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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Mainly to exercise my Bi side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging? "

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

"

Certainly for me it was more a case of a less-complicated shag - complications ain't comfy y'know

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a chat, spiced it up and away we went,lol

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By *_iggy2000TV/TS
over a year ago

Plymouth

i started swinging cos i saw loads of people having loads of fun and i wanted some and I wanted to do engage with my bi/cd fantasises

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

It was getting too cold for dogging and our new car was crap for shagging in anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

"

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was getting too cold for dogging and our new car was crap for shagging in anyway !"

Dogging is swinging tho isnt it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet"

NN - although I was being a little cheeky (moi???? lol!) it's actually a serious consideration for an awful lot of people. When I got back into the scene three years ago, I was lucky enough to be able to go on a site which was pricey, but got great meets out of it. Not everyone is in that position, and some of the 'other sites' gradually become a rip off.

Personally, if a lady told me that she couldn't meet due to money probs, I did the manly thing and coughed up. Pity a few more guys don't get it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet

NN - although I was being a little cheeky (moi???? lol!) it's actually a serious consideration for an awful lot of people. When I got back into the scene three years ago, I was lucky enough to be able to go on a site which was pricey, but got great meets out of it. Not everyone is in that position, and some of the 'other sites' gradually become a rip off.

Personally, if a lady told me that she couldn't meet due to money probs, I did the manly thing and coughed up. Pity a few more guys don't get it...

"

That's sexist in my books!

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"It was getting too cold for dogging and our new car was crap for shagging in anyway !

Dogging is swinging tho isnt it??"

In that case, it's a very long story that I won't bore you with here, involving Pink Floyd tribute bands, car parks and freezing cold weather !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet

NN - although I was being a little cheeky (moi???? lol!) it's actually a serious consideration for an awful lot of people. When I got back into the scene three years ago, I was lucky enough to be able to go on a site which was pricey, but got great meets out of it. Not everyone is in that position, and some of the 'other sites' gradually become a rip off.

Personally, if a lady told me that she couldn't meet due to money probs, I did the manly thing and coughed up. Pity a few more guys don't get it...

"

Then come on the site and post threads asking why men are expected to pay

I dont have money probelms, im just a single mum with 3 kids so if im going to be honest i have better things to spend my money on than meets off here

I allocate an amount of money im willing to spend every month and once thats gone thats it till next month, other wise the amount you spoend can be endless, i have to be sensible when it comes to money as i have noone elses wages to fall back on, but if i had run out of the money i had set aside for meets i wouldnt tell the guy thats why im not meeting him lol id make some excuse up and put him off till the next month if he was willing to wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's all about money these days! It can be expensive trying to meet people so more local groups please!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

me and my bloke went out for a few beers with a workmate one night and all ended up back at ours .. next thing we were all in bed together and woke up the next morning and continued it.

As we were all already friends this continued regularly for about another 6 months. We moved away from the area and decided to try our luck on the sites which has proved great fun !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"me and my bloke went out for a few beers with a workmate one night and all ended up back at ours .. next thing we were all in bed together and woke up the next morning and continued it.

As we were all already friends this continued regularly for about another 6 months. We moved away from the area and decided to try our luck on the sites which has proved great fun !

"

Sound good to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet

NN - although I was being a little cheeky (moi???? lol!) it's actually a serious consideration for an awful lot of people. When I got back into the scene three years ago, I was lucky enough to be able to go on a site which was pricey, but got great meets out of it. Not everyone is in that position, and some of the 'other sites' gradually become a rip off.

Personally, if a lady told me that she couldn't meet due to money probs, I did the manly thing and coughed up. Pity a few more guys don't get it...

Then come on the site and post threads asking why men are expected to pay

I dont have money probelms, im just a single mum with 3 kids so if im going to be honest i have better things to spend my money on than meets off here

I allocate an amount of money im willing to spend every month and once thats gone thats it till next month, other wise the amount you spoend can be endless, i have to be sensible when it comes to money as i have noone elses wages to fall back on, but if i had run out of the money i had set aside for meets i wouldnt tell the guy thats why im not meeting him lol id make some excuse up and put him off till the next month if he was willing to wait "

Not every woman expects the guy to pay. I would have been quite wary if I was getting all sorts of demands about what I was expected to provide for a meet to happen (bit like a guy who posted on here a couple of months back who met a woman in Glasgow and basically got ripped off and no sex). Sounds like you have a really good grasp on your home/sexlife balance. Can't all be fun-fun-fun can it....?

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By *hameless-2Couple
over a year ago

HULL & Withernsea

The girl friend at the time set me up with one of my fantasies. A threesome FMF. Hence we got married 18 months later. Been married 13 yrs now and still happily swinging. Wot more could a man ask for, lol

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By *he Reliability FactorMan
over a year ago

near oxford

It was the same for me I was round a friends and his wife,one thing lead to another and it was great and lasted a few months till I moved away.

admittedly its been a long time and I would like to find a local lady or couple to enjoy the scene with. If the genuine person or persons come along happily pay all the expenses if needed.

I do understand my profile is not stunning but its me.. genuine and honest.

not holding out high hopes on here.but maybe the right person will come along. its not all about a quick easy shag to me.. its more seeing someone I like/care for enjoying the pleasures of others etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I started swinging because dating sites and dating was costing to much! Any one got simular reasons why they started swinging?

Ah.... that old chesnut - the need for a cheaper shag...!

its a fair point tho, i dont drive and i cant accommodate so every time i meet im paying for taxi's, trains, towards hotels, clubs etc tho i dont want a cheap shag money does have to be taken into consideration, i have had to turn down meets a few times simply because dont have the money spare for another meet

NN - although I was being a little cheeky (moi???? lol!) it's actually a serious consideration for an awful lot of people. When I got back into the scene three years ago, I was lucky enough to be able to go on a site which was pricey, but got great meets out of it. Not everyone is in that position, and some of the 'other sites' gradually become a rip off.

Personally, if a lady told me that she couldn't meet due to money probs, I did the manly thing and coughed up. Pity a few more guys don't get it...

That's sexist in my books!"

no it ain't - couple of birds coughed up for legover and chips for me. I sometimes got a battered sausage, everyone won....

Wolf

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

One day I was going to the shops with my Mum and across the road there was this park. I pointed at it as I wasn't very good at speaking and she took me over, lifted me out of my push chair and put me in the seat. She started to push and it was magical! My eyes were opened to another lifestyle, that of swinging. The feeling when I swing is one of release, one of freedom. I imagine I am a bird flying high in the sky and can go anywhere I like. I even tried pooping on someone's head one time when I was on a tire swing. But that was many years later.

Funky aged 2 and 3 quarters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gf asked me what sexual fantasies I had, I replied with the usual mff and to her surprise mmf. She was more taken with the idea for an mmf, we discovered we both liked it as much as we did in our fantasies and carried on! We have now graduated to couples though, and I'm still holding out for that mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my husband i wanted to bed one of his ex-girlfriends who i knew was bi..so he arranged a threesome.

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By *rcalmMan
over a year ago

leeds/bradford

fed up dating,us men paying then,,,,nity nites,headaches,dont understand me,at least most women on here honest enough to say they do want some,lloovviing.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's sexist in my books!

no it ain't - couple of birds coughed up for legover and chips for me. I sometimes got a battered sausage, everyone won....

Wolf"

You got a bettered sausage? You lucky sod. All I ever got was mushy peas....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's sexist in my books!

no it ain't - couple of birds coughed up for legover and chips for me. I sometimes got a battered sausage, everyone won....

Wolf

You got a bettered sausage? You lucky sod. All I ever got was mushy peas....

"

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't stop watching lesbian and ffm porn, had to try it for myself. 7 years later and I still love it xxx

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

To get more sexual experience. God I had lots to learn it was amazing discussing sex too with lots of nice ladys. Came from a long sex less relationship. So was lovely to gain new insights. And you can see why so many married couples have taken to it. Amazing times when I meet couples. And nice bottle is a great ice breaker too

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Started when I wased in the forces, married quarters were a hotspot for what was then known as wife swapping. Singley bashing was another term used, it involved inviting a single colleague to your married accommodation for a meal and if things went well the missus got a good seeing to by both, my then wife and I were always popular with the single guys and we also enjoyed same room swaps, different room swaps or even different house swaps, my wife now asked me once what we got up to in the forces and I told her, she got so turned on by what she heard, we gave it a try with a mmf to start and she was so turned on and still is whenever we talk about it or a meet is on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, to finally answer the OP's question which started this thread...

It was 1985 and got SOOOOOOOO lucky in going out with a girl who, it transpired, had done about a dozen porn scenes a couple years before. That was fantastic on it's own, but after about two months, her Mum decided to, er, 'get in on the act' and took advantage of my boyish good manners and naivety........ Okay, have your titter now!!!! (Oh please yerselves!!)

Unfortunately for me, I was not as clever as i thought at keeping that secret and my GF found out and that was all over...... but 'Mummy' still wanted to see me..... and told me some of her girlfriends would want to see me too..... .... so, I had a great time for a year or so before I 'settled down' keeping a number of bored housewives happy.... and, no, I had NO idea it was called swinging!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Anyway, to finally answer the OP's question which started this thread...

It was 1985 and got SOOOOOOOO lucky in going out with a girl who, it transpired, had done about a dozen porn scenes a couple years before. That was fantastic on it's own, but after about two months, her Mum decided to, er, 'get in on the act' and took advantage of my boyish good manners and naivety........ Okay, have your titter now!!!! (Oh please yerselves!!)

Unfortunately for me, I was not as clever as i thought at keeping that secret and my GF found out and that was all over...... but 'Mummy' still wanted to see me..... and told me some of her girlfriends would want to see me too..... .... so, I had a great time for a year or so before I 'settled down' keeping a number of bored housewives happy.... and, no, I had NO idea it was called swinging!

"

That isn't swinging, that's adultery in my book but a good effort though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway, to finally answer the OP's question which started this thread...

It was 1985 and got SOOOOOOOO lucky in going out with a girl who, it transpired, had done about a dozen porn scenes a couple years before. That was fantastic on it's own, but after about two months, her Mum decided to, er, 'get in on the act' and took advantage of my boyish good manners and naivety........ Okay, have your titter now!!!! (Oh please yerselves!!)

Unfortunately for me, I was not as clever as i thought at keeping that secret and my GF found out and that was all over...... but 'Mummy' still wanted to see me..... and told me some of her girlfriends would want to see me too..... .... so, I had a great time for a year or so before I 'settled down' keeping a number of bored housewives happy.... and, no, I had NO idea it was called swinging!

That isn't swinging, that's adultery in my book but a good effort though "

on her mums part, yes...

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

by mistake being dyslexic i thought id logged onto swab fingers a web site for surgeons and found me here it wasnt long before i performed my first operation and ive had a few small pricks since ,, since those early days my operating skills have been put to the test on many occasions and my patients as been tested as well on many occasions from folks not turning up to perform on my operating table ............damm that swab fingers site is now full of horny doctors and nurses all shagging bloody awful aint it xxx nick

please check out myhappy clients xxx

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We got involved because one night whilst we were making love Nick mentioned her bi side. I immediatley assumed i was dreaming and asked her to repeat herself. It seemed the best way to explore this was to look into the swinging scene. Luckily for us i have a friend at work who had been on the scene for a few years. He took us to Chams and the rest you could say is history. Although i think i have been conned. I can't help but notice how she does love lots of cock too. Lol

Dave

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