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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

Not wanting to attract a lot of hate or accusations of being a bitter single male etc... just wondering how many single lady or solo play fabbers tend to send first messages. I do get responses and chat to some lovely folk on here but never receive a first message from anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely. I get an ego boost from having lots of messages in my inbox.

Too much effort sending messages and no reward.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

From my single account, I’m the one that sends out first messages to fems 99% of the time! It’s very rare that I’ll receive one first. Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done and will do again if I'm interested in someone.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Often, when I have been actively meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent first messages. Why not?

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch


"Very rarely. I get an ego boost from having lots of messages in my inbox.

Too much effort sending messages and no reward. "

Your profile is surreal and intriguing. What kind of first messages do you attract?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have in the past

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I can't remember ever getting a first message from a woman. It's a myth or legend handed down over the years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have, never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not wanting to attract a lot of hate or accusations of being a bitter single male etc... just wondering how many single lady or solo play fabbers tend to send first messages. I do get responses and chat to some lovely folk on here but never receive a first message from anyone..."
yes your right the odd rare occasion when you do get approached it's usually a blank profile just trying to collect pictures the amount of them. Now is bad

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By *oungandAdventurousCouple
over a year ago

Both apart for Xmas :(

I don't get time to send people messages first as I receive amount 5 messages a second haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, once, it didn't end well !

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Yea I message first too. I don’t always hear anything back, or my message gets deleted before it’s read, but get that I’m not to everyone’s liking.

Don’t see what it would phase anyone? If you like what you see, just say let them know, you never know, they may also find you hot also x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've sent the first message to most of the guys I've met here

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think I've sent the first message to most of the guys I've met here"

It makes sense for that to be the case as younare only contacting those whose profiles interest you.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch


"I don't get time to send people messages first as I receive amount 5 messages a second haha"

It might seem unnecessary but if you see a profile that interests you do you just wait for them to message you? I mean...i can imagine most local guys will automatically msg you anyway but if someone hasn't and you want to chat with them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and rarely get replies

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I’ve never sent a first message. I wait to see who’s interested in me. I realise this approach doesn’t work for men but it suits me.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I have no problem sending a first message to someone sure the worst they can do is not reply.But then I rarely check my sent messages either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't remember ever getting a first message from a woman. It's a myth or legend handed down over the years lol"

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