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By *pottydog46 OP   Man
over a year ago

rainham

Can I ask the ladies here, why if you aren’t interested in chatting to a guy from a message you receive why would you not delete it?

If someone deletes my message I make a note on their profile so I don’t waste time messaging again in the future.

Why read a message, not reply and leave it in your ever expanding inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete most but sometimes I do forget

Mrs

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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What difference does it really make, either way if you don't get a reply sooner or later then surely you know they aren't interested.

How many times do people complain on here about having their messages deleted and not answered. Whatever you do, someone will have a moan about it

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've found that happens to me to. Love to know the reason why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often just forget to delete it. If someone doesn't reply then just take it that they're not interested. She doesn't need to not reply and also delete.

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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley

It’s fairly impossible to keep up with the inbox, let alone delete messages, a no reply is a very simple no thank you, I don’t need to then prove I’m not interested by deleting the message.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Because it’s her inbox and that’s how she chooses to manage it?

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By *pottydog46 OP   Man
over a year ago

rainham


"It’s fairly impossible to keep up with the inbox, let alone delete messages, a no reply is a very simple no thank you, I don’t need to then prove I’m not interested by deleting the message. "

I meant no reply after reading it. Maybe it’s just me then trying to avoid messaging people more than once if they aren’t interested.

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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley


"It’s fairly impossible to keep up with the inbox, let alone delete messages, a no reply is a very simple no thank you, I don’t need to then prove I’m not interested by deleting the message.

I meant no reply after reading it. Maybe it’s just me then trying to avoid messaging people more than once if they aren’t interested."

You must be joking. It goes well you read my message and not replied repeat, so no offence to you but deleting messages is not something I have time to bother doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they can and because they dont owe you a reply either you sent the message they never asked for it ... so unless it pip there interest then they leave it be or delete ...

its not rude its just how it is with the amount of messages we get...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if someone has read your message and not replied it's pretty clear that they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell if they haven't read my profile.

So i delete straight away.

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By *age500Woman
over a year ago

ashton-under-lyne

If I’m not interested in someone but they’ve sent a fairly polite message or a message that isn’t worthy of blocking them then I won’t delete it. I do this so I can see if someone is repeatedly messaging so I can then block them

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By *pottydog46 OP   Man
over a year ago

rainham


"If I’m not interested in someone but they’ve sent a fairly polite message or a message that isn’t worthy of blocking them then I won’t delete it. I do this so I can see if someone is repeatedly messaging so I can then block them "

That’s a good technique haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete your sent messages box contents. No longer anything to concern yourself with.

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By *ad66Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Some send the usual script & sometimes make their messages more than two lines but when you go to their profile there's either nothing but dick pics or no pictures at all & wonder why you don't reply.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Why would anyone waste time and delete messages?

They just drop to the bottom and disappear after a while anyway.

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By *age500Woman
over a year ago

ashton-under-lyne


"If I’m not interested in someone but they’ve sent a fairly polite message or a message that isn’t worthy of blocking them then I won’t delete it. I do this so I can see if someone is repeatedly messaging so I can then block them

That’s a good technique haha"

Haha yeah it does the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to delete. Your inbox can only hold so many emails so they dissappear as you get more messages

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