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What age did you start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've noticed there aren't that many couples around our age and are curious to know what age most couples get into this lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started playing in the lifestyle in my late 30s back with a FWB.

A huge factor has been the internet made this easier but I always wonder if I’d completed my bucket list and had all the fun I could imagine by the time I was in my mid-20s, what would I have enjoyed discovering later in life.

Just to be clear, It’s just a thought that runs through my head and absolutely not a criticism of decisions anyone else has made.

In a way, I’m also a bit envious because to have discovered and enjoyed this lifestyle in my younger years when I could go again and again may have been more fun (not that I’m struggling too much these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've noticed there aren't that many couples around our age and are curious to know what age most couples get into this lifestyle?"

We started the lifestyle in our 30s but had a mfm in our 20s that sparked the interest to take it further.

Mr

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I was in my early thirties and my GF at the time was in her mid twenties. We were very popular, which was mainly down to her!!!!

Gbat

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Erm 23 x

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

40

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I was 38 when I started in the lifestyle I started playing with my ex had great fun then and still having great fun now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think the internet has made it easier.

When I was 23 I looked like I was about 12 too..so ..not much chance of swinging..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was 51

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"40"

41. Life allegedly begins at 40 but I was a late developer.

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By *urious couple400Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We started at 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40s.. we both lived a lot before then but went supernova when we became a cpl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs was about 24 when we first went to a club

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

About 50 ... should have done it earlier .. did a swinger cruise as a starter ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 when we first started but then we came away for awhile..

Mrs x

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

40s but that was only due to wanting to explore my bi side which I wished I'd done earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 24 I think. We're fairly close by xx

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

18 God where have the years gone

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Apart from the first full sexual experience with a girl which was in a threesome, when married we started to swing in our mid twenties, around when we became naturists.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I feel even worse now realising how much more fun those who started younger have had.

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

21 meet my first couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

I was 56 years old and my wife 44

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We began about ten years ago with a great trip to Cap d'Agde, though we had talked about it for years. We then wished we had started years before.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Early 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 & 34 for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About 50 ... should have done it earlier .. did a swinger cruise as a starter .. "

Do they still have those?

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"About 50 ... should have done it earlier .. did a swinger cruise as a starter ..

Do they still have those?"
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started long time ago as I was 3 months pregnant and 23 and horny so we chatted when out and couple hours later found a club via Google and went and never turned back and it was our regular weekend fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a few years ago, so about 28. I'm glad we waited this long though as it takes a mature attitude to sex to make it work.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Mid fiftys x.

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Only a few years ago, so about 28. I'm glad we waited this long though as it takes a mature attitude to sex to make it work."

Agree it takes a mature attitude towards sex but as my wife and I were early twenties also taking adventurous outlook

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When we were OP's age, swinging just wasn't a thing we'd ever imagine doing. My guess is it just comes with time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in my mid 30s when I met my first FWB (on the school run…).

She introduced me to Fab and swinging.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"We've noticed there aren't that many couples around our age and are curious to know what age most couples get into this lifestyle?"
I started exploring in my late teens

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Early / mid 20’s - but so much easier now with effective dedicated web sites…easier to be just interested and browse, so suspect the starting age has probably come down?

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

I was 21 when I met a couple the first time via the old Match chat rooms.

Stayed active as a single male until I met my ex wife. She wasn't interested so that part was put away. We got a divorce after 10yrs (nothing to do with swinging as I never cheated) and then I started again and found fab for the first time

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Mid 30's after splitting with my ex, became very open minded x

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

40s for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started in our late twenties at skinny’s in Brighton

Been together nearly 30 years,still need that excitement

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Mid-thirty’s for us

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