FabSwingers.com forum: Do you show on "looked at me"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wondering what % of men/women/couples hide their viewing activity. I imagine it's the majority of folk...

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Not atall

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I do. Always have.

I would imagine some profiles are sick of seeing me on that list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno depends, I turn it on and off all the time

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide anything on my profile like that. I didn't know that many people on here did x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Nope. We like to stealth perv

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We used to but then would always get the "like what u see?" message after. Now we are stealth ninjas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to show, enjoy the thought that people know I’m perving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out early on that stealth mode is a must on fab. I was getting tons of messages a day from people who's profiles I had looked at so it made sense to hide my activity. Saves time and unwanted messages

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We always leave ours on as we want people to know we have peeked at their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't even know it was an option haha.....hmmm Intrigued on who may have viewed me stealthily now

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I use stealth mode when looking at profiles.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I found out early on that stealth mode is a must on fab. I was getting tons of messages a day from people who's profiles I had looked at so it made sense to hide my activity. Saves time and unwanted messages

Men don't have that problem.

I am happy for peeps to know that something about them has made me have a look.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Sometimes we do and sometimes we don't.

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

No stealth here ...

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

I assume most woman stealth.... either that or I really only get about 1 profile view a day

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By *onnynclaireCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We don’t hide.

Always find it funny when people who we happen to look at send a message. “You like what you see?”

No sorry…that’s why we didn’t wink or message.

Harsh but true

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Leave mine on as it's another way to show a person has been nosey and might show some interest if they have been nosey too

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

No, I like people to know I looked and I like to see who looked at me

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"We don’t hide.

Always find it funny when people who we happen to look at send a message. “You like what you see?”

No sorry…that’s why we didn’t wink or message.

Harsh but true"
Oh that is harsh, for fab you need to have skin like a rhino.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't even know it was an option haha.....hmmm Intrigued on who may have viewed me stealthily now "

I viewed you stealthily... and now unstealthily so

The intrigue may have been more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't even know it was an option haha.....hmmm Intrigued on who may have viewed me stealthily now

I viewed you stealthily... and now unstealthily so

The intrigue may have been more fun."

Knowing is more fun for me..... I like to be watched

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Full ninja mode here

LvM

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Ladies how do you feel if a guy views your profile (non stealth) and says or does nothing...

disbelief?

relief?

couldn't give a monkeys? (plenty more dicks in the sea)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t hide.

Always find it funny when people who we happen to look at send a message. “You like what you see?”

No sorry…that’s why we didn’t wink or message.

Harsh but true"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alternate depending on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies how do you feel if a guy views your profile (non stealth) and says or does nothing...

disbelief?

relief?

couldn't give a monkeys? (plenty more dicks in the sea)"

Hehe, this made me laugh. In general there's no emotion attributed to who looks. It's akin to turning a page in a catalogue.

If most say or do nothing it's a God send

Now, if it's someone I had an interest in and they look ... that I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t show ourselves

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't hide. If I'm stalking someone I want them to know about it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope, don't want messages asking why I didn't get in touch or thanking me for looking!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

90% I’m in stealth mode unless I want someone to know I’m looking at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't even know it was an option haha.....hmmm Intrigued on who may have viewed me stealthily now

I viewed you stealthily... and now unstealthily so

The intrigue may have been more fun.

Knowing is more fun for me..... I like to be watched

Good think I'm part voyeur too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to when i first joined.

I don't anymore.

Call it peaceful mode, stealth mode, creepy perv stalker mode..all of the above...works better for me i find.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ladies how do you feel if a guy views your profile (non stealth) and says or does nothing...

disbelief?

relief?

couldn't give a monkeys? (plenty more dicks in the sea)"

We have guys blocked and aren't site supporters at the moment so we wouldn't even know if someone did look

LvM

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I turn it on and off frequently which gets tricky as I often forget which mode I'm in! I admit that I sometimes leave the stealth off hoping that they see me looking and message me

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

Nah i prefer to perve in private and contact if i like what i see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I want someone to know I have been looking.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Forumites never show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I showed my profile on ‘who’s looked at me’. But I found that drew lots of attention to my profile which I found a bit overwhelming.

I now lurk in the shadows

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I hide."

How can we hide it? I didn't know we could

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I hide.

How can we hide it? I didn't know we could "

In settings

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"I turn it on and off frequently which gets tricky as I often forget which mode I'm in! I admit that I sometimes leave the stealth off hoping that they see me looking and message me

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And does that work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turn it on and off frequently which gets tricky as I often forget which mode I'm in! I admit that I sometimes leave the stealth off hoping that they see me looking and message me

Why don't you message them Curious_Female89

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always stealth luckily

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Mainly I view profiles in stealth. Occasionally I switch it off so I can be seen, as someone else said I might do it in the hopes that someone I’m looking at messages me

I’m too shy to message first

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

"I turn it on and off frequently which gets tricky as I often forget which mode I'm in! I admit that I sometimes leave the stealth off hoping that they see me looking and message me

And does that work ?

Sometimes yes

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

"I turn it on and off frequently which gets tricky as I often forget which mode I'm in! I admit that I sometimes leave the stealth off hoping that they see me looking and message me

Why don't you message them Curious_Female89

I message first occassionally but I'm super shy

working on it though

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'm a non stealth kind of guy

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

No but that's often because I like to peruse profiles of people I'm not interested in, just so I could get a feel for what kind of biography texts and photos work in the real world and what don't.

Interestingly enough it seems that very often what people on the forums say makes for a good profile is quite different from the ones that seem to get the results according to meet verifications. It's quite enlightening really.

So of course stealth is on so various random blokes don't think I'm stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in ninja mode

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Mine is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide. I don’t see the point in knowing who looked at me, I actually don’t see the point in that feature at all.

It took a while to be told i could hide it.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think I show. Not sure really haha

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes x been "within touching distance" a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get caught when I fab a picture or 2

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Yes we are on stalking mode

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"We don’t hide.

Always find it funny when people who we happen to look at send a message. “You like what you see?”

No sorry…that’s why we didn’t wink or message.

Harsh but true"

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

This. Totally agree.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Done stealth mode in the past but now prefer public perving

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We hide now as we got of sick of people messaging us because we looked at their profile, sometimes unintentionally, if we like them we message them its simpler. X

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"We hide now as we got of sick of people messaging us because we looked at their profile, sometimes unintentionally, if we like them we message them its simpler. X"

This. Always stealth mode now

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Stealth mode for me

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

ninja mode is the only way for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t hide.

Always find it funny when people who we happen to look at send a message. “You like what you see?”

No sorry…that’s why we didn’t wink or message.

Harsh but true"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but that's often because I like to peruse profiles of people I'm not interested in, just so I could get a feel for what kind of biography texts and photos work in the real world and what don't.

So of course stealth is on so various random blokes don't think I'm stalking them

Good plan, also wise to do research.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Stealth here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth.

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By *regnantCreampieMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Considering the nature of my profile and the fact a lot of people tend not to annouce when they are Pregnant, I leave it on viewable, personally. lol

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We DON'T show!

M and M

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Nope no

mode for me.

If I've looked I'm ok with folk knowing, if I'm really interested they'd likely have a message in their inbox saying hello anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth here too

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

We turn ours on and off, some folk we like them to know we've looked.

Tend not to have it on when looking at single men unless we like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public perving for me

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