FabSwingers.com forum: Questions for couples :) help!

By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’ve always wanted to experience same room swapping or an all in orgy with a couple. However, being single I’ve never had the opportunity. Ive hosted an Orgy with all singles, but I’d like to experience actual couples swinging.

I have a few really trusted friends who are most definitely wanting to experience this with me.

Now my question is, how do I approach a couple with this scenario? In my experience most will not consider fuck buddy arrangements. I know I don’t like it when fuck buddies approach me (I prefer to be a third for a real couple) But I have no other option (sad times).

Do any couples here meet others who are not together? What’s your experience of it? Would you again? I know that is more than one question.

Clubs would be the best option but that would take some planning. Hoping to host myself. Any advice is welcome please.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

I think you won't struggle to find a couple to play with. From what we can see on your profile you come across as an intelligent attractive women. Single women are hard to find at the best of times... people will be battering down your door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always wanted to experience same room swapping or an all in orgy with a couple. However, being single I’ve never had the opportunity. Ive hosted an Orgy with all singles, but I’d like to experience actual couples swinging.

I have a few really trusted friends who are most definitely wanting to experience this with me.

Do any couples here meet others who are not together? What’s your experience of it? Would you again? I know that is more than one question.

Clubs would be the best option but that would take some planning. Hoping to host myself. Any advice is welcome please.

We met a couple who aren’t together, but had a separate room swap. Yeah it was alright. I’d imagine it’s just the same as an orgy to be fair.

As to how to approach it… well build up a rapport with a couple and just see if you can build it up from there…

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By *ancsCouple2023Couple
over a year ago

Wigan

Couples love unicorns (single bi women) you will be beating them off with a stick!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Couples love unicorns (single bi women) you will be beating them off with a stick!"

This

I don't think couples will complain about being approached, we don't at least

The pain will be getting the three way attraction.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best option is to just ask it’s nice to receive a message from a single girl and I assume most couples will reply so you will know how you are getting on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples love unicorns (single bi women) you will be beating them off with a stick!

This

I don't think couples will complain about being approached, we don't at least

The pain will be getting the three way attraction.

LvM"

Exactly so. As the old saying goes “what’s good for goose isn’t always good for the gander.”

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Go hunting.

Send a message.

Simple.

We've played with a couple of single friends together, who had never played with each other before. If the vibe works, it works really well.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We have had mini origies with just single girls, myself hubbs and 2 girls. It was in a club and started with just general chatting, then eventually moved very naturally to an open playroom. Eventually others did join in, after watching for a while, at hubbies invite. We did meet again a couple of times after.

For us meets start quite simply with an hello and chat and goes from there.

I know you say you want to host your own, but in our opinion it really is more successful and relaxing within the safety of clubs.

Good luck though OP xxxx

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Some great input there. Thank you. Also had private messages from couples saying they wouldn’t consider it again or at all.

I love being a third. I’d just love to experience the dynamic of two couples. Bi or straight.

First hurdle was finding a guy who I completely trust and I think would be a credit to a group scenario/know how to treat everyone and respect boundaries. (This was harder than expected)

Now the next hurdle is actually approaching couples - but I’m going to put my brave girl pants on and just do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some great input there. Thank you. Also had private messages from couples saying they wouldn’t consider it again or at all.

I love being a third. I’d just love to experience the dynamic of two couples. Bi or straight.

First hurdle was finding a guy who I completely trust and I think would be a credit to a group scenario/know how to treat everyone and respect boundaries. (This was harder than expected)

Now the next hurdle is actually approaching couples - but I’m going to put my brave girl pants on and just do it!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few really trusted friends who are most definitely wanting to experience this with me.

Do any couples here meet others who are not together? What’s your experience of it? Would you again? I know that is more than one question.

Clubs would be the best option but that would take some planning. Hoping to host myself. Any advice is welcome please.

I think you might be surprised at just how many couples actually want exactly what you want and would be open to the scenario you present/describe. We would suggest you approach a couple that may have caught your eye and suggest it . If you don’ buy a ticket you can’t win the prize

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have been to orgies in clubs, there were singles, couples, people we knew, some we didn’t, it’s more about living in the moment than over thinking it.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Your in a good position being a single woman, I would imagine just find the couple you are attracted to and are in to the same things as you and get chatting. Not speaking from experience though as we don't meet singles it's just a hunch.

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I have a few really trusted friends who are most definitely wanting to experience this with me.

Do any couples here meet others who are not together? What’s your experience of it? Would you again? I know that is more than one question.

Clubs would be the best option but that would take some planning. Hoping to host myself. Any advice is welcome please.

This is very true

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"We have been to orgies in clubs, there were singles, couples, people we knew, some we didn’t, it’s more about living in the moment than over thinking it."

Yes I’ve had a few amazing club experiences with different dynamics. Also hosted other types of parties.

But this is more about my fantasies of swapping and sharing with one other couple. However, being single, I’m finding it really difficult to live out this fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go hunting.

Send a message.

Simple.

We've played with a couple of single friends together, who had never played with each other before. If the vibe works, it works really well.

This we agree with

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We have met with couples who are not together before for same room fun and would do again. Some won't be up for it but the only way to find out would be to drop them a message.

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By *randMrsDirtyGCouple
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM

We find that fuck buddies are not the same as a real couple for us !

We prefer the couple being in a relationship that has involved the build up of trust through day to day living.

We have meet single ladies and single men, for us it all in the dynamic , you want to build a relationship or you want just a one time Fuck ?

Building friendships is the ultimate buzz as you never know if it will or won’t happen on any particular night xx

Go with the flow and just flirt a lot lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say just message them.. I think you'll be surprised xx

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

We would meet a couple who are fuck buddies it doesn't bother us at all. It's all about mutual attraction and fun. We don't want to know and nor are we really interested in your relationship status.

You won't struggle to find a couple to play you just gotta find one you like

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