FabSwingers.com forum: Couples who get pissed

By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Ha yes we know what you mean 1130 ish onwards is the d*unk hours x

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No, but we don't meet couples. Heard so many sobering stories though and expecting some sights when we rock up to a club.

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?"

Why ? They are pissed for a start, it’s like drawing chalk on the side of a house and running away, it’s going to rain and be washed away….point being it’s pointless

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Ha yes we know what you mean 1130 ish onwards is the d*unk hours x"

Like they are d*unk ! Giggling she’s all wobbly woo, he’s mr floppy

people can’t be serious.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once turned up to a meet to find them both so off their tits on 'nose powder'.

Not a great experience

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"I once turned up to a meet to find them both so off their tits on 'nose powder'.

Not a great experience"

ohhh dear…. Scary how peoples brains actually work.

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad. "

Too right including the “420 friendly” people. It’s referenced on peoples profiles quite a lot.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I once turned up to a meet to find them both so off their tits on 'nose powder'.

Not a great experience"

You fucked em though?

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?

Why ? They are pissed for a start, it’s like drawing chalk on the side of a house and running away, it’s going to rain and be washed away….point being it’s pointless

So a couple having a few drinks, losing some inhibition, talking about things, etc. you see that as bizarre?

I see that as as natural as can be….

I’m not saying everyone should be ratted to fuck others …. Just that experimentation is easier with a few drinks than asking your husband over cornflakes at 07.30 “hey Jim I want to fuck other people…. Oh… I’ve packed your lunch is ham ok?”

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Our meets have included few drinks with the music and getting to know each other x

You got to rely on the others , but yes better if inhibitions are lowered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting we limit drinks but in a club we treat it like a night out. We can both handle our drink so will never be falling all over but in a club we go to have a good night and if we end up playing that’s a bonus

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"Our meets have included few drinks with the music and getting to know each other x

You got to rely on the others , but yes better if inhibitions are lowered x "

Let’s say wasted instead of pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wont go near people who drink when playing if you cant enjoy good sex without a drink then not interested

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By *estingwaters321Couple
over a year ago

tring

I probably come across as one of these! ?? I’m not, but I do find it easier to strike up a conversation when I’ve had a drink and generally I come on here with my partner not alone and we don’t live together so our date nights often include drink and fab ?????

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not couples as such but if you are on Fab after midnight on a Friday or Saturday it certainly gets entertaining.

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"I probably come across as one of these! ?? I’m not, but I do find it easier to strike up a conversation when I’ve had a drink and generally I come on here with my partner not alone and we don’t live together so our date nights often include drink and fab ?????"

For us personally we’re happy to talk and play stone cold sober, we don’t really have any hang ups or nerves.

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By *hubby Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Essex

"wont go near people who drink when playing if you cant enjoy good sex without a drink then not interested"

it almost feels a bit forced if somebody is completely wasted.

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By *ikki SmithTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I live in central london and always get the 11 to midnight “wanna fuk?” brigade, checking ‘Who’s nearby’ as they roll out of the pub on the way home to their wife. Always ‘straight’ guys, always pissed …. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live in central london and always get the 11 to midnight “wanna fuk?” brigade, checking ‘Who’s nearby’ as they roll out of the pub on the way home to their wife. Always ‘straight’ guys, always pissed …. !"

Yep, I hear ya x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Yep, I hear ya x"

‘Straight guys’ ... lol so true x

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

We like a drink , but never get in a state of not knowing what we r doing, have met one cple he was half canned and couldn't understand her , left strait away no dramas for us xx

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By *ayarMan
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *ayarMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?

Why ? They are pissed for a start, it’s like drawing chalk on the side of a house and running away, it’s going to rain and be washed away….point being it’s pointless

So a couple having a few drinks, losing some inhibition, talking about things, etc. you see that as bizarre?

I see that as as natural as can be….

Absolutely

Inhibitions out of the window..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Some people can only have sex if they are wasted. Especially women in clubs.

I avoid them. Very bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?

Why ? They are pissed for a start, it’s like drawing chalk on the side of a house and running away, it’s going to rain and be washed away….point being it’s pointless

So a couple having a few drinks, losing some inhibition, talking about things, etc. you see that as bizarre?

I see that as as natural as can be….

Happy tipsy is not the same as wasted or pissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Never understood getting that d*unk in a swinging environment. How do people not get ED from the performance anxiety and alcohol?

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Having had a uncomfortable experience with a d*unk couple I am far more cautious now. The other problem is a d*unk woman cannot give consent and you may find yourself at risk of a morning after guilt inspired ra*e accusation.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Friday nights and Saturday we get the piss up ones messages

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad. "

This! Big difference between having a few drinks together and only looking when Dru*k

Drama free please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P doesn’t drink so easy for us. How come the word ‘d*unk’ is spelled ‘d*unk’ in this thread? Is it not allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha it censored it automatically - that’s new!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s often the way with couples in clubs, they are just there to get hammered. I’ve seen couples that pissed they are then spiralled out on a sofa fast asleep. Classy look

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Thankfully I've never met anyone who has turned up d*unk, as I'd find that a bit off-putting.

I do get a lot of messages from people who are clearly d*unk though, especially the post-pub weekend crowd. I ignore them, as they're just after a bit of wank-fodder and normally don't have any intention of taking things further. Once they sober up they vanish until next time they're d*unk and horny.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"When meeting we limit drinks but in a club we treat it like a night out. We can both handle our drink so will never be falling all over but in a club we go to have a good night and if we end up playing that’s a bonus "

Same. I don't think we be for anyone who looked down on us for enjoying a good few drinks.

Having said that we always drink at a club. Depends what sort of club visit we're after and what we've got on afterwards. Sometimes we just pop in to chill, drink tea and do our thing.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have a rule. We NEVER swing with d*unk people

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By *tcouple26Couple
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I don't think there's any harm in having a drink or a smoke but limits are important!

Plenty of people can drink and still be coherent

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"We’ve lost count of the amount of pissed up couples who contact us. We’re d*unk so we’re going to try and swing…..anyone else experienced this, it just seems so bizarre.

Why?

Why ? They are pissed for a start, it’s like drawing chalk on the side of a house and running away, it’s going to rain and be washed away….point being it’s pointless

So a couple having a few drinks, losing some inhibition, talking about things, etc. you see that as bizarre?

I see that as as natural as can be….

Happy tipsy is not the same as wasted or pissed."

I agree, I’m just surprised that the OP finds it bizarre… it’s quite common for people to stretch their boundaries when uninhibited, alcohol releases some of these inhibitions. When ‘tipsy’ carries on pissed can occur… what was being spoken about while tipsy carries on likewise. I don’t find it bizarre at all!

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Just for those who are replying to people being pissed in clubs or meeting etc the OP said contacted by.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I hope that the majority of people who we message after 11.30pm don’t assume we’re intoxicated, that would be sad and very untrue! I guess a few couples will enjoy a night out and then hit fab after, good on them, as long as they’re not offensive then I don’t see a problem! People know where the block button is! We’ve not once been to a club and seen couples over indulge on the drink, and it’s certainly not our style! I did however go to a ladies night, and the majority of ladies were very very merry haha! In our experience it’s not just couples who have a drink and message on here

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re going to a club that means we’ve arranged a babysitter, booked a hotel and travelled so we like to let our hair down. If people don’t want to play because we’re d*unk then we're fine with that.

Meeting strangers from the internet is a completely different situation though. We both like to stay sober or have one or 2 just for safety reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad. "

Yup, seems like a recipe for disaster.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

For us it's about balance. Is a drink just one or two to enjoy as part of the evening, social or even ease nerves or is it getting stupidly d*unk and making a tit of yourselves.

We enjoy a drink but have swung after a drink and sober and doesn't change who we are. It depends on the environment and situation. Guess everyone is different but we have met lovely people in either camp.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

So a couple having a few drinks, losing some inhibition, talking about things, etc. you see that as bizarre?

I see that as as natural as can be….

This last bit really made us giggle.

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By *erandHerManCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

We have and we stay wayyyyyyyyyyy clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have left a meet because the female half of the couple was clearly d*unk and was drinking a lot of wine while I was there the male half of the couple was sober as a judge and got really angry when I said this isn't for me and feels a bit wierd.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We've left meets where they are d*unk.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We met a couple for a social evening prior to going back to our hotel with them, as we were leaving the bar, they said there was another couple that they knew were into the lifestyle in the bar and did we mind inviting them too.

When they introduced the new couple, the women was clearly the worse for wear, loud and a bit disheveled. We politely declined and had a fun meet with the lovely original couple.

It was worse because it was our first ever meet!

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

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"Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad. "

Exactly this. If you need a drink to swing then it massively increases any sense of regret the following day.

Besides which, I don"t want to have my senses dulled. I want them heightened and intensified. Alcohol would produce the opposite effect to that which I'm seeking.

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

"We met a couple for a social evening prior to going back to our hotel with them, as we were leaving the bar, they said there was another couple that they knew were into the lifestyle in the bar and did we mind inviting them too.

When they introduced the new couple, the women was clearly the worse for wear, loud and a bit disheveled. We politely declined and had a fun meet with the lovely original couple.

It was worse because it was our first ever meet! "

Sounds like a bit of a set up there did you not think

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

When they introduced the new couple, the women was clearly the worse for wear, loud and a bit disheveled. We politely declined and had a fun meet with the lovely original couple.

It was worse because it was our first ever meet!

Sounds like a bit of a set up there did you not think "

Possibly but it turned out ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a drink on a social, but I'll stick to a cuppa tea for a meet. We all enjoyed a cuppa the first time we invited a guy round, was much nicer than drinking!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My biggest worry is that they will sober up and regret it.

There's nothing wrong with having a drink, but I'm not having sex with anyone who needs alcohol or other substances to do so.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Some men do it too. Or they arrange to meet for a social and turn up plastered or high

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

"Couples who need alcohol to swing = drama.

Drama = bad.

Too right including the “420 friendly” people. It’s referenced on peoples profiles quite a lot. "

I just can’t abide it! If you have to do drugs to enjoy swinging then what’s the point x

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Im always worried when someone has to get so d*unk to play, having a drink to relax is fine but being d*unk isn't my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres having a drink and theres getting d*unk...two diffrent things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found that, and have been told that a few couples who are on here have to be pissed to play, and nothing worse then going into a playroom and the guy can't get hard as he's pissed! also listening to a certain pod cast drink seems to play a big part, before they do anything!

We like a drink or two to relax but being pissed is no fun

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