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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you consider the term soft swing to mean ?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

no intercourse with the couple you are meeting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes same here . But amazing how people can think it means whatever suits them when you have chat and they suddenly start to discuss condoms and not same room .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

non-penetrative sex, just foreplay, tongue and fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are a soft swing couple still at the moment only thing don't do is intercourse (penetration) with other couple,do everyfing else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to know it is not us who has misunderstood the meaning then

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Glad to know it is not us who has misunderstood the meaning then "

Im not sure they did not understand the meaning, I think its called "pushing ones luck"! lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose it could be that but they not get the chance to get that far if they make you uncomfy with chat even before first meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opposite to hard swing !

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I suppose it could be that but they not get the chance to get that far if they make you uncomfy with chat even before first meet . "

Indeed, the very first couple we intended to meet when we joined along time ago got the old alarm bells ringing. We were going to go down the soft route to see how we felt about it etc etc but the couple kept saying you cant say you will only do soft lets just see how it goes, or , no point in that just get it over with .... needless to say we never met them but as it turns out we never did do "soft" either! What works for you is the main thing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that .

Don x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Swapping and doing everything and anything short of fucking, although some people think it means sex with your own partner alongside another couple and no swapping at all, but you can touch and maybe kiss the others. We don't agree with that description!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can u still get a blowjob soft swinging??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us soft swing means, no penetration..however, we have been once told by a couple - soft swing for them means sex with condom and hard swinging is without condom....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to think it is all the fun without penetration. By other partner .

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Easy - it's a swing with a cushion on the seat

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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"can u still get a blowjob soft swinging?? "

Yes, for us we include oral as part of our soft swing

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Swapping and doing everything and anything short of fucking, although some people think it means sex with your own partner alongside another couple and no swapping at all, but you can touch and maybe kiss the others. We don't agree with that description!

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Agree with your description ....Everything(poo/pain etc excepted)apart from penetrative vaginal(and anal)intercourse as 3sum/4sum or more sum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference in explanations only goes to show how important it is to discuss boundaries before play beings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are a soft swing couple still at the moment only thing don't do is intercourse (penetration) with other couple,do everyfing else."

yes thats the same with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO penetration other than with own partner is our take. But we have spoken to couples who think that it just means fem on fem play and in one case that it meant that crystal (the female half of us) would play with both of them while I only played with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you can't get an erection! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fem fun isnt soft swap..its as is..fem fun..pretty dam frustrating really lol :D

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

We remember our first meet, it was supposed to be soft swing but that all went out the window once the naughty stuff started we were both eaten alive and throughly rinsed out by the end of the meet.

Just goes to show you can never guarantee anything if you go with an open mind and a dirty one at that too.

Got us into the swing of swinging very quickly , no regrets at all just the "did that really happen " looks at each other on the drive home

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