FabSwingers.com forum: how many couples have meets without socials ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so how many couples have meets without socials are you the types who just want to get down to fun come and show yourselves ....

please this is just as it states not looking for whats right or wrong just looking to see how many meet with out socials ...

when we first started many years ago we did a few socials but we found they took up far too much time that we did not have so all thos years ago we stopped and just met quick hello if all ok then play now we know many many couple do it this way too but the forums seems to give the expression its al socials but most couples we know (its alot lol 28 years worth) dont so are you one of those who dont have socials

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We try to do both start with a social with the intention of taking it further.

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve had drinks at ours and luckily after getting to know each other it’s clicked and we’ve ended up with full fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re more into clubs but when we do meet our free time is very limited so we’re not looking to chat

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve only ever done one social before the meet, the rest were more like close the door & get into it lol

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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Never been to a social. Pretty much like to get straight down to it.

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By *illpeopleCouple
over a year ago

High Peak

Us. Really dont have time for social only meets and on the rare occasion when we have it's been a waste of time, not leading to a follow on play meet.

To be honest, we are here to play so if we all like the look of each other,lets get on with it!

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"We’re more into clubs but when we do meet our free time is very limited so we’re not looking to chat

That pretty much describes us.

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By *edandLouCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

No socials for us-got enough friends on Facebook for that!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We never have done, never will. Just don't have time too.

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By *ultonfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

oulton broad, suffolk

Always have a strictly social meet initially with a view to a play meet on a separate day if we all get on. Its all very well saying you would go the whole hog there and then, but suppose you don't fancy them? Really difficult to reject someone on the spot. This has worked well for us. We all have our own way of finding our way through this caper.

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By *exylegs and dirkCouple
over a year ago

bodmin

Straight into it for us, the sooner the cloths come off the better!

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Definitely would have a social meet before any fun took place even if it were in a bar or coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens in a club

Stayes in a club

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Ideally, we would like a social, but in a club environment it’s usually a case of a relatively brief chat and then - if we’re attracted to them - it’s game on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually it’s meet for a quick coffee and then straight down to it but we have had the odd distanced social during Covid.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We enjoy the social element and we have arranged purely socials (with no play) before. That said, we have also played with couples in clubs when we’ve never met beforehand and have enjoyed the spontaneity.

Nowadays, time is scarce for us so the idea of a social first when there’s definitely not going to be play isn’t for us. We don’t want to be interviewed and we aren’t looking for endless chat and pic swapping; we’d rather meet with a view that there could be play (no obligation!) if we click.

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By *oubleA123Couple
over a year ago

berwick

"Always have a strictly social meet initially with a view to a play meet on a separate day if we all get on. Its all very well saying you would go the whole hog there and then, but suppose you don't fancy them? Really difficult to reject someone on the spot. This has worked well for us. We all have our own way of finding our way through this caper. "

This works for us too, been that way since we started.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nope not differcult to say no at all we always say have a cuppa if nothing is there or change of mind then it goes no further ..... would never play if it was not right no chance of that

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We met a couple on here once and arranged to meet them at a club. Upon arrival we realised we’d been catfished (Snapchat filters!) so we had a bit of a chat in the club and then just said that we were going for a look around the club. It was obvious what we meant and we saw them a few times throughout the night but it wasn’t awkward.

There should never be any obligation to play but the idea of not fucking (or at least being able to fuck if you want) doesn’t work for us. We rarely get time without the kids meaning it could be a couple of months between the social and the actual play which wouldn’t really work that well.

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

we are not interested in realtionship building; met for a very quick drink en route to the hotel room maybe, but otherwise we just wait for the knock on the door, man comes in, wife naked on bed. I fuck her while the man takes a wash and then he gets right into it!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

If we are’s meeting at ours and it’s just a couple then we may meet in a bar , and if all agreed go back to ours , if we are meeting at there’s we just go round ,

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By *uvBugsCouple
over a year ago

CAMBS

We believe that it's not about dinner and dance, so we invite or get invited and if everything clicks over a coffee or a glass of red, we will instigate playtime... Life is too short not to.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We had a couple of pub/social meets when we first set out swinging and realised pub meets never go any further so we stuck to non social meets which were much more fun.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

My first couples experience was without a social. They guy just pretty much arranged it and said I liked your profile and let's meet. Was a rum meeting and we had a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to be at a swinging party as a gelding Male

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