and single ladies get,especially the idiot ones asking for a shag now !!!!

One of my lady friends on here calls them fruit loops ha.

Thanks for your insight it was helpful

Andy

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Bi man here, happy to play with the male half if female wishes to watch, no participation from her if she so wishes, pm if interested

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We are simply fatigued with most of the above so we've made the decision not to bother anymore, we still attend clubs for the bdsm and social side and we wont rule out playing with others but as far as making an effort to organise anything online we simply cant be bothered anymore, only really kept fab to keep in touch with friends and stay abreast of what's happening in the club scene.

Mr Hayes.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

There are a number of Bi club nights out there these days so that might be a good start 8n your search.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"There are a number of Bi club nights out there these days so that might be a good start 8n your search. "

I was just about to say, we've struggled to find the right kind of person/couple that 'fit the bill' as such for what we are looking for. Largely I think because of our preference, which is that we are primarily a kinky couple and want to explore more in terms of forced bi/cuckolding scenarios. But because of this, we get lots of 'straight' guys messaging us to say they wouldn't mind if he played with them *eyeroll* or because we use words like 'femdom' we end up with lots of bi bottoms contacting us because they want me to Domme them.

However, we are hoping to try out a couple of bi nights this month. Xstasia and Chams are not too far from us and both have bi nights on over the next couple of weeks, so fingers crossed!

Who'd have thought it would be so difficult to find someone that wants their dick sucked by two people at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is bi curious, but only as far as cock play, no kissing or campness. Finding it difficult to find a single dominant (in the right way) bi male at the mo xxx

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"My husband is bi curious, but only as far as cock play, no kissing or campness. Finding it difficult to find a single dominant (in the right way) bi male at the mo xxx"

Yes! We are exactly the same as this.

Does unfortunately mean that we are not looking for each other, but hey if we find anyone I'm happy to share if you are?!

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

It’s hard for a bi guy to find the right bi couple too, I’d love to find a couple that would like to share me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam a single guy bi curious, and want try with a male but only if they are a male female couple

Maybe looking at past comments some men may say that but only for the woman really

Makes sense now as had no luck finding couple!

Hey honesty gets you nowhere

But want give up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My husband is bi curious, but only as far as cock play, no kissing or campness. Finding it difficult to find a single dominant (in the right way) bi male at the mo xxx"

This is similar to what I state in my profile

I have no attraction to single guys,and definitely do not want to kiss one

And don't want to meet one alone

However strange as this is I do love playing fully Bi in a MF

3sum

Hope this makes sense

Andy

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"There are a number of Bi club nights out there these days so that might be a good start 8n your search.

I was just about to say, we've struggled to find the right kind of person/couple that 'fit the bill' as such for what we are looking for. Largely I think because of our preference, which is that we are primarily a kinky couple and want to explore more in terms of forced bi/cuckolding scenarios. But because of this, we get lots of 'straight' guys messaging us to say they wouldn't mind if he played with them *eyeroll* or because we use words like 'femdom' we end up with lots of bi bottoms contacting us because they want me to Domme them.

However, we are hoping to try out a couple of bi nights this month. Xstasia and Chams are not too far from us and both have bi nights on over the next couple of weeks, so fingers crossed!

Who'd have thought it would be so difficult to find someone that wants their dick sucked by two people at the same time "

Music to my ears, that is one of my favorite things. Iam top and Dom and just love the idea of being served by two hot willing people. "Forced Bi" do tell me more sounds interesting. The kinky world is great fun and Fun and play are the key words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some years ago, met a couple on here who wanted to meet a bi man.

I turned up at their flat, to be greeted by the wife. Mid 50s short skirt showing a lot of cleavage. . Looked sexier than her pictures

Invited in, hubby sat in a chair, wearing a dressing gown. After introductions, he unfastens his dressing gown and asks me to suck his cock. I happily got between his legs and started sucking him.

He very quickly got me to stand up, and the 3 of us then had a fun night.

They were fed up of guys claiming to be bi who werent but said they were in order to fuck the wife. So they started the sucking test as they called it. They could tell if a guy was bi by the way they responded to his introduction.

I got to fully enjoy both his cock and her pussy throughout the evening

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"My husband is bi curious, but only as far as cock play, no kissing or campness. Finding it difficult to find a single dominant (in the right way) bi male at the mo xxx"

Yorkshire and orally bi here, nothing sexier then helping out sexy bi couples..

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"there is also the Fab straight guy phenomena where when you look at their profile they have met loads of TVs and TS's !!!!!

"

And?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"To be honest, we've given up looking. Any that respond seem to be "fab bi" and just wanting to play with kay, have no verifications that say they've played bi or are complete time wasters.

So we alwarespond with a no thanks now.

Also we aren't playing at the moment due to a major operation before we get inundated with messages"

Yep this is us to. All we get are single straight males telling us they wouldn't mind trying to suck A cock...away you go to fab guys then..must think we are stupid.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I think it would help if there was an only bi if I'm with a couple section. Don't hear woman who say they are only bi when they're with couple's though."

To be honest I sometimes wonder if the male is just one of these people that will force the bi on himself just because he needs a fuck and getting to a woman through a bi couple os what they will do...because iv never hear of a woman that just plays bi for a couple.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I didn't realize what a problem this appears to be.

So guys say they are bi to have sex with the woman? I get it, much like a lot of people lie on here.

As a bi man, genuinely bi, I suppose that is why I do get quite a few contacts from people who see that I am genuine in how I present."

Yip this is defiantly a thing. We are swamped with men claiming tk be bi, the dad reality is they genuinely think we are going to fall for it. We and probleaby loads of other bi couples see straight through it..just an example of some of what we recieve and our answers.

Hi, I'm not bi but iv been thinking about sucking a cock recently...OK, this site is full of men who would be more than happy to help you out there or fabguys, yeah but I'd much prefer doing it with a female in the room as that would settle my nerves...hahah..thanks but no thanks.

Hi guys...I'd love to experiment with you both nd try some bi fun...OK hubby is free to meet you on what ever day to have some bi fun...never ever hear back from them...lol.

Hey guys, bisexuality here..really nice msg,etc..all play but he hardly even tickles hubby's balls let alone suck his cock.

Honestly is crazy what they will say or potentially put thmesves through to get to the lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also find in a lot of Bi couples that the husband doesn't play, he just watches the wife having fun.

Hey that's fine,especially in a cuckold scenario and quite happy to play in that role,but has to be alright with everyone first.

Especially as I want to meet a fully Bi couple for 3 way or more way fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would prefer playing with cpls where the male is bi. Don't trust single guys who claims to be bi.

Recently met young lad and he was awesome in play ..three way sucking fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would prefer playing with cpls where the male is bi. Don't trust single guys who claims to be bi.

Recently met young lad and he was awesome in play ..three way sucking fun."

It's great fun when you all have fun

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Some single guys on here spoil it for us genuinely Bi guys. And then the same guys get abusive and homophobic on top!

Dont blame Cpls being sceptical. But it does make my life tougher.

Finding couples in clubs seams the best option.

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