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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So my predicament here is, I message peeps I’m interested in on here… put thought in each message so not generic and always take time to read their profile…. But I’m hitting my head against a brick wall…. Delete, delete, delete…. This site can be so frustrating

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Maybe having more public photos on displlay will help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes OP the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results

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By *l3sumCouple
over a year ago

london/essex


"Maybe having more public photos on displlay will help? "

Thinking exactly this

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You have 3 ways to stand out on FAB…

Your profile bio

Your pics

Your messages

Usually all 3 have to be decent or appealing to get a response.

If you aren’t getting responses then I’d look at those 3 things first and see whether they can be improved.

If you feel you’ve got them to a point that you can’t do anymore then you can get yourself known more by posting on the forums, going on cam, going on organised socials and going to clubs.

So there’s 7 elements that you can do to improve your chances on here.

I’ll guarantee that the people that moan are the ones that don’t use all the tools available that FAB provides.

K

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Cannot accommodate would put many off.

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Get yourself to a club. Chat to people there, then they can verify you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While many will say "bio, pics or messages", you can only go so far with those, and if all 3 are failing (though there are many other reasons for failing to get responses besides your profile as a whole), then hang around in the forums more. Youre far more likely to get noticed and eventually strike something up especially while participating in the various forum games we play and ither shenanigans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't respond to people I don't find attractive... If I can't tell, due to no face pic, I delete unread... If it's clear my profile hasn't been read, same... If I think they aren't really attracted to me and are just messaging out of desperation... Same

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op more public photos

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Unfortunately it is what it is, no one owes you a response no matter how polite you are and when the volume of single males is so high folks can afford to be picky. Try not to take it personally and just keep chipping away - you never know one day.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best to change your approach if it’s not working. You’ve got to stand out put some effort in

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London


"Cannot accommodate would put many off. "

If you can't change this, that's fine. But I'd say 1) more public photos, 2) make your verifications accessible/ public and 3) narrow your age range x

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

You look like you have a great physique… try some black and white torso pictures, more pictures don’t have to mean your knob… take a picture you like and mess with some filters…. Also your profile isn’t giving me anything about you really….You say you are a sexual deviant… aren’t we all… but what do you like? What pleases you?

Also, your messages… what’s your opener? Is it kind of thoughtful but generic??

I feel for you guys to be honest, the male to female ratio on here is way out of balance… just one of those things that you have to contend with on sites like this I’m afraid… good luck OP x

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Agree with the points made above, plus maybe add a bit more detail about what you're looking for, preferences etc. Good luck.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So my predicament here is, I message peeps I’m interested in on here… put thought in each message so not generic and always take time to read their profile…. But I’m hitting my head against a brick wall…. Delete, delete, delete…. This site can be so frustrating "

You need to remember it's a two way thing not one just because you might be interested you need to respect if they're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.

My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.

Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.

My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.

Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome."

Advice create your own post pal and I'm sure you'll get the helpful advice post jumping isn't allowed

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.

My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.

Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome.

Advice create your own post pal and I'm sure you'll get the helpful advice post jumping isn't allowed "

BOOM!!!

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"I have to admit i am close to giving up here too, I get more luck on okcupid.

My couples profile is on fire though which I don't understand.

Then again I am new to doing this as a single guy so advice is very much welcome."

I won’t lie, I saw your picture and wondered why you had an image of a naan bread as your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair and deserved.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Atleast you don’t get abuse that’s all I seem to attract but atleast I get a reply lol

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford


"Cannot accommodate would put many off. "

Many will assume that it's due to their being a partner at home. Plus the "18-99" age range. Again. Why is it that so many guys are either too lazy to change it, or are they really ready to shag their granny?

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By *JonaMan
over a year ago

walsall

It’s all about engaging couples and females , use them chat room use the forum . Go to events n enjoy yourself don’t think because your on Fab you can get a meet n fuck everyday .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to clubs,talk to people face to face

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