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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

See quite a lot of videos where the guys is slapping the ladies arse while taking her from behind. Interesting dynamic.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I love a spanking sometimes and guys seem to like reddening my bum cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "

If this isn't the place to indulge such a fetish, goodness knows where is.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

If this isn't the place to indulge such a fetish, goodness knows where is."
there is a difference between a spanking that leaves a bottom all red and lightly bruised and a spanking that can leave marks welts and possible blood

If its the latter that someone seeks then this isn't the right place. Try a, more suitable fetish /bdsm site if you are into specialist spanking techniques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"

I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "

I would disagree, I found that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "

There are people into giving and receiving here for sure but there's kink shaming as well. Is that what you meant?

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By *ovelifelovefuntimes OP   Man
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?

I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic. "

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I love giving it, the power exchange and control aspects I find very alluring

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"

It depends what kind of spanking we are talking about.

Doing someone doggy style and slapping their buttocks can be fun, but is a totally different experience to bending someone over your knee, hiking their skirt up and knickers down and then giving them a spanking. Warming their skin, getting it to a nice rosey glow. The sound as skin hits skin. The gentle amalgamation of pleasure and pain. The sounds they make as you build it up.

You either know why you like it or don’t.

There are plenty of things others enjoy that don’t interest me. Its what makes us all unique.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

It's something I certainly love to administer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG, I absolutely love getting a good spanking! It takes a lot of practice to be a good spanker and spankee!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a gf into getting spanked. But it felt weird doing it. I didn't feel I had ownership of giving the spanking. I may have liked it with somebody else.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I like overknee bare bottom spanking

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"OMG, I absolutely love getting a good spanking! It takes a lot of practice to be a good spanker and spankee!!! "

Your right there when I first did it felt odd although arousing and you have to get palm of your hand to spank the skin in the right way....if you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?

I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic. "

I so wish your age restriction was a little higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG, I absolutely love getting a good spanking! It takes a lot of practice to be a good spanker and spankee!!!

Your right there when I first did it felt odd although arousing and you have to get palm of your hand to spank the skin in the right way....if you know what I mean "

Yeah, the last guy that tried to spank me failed miserably and it was so disappointing. It definitely takes a lot of practice to know how to do it so its a turn on and not just painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG, I absolutely love getting a good spanking! It takes a lot of practice to be a good spanker and spankee!!! "

This. And yes it does! I love to spank it is one of my things. Bare hand, strap, cane, paddle, it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a gf into getting spanked. But it felt weird doing it. I didn't feel I had ownership of giving the spanking. I may have liked it with somebody else. "

I think it's all about the dynamic - I have only had spankings from those I felt that dynamic with. A spanking can also be quite different things - given to reconnect, as pure pain/pleasure or as a punishment for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?

I enjoy receiving it because of the power exchange and also the pain and pleasure intertwine. It's highly erotic.

I so wish your age restriction was a little higher."

I prefer younger men in general, so it won't change.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Can’t really explain why I like it but it leaves me on a high for a few days when I’ve had a good impact session

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By *odernIdiotMan
over a year ago

Somewhere Rural

As other people have mentioned, for me, it's all about the dynamic between the spanker and the spanker. I've enjoyed spanking and being spanked by previous partners, depending on the nature of our particular dynamic.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s the dynamic and not just through spanking. That’s just a part of it.

With my vanilla head on then it sounds weird. However when my devil comes out then it’s the most perfectly natural thing in the world to do.

It excites us both…the thought of it, the anticipation before, the spanking…it’s all a build up…C can orgasm from it, the build up, the impact…it’s mentally and physically stimulating.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it but it has to be from the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to impact play by a FB/Master last year and I get so turned on during it! Turns out I'm actually quiet good at it from the veri he left me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand spanking does nothing for me but put a pair of vamp gloves on and I’m over your lap in seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really had a good hard slap so waiting for someone to do it.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Hand spanking does nothing for me but put a pair of vamp gloves on and I’m over your lap in seconds "

Ha ha, they do add a dimension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

light spanking whiles turned on is great fun

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I consider myself as "enhanced vanilla" but I'm very much into this. I'm a spanker but not a 'spankee'. The intense reaction and behavioural response from a sexually-receptive playmate is an extreme turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me. A playful slap on the bum yes, but not a spanking.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

I would disagree, I found that here. "

That’s good. Was referring to my own experience over the years. I’m more at home with it on FL.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

There are people into giving and receiving here for sure but there's kink shaming as well. Is that what you meant?"

Sure. What I meant really, was there are other places that are more heavily populated by spankos and thus better for indulging the fetish.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Have to confess it does nothing for me, either giving or receiving, wondered what folks enjoy about it?"

I had an FB that used to gush when I spanked her. It was that fine line between pleasure and pain that drove her wild

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By *lapit262000Man
over a year ago

Ammanford

You can't beat a good spanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really had a good hard slap so waiting for someone to do it..... "

Update* Been done, liked it, want it again

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

It can be highly erotic if you're both into it, definitely difficult to describe. If it's not your thing then it's not your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really had a good hard slap so waiting for someone to do it.....

Update* Been done, liked it, want it again "

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By *nked_couple13Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago

colchester

It's a big thing for my wife.

She prefers the kinky side.

That is what gets her going and not just basic sex.

Always happy to hear from others who feel likewise

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha "

All of this. Would love to find a guy who can give a good spanking like this.

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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago

colchester


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

All of this. Would love to find a guy who can give a good spanking like this."
So would we. Lol

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By *avinaNWTV/TS
over a year ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

I do love being spanked really gets me going x

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I enjoy being the spanker, but don't like anyone doing it to me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hand, flogger, paddle, occasionally a cane and vampire gloves all make for alternative states.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like being spanked.

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By *lapit262000Man
over a year ago

Ammanford


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha "

Show us instead!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy it, switch play is a big favourite of ours

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By *nked_couple13Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!! "

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha

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By *lapit262000Man
over a year ago

Ammanford


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!!

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha "

Have you tried fetlife.com?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it OTK or TYT there is nothing like having a suitably attired subslut or hotwife over your knee - I think it is the warming sensation of the heat spreading from chastised cheeks to other lower regions that has the desired effect or that’s what some of the women I have spanked have told me - I look for little signs that my hand is having the desired effect it’s fun as part of a role play / my favourite is a bailiff calls on a naughty hotwife who has run up some parking fines lol -

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!!

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha

Have you tried fetlife.com? "

Was going to say the same thing, but didn't think such pointers were A-OK here.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I love a good spanking occasionally... it's not something that I want, more of something I need ...(if that makes any sense)

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By *nked_couple13Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!!

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha

Have you tried fetlife.com? "

Cheers one pic has been accepted, its a couple of days later so not toooo bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!!

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha "

I think it's one of those not-allowed things and people can get very fired up about kink.

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By *nked_couple13Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"We love a good spanking session, the Mrs cums just from being spanked, buts its far from slapping the whilst from behind, it's tied up/down or pinned and role play and words that go with it as well as the teasing and begging, she loves the aftermath but we made the mistake once and showed her friend her arse a few days after and her friend was horrified haha

Show us instead!!!

We tried to upload the pics but they got knocked back it's like a crime scene to be fair haha

I think it's one of those not-allowed things and people can get very fired up about kink. "

Where newish to this site so wasn't sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest. "

It’s hot! Not too hard though

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

It’s hot! Not too hard though "

It's not entirely sexual for me, but I 'get off' on the spankee getting off, so hard, sensual, both ... if it floats your boat, it floats mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it’s a fetish of mine, which is very difficult to explain. You’ll either understand it (ie you also have the spanko gene) or your won’t.

This isn’t really the place to indulge such a fetish to be honest.

It’s hot! Not too hard though

It's not entirely sexual for me, but I 'get off' on the spankee getting off, so hard, sensual, both ... if it floats your boat, it floats mine. "

I get that

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I love getting a good bare bottom spanking but no longer have anyone to give me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years back my much younger partner of the time loved being spanked bare hand, paddle & riding crop! Nothing to cause any scaring or done to aggressively, just gentle to firm. She loved it & would get soaking wet.

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