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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s worries you go see the doc for advise i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it’s worries you go see the doc for advise i guess"

t doesnt worry me medically, thats the thing i know its not something medically wrong. I am just wondering if its more common than i think, and if women really do feel the need to focus on doing that?

for me, it feels good without needing to pull it back so im just looking for advice on what others thing really.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

It would put me off if a man couldn’t retract his foreskin. No offence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back."

really, what kind of op? not full circum right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would put me off if a man couldn’t retract his foreskin. No offence "

thats, worrying, but thanks for your honesty. is there any particular reason?

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back.

really, what kind of op? not full circum right?"
They very rarely do a full circumcision these days. Tight foreskins run in my family and myself and both of my sons had it done as small kids. My eldest and myself have got full circumcisions but my youngest only had a partial one. As above, speak to your doctor.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Have you considered circumcision?

Many women like a permanently exposed helmet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back.

really, what kind of op? not full circum right?"

Frenuloplasty that may help also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you considered circumcision?

Many women like a permanently exposed helmet. "

Who would have it done to please someone else when he hasn't got a problem

OP just say to your playmates not to pull it back, it's your body after all

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Circumcision definitely, you won't regret

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It would put me off if a man couldn’t retract his foreskin. No offence

thats, worrying, but thanks for your honesty. is there any particular reason?"

Yes I would assume that you couldn’t retract it at all unless we had the convo about you could do it when not erect? But is that something you would do with someone from fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said probably best to speak to your doctor. I had something similar when I was younger but it did seem to work itself out eventually.

In the meantime just communicate with partners, it's not weird and they'd rather be in the know if they're hurting you. (They're only trying to please in that situation at the end of the day!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, for saying it’s not weird. As I was worried it was… lol. I can do it if pull it back before getting erect, just taken a couple of pics and put them up, does it look too tight?

Most recent 2 pics on my profile

Thank you!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok yeah so you’d worry it wasn’t clean etc. i get you.

But yeah I will try to communicate, just not always a turn on to talk about I guess. ;/

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Ok yeah so you’d worry it wasn’t clean etc. i get you.

"

That would be our first thought. It's why we like to see a pic on profiles.

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By *xTwo4FunTimesxXCouple
over a year ago

chester

Sounds like phimosis. Worth seeing a doctor and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may need a full or part circumcision.

My hubby had his done when he was young and it sounds very similar to how he described things were for him before.

Well done for seeking advice though but I would head to your gp for further help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GP will get that loosened up for you mate.

It might sting for a bit but be worth it when done!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"It would put me off if a man couldn’t retract his foreskin. No offence "

Was that comment really necessary given the context of the OPs post ??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I developed phimosis as a teenager and I went for circumcision. I recommend you go to the doctor

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It would put me off if a man couldn’t retract his foreskin. No offence

Was that comment really necessary given the context of the OPs post ??!! "

Actually he asked if it was an issue. I was being honest. It is a issue for lots of men

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Penile health is something that should be dealt with sooner rather than later. Stop worrying, get to the docs and let the GP see the lil' fella, get yourself referred and then get it fixed.

Give yourself time to recover, then get back to the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit, it looks like it could rip and you don't want that to happen! If it's comfortable for you then it's fine, but getting a second opinion from a doctor never hurts and you might find that if you go for a surgical option (and other options are probably out there)you might benefit from a whole new world of sensation. It's a thought, anyway.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

GO the doctors xx

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By *ptgadgetMan
over a year ago

Colorado Springs

I am not circumcised, but don’t have your problem. I have a friend who has your condition except his cannot retract the foreskin at all. I don’t think he’s been able to retract it in a very long time, if ever. I can tell you it didn’t bother me playing with him (sucking and fucking).

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yep, go to the doc.

Might not need a full circumcision if you sort it quick, but if you leave it, maybe.

Won't sort itself by ignorring it.

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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

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By *randmrsbigcCouple
over a year ago

North east


"Ok yeah so you’d worry it wasn’t clean etc. i get you.

But yeah I will try to communicate, just not always a turn on to talk about I guess. ;/"

I'm assuming it has never bothered you? As long as you can enjoy sex without pain that's all that matters. If women don't like it tell them to move on.. Don't fix something that ain't broken to impress others

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

1. Speak to the women

2. Speak to your GP

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

It wouldn't be a big deal to me, just say casually you can't pull it all the way back when you get hard, I've met a guy before with similar. I love a good foreskin tho so I'd prefer yours to none at all

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've experienced the same on a couple of occasions, OP...

....the first time was with an American nurse who'd never seen an uncut cock before (I think it was/is rare in the US) - she was full of apologies when I asked her to be a little less enthusiastic with her hands! She was actually quite fascinated by it, and subsequently paid it lots of gentle attention...

....the only other time was with a very inexperienced late-50's wife who had also never encountered an uncut cock and was quite surprised when she saw it in the flesh - I simply let her know to not get carried away when playing with it!

40 years ago, whilst an in-patient with a kidney infection at the hospital where my wife was a senior staff nurse, the doctor who she asked to give me a head-to-toe exam saw I was uncut, took a good look and pulled it around a bit, asked if I ever had any problems, especially during sex, and if I'd ever considered getting circumcised - when I answered no, and no, his response was basically "fair enough, if it doesn't bother you at all, then why bother"...

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By *anyerocksWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Tbh i dont like it when a guy has a tight foreskin and it doesnt go right back. Feels weird when giving a bj

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!"

I once met a lovely chap and when I went to give him a blowjob he just gently asked me not to pull his foreskin back while I sucked as he preferred the way it felt. Of course that was absolutely fine, I wanted to bring pleasure. It’s only the same as when someone asks their partner to do things a certain way. It’s good to communicate during sex, it helps bring the best experiences

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By *age500Woman
over a year ago

ashton-under-lyne

I’ve come across this before with an ex. Was never an issue for me. If it worries you then just bring it up beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/phimosis/

Go to the doctor and stop asking for medical advise on a recreational sex site!

It can be fixed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!

I once met a lovely chap and when I went to give him a blowjob he just gently asked me not to pull his foreskin back while I sucked as he preferred the way it felt. Of course that was absolutely fine, I wanted to bring pleasure. It’s only the same as when someone asks their partner to do things a certain way. It’s good to communicate during sex, it helps bring the best experiences "

Do you actually suck when performing oral sex?

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/phimosis/

Go to the doctor and stop asking for medical advise on a recreational sex site!

It can be fixed!"

I’m not sure he was actually asking for medical advice though.

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!

I once met a lovely chap and when I went to give him a blowjob he just gently asked me not to pull his foreskin back while I sucked as he preferred the way it felt. Of course that was absolutely fine, I wanted to bring pleasure. It’s only the same as when someone asks their partner to do things a certain way. It’s good to communicate during sex, it helps bring the best experiences

Do you actually suck when performing oral sex?"

A little sucking, a little licking, kissing, slurping, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/phimosis/

Go to the doctor and stop asking for medical advise on a recreational sex site!

It can be fixed!

I’m not sure he was actually asking for medical advice though."

It bothers him so unless he is a doctor go and see one.

Phimosis is a common problem and it would seem the op is experiencing pain during sex which should not be the case that unless he is tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross and being whipped by 20 fab virgins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

I have never experienced a full on suck...........am I missing something?

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!

I once met a lovely chap and when I went to give him a blowjob he just gently asked me not to pull his foreskin back while I sucked as he preferred the way it felt. Of course that was absolutely fine, I wanted to bring pleasure. It’s only the same as when someone asks their partner to do things a certain way. It’s good to communicate during sex, it helps bring the best experiences

Do you actually suck when performing oral sex?

A little sucking, a little licking, kissing, slurping, etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Speak to the women

2. Speak to your GP

"

But not in that order!

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/phimosis/

Go to the doctor and stop asking for medical advise on a recreational sex site!

It can be fixed!

I’m not sure he was actually asking for medical advice though.

It bothers him so unless he is a doctor go and see one.

Phimosis is a common problem and it would seem the op is experiencing pain during sex which should not be the case that unless he is tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross and being whipped by 20 fab virgins?"

He said he wasn’t experiencing pain but that he was bothered by it during sex because he thought it bothered his partners.

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By *osineCouple
over a year ago

Weston-Super-Mare

I'm not sure you need the doctors if it doesn't cause an issue.

But

Do learn to speak up and say what you like and don't like...

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I'm not sure you need the doctors if it doesn't cause an issue.

But

Do learn to speak up and say what you like and don't like... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/phimosis/

Go to the doctor and stop asking for medical advise on a recreational sex site!

It can be fixed!

I’m not sure he was actually asking for medical advice though.

It bothers him so unless he is a doctor go and see one.

Phimosis is a common problem and it would seem the op is experiencing pain during sex which should not be the case that unless he is tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross and being whipped by 20 fab virgins?

He said he wasn’t experiencing pain but that he was bothered by it during sex because he thought it bothered his partners. "

Sorry yes you are correct no pain. He should still go and see his GP. Phimosis can cause problems in later life when the skin, with age, becomes less elastic.

It’s the sensible thing to do.

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok yeah so you’d worry it wasn’t clean etc. i get you.

But yeah I will try to communicate, just not always a turn on to talk about I guess. ;/"

Our bodies are different and instead of trying to "fix" them I think we should embrace the diversity. Personally, I have not encountered this before but it would not be a problem at all as long as I knew that pulling back the foreskin is not possible. When you don't know that's when it's awkward.

Sexy conversation? Ultimately, being honest in a simple way without making a big deal out of it will lead to better sex and what is sexier than that? I have a history of vulvodynia fo example so I have much less endurance than others and I feel that is a completely natural thing to mention to my sexual partners. How else will they know?

Your body is unique, there is nothing wrong with it. We are all different and it is something to embrace in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure you need the doctors if it doesn't cause an issue.

But

Do learn to speak up and say what you like and don't like... "

It caused sufficient concern to seek advice on a recreational sex site. I merely pointed out the physiological issues that could be in play which a visit to the GP would confirm or otherwise.

On the speaking up point is that what a forum debate is for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok yeah so you’d worry it wasn’t clean etc. i get you.

But yeah I will try to communicate, just not always a turn on to talk about I guess. ;/

Our bodies are different and instead of trying to "fix" them I think we should embrace the diversity. Personally, I have not encountered this before but it would not be a problem at all as long as I knew that pulling back the foreskin is not possible. When you don't know that's when it's awkward.

Sexy conversation? Ultimately, being honest in a simple way without making a big deal out of it will lead to better sex and what is sexier than that? I have a history of vulvodynia fo example so I have much less endurance than others and I feel that is a completely natural thing to mention to my sexual partners. How else will they know?

Your body is unique, there is nothing wrong with it. We are all different and it is something to embrace in my opinion. "

We should not try and fix bodies when they break?

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By *ilver_medallistMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

You can find foreskin stretching kits on line, they do help but do it slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a tight foreskin growing up and found sex uncomfortable then after getting carried away with a girlfriend I felt a snap and a sharp pain. On inspection I had torn the little piece of tissue that joined my foreskin to my helmet, Best thing that ever happened. Later discovered that this is common and what happened is nicknamed snapping your Banjo string. (South London anyway)

Now when fully erect and ready for sex my foreskin goes back on its own to look exactly like I am cut Kind of like the roof automatically coming down on a convertable car lol.

Maybe there is a procedure to simple cut this piece of skin?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just communicate well and guide partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went with someone a couple of years ago who had a similar issue, only it hurt if anyone tried to force it back. He told me this, so I knew not to. He was scrupulous about hygiene and to be honest, sex and foreplay was still great so there were no worries at all.

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By *edonisthenryMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

If I were you, I would contact my GP and show him the phimosis. As an adult you really need to be able to retract your foreskin to keep clean and to be able as a man to have sex. Having a full circumcision done free under the NHS and a local anaesthetic will make life alot easier but take a few days to rest after the operation. Good luck.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I went with someone a couple of years ago who had a similar issue, only it hurt if anyone tried to force it back. He told me this, so I knew not to. He was scrupulous about hygiene and to be honest, sex and foreplay was still great so there were no worries at all."

This

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back.

really, what kind of op? not full circum right?"

I've had this before when been with men,and been the same as you,my advice would be to just say it to them before any play, communication is key . Just when your talking let them know this happens so any partner is aware of it.

It's not uncommon so no your not weird

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Hi

I have a rather awkward situation, that when i am properly hard, my foreskin is too tight to retract fully (see my pics i guess), and this isnt painful, and nor does it stop me climaxing etc etc. But lately, when having newer partners, i have noticed that they always tend to try to pull the foreskin back during blowjobs, almost like its the most important thing for them to do, and they concentrate on that and it really throws me. I feel like its my fault or im weird and i end up often not enjoying it because its all i can think about. Ex's havent always been this way and tbh, before recent months (when ive become single again), nobody has ever mentioned it.

So, i wondered if this was just me, is it an issue and what can i do?? Any advice would be appreciated.

As a side note, i'll say, that it when only semi erect or flacid the foreskin goes all the way back easily, no pain, and so is always kept clean etc. so no risk of anything bad that way.

Its just too tight to go back when erect and its starting to bother me during sex because i think it bothers them...?

thank you!"

This is popular I know 2 guys that suffered with this exact thing, differs on each guy too. it's like the foreskin is too small for your full size cock, don't get embarrassed, let the women know it's a tad tighter than others, I like to play with the foreskin over the top of the helmet. You could have your foreskin removed and that would probably solve this issue, best chat to your Doctor OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I were you, I would contact my GP and show him the phimosis. As an adult you really need to be able to retract your foreskin to keep clean and to be able as a man to have sex. Having a full circumcision done free under the NHS and a local anaesthetic will make life alot easier but take a few days to rest after the operation. Good luck. "

As I said, I can, just not when FULLY erect. I have great sex, and I am exceptionally clean. That’s not what I asked or stated was an issue, but thanks all the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A small op will fix the prob its quite common, have you tried rolling it back before you get hard, ask them not to pull it back.

really, what kind of op? not full circum right?

I've had this before when been with men,and been the same as you,my advice would be to just say it to them before any play, communication is key . Just when your talking let them know this happens so any partner is aware of it.

It's not uncommon so no your not weird "

Thank you for this, since I posted this as well, I’ve been with people and it’s not even remotely come up, nor have I felt the girl has an issue with it. In fact it’s been far from a problem. So thank you for this, guess I was worried about it without needing to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different penises are made differently. You don't need a circumcision and I'm pissed that people have tried to pressure you to do so on this thread. You have a great cock and it may just be that whoever has been giving you head is using to working with a cock with less foreskin. Just have a wee chat to them and gently tell them how you like it. Most people just want to please and may have learnt that worked for others in the past. I personally hate it when people pull back the clitoral hood because it's far too sensitive and not necessary for me personally. Ignore anyone that tells you to change your body to please others. I've dated men who deeply regretted their circumcision. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you, it's the partners. If I'm with a new partner I always ask if it retracts fully before doing anything for the first time so I'd know not to attempt to if it doesn't. It is not an issue and you shouldn't be made to feel like it is. It's lack of awareness from their side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to me as well, although my foreskin retracts but it's attached to the glans at the bottom.

Many women assume that a man can get pleasure by pulling the foreskin as down and as hard as possible lol

Not every woman enjoys vigorous fingering, same way not every man enjoy dick being pulled left and right . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women have the habit of pulling dicks while giving bj or handjob, as if they want to pull it off its roots .

If you are one of them then please stop doing that, men don't enjoy that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women have the habit of pulling dicks while giving bj or handjob, as if they want to pull it off its roots .

If you are one of them then please stop doing that, men don't enjoy that either "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

What you're talking about is called phimosis and 5% of adult males have it (more teenagers).

If you want to relieve it then there are 2 choices - surgery or stretching exercises (with or without steroid cream).

I used the it, but stretching exercises have eased it.

Chat to your GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you're talking about is called phimosis and 5% of adult males have it (more teenagers).

If you want to relieve it then there are 2 choices - surgery or stretching exercises (with or without steroid cream).

I used the it, but stretching exercises have eased it.

Chat to your GP. "

Phimosis is different,it's painful and mostly spotted during childhood.

Some foreskins aren't that loose ,so stretching exercise can be good.

I may go for circumcision and snip together . Let see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any partner should be fully understanding of your situation OP and you should just be clear with them from the start without feeling any awkwardness. If its not an issue to you then why look for help? I had the same problem when I was a lot younger but sort of 'trained' myself to cope with stretching the skin a bit more over the weeks and eventually it became comfortable. I do appreciate that it might not be the same situation for you however. Good luck OP.

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