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How hard is it for genuine men to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's so fucking hard for genuine men to get to know people and get a meet on here because of all the fake shitbag losers. Or am I just doing everything totally wrong? Is my profile that off putting?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It's so fucking hard for genuine men to get to know people and get a meet on here because of all the fake shitbag losers. Or am I just doing everything totally wrong? Is my profile that off putting?"
Your profile is 3 lines long, that may have a bearing on things, im not sure....try a social, they open up a whole world of prospective meets ..good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Social meet here I come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is crap, but many people won;t read even read the generic 3 lines as the negative sweary status will undoutedly put many people off before they get that far.

Do you honestly think your profile makes you stand out in anyway shape or form?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha .you don't beat about the bush. I thought it was shit but just needed someone to tell me. I am new to all this. I am 100%genuine but struggling to express myself in my profile but really looking 4ward to meeting great people on here. I am gona take on board what you've said and raise the bar with a mega profile. X thanks for the honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In your opinion is this any better or OTT?

I am new to all this but 100% genuine. I am More than willing to give my mobile number & send pics that you require when asked, if it helps you believe I am genuine & hopefully more. I don't send cock pics, to help stop you beautiful women from going crazy from all the perfectly angled pictures of men's penises, that make them look massive, but the truth is they haven't got the balls to follow thru with a meet or a clue how to use it. I am an average looking guy with a average sized penis(well iv never had any complaints. 8inch for those who care) looking for NSA FUN. One off 's or regular I don't mind so long as all involved are enjoying it.(which I am sure we will) up until now I am straight but am interested in trying the bi side at my own pace and comfort. I am very out going but sometimes unsure how to start a conversation or think a lot of people are out of my league so send a little wink or a fab to see if I get a response, the green light of interest to start something new. If you like what you see don't be shy send me a message, friend request or even a wink if you can't think of something say to help get the ball rolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In your opinion is this any better or OTT?

I am new to all this but 100% genuine. I am More than willing to give my mobile number & send pics that you require when asked, if it helps you believe I am genuine & hopefully more. I don't send cock pics, to help stop you beautiful women from going crazy from all the perfectly angled pictures of men's penises, that make them look massive, but the truth is they haven't got the balls to follow thru with a meet or a clue how to use it. I am an average looking guy with a average sized penis(well iv never had any complaints. 8inch for those who care) looking for NSA FUN. One off 's or regular I don't mind so long as all involved are enjoying it.(which I am sure we will) up until now I am straight but am interested in trying the bi side at my own pace and comfort. I am very out going but sometimes unsure how to start a conversation or think a lot of people are out of my league so send a little wink or a fab to see if I get a response, the green light of interest to start something new. If you like what you see don't be shy send me a message, friend request or even a wink if you can't think of something say to help get the ball rolling. "

I read the first line.

Forget that you know the word "genuine". It's horribly overused on here and means nothing at all. Do you honestly think people advertise themselves as fake?

Don't create a big lump of text. It's horrible to read. So I didn't. Break it up so it's easier to manage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selling your self on hear isent gonna help , check out other people's profile's and see what detale's they have put about them selvs and then u may notice they sell them selvs on there abit , that maybe why your not getting much attention and other people are , just inprove your profile and im shore u will find your way pall ! Or u can try it your way , so me trying to help maybe a waste of time , but everyone to there own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another tip is to address the issue of can't accomodate there are an abundance of legitimate reasons for this but most will just straight assume u are another cheating bloke. Harsh I no but a very true reality n it can put some people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I can accommodate but was just being cautious about meeting people I don't know at my home.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lose the para about cock pics, it sounds really negative and is unnecessary.

You have a face pic for and avatar and one or two cock pics are forgiven as.long as you have face and body shots.

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

Unfortunatly we genuine guys are practicly ignored, most girls don't bother looking and even less bother with people who haven't been verified by a ton of other girls.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It's so fucking hard for genuine men to get to know people and get a meet on here because of all the fake shitbag losers. Or am I just doing everything totally wrong? Is my profile that off putting?"

running over others probably isn't helping your cause either....

the way I look at it is that fabswingers gives you all the tools to make it work... whether you decide to use them all is up to you...

let me give you an example.....

before posting your rant, how many people who use the forums would have known anything about you.... probably little or none because you have never used them before.....

who's decision is that? no one but yours....

at the end of the day you can use as many or as little of the sites features and the oppotunities that arise from them as you want...

however that final decision lies on your shoulders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha .you don't beat about the bush. I thought it was shit but just needed someone to tell me. I am new to all this. I am 100%genuine but struggling to express myself in my profile but really looking 4ward to meeting great people on here. I am gona take on board what you've said and raise the bar with a mega profile. X thanks for the honesty "

You've been a member for 4 months , so not all that new to this , just keep trying and the new profile should help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha .you don't beat about the bush. I thought it was shit but just needed someone to tell me. I am new to all this. I am 100%genuine but struggling to express myself in my profile but really looking 4ward to meeting great people on here. I am gona take on board what you've said and raise the bar with a mega profile. X thanks for the honesty "

Just totally take the piss on your profile and the forums and just wait for them to message you, I find it a much more effective return on investment than sending a message to an audience of one! I very, very rarely send a message, ain't much to look at and ain't got a massive cock but I'm still fighting meets off with a shitty stick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bert you look like one of the Beastie Boys in the video Sabotage---!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd lose the pic of you with the womens sunglasses, replace the other with pics with you actually smiling might help too.

Loads of women and couples on here seem to find bi sexual \ bi curious men disgusting and or unclean so that will cut your possibilities down for a meet quite a hell of a lot as well.

Advertising yourself free for a "NSA fuck" in the meets section will put many off.

Saying you're looking for some1 to show you the ropes will put a lot of yet again as they won't want to risk a crappy meet if they think you are not experienced.

So after all that you're probably left with a load of straight guys who'd want you to suck'em off behind a bush... maybe.

Also there's probably 1000 men to each woman on here so the women can be as picky as they like and it will probably never bee a fuck fest for single guys unless they appeal sexually to a large audience of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying you're looking for some1 to show you the ropes will put a lot of yet again as they won't want to risk a crappy meet if they think you are not experienced.

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But then on the flip side of this, dont talk yourself up to be the most experienced guy on the planet who is a complete Adonis n will hav us cummin constantly. If You speak to a lot of people especially in these forums, u find in a lot of these cases, personal experience has taught them that these guys are the most disappointing of meets

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