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What is a True Bull!

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

I think Ive got my head round a cuckold relationship now, would like to know is where a bull fits in? Wat is a true Bull? And is there a standard to be a bull?

Any help would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on what the couple themselves are expecting. Some cuckolds just like to play voyeur whereas some of them like the humiliation side of it as well.

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

Its when couples or females say only guys who understand been a true Bull

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

What kind of Bull do you want to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all have different ideas of it. The couple i've experience playing the bull with were inexperienced with it and the guy wasn't there during the actual act(only for beers afterwards).

So from that experience, he enjoyed her telling him about it afterwards. He also like pics + a bit of video.

Didn't get around to any of it with him in the same room though but I don't know whether I could go the whole hog and verbally put someone down because i'm a respectful guy and respected the fact that she was his wife.

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border


"What kind of Bull do you want to be?"

This is where Im scratching my head, what are the different types and roles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some but not all couples want a bull who is bigger stronger all over etc and will tell the cuckold husband to sit down and shut the fuck up while he watches the bull fuck his wife,maybe the bull sticks the dick in the cuckolds mouth to taste her juice on the dick or makes the hotwife suck the bulls cock and then she kisses the cuckold but the bull overpowering the cuckold is the gist i got from studying the concept

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We ask the question because either YOU know what you want or you don't. If you think you can follow some instruction book or deliver the demands of a couple then you aren't going to get what YOU want. So ask yourself what would you like to do with a cuckold and his wife.

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border


"We ask the question because either YOU know what you want or you don't. If you think you can follow some instruction book or deliver the demands of a couple then you aren't going to get what YOU want. So ask yourself what would you like to do with a cuckold and his wife."

Think I get what your saying, its having the couple play how the bull wants

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We ask the question because either YOU know what you want or you don't. If you think you can follow some instruction book or deliver the demands of a couple then you aren't going to get what YOU want. So ask yourself what would you like to do with a cuckold and his wife.

Think I get what your saying, its having the couple play how the bull wants"

No it's finding a couple that wants what u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think it helped getting to know them and seeing them socially a fair few times as well. I've got the option of a threesome with them as well.

Ironically it wasn't on fab I met them, she just had a single profile on another site and then found all that out after taking her for a drink.

I've suggested fab considering it's pretty much an ideal site for cuckold couples looking for guys(vast supply) but she signed up and hasn't really used it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who describes themselves as a bull gets no attention from us, our opinion our choice !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my humble opinion,

Either you are one, naturally, or not.

If you need to read up on it, most likely you are not one.....

In my humble experience,

You need to be able to judge what the couple want instinctively using experience, judgement, and empathy, and the relationship you have built up with them. Being a good Bull starts way before you get there....

don't push them over the edge, but FFS don't ask either......

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

Im just trying to understand terminology and the role

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Taurus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just trying to understand terminology and the role "
Fellow single guy..........I feel for you! You have found out that the forum is not for the faint hearted, misguided or those of a sensitive diposition! Good luck!!!!

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Solitary beast with horns and bollocks found in a field

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Im just trying to understand terminology and the role "

You are assuming there is a job description for Bull, Hotwife or Cuckold. There isn't so you have to be true to yourself. What is it you think a true bull is? Answer your own question to see what responses you get on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ask the question because either YOU know what you want or you don't. If you think you can follow some instruction book or deliver the demands of a couple then you aren't going to get what YOU want. So ask yourself what would you like to do with a cuckold and his wife.

Think I get what your saying, its having the couple play how the bull wants

No it's finding a couple that wants what u want "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone found hanging out with matadors.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Its all in the mind. You will know whether you are one or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Ive got my head round a cuckold relationship now, would like to know is where a bull fits in? Wat is a true Bull? And is there a standard to be a bull?

Any help would be appreciated"

It sometimes has horns, a huge cock and goes Mooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a bull? isnt it just a dominant male?

not really into this side of things being single, so to be honest dont really understand it, but i thought a bull was just another name for a dominant male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im doing this for the first time in a couple weeks with a coupe! She wants to tie him to a chair and make him watch while I fuck and play with her for a couple hours.

Didnt really know what cuckhold was before but after speaking with them alot over last week or so am very excited to be their bull!

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By *ondering_yorkshireman OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

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"Im just trying to understand terminology and the role

You are assuming there is a job description for Bull, Hotwife or Cuckold. There isn't so you have to be true to yourself. What is it you think a true bull is? Answer your own question to see what responses you get on here."

I think:

Bull= dominant male of a couple/female

Hotwife= female to be used by bull

Cuckold= male of above

Personally dont think I havent got the domination in me to be a bull but could in role plays

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Different couples will want different bulls.

To be honest it is probably best thought of a as form of role play, with agreed limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been a bull in many meets, but don't consider myself merely in that genre as I'm both an inquisitive and open-minded bugger, so I like to experience everything sex has to offer.

I adore using my imagination and role playing in general, so I always put my whole self into any role and find that the most is gotten out of it then to boot!

In terms of what makes a good bull, I'd say the bottom line, as with any role play, is empathasising with the couple and knowing exactly what turns them on as well as yourself. Seeing others gaining pleasure from delightful practices such as this can only increase the pleasure you gain from them yourself. I'd rank this as the most important attribute simply because being able to feed others sexual needs as well as scratch those wonderful itches you yourself possess is essential no matter what particular specific wants the he, she and you require. I'd also state that a degree of confidence is a must-have.

Other attributes you may possess may come in handy with some couples, such as a powerful physique, a wicked tongue, etc, that tie in with their specific fantasies, but these will not apply to all, whereas the main character traits almost certainly will...

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am male half of cuckold couple and I think there is quite a wide spectrum for being a bull which depends on everyone involved but I'd like to say:

1. Not all cucks are bi. Any bull who thinks i am going to suck his cock will soon find I can do a pretty quick 100m

2. I am sub and happy to be told sit and watch, face the wall, leave the room for a certain length of time.

3. A bull is a guy who will do with my wife whatever he or she wants to do.

4. A bull will want more than a one off meet.

5. A bull will encourage a hot wife to truthfully tell a cuck hubby that he, the bull, is bigger/better

6. Bull would like or insist on having the wife without the cuck being present from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it hilarious when some 19 year old pops up with a username like 'bull4u' etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true. More mature guys tend to know what to do

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