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Any bald men struggle on here

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By *r.Vice Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol/london

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Yes, all the time.

Everyone has their preference and I definitely fall into the "sorry not for me" category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all men are struggling its not down to little things its down to the sheer number of men ..

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By *r.Vice Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol/london

So hit the gym and gain a Greek God body it is then hahaha. Much love

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By *r.Vice Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol/london

That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Can't see your original post but gym and Greek bodies aren't everyone's cuppa, they're not really mine it screams too much time in the gym and too much muscle just turns me off... Hair or no hair I don't care lol x it's how you are who you are and how you treat me x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"

What you're doing wrong is equating this to real life, it isn’t.

When face to face with someone you can judge the attraction, your personality is easier to display.

On here you are just another person, who may or may not be what they say they are, talking to someone else who may or may not be who they claim to be.

If you have more success in person you may want to stick to that, swinging and/or fab is not tinder, bumble, pof or match.

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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"

Your probably not doing anything wrong mate

Just the sheer amount of men on here, your a little fish in a big ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I get nothing on here

But I don’t expect anything either….I just keep active (more recently than before) and someday someone might just take a fancy to me….if it happens it happens!

All I’d say is keep trying if it’s something you want to stick to!!

And getting a body of a god is far too much hassle and too much dieting ha!

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Nope!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Never had a a problem with being bald, in that nobody has ever told me they don't do bald.

Had a huge confidence boost in my 40s when a blind date from the local newspaper opened her door to me with the words: Oooh! You're tall and you're bald! Come on upstairs!

Plenty like, probably plenty don't. If you leave the opening approach to them you might never meet a don't.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

So OP, every rejection you've had has told you it's because you are bald?

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By *r.Vice Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol/london


"So OP, every rejection you've had has told you it's because you are bald?

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Not at all, as I stated in an earlier post on this thread. I have never struggled in real life, so I am theorising potentials of what the lack of response could be down to on here. An educated guess was maybe it's because I am bald.

I also understand that a woman's mind works far different to a mans when it comes to arousal. For example, suggestion, intrigue a good body are all things I know a lady to like. It is very rare they want to see a massive cock with a message saying "fancy a fuck".

Yet I know if most blokes got the female equivalent, they would be over the moon. We are a simple breed on the whole, but if like to think we mean well hahah

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I quite like bald guys and there are certainly a good number of women on here who do too, judging by my recall of past threads.

It could be a whole host of reasons, OP, including timing and ratios.

Stay positive and maybe get yourself along to an organised social, if you feel you do better in person

C

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"So OP, every rejection you've had has told you it's because you are bald?

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I've been blatantly rejected because I didn't have hair Yes. Fuck em, is what I say.

But I can't , that's the irony LOL

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I read profiles and most who have a preference follicly will state it.

If they say "no baldies" then fair enough.

I have about 40+ veris so, no, I haven't struggled because of being bald.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be instructive big time as soon as I send my pic is , no thanks but no

I didn’t know I’m so bad looking

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By *ouise73Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh I do love a bald man. I find they're very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean... I'm the opposite of bald and I probably have the same amount of difficulty as anyone else haha!

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By *airycubbyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Adore bald men & especially with beards. My absolute fave. All power to you gentleman from a fellow baldy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fellow baldy but I'm sure we are all in the same boat, far too many men , we just have to bide our time I suppose, happy fabbing all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bald men with beards are my weakness or someone with full on Brian May hair PHWOAR, However it totally depends if the guy underneath the baldness seems like a lovely chap or not. Definetely drawn to a bald man / shaved head though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a baldy,

I don't do to bad on here x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Baldness is not an issue.

Either as a single guy on here for years or now as a couple.

People are allowed preferences of course but it’s never stopped us getting a meet or making friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of hair and I don’t think it makes a difference either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all men are struggling its not down to little things its down to the sheer number of men .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That one always stings lol. I just find it strange as I never struggle in real life. Fully known as a ladies man to my social circle, but on here I find it's a completely different world and I am trying to figure out what it is I am doing wrong lol"

Maybe they think you are attached.

Don't take it personally, many men struggle. Maybe try socials. Online can be much more difficult than face to face.

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I rather like the shaved /bald look. But that's one of many factors and isn't a non - negotiable. Far better if someone can make me laugh.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

What were your expectations op?

My own personal experience some state they won't meet bald men, same as any other preference, i don't find that stated on many profiles.

There could be 000's of reasons why.. if it is because you're bald not a lot you can do about it. Find those that include focus your energies on those folks.

If you meet lots of ladies in the real world use this as an addition to that..

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair I've never seen my boldness as a barrier. And I've also seen a fair few other bold men who do very nicely on scene. For some it maybe a turn off but for most the lack of hair is not a significantly important feature in my experience.

Mr

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

My wife actually prefers bald guys , I didn’t know that until we started swinging

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

I'd recommend a wig. Also keeps your head warm in winter. Longer the better.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"I'd recommend a wig. Also keeps your head warm in winter. Longer the better. "

And a tube of loctite to hold in place during strong winds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a certain fondness for bald guys but it never trumps everything else. Can’t have the personality of a wet fish and a bald head and expect to get in my knickers (not suggesting you are wet fish however !! )

I’m sure for a few it has been the issue but I think the odds are just stacked against guys generally and that is the bigger problem….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing wrong with bald men, and not all of us want Greek gods/massive cocks/gym fit men

There’s a lot more to it than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion bald is good as that’s usually my type but everyone’s different I guess.

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some very hairest people on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have some of my hair if you like.

I have more than enough right now

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Maybe don't restrict your target to women only.... I'd happily suck a bald guy ?? LOL

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