FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold vs Hotwife

By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

Whats the difference?

Do cuckolds not join in? Is a Hotwife husband still dominant? Cuckolds submissive?

Help me understand please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not 100% on this but from my understang a hotwife is just a guy who shares his wife and a cuck is a sub whos duties woould watching or licking her pussy while you fuck them or cleaning the cum with their mouth after yku creampie them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scale of hotwife to cuckold is very different for each couple. Varies depending on the level of involvement, humiliation and boundaries. Check with everyone you play with what their dynamic is, a lot of guys jump straight to humilation without asking first but sometimes thats not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O/h is dominant in our bedroom and I like being submissive. On the other hand he loves to watch me have fun with another guy so it's really a case of respect what is discussed and not to go beyond the boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The scale of hotwife to cuckold is very different for each couple. Varies depending on the level of involvement, humiliation and boundaries. Check with everyone you play with what their dynamic is, a lot of guys jump straight to humilation without asking first but sometimes thats not the case."

Exactly this, well put. Lots of communication and empathy needed to arrive at the most stimulating dynamic for all involved.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

How we understand it:

HotWife: she decides who and when she's going to fuck, with his agreement.

Stag & Vixen: he decides who and when she's going to fuck, with her agreement.

Cuckold: she decides who and when she's going to fuck whether he likes it or not. Generally some humiliation involved.

We float between HotWife and S&V...Char will go through periods where she does the arranging and meet without me, other times I do the arranging, but it's always with heaxh others agreement.

(Bry)

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

"How we understand it:

HotWife: she decides who and when she's going to fuck, with his agreement.

Stag & Vixen: he decides who and when she's going to fuck, with her agreement.

Cuckold: she decides who and when she's going to fuck whether he likes it or not. Generally some humiliation involved.

We float between HotWife and S&V...Char will go through periods where she does the arranging and meet without me, other times I do the arranging, but it's always with heaxh others agreement.

(Bry)"

That's pretty much how we understand it too, Keys and Anklets podcast covers it in detail in one of the early episodes

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Hi I am a cuck and everyone play differently to suit their own kinks but I am there to serve my wife and her lovers

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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands Based But Travel

"How we understand it:

HotWife: she decides who and when she's going to fuck, with his agreement.

Stag & Vixen: he decides who and when she's going to fuck, with her agreement.

Cuckold: she decides who and when she's going to fuck whether he likes it or not. Generally some humiliation involved.

We float between HotWife and S&V...Char will go through periods where she does the arranging and meet without me, other times I do the arranging, but it's always with heaxh others agreement.

(Bry)"

This is a great explanation, if your understanding of it is accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How we understand it:

HotWife: she decides who and when she's going to fuck, with his agreement.

Stag & Vixen: he decides who and when she's going to fuck, with her agreement.

Cuckold: she decides who and when she's going to fuck whether he likes it or not. Generally some humiliation involved.

We float between HotWife and S&V...Char will go through periods where she does the arranging and meet without me, other times I do the arranging, but it's always with heaxh others agreement.

(Bry)"

Absolutely this

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We are a Hot Wife couple and enjoy a little cuckold fun as I (Mrs N) Definitely like to be in control in the bedroom x

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

hotwife like to be shared and like a little bit of cuckold

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"How we understand it:

HotWife: she decides who and when she's going to fuck, with his agreement.

Stag & Vixen: he decides who and when she's going to fuck, with her agreement.

Cuckold: she decides who and when she's going to fuck whether he likes it or not. Generally some humiliation involved.

We float between HotWife and S&V...Char will go through periods where she does the arranging and meet without me, other times I do the arranging, but it's always with heaxh others agreement.

(Bry)"

Thats a good description, we are mainly S & V although basque always selects from a short list and I do love to dip in and out to take a few pics.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Oh it’s definitely a minefield for single guys to understand and you all have our sympathy getting to grips..

The honest truth is everyone will have a different view on what they’re looking for so best advice is long conversations first.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Agreed talk things through and set your own limits.

We are all here not to be judged but just to enjoy.

We only play as a couple and do lean towards the cuckold aspect of the fun.

But I also have a HW anklet which I wear for fun, and although we probably don't fit directly into that category, it does give us both a thrill.

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