FabSwingers.com forum: BBC Superiority (actually read the post lol)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.

Now personally I don't project myself that way on fab, but I'm asking the ladies and couples here, do you think black guys on this site come across as confident (maybe a little cocky) or do you think we come across as having a superiority complex?

Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So recently I saw a profile where a white woman said she no longer wants to talk to black guys anymore because she's tired of the "bbc superiority" apparently she seemed to think black guys thought they are more superior than other guys.

Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."

Some do. But I've seen a LOT more non black men being cocky and/ or with superiority complexes.

I'm pretty sure that black men don't operate under a hive mind. Some are cool, some are shit, some are nice, some are dicks.

Maybe she had a bad experience and she just doesn't want to be in that situation again, or with someone who will remind her of it.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

My experience is that the opposite is true. It’s always white men that seem to have the superiority complex, to me. I’ve not had that experience with a black man on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also be very confident if I had a cock like yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got the feeling it happened to her quite often and I was just wondering what in terms of interactions would women classify as a black guy having a bbc superiority complex?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

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Absolutely not being offensive but to be entirely honest not all but most women’s profiles are directed towards BBC or BWC.

I don’t know about being superior but most definitely a good ego boost and slight overconfident. I don’t know I’m not black or white. But it would be interesting to hear your thoughts?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’m not a woman obviously but I’ve got a few friends on fab and in my group on fab and they are all top guys. I’ve come across a few idiots in my time but that’s life nothing to do with skin colour. I would say that they on the whole they are a lot more popular than me and my white counterparts on here which btw doesn’t bother me one jot. I make my own success in my own way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange question OP because this post is pigeonholing black guys as one rather than individuals

There's good and bad in all people as well you know

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By *hite meat for BBCCouple
over a year ago

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It doesn’t matter about race, skin colour ect a cocky arsehole is a cocky arsehole…

Some people are over confident, some people are rude, skin colour has nothing to do with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not a woman obviously but I’ve got a few friends on fab and in my group on fab and they are all top guys. I’ve come across a few idiots in my time but that’s life nothing to do with skin colour. I would say that they on the whole they are a lot more popular than me and my white counterparts on here which btw doesn’t bother me one jot. I make my own success in my own way . "

I'll be honest since coming to the UK almost 2 years ago. Yes I do have a lot of success with women. However I still personally believe a lot of white women (and I'm not criticising here just stating something, everyone had a right to their own preferences) but I do believe most white women have a preference for white guys, (I don't know an exact percentage per se) but those who do prefer black guys are in the minority.

But sorry for digressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strange question OP because this post is pigeonholing black guys as one rather than individuals

There's good and bad in all people as well you know "

It's just a question that was on my mind. Like obviously I'm not even implying black guys do this, it's the first I'm hearing of it so I was curious of people's experiences with interacting with black guys.

Just a simple question. I personally don't have a superiority complex when it comes to sex (though I do like to make sure a I leave a woman satisfied) I probably have one in terms of my intelligence more than anything else haha lol but on a site like this I try to come across like a regular guy who wants to have some stress free fun in his spare time.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Over thinking it.

Keep it in perspective, she's one person with a view, respect it as you have no idea as to the background, base your opinions on a variety of profiles especially those who play as you do.

Our experience is not those of that woman, our most respectful meets and interactions have been with black men, two have been in our opinion 'idiots' and would never meet again but I wouldn't overthink it and no we've never encountered the superiority complex you speak of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Over thinking it.

Keep it in perspective, she's one person with a view, respect it as you have no idea as to the background, base your opinions on a variety of profiles especially those who play as you do.

Thanks and I'm not over thinking, just never saw a comment under someone's profile like that. I actually am sorry as a black guy she had such experiences that it turned her off from even wanting to msg black guys in the future.

Also I'm happy you're encounters with black guys have been positive.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

You find whatever you are looking for, I know couples that play up to that and some not their kind of play. Why are you sorry as a black guy, one person does not represent you. That is her experience, not yours.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have no problem, everyone has a USP.

Think what I don’t like is the objectification, almost auction of dehumanising one trip wonder,

There is more to people than that.

Well in my world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no problem, everyone has a USP.

Think what I don’t like is the objectification, almost auction of dehumanising one trip wonder,

There is more to people than that.

Well in my world."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've noticed overconfidence or cockiness as being specific to any group. Regardless of skin colour.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Go to name search and put in black, then Asian then white and judge for yourself

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

We have a black friend and I have to say that he poses a little higher but that is due to the fact that he has a big cock

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By *ndreisabelCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."

We don't agree with that. But the reality of fab for black guys is that a lot of the couples that actively are looking for them are in a cuckold or hotwife relationship. So in both fantasies been superior or a alpha male plays a big role.

So we believe that a lot of black guys just present themselves that way to attract more couples.

Personally we had some great meets with very humble black men and some less positive ones. But we don't judge a all group base on the behaviourof a few. But we also have to say that every time we meet a black man we need to explain that we are not looking for a cuckolding meet and that we are also not into race play. Just to make sure we are in the same page.

Also don't give to much importance to some bios or profiles and look for the ones that are your type and have the same values. We had a couple stating on their profile that they only meet British people but they still send us a message saying they will make a exception for us. So kind of them

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

I find that white me have a more superior attitude...especially the ones that think messaging a couple and saying stuff.. do you want to be fucked hard my my big thick cock..or does your hubby want to watch me pound you..that sort of attitude makes me sick..and I can only say iv had that from white guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and i had an amazing experience with a black guy,

A true gentleman,

I watched it all,

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Well you’d be welcome here if you weren’t so far away ! My wife would love that !!

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"It doesn’t matter about race, skin colour ect a cocky arsehole is a cocky arsehole…

Some people are over confident, some people are rude, skin colour has nothing to do with it!"

That is the fact...

Met some great black guys at partys that were very humble, and have met white guys that were arrogent. So really it is down to the personality, not skin colour.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."

I'm afraid in sexual terms black men have become 'a thing', a monolithic phenomenon inspired by the porn industry and universally described through the crass term 'bbc', which has come to refer to the human being not just their genetalia! Sexually aggressive, without nuance or personality, the ubiquitous bull.

Unfortunately some black men and some white people buy into the stereotype and approach this lifestyle in that way-hence some black men believe that's what all white women want and behave as such.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Well you’d be welcome here if you weren’t so far away ! My wife would love that !!"

There you go OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you’d be welcome here if you weren’t so far away ! My wife would love that !!

There you go OP

Lol

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By *idsTomMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well I love BBC, I can’t get enough of it and if they’re a little arrogant who cares. Albeit you don’t get many arrogant black men who are Bi/Gay, they’re normally nervous of being being caught by their mates!

I’m like a kid in a sweet shop at Rio’s on an evening with the BBC that’s on view, sadly only 5% are happy to play with another bloke but at least I get a little fun at least once a week.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

can't say we have all the black gentlemen we have met, spoken too have been really nice, respectful and charming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"can't say we have all the black gentlemen we have met, spoken too have been really nice, respectful and charming.

Nice

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By *weetcouple86Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Mrs took a notion for a black guy but he turned up smelling of smoke and not alot like his pics so she’s been put off a little I think she needs a better experience to get her back on board

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are men, that appear to assume, that a physical trait of theirs means they should have women falling at their feet.

Whether it be a big cock, six pack etc.

In my experience those sort of men have any colour skin

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

As a guys only club, we have people of all ethnicities as members.

It’s all about the individual for us. Respectful & polite guys are what we like.

Superiority complexes like human beings, come in many shades & aren’t welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's superiority, it's popularity. In my experience, there's very little effort made for conversation, it's just leading with the 'bbc' title. Same with single women, they don't need to make much effort because they've got a lot of people to choose from.

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By *ungeon loving squirterCouple
over a year ago

redcar

Please keep the comments respectful, much thanks."

We've actually found the opposite. Most black guys we've spoken to seen really polite and complimentary. White guys who are bigger than downstairs tend to be the cocky ones (pardon the pun)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have so far experienced it that way for sure! The title is bbc and no conversation seems possible because ‘ I have a bbc I am in’ i find it agitating. Shame really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some black guys do play on the BBC thing many black guys don’t. Most black guys i’ve met are super normal, respectable and prefer to be humanised over fetishised. When it gets to the point of seeing people as people, rather than appendages, a fair few issues on here will stop. "

Nice

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over a year ago

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow