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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Here’s the thing after many years of being into swinging I am now looking for something more. Is it okay to look for a partner that you openly enjoy playing with others or actively encourage straight off the bat? I know we are all here for some reason or another but I would like to find a woman who’s open to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it’s okay… good luck I hope you find that someone

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Couples are on here? It's called mutual respect and been honest and open with the right person! If that's what you are both looking for.

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Cheers bud I guess down the years I have questioned myself for being into this which led me to swinging, I think I would love to find someone that would like to see where it could go together and explore some new experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's alright to be looking for whatever or whom ever you want... Never settle

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It's alright to be looking for whatever or whom ever you want... Never settle "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it not be okay? You're on a site full of couples that swing...

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too. "

I agree just find it’s awkward in “normal dating , relationships” to broach the subject of sharing and enjoying someone playing with others.

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Why would it not be okay? You're on a site full of couples that swing... "

I mean here is Utopia as we all have that common ground but I have found myself wanting to find someone long term and have struggled in mainstream dating.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Why would it not be okay? You're on a site full of couples that swing... "
Hilarious! Can't do the bloody laughing emoji I have forgot haha

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I genuinely asking as I would like to know what you think as couples how did you find it in the beginning, anyone here met here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the most important thing you're looking for in regards to a relationship, I reckon you'll struggle to find it

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Not the most important but it’s something I enjoy and have always had to hold back I understand it would take time to get to know someone build trust etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too. "

This! It's what I'd like

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am looking

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.


"I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too.

This! It's what I'd like "

Me too!

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too.

This! It's what I'd like

Me too! "

What would you like ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes good luck x

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thank you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thank you "

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the thing after many years of being into swinging I am now looking for something more. Is it okay to look for a partner that you openly enjoy playing with others or actively encourage straight off the bat? I know we are all here for some reason or another but I would like to find a woman who’s open to this. "

Of course it is. Good luck and hope you find

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Here’s the thing after many years of being into swinging I am now looking for something more. Is it okay to look for a partner that you openly enjoy playing with others or actively encourage straight off the bat? I know we are all here for some reason or another but I would like to find a woman who’s open to this.

Of course it is. Good luck and hope you find "

Thank you!

How did you guys get into this ?

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Any women looking for a guy

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

If you find the girl of your dreams on here and while your dating and getting to know her she continues to meet other guys for sex without involving you, how would you feel ?

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"If you find the girl of your dreams on here and while your dating and getting to know her she continues to meet other guys for sex without involving you, how would you feel ?"

I guess that’s something we would have to discuss and involvement is key for me to enjoy the experience

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"If you find the girl of your dreams on here and while your dating and getting to know her she continues to meet other guys for sex without involving you, how would you feel ?"

They will talk about it

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Here’s the thing after many years of being into swinging I am now looking for something more. Is it okay to look for a partner that you openly enjoy playing with others or actively encourage straight off the bat? I know we are all here for some reason or another but I would like to find a woman who’s open to this. "

Yes we have done that since we first met, if it's what you both want go for it

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am looking for a female to ideally start a relationship

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Any advice

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

That sounds perfectly ok to me, there’s quite a few ladies on here looking for the same thing, so you never know! We met outside of the swinging world, but were so lucky to quickly find out that we shared the same interest. Good luck for your search and enjoy it Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say fab is a bad place to be looking for a potential partner, you could do much much worse in other places trying to find one.

I think finding a partner through fab is good simply because we are all here and open about our sexualities and what we are into, it saves a lot of the hard work of finding someone who could be sexually compatible and allows you to focus on the other more important aspects of relationships.

What will be challenging is finding someone who is compatible but also is open to developing a relationship. That bit will require a lot of patience, but if you make the effort to develop a rapport with those who are compatible then the time scale becomes less of a problem as itll take a long time to cultivate that rapport into something more meaningful.

It could help you if you state in your profile (i havent looked at yours though) that youre interested in finding someone who is sexually compatible and would like to take it further if possible.

But thats just my 2 cents, hope that helps

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Nothing can beat a loving relationship....this is just a quick fix until miss right comes along.....if she ever does im waiting on platform 4 x

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"That sounds perfectly ok to me, there’s quite a few ladies on here looking for the same thing, so you never know! We met outside of the swinging world, but were so lucky to quickly find out that we shared the same interest. Good luck for your search and enjoy it Miss pc "

Thank you x

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By *orkshirej69 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I wouldnt say fab is a bad place to be looking for a potential partner, you could do much much worse in other places trying to find one.

I think finding a partner through fab is good simply because we are all here and open about our sexualities and what we are into, it saves a lot of the hard work of finding someone who could be sexually compatible and allows you to focus on the other more important aspects of relationships.

What will be challenging is finding someone who is compatible but also is open to developing a relationship. That bit will require a lot of patience, but if you make the effort to develop a rapport with those who are compatible then the time scale becomes less of a problem as itll take a long time to cultivate that rapport into something more meaningful.

It could help you if you state in your profile (i havent looked at yours though) that youre interested in finding someone who is sexually compatible and would like to take it further if possible.

But thats just my 2 cents, hope that helps"

Cheers I appreciate your opinion and thoughts

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.


"I think you can look for anything you like on here. That's the beauty of it.

Many find their happy ever after too.

This! It's what I'd like

Me too!

What would you like ? "

All on my bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's ok. I wish you the best of luck in finding what you are searching for.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

You can absolutely meet people where you have a deeper connection and many go on to have relationships or get married after meeting on fab, its as good a place as any as you already have the one thing open to talk about that were all here for, swinging and kinks etc.

Communication and honesty in what you want is everything though so be straight with those you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it may seems many do meet and fall in love via swinging i think the vast majority of couples have met normally and have been open and honest to lead to swinging nothing wrong with either way as they say you can fall in love anywhere ..

plus look at how many single ladies are on here then do your maths with how many guys then workout how many of those ladies want relationships and then theres your answer if you think swinging is hard then finding a relationship will be a 100X harder ... but not impossible..

good luck op

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