FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine reliable single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I know this subject has been raised time and time again !!!! , and we all know the time wasters , bed room wankers , pretenders etc who can be spotted a mile off !! , but surely there are some genuine , bi , clean , thick cocked respectful guys out there , for regular , relaxed small group meets ) !! Or are we expecting too much ?????? ( we have met a couple of guys previously , but found lies after lies with them in the end ) , Sara & cris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are out their just never seem to be in the right place at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are plenty of us genuine guys out there ,we are just outnumbered by timewasters ,and if your after bi guys aswell then youve even less chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I know this subject has been raised time and time again !!!! , and we all know the time wasters , bed room wankers , pretenders etc who can be spotted a mile off !! , but surely there are some genuine , bi , clean , thick cocked respectful guys out there , for regular , relaxed small group meets ) !! Or are we expecting too much ?????? ( we have met a couple of guys previously , but found lies after lies with them in the end ) , Sara & cris "

Sadly every timewaster & idiot out there always starts off by claiming to be 100% reliable

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have a nice number of genuine single guys when we were in the midlands, but can't seem to get off the starting blocks now we have moved south!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same whether you're looking for guys, women or couples. Yes there are those on here for the wrong reasons - but there's many genuine folk of all genders. It's just finding them, gaining their interest and then finding the time to make arrangements - and if it was ever going to be that easy, do you think people would even have time to log on?

Half the problem, as always seems to be location and ability to travel. There are a lot of folk on here i'd love to meet - and vice versa - but distance is often one hurdle that's harder to get over than any - after all, most have work, family and other commitments as well as the desire for some fun!

Chin up and happy hunting - i'm sure you'll find some willing volunteers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are you looking for sex or friends with single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to have a nice number of genuine single guys when we were in the midlands, but can't seem to get off the starting blocks now we have moved south!

Be glad to supply you some contacts

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

they are out there.... the trick is they are probably busy....

i think what some couples forget is that is it is as much about the couples attracting the nice guys, as it is the nice guys attracting the couples....

it is very much a two way street.....

as a nice guy, give me a reason to want to meet you, how do you stand out?

I think too many couples rest of their laurels thinking just because there are loads of guys, they dont have to do anything....

remember the nice guys who "get and understand what swinging is" are already probably out there having a blast.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to have a nice number of genuine single guys when we were in the midlands, but can't seem to get off the starting blocks now we have moved south!

Be glad to supply you some contacts

Thank you lol,

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you want a group of guys for a relaxed evening you have to work very hard at it! Don't start looking too early, as they tend to get cold feet and change their minds, but start too late and you run the risk of them all being busy.

For a mmmf last week I had to spend two afternoons messaging and checking profiles. I ended up with 6 names. Two pulled out on the day and one didn't turn up at all. I had a great time, but it's hard work!

If you know others who have had meets with guys on here you might want to ask them for recommendations. Unfortunately being verified on here doesn't mean they are always reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it possible to write on someones wall or verification page that this person didnt show up, think that would be a good way of showing who is and is'nt geniune.

aww its started to rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

previously , but found lies after lies with them in the end ) , Sara & cris

It's the same whether you're looking for guys, women or couples. Yes there are

those on here for the wrong reasons - but there's many genuine folk of all genders. It's just finding them, gaining their interest and then finding the time to make arrangements - and if it was ever going to be that easy, do you think people would even have time to log on?

Half the problem, as always seems to be location and ability to travel. There

are a lot of folk on here i'd love to meet - and vice versa - but distance is often one hurdle that's harder to get over than any - after all, most have work, family and other commitments as well

as the desire for some fun!

Chin up and happy hunting - i'm sure you'll find some willing volunteers! :-

I have to agree on some of the points you have made here, think we have come to the conclusion that we are going to have to travel to find what we are looking for, which isn't a problem for us, but when your trying to get a group of single guys, let's say 4 or 5 together at the same time that's when it becomes more difficult! I know we could go to a club for that, but I like to chose my prey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there are genuine single guys on here who can/will meet. But at the end of the day, if the woman or couple doesn't like the look of you, it's not going to happen, end of!

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By *ityboy2001Man
over a year ago

All NW

they are out there.... the trick is they are probably busy....

i think what some couples forget is that is it is as much about the couples attracting the nice guys, as it is the nice guys attracting the couples....

it is very much a two way street.....

as a nice guy, give me a reason to want to meet you, how do you stand out?

I think too many couples rest of their laurels thinking just because there are loads of guys, they dont have to do anything....

You hit nail on the head there! - how many times I had the message "do you have a face picture" yes I do reply but I'm much more interested in people who are politite or actual tell you what, where and when...

I'm not Bi so maybe I'm reverting to stereotypes but aren't the active ones enjoying the gay scene whilst still having the pick of the women in the non swinging world?

remember the nice guys who "get and understand what swinging is" are already probably out there having a blast.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was doing so well until the bi bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again I think it's all about compromise you may find the ideal guy but isn't local or you may find a willing guy who is local but not quite what your after.So it depends what your willing to go with very rare to find everything together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they are out there. There's a fair few genuine single guys who post here in the forums who a great feel for what swinging is all about and a good outlook on life, the universe and everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously an attractive couple, so I can't understand you having trouble meeting a small number of decent guys. Obviously with every condition you make on who that person is then you lose a significant number of potential meets. Bisexual, halved the number. Well endowed, there goes another 2 thirds. Clean, knock a few off that.

I think there's having preferences which can be a good thing, and then there's using them to narrow your search down so far as to be statistically impossible to find anyone who meets all the criteria.

It's only a suggestion, but how about dropping the well endowed criteria. Most normally endowed guys who are otherwise exactly what you're looking for would probably be happy to make your acquaintance. As I said its only a suggestion, but if they absolutely have to be fucking huge then try dropping the clean criteria!

Or if you're not prepared to compromise at all then there's really no point moaning about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OPs in ibiza too much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might want to change your profile-currently it says you're looking for couples, women and tv's...you may not show up on their searches...

We have had great meets with single bi guys but not all of them have felt ready or confident for group play either or just aren't into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are genuine and reliable guys here, would like to consider myself in that set but that is for others to decide!

Regards the group thing, in order for that to work well you may find yourselves having to do a bit of ground work, finding ones that play well with others!

You will also find lies with some, those that are listed as straight but then say they are bi or those listed as bi that turn out to really just be straight! It can be a mine field!

That said, I do believe good things come to those who wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

again I must play devils advocate...how do u conduct ur mails/communication... i certainly get fucked off by male halves(verified or not),sitting arranging lots before I have even had a chance to speak with the female half...even worse when ur expected to make ur plans with the 'couple', without even having any form of female communication.

I'm even wary of bi-couples at times giving/taking fake verifications, or indeed there is no female play on the meets (amazingly it appears to happen)...obviously being straight, I tend not to seek out bi couples.

I'm sure its possible to find some bi-guys who have some good feedback from males too..if its lying about being bi thats one of the worries..of course is it full bisexual men that are required?

sorry evebn the OP knows this is an obvious post..it is the same type of post slating single men I'm afraid.. bi or straight...

single men make up most of the site, mathematically itsa obvious there will be more arsey people,timewasters,liars and fantasists from our gender

fortunately some of us have decided we cant be arsed with the moans and are able to set people straight,l whether it comes across as angry or defensive in light of my gender , I really dont care..I know how much fun I have here.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Totally agree with here!! It takes time and effort to seek what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Mmmmm never tire of viewing you sexy arse! be it in the pics on here or in the flesh! hehe

Hope you are both well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be clear its not just blokes that are non shows women do it too. I cannot see what thrill they get.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Totally agree with here!! It takes time and effort to seek what your looking for

which is why I semi hate the type of moan you see in the OP... in that why is it always up the single guy to make the first move in contact...

if you know what you are after, why are you waiting on it to fall in your lap, as opposed to being PROactive and actually doing to work and finding what it is....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Totally agree with here!! It takes time and effort to seek what your looking for

which is why I semi hate the type of moan you see in the OP... in that why is it always up the single guy to make the first move in contact...

if you know what you are after, why are you waiting on it to fall in your lap, as opposed to being PROactive and actually doing to work and finding what it is....

Not that I see it as work...more fun research

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Mmmmm never tire of viewing you sexy arse! be it in the pics on here or in the flesh! hehe

Hope you are both well!

lol Thank you * wiggles bum at Juzie * Been a while since you viewed it in person.

We are good thanks - hope you are too! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course there are genuine and reliable single guys around (bi & straight) just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Mmmmm never tire of viewing you sexy arse! be it in the pics on here or in the flesh! hehe

Hope you are both well!

lol Thank you * wiggles bum at Juzie * Been a while since you viewed it in person.

We are good thanks - hope you are too! x"

Well you could always rectify that with another viewing, amongst other things! hehe

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've hogged 3 genuine single guys & see them regular!

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

The trouble is that genuine guys get tarred with the same brush as those who are no shows, looking for wankbank pics etc.

It is almost like the old generalisation of "all men are bastards" becoming "all men are time wasters" Being defensive is all very well but the type of contact I get from couples is loaded with cynicism which is hardly an open mind. Everyone gets let down at some point, it is just important to move forward and not be too jaded.

While I have not yet had meetings from here, I've been active elsewhere and couples and play partners I've arranged to meet have been relieved that I actually turn up when I say I will and am able to behave in a naughty but respectful way with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've hogged 3 genuine single guys & see them regular!

Hogged or Hog tied them? lol

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'd love to hog tie them, but neither are into it sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to hog tie them, but neither are into it sadly

can't beat some fun filled restraint hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here the only thing i can't do on your list is bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Obviously an attractive couple, so I can't understand you having trouble meeting a small number of decent guys. Obviously with every condition you make on who that person is then you lose a significant number of potential meets. Bisexual, halved the number. Well endowed, there goes another 2 thirds. Clean, knock a few off that.

Or if you're not prepared to compromise at all then there's really no point moaning about it. "

I couldn't agree more. Preferences are fine as long as you accept that the more of them you have, the smaller the pool of people available.

You also have to consider that even if you find guys that meet your preference, they may not fancy you. And even if they fancy you, they may not live anywhere near you, or they may not be free when you are, etc etc etc

My advise will be for you to identify 1 or 2 things that are a must have, & be flexible on the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

As a bit of advice, and seeing you have only been on here 2 weeks, I would have a word with some of the people you have played with over this on and off period you have been swinging for and if some are on here, ask for some verifications to add some weight to your statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Good point

will do, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

lol i could say the same about ur verifies being as bit lets say..apart?-lets not pick up on someones wish to get noticed eh??..i wouldnt class u as being someone who's playing alot..or reliable based on the space between verifies alone, and I've been here years lol

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By *_iggy2000TV/TS
over a year ago

Plymouth

Im a reliable bi CD guy, but as i am and you are aware there are just loads of time wasters out there. Being a CD seems to attract a lot of guys who say they want to play and then turn out just to want to cum and run, leaving me feel like shit, cos I've gone to the trouble of showering and dressing and i want to play out my fantasy/roleplay.

So it means just going for the verified people, which i guess its what verification is for, but at the same time we all have to start somewhere.

its difficult and frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been very lucky I guess as we have never had trouble with time wasters and every single guy we have met have been genuine. We don't meet many and do take time to out the ones who are potientinally not what we looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi a lot of couples can mess you about to! Its all about having fun, why spoil peoples fun?? From my experience no one here gets to know someone fully just like marriage really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

Why does gaps as you put it make me unreliable? Have you considered other factors? Like i play when i want to and when is convenient? That i do not need to continually have my profile verified by people i meet on further meets? That being a father and having my daughter to care for I do not meet every night as there are other important things in my life? Or perhaps that i prefer repetitive meets as opposed to collecting notches on my bed post!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments , it is not our point here to slate single guys , although that being said , if a guy we have met previously has been obnoxious and up there own arse , and even turning up no condoms ( not that sex is ever guaranteed with us as with most people on here ) then they will get the fuck off treatment on the night , honesty is the key factor here as in , look like your profile image !, if you say you have 8 in , don't measure from your arseole ! , and so on !!!! , we understand others have working life's the same as us , and is sometimes hard to meet , but do not use this as an excuse if you are concealing the fact that your married , we always welcome chat previous to see if we have common ground , we are back from Ibiza mid October for those that are interested and of course have the same interests as us , many thanks again Sara & cris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all your comments , it is not our point here to slate single guys , although that being said , if a guy we have met previously has been obnoxious and up there own arse , and even turning up no condoms ( not that sex is ever guaranteed with us as with most people on here ) then they will get the fuck off treatment on the night , honesty is the key factor here as in , look like your profile image !, if you say you have 8 in , don't measure from your arseole ! , and so on !!!! , we understand others have working life's the same as us , and is sometimes hard to meet , but do not use this as an excuse if you are concealing the fact that your married , we always welcome chat previous to see if we have common ground , we are back from Ibiza mid October for those that are interested and of course have the same interests as us , many thanks again Sara & cris "

Very good points raised in the forum. As a genuine single guy who meets when he says, shaved, showered and fresh complete with any supplies that maybe required. The one thing that pisses me off is not the rejections (everybody has a choice) or even the no replies at all but it is when dialogue is going fine and getting down to the last few details for a meet then they just disappear from the face of the earth, would not take a lot of effort to say sorry we have changed our minds or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the scene for many years, this site and another previously.

I've made some great friends and acquaintances over the years and come across excuses and no shows from both couples and single fems, so it's not just the single guys capable of it. Sadly due to the number of guys out numbering the others the dreamers and ones who don't get the lifestyle or get cold feet will always but us genuine lads in a bad light.

In recent months I have reduced the times I message people to introduce myself, as manners seem to be in short supply I have noticed, but that's an issue for another well worn thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

observations u didnt have to make either lol..regardless of the 'claims'-ur only guilty of reading into someones profile(time on the site and verifies) as I have urs..not very nice having it thrown back at ya lol...

back onto my trusty shining steed,I ride into the abyss...Hurrraahhhh for justice and those beneath me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If you've met some previously, you've answered your own question no?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

Have to say, I didn't see the relevance in the "gaps" in your verifications either.

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By *artiniMan4uMan
over a year ago

birmingham

We all get thought of the same.im getting fed up because people think all single males are wasting peoples time.there wasting mine because I just want some fun and am genuine. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine Guy here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

Have to say, I didn't see the relevance in the "gaps" in your verifications either. "

neither did I...thats my point...neither did i see the relevance in bringing how long the other member had been on the site for, then to point out the advice to give...thats what didnt make sense.If i went into every persons profile after they said 'I'm genuine and reliable' and made any form of assumptions would that be fair...shock horror...even those with hidden profiles..I could jump and say, well..ur profile means fuck all really...u'd not be worth proposing a meet to.

see where the relevance started, or is it a case of if ur not verified dont claim ur trustworthy/reliable.

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By *he Reliability FactorMan
over a year ago

near oxford

so If you are new and genuine.which is how the wasters come on and start off by introducing themselves. if I state I am only here to mess about.. would reverse physcolagy come into play??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres lots of lovely nice man here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to hog tie them, but neither are into it sadly

can't beat some fun filled restraint hehe"
when you ready i am , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Juzie and Keen, If there's to be an argument on here I'm determined to be a part of it!

You both smell, even chuggers won't stop you in the street as you're quite obviously ghastly and the local OBGYN uses a picture of you both to scare women into labour. Haveatyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Juzie and Keen, If there's to be an argument on here I'm determined to be a part of it!

You both smell, even chuggers won't stop you in the street as you're quite obviously ghastly and the local OBGYN uses a picture of you both to scare women into labour. Haveatyou!"

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello,

I am 100% genuine, 100% bi and 100% verified

BUT I am miles away and don't consider myself "well-endowed"

what does anyone do about that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are many 100% reliable, 100% genuine single guys on here, BUT, when you join this site the majority of people treat you like an outcast!

Many block you cos your not verified & most just delete your messages without reading them & without looking at your profile!

Then the same people complain they can't find anyone reliable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Juzie and Keen, If there's to be an argument on here I'm determined to be a part of it!

You both smell, even chuggers won't stop you in the street as you're quite obviously ghastly and the local OBGYN uses a picture of you both to scare women into labour. Haveatyou!

i agree"

No, I demand you argue with me in a childish fashion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure there are many 100% reliable, 100% genuine single guys on here, BUT, when you join this site the majority of people treat you like an outcast!

Many block you cos your not verified & most just delete your messages without reading them & without looking at your profile!

Then the same people complain they can't find anyone reliable!

Yes, I tend to find this too, it makes me laugh really.

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By *orset manMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

How about reliable women as a discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want a group of guys for a relaxed evening you have to work very hard at it! Don't start looking too early, as they tend to get cold feet and change their minds, but start too late and you run the risk of them all being busy.

If you know others who have had meets with guys on here you might want to ask them for recommendations. Unfortunately being verified on here doesn't mean they are always reliable."

As one of the three who could be bothered to turn up, thank for saying you had a good time. Your advice is right about using others for their knowledge. I organise parties and you have work at it. But I also use a local couple who have been swinging for many years and they also hold parties, they know lots and get to hear about the timewasters and so I use them to help them out in advance.

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over a year ago

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

back onto my trusty shining steed,I ride into the abyss...Hurrraahhhh for justice and those beneath me

hold on there fella, if you read his profile he has been on and off the scene since 2009!

Now i know it is weird but i passed some advice suggesting he see if anyone he has played with is on here to verify, life is hard enough as a single male. The guy took it as advice and thanked me. Then i get YOU jumping up and down on my head! Try having an open mind that not all comments are vicious before beating someone with you stick!!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Genuine - check.

Respectful - check.

Clean - check.

Well, 3 out of 5 ain't bad.

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over a year ago

Genuine, respectful, clean and bi here. Unfortunately I'm new to the scene and still finding my feet - coupled with not (yet) being gym-fit means I'm not having much luck to be honest! But couples can afford to be picky about who they meet with because they're in demand, so I'm OK with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a reliable and genuine group of guys available so we are on here!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I am one of the many reliable and respectable bi guys on here. Please don't let the actions of the minority put you off us

Aww bless you for being the knight riding in on his trusty horse to save the day! But if you read the post it was polite advice for the guy! Which he took as such!

So many factors to consider chap!

Thanks for the observations though

Have to say, I didn't see the relevance in the "gaps" in your verifications either.

see where the relevance started, or is it a case of if ur not verified dont claim ur trustworthy/reliable."

Gotcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're here all right. Unfortunately give all the single men you describe are here wasting everyone's time, perhaps it's no surprise, us genuine guys get no meets ...I'm patient and optimistic tho

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over a year ago

hi Sara and Chris ; the old adage of "the few spoil it for the many" fits just as well on FAB as it does in normal life.

Mine and i am sure lots of others advice; is if your unsure about someone (male or female/Couples); turn to those who have some verifications, and if still unsure; be daring enough to contact thier verifyers direct - just my opinion

Happy FABBING

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