FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Back to clubs

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being back on here three week have made the decision to just start using clubs again.

Fab is great for talking to people you know but every year just more people coming on here for ego boost or totally unrealistic demands on there profile.

Never seen so many couples just looking for a bi single woman with unverified profiles your odds are worse then a single man on here.

If your list of preferences is as long as your arm have a good look at your self and if a couple both of you and think are we really in the position to get what we're looking for.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes too many men joining thinking is a free sex site then getting upset when no one want to meet them

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Definitely the way to go. I enjoy chatting to people on here and a bit of forum banter, but clubs are a much better way to meet and get to know people.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from what ive heard is the clubs are filling nicely but some clubs are the same people week in week out and thats not for us so we move around time to start booking further afield again now as clubs have only become a thought again

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.”

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.” "

well said nobody should have to ''look at themselve'' just to please others ...stick to your guns i say let the desperate get more desperate not our peoblem

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.”

well said nobody should have to ''look at themselve'' just to please others ...stick to your guns i say let the desperate get more desperate not our peoblem"

This.

Dare I say it the OP seems a bit pushy to me.

We do play with couples, but I presume (like many) wanted to started out and dip our toes in with just a female.

If a single male ever told us we had to “take a look at ourselves” it says more about him than it does a couple. We are all entitled to want what we want and whether that’s fulfilled or not isn’t anyone else’s business.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.”

well said nobody should have to ''look at themselve'' just to please others ...stick to your guns i say let the desperate get more desperate not our peoblem

This.

Dare I say it the OP seems a bit pushy to me.

We do play with couples, but I presume (like many) wanted to started out and dip our toes in with just a female.

If a single male ever told us we had to “take a look at ourselves” it says more about him than it does a couple. We are all entitled to want what we want and whether that’s fulfilled or not isn’t anyone else’s business. "

We agree totally.

It is the single guys who we find unrealistic.

Funny really, but hey ho! !

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

If the spikes in much of Europe are anything to go by, I think clubs may well be closed again here as winter takes hold.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.”

well said nobody should have to ''look at themselve'' just to please others ...stick to your guns i say let the desperate get more desperate not our peoblem

This.

Dare I say it the OP seems a bit pushy to me.

We do play with couples, but I presume (like many) wanted to started out and dip our toes in with just a female.

If a single male ever told us we had to “take a look at ourselves” it says more about him than it does a couple. We are all entitled to want what we want and whether that’s fulfilled or not isn’t anyone else’s business.

We agree totally.

It is the single guys who we find unrealistic.

Funny really, but hey ho! !"

Absolutely.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.”

well said nobody should have to ''look at themselve'' just to please others ...stick to your guns i say let the desperate get more desperate not our peoblem

This.

Dare I say it the OP seems a bit pushy to me.

We do play with couples, but I presume (like many) wanted to started out and dip our toes in with just a female.

If a single male ever told us we had to “take a look at ourselves” it says more about him than it does a couple. We are all entitled to want what we want and whether that’s fulfilled or not isn’t anyone else’s business.

We agree totally.

It is the single guys who we find unrealistic.

Funny really, but hey ho! !"

I think it is the same across many sites, dating ones too, unrealistic expectations and get arsey when you don't answer & they don't get what they want!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

[Removed by poster at 18/11/21 18:02:11]

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if someone has abused you then report the message ?? its that simple then who ever sent the message will be seen too ??

no one should suffer abuse

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I saw a single man with no verifications the other day whose status was genuinely something along the lines of:

“I’m at Tesco Oldham tomorrow morning at 8am having breakfast. Any single women want to meet me and empty my balls?”

Can you imagine the queues of single women for this Romeo?

Jokes aside, we are all on here for a reason and whether it’s realistic expectation or not, people shouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable or like they should lower the bar/shift expectations to get “lucky.” "

Must point out that other well know supermarkets also do breakfasts.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"After being back on here three week have made the decision to just start using clubs again.

Fab is great for talking to people you know but every year just more people coming on here for ego boost or totally unrealistic demands on there profile.

Never seen so many couples just looking for a bi single woman with unverified profiles your odds are worse then a single man on here.

If your list of preferences is as long as your arm have a good look at your self and if a couple both of you and think are we really in the position to get what we're looking for.

"

List of preferences longer than both mine and your arms… not lowering my expectations or standards for any guy on fab.

I’d rather wait for what I am looking for than take a look at myself and change it.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats another thing with us we never tell clubs or anyone in them our fab name never have done never will none of their buisness ...unless we've known them for a very long time ... then its phone numbers and gossip and who to avoid

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/11/21 18:58:59]

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Why would anyone message a club cos they didn’t agree with someone lol!

Did you message their local Chinese and pub too?

I’m confused ha

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why would anyone message a club cos they didn’t agree with someone lol!

Did you message their local Chinese and pub too?

I’m confused ha "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 
 

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

I'm going to message all the op's local takeaways and tell them he's secretly very sweet and a pussy cat, even though I think he tries hard not to be

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
back to top