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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen the term hetro'flexible thrown about a few times lately.

Now, I know most don't like labels but surely that's just another term for bicurious, no?... just for the people that prefer hetro in their label rather than bi? Or am I missing something

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By *pexKinksterMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I hear what you're saying and I'll be honest I think everyone has a different level of what they consider bi and bi curious. I label myself as hetexible and the reason for it is I actually don't have any attraction to men at all but with another women I don't mind sharing a cock with her. I'd also not kiss another man as I find it very intimate the same as being in a relationship with a man its not something I would do.

As said above hetexible is me and I look at it as I'm totally into women for intimacy and relationships.

I'll get called bi even gay it doesn't actually bother me it's how people feel good labeling other people ill leave them too it.

Just my opinion by the way, others will look at this and think I'm kidding myself or something but hey I'm happy.

Scott

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hear what you're saying and I'll be honest I think everyone has a different level of what they consider bi and bi curious. I label myself as hetexible and the reason for it is I actually don't have any attraction to men at all but with another women I don't mind sharing a cock with her. I'd also not kiss another man as I find it very intimate the same as being in a relationship with a man its not something I would do.

As said above hetexible is me and I look at it as I'm totally into women for intimacy and relationships.

I'll get called bi even gay it doesn't actually bother me it's how people feel good labeling other people ill leave them too it.

Just my opinion by the way, others will look at this and think I'm kidding myself or something but hey I'm happy.

Scott"

Appreciate the feedback, I'm starting to lean the same way. Like you I'm not bothered about labels, I just wasn't sure if there were a difference between the 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen the term hetro'flexible thrown about a few times lately.

Now, I know most don't like labels but surely that's just another term for bicurious, no?... just for the people that prefer hetro in their label rather than bi? Or am I missing something"

I think so. Being anything other than straight can be scary. Often people can't admit to themselves they're not straight so have to call it something else.

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By *pexKinksterMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I've seen the term hetro'flexible thrown about a few times lately.

Now, I know most don't like labels but surely that's just another term for bicurious, no?... just for the people that prefer hetro in their label rather than bi? Or am I missing something

I think so. Being anything other than straight can be scary. Often people can't admit to themselves they're not straight so have to call it something else. "

Yeah I agree to this I've spoken to other men in this situation and they are all different. What does get frustrating is getting advances from men and they are telling me I'm gay so what's my problem. I try to tell them who and what I am they just say I'm a closet case or something it's actually aggravating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could be wrong but I suppose it coukd be said hetro'sexual would be open to some bi play when there's a woman involved too, but bi curious would go with either sex individually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I’ve always thought about it is this.

Be happy, play how you wanna, fuck labels.

To me the labels that get thrown around only hinder things and in my eyes only refer to the emotional connection side of things.

Ive been in many a situation at clubs and private meets where things just go with the flow. So if it helps to but labels on it then yes I suppose true correct term for the purpose of this site would be bi. But I can take it or leave it. It’s not something I seek out but when I’m the right place at the right time and if I’m horny enough I’ll take what’s available to help enhance the pleasure.

Mr NF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The way I’ve always thought about it is this.

Be happy, play how you wanna, fuck labels.

To me the labels that get thrown around only hinder things and in my eyes only refer to the emotional connection side of things.

Ive been in many a situation at clubs and private meets where things just go with the flow. So if it helps to but labels on it then yes I suppose true correct term for the purpose of this site would be bi. But I can take it or leave it. It’s not something I seek out but when I’m the right place at the right time and if I’m horny enough I’ll take what’s available to help enhance the pleasure.

Mr NF

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I only ask as me and my partner have set up a couples profile and I feel it suits me better than bi curious. We want the profile to reflect us and what we are/aren't looking for as truly as possible.

P.s, superb profile pic. Planning on the same shot. Could I ask where you got the mask please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way I’ve always thought about it is this.

Be happy, play how you wanna, fuck labels.

To me the labels that get thrown around only hinder things and in my eyes only refer to the emotional connection side of things.

Ive been in many a situation at clubs and private meets where things just go with the flow. So if it helps to but labels on it then yes I suppose true correct term for the purpose of this site would be bi. But I can take it or leave it. It’s not something I seek out but when I’m the right place at the right time and if I’m horny enough I’ll take what’s available to help enhance the pleasure.

Mr NF

I only ask as me and my partner have set up a couples profile and I feel it suits me better than bi curious. We want the profile to reflect us and what we are/aren't looking for as truly as possible.

P.s, superb profile pic. Planning on the same shot. Could I ask where you got the mask please?"

The mask is from Ann Summers.

If you want to keep your options open I would say just have it as Bi Curious at the least.

When ever me and Mrs NF talk to couples we always say we are happy to play either way depending on what there wants and needs are.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Heteexible for us is more that in the heat of the moment, if the stars align and with the right person you may engage in some same sex play, but typically its not something you are interested in or looking for.

Whereas bi-curious is more about being open and interested in same sex play, and are somewhat actively seeking to experience it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Heteexible for us is more that in the heat of the moment, if the stars align and with the right person you may engage in some same sex play, but typically its not something you are interested in or looking for.

Whereas bi-curious is more about being open and interested in same sex play, and are somewhat actively seeking to experience it."

That the way I've interpreted the term, I've updated the couples bio we are creating to include the term. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen the term hetro'flexible thrown about a few times lately.

Now, I know most don't like labels but surely that's just another term for bicurious, no?... just for the people that prefer hetro in their label rather than bi? Or am I missing something

I think so. Being anything other than straight can be scary. Often people can't admit to themselves they're not straight so have to call it something else.

Yeah I agree to this I've spoken to other men in this situation and they are all different. What does get frustrating is getting advances from men and they are telling me I'm gay so what's my problem. I try to tell them who and what I am they just say I'm a closet case or something it's actually aggravating. "

Calling someone 'gay' is just schoolyard bollocks. Unfortunately some people never grow up. Don't let it get you down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing to "get down" about, my friend. Still learning the etiquette etc, at first glance I thought it was a new term for bicurious but, I see the difference now. Was just curious.

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By *pexKinksterMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

yeah its not being down about labels its being told who i am by others, only yourself knows yourself people might think they know but they really dont. it is something i do like to talk about with people though, when people ask why or how my answer is always im just kinky as fuck. always then brings up... how kinky?

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