FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.

I don’t have any statistics to back this up but I reckon it’s safe to say the majority of action that is initiated on this site is quick meets and one offs. I’m sure there are people who have found true love and entered into a long term relationship after meeting through this site but they are definitely very much in the minority.

It’s a swingers site, the name gives that away, why are you asking about long term relationships when it’s obvious that’s not what people here are looking for. Did you really need to ask whether it’s ‘mostly just quick meets’ that people come here for? If it was mostly long term relationships that people here were looking for it would just be a dating site with a very inappropriate name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.

Both.

Some people meet and have relationships, some even get married. If people want a swinging relationship this is a great place to look.

Some just meet once and move on.

Some become FWBs and meet regularly.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've known couples that have develop relationships through swinging. It's not unheard of really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.

I meet most people in clubs or tinder actually. Fab is more of a tool to learn about new things and places to visit, for me.

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

I think it’s quite common. Know a few who have ended up in relationships, generally not planned but it does happen. Did for us

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most interactions are no strings, some are longer term and a few because romantic relationships. For most men, it is incredibly hard work needed to be invested to become established and to get what they want

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd be happy to be in a relationship with someone i met on here, if you get on and obviously have the same interests then why not.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't know.. I can barely find a single partner, let alone maintain one with part of a couple but I do admire those that are able to make it work though

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I met a couple on here a while back and it led to an affair

Stopped it when it got out of hand and she wanted to leave her husband

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple local to us on here who met through fab and got married. I wouldn’t imagine it’s very common but it does happen.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I’m sorry, but it fustrates me when people say this is just a place for sex.

Swinging for me is a lifestyle, I’ve made greater friendships here than I ever would in the vanilla world.

I believe you can find a relationship here, especially if you’re looking to stay in this lifestyle. For me the usual dating sites are harder, because as soon you start mentioning swinging, you become the leper and they have gone off you!

Don’t get me wrong I don’t live this life 24/7, but I’d like to start dating those who understand there are times I want to enjoy this side of life.

All I’d advise is you’re home eat and upfront with what you want x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"There are a couple local to us on here who met through fab and got married. I wouldn’t imagine it’s very common but it does happen. "

We're are also engaged. So one day another wedding Fab is responsible for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both met each other on fab. X

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met here…

Nearly 4 years now.

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By *ay-Em-BBWWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I was in a 2 year relationship with someone I met on here so it can happen.

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By *aving_great_funMan
over a year ago

London

I'm lucky to have someone even read my message, let alone converse and that before having any kind of relationship whatsoever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and mr met on here and been together 7 years and been swinging as a couple from as soon as we hog together

If you are looking for a relationship that is monogamous a swinging site probably is the best place because I would imagine the reason they are looking on here is because they want the swinging lifestyle

But at the same time you never know what could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a relationship thanks to Fab.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Wham bam thank you mam lol

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we met on here in September 2019 and got married in January this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we met on here in September 2019 and got married in January this year"

Congratulations xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Think you are looking at this site in the completely wrong way, I would say this site is generally for the satisfaction to quench a sexual desire rather than to seek a relationship, saying that I do believe meetings could lead to a relationship but if you are looking to meet couples with the intention of stealing someone’s partner then I would say you are playing a very dangerous game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know.. I can barely find a single partner, let alone maintain one with part of a couple but I do admire those that are able to make it work though "

Thought you would have been snapped up many times over fella!

What's up with fabber's fussy lot heh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you are looking at this site in the completely wrong way, I would say this site is generally for the satisfaction to quench a sexual desire rather than to seek a relationship, saying that I do believe meetings could lead to a relationship but if you are looking to meet couples with the intention of stealing someone’s partner then I would say you are playing a very dangerous game."

Swingers cheat too. If the person wants to cheat then they will. Not anyone else's fault if that partner cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

relationship can happen anywhere and do however i think the numbers are way off compared to how may use the site ...

how differcult is it for guys to find swinging friends and just think how hard it would be to find a partner ...

its ok for those to say well i found one because thats just it youve found one think how many wont the numbers and percentages dont add up how many swinging couples met off the scene ? almost all we know and from the forums alone most ...

im not saying its not do - able as clearly it is ..i even agree there should be a dating section on here but clearly its a very small minority too and bearing in mind how many men % wise to women then for guys its almost impossible .

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Swingers cheat too. If the person wants to cheat then they will. Not anyone else's fault if that partner cheats.

Absolutely true that's why it's important that both partners talk about what they want to get from the meet in a upfront honest way

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My ex and I got together from here x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met here 6 years ago, weren't looking for more, but just happened.

So yes it does happen here.

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yep, we found each other on here. Wasn’t what we were looking for but it developed into something amazing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Hi,

Just throwing this out there into the ether. Do people actually find partners here who they really like and develop a long term relationship? Or is it mostly just quick meets and so on.

Yes there are many people who do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow. Thanks for all the responses guys. I see a fair few of you have had meaningful relationships here which is surprising but great! In response to some of you, I was not looking at the site in any way, just putting a question out there . Each to their own

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met on here, initially for NSA, then things developed.

We know of at least two weddings taking place soon.

Relationships happen in many places, so why should here be any different?

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

We met here. Happy as can be together. Absolute total honesty, right from the start. It's refreshing!

Never looked back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met here. Happy as can be together. Absolute total honesty, right from the start. It's refreshing!

Never looked back x"

but all relationships should be totally honest from the start ? thats the problem most are not then they split..

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

"We met here. Happy as can be together. Absolute total honesty, right from the start. It's refreshing!

Never looked back x

but all relationships should be totally honest from the start ? thats the problem most are not then they split..

Most marriages are a result of social conditioning I suppose.

Trying to be something you're not, to fit in and behave. That's the dishonest bit, and it's nobody's fault.

Neither of us are very good at that, but we're collectively awesome at misbehaving.

Which is why it works for us!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"we met on here in September 2019 and got married in January this year

Congratulations xx"

thank you xxx

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