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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many have had to walk away during a meet because something doesn't sit right ? And how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh following with interest …

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes I have after a social turned into something I didn’t want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once guy was so creepy

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yes something went wrong so I walked away,

idiot now banned and blocked, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm always prepared to though and would have no qualms about doing it if something wasn't right... but I spend so long making sure we're gonna be hot as hell together when we meet that I haven't had to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a scatty girl in London. Off her nutt nutt and she demanded more expensive drinks & that I pay for them. And the hotel bill for over £100 per night.

When I said No! .a stomp was thrown Big time.

I just walked off to my car and drove away.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

I walked away the minute we met as he was 10years+ older and 6inches shorter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked away the minute we met as he was 10years+ older and 6inches shorter."

I can understand that. He has obviously lied, what else is he hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one social were we went to meet a woman. She came straight from mucking her horses out not smelling great and not looking like her pics. Not to be horrible we stayed for 2 drinks before a sharp exit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had one social were we went to meet a woman. She came straight from mucking her horses out not smelling great and not looking like her pics. Not to be horrible we stayed for 2 drinks before a sharp exit."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had one social were we went to meet a woman. She came straight from mucking her horses out not smelling great and not looking like her pics. Not to be horrible we stayed for 2 drinks before a sharp exit."

Mucking out her horses ! Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes something went wrong so I walked away,

idiot now banned and blocked, simples."

Please elaborate?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've walked away from socials more than follow-up meets, but over the years on different sites I have walked away once at a guy's house and twice have had to ask someone to leave my flat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've walked away from one meet

A couple who I met early on in my swinging adventure the house they were in was rancid when I turned up

We chatted for a bit but made up an excuse to leave

Untidy homes are ok but this place smelt of piss

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Several times, but socials always because of the above reason..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never walked away from a social meet. I've always maybe stayed for a few drinks before I've left.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Yes, when we all met at a pub, with their kids! We chatted for a few minutes.

Then we're surprised when we didn't want to come back to play " the kids will play in the garden"!

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Went to a woman’s house for a meet and she had scruffs on, kids running around and was sat watching Eastenders

Didn’t mind the scruffs or kids but not Eastenders so turned around and legged it sharpish

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Lol I've left before as soon as the guy pulled up & started talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the only times I’ve felt like leaving and it becoming awkward as I’d never had to do it before, they actually beat me to it! I hope the look of relief on my face wasn’t too obvious. They’d had a bit too much to drink (and other things) and felt a little worse for wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left meets before mainly because the people sent through very old pics and look alot different in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep weve walked away from many mostly people lying about age or looking nothing like pics a commom one is b.o or not clean ...and stopped meets halfway thro one guy bit my tit so hard he broke the skin and left teeth marks deep had to do every thing that night to hide from hubs until we got home as i know he would have gone mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Went to a woman’s house for a meet and she had scruffs on, kids running around and was sat watching Eastenders

Didn’t mind the scruffs or kids but not Eastenders so turned around and legged it sharpish "

Had similar ish, I worry then theyl cry all sorts when left. Once had a woman that started crying when we were talking. She couldn't make eye contact. Strange. I was fucking terrified she was gonna go to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had to walk away from a meet yet, as I do a lot of groundwork before meeting, pics and a social first everytime.

I have walked away from a social though, as old pics were clearly used, so I just got back in the car and left the pub.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We walked away from a couple who woman was so d*unk she could hardly stand, and he had missing front teeth!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I have, on a couple of occasions...

....one was an early hours visit to a woman in London - her flat was like a tip, with dirty plates on the coffee table, etc., and she was quite clearly unwashed despite having had about an hour to have tidied up a bit and taken a shower while I was on my way...

....I was 'saved by the bell' when she took a phone call from what was apparently another prospective playmate - when she went into the kitchen talking to him, I went down the hall and out the door...

....another was also an early hours visit, where the front door was left on the latch for me to let myself in - on arrival, I got no response to calling out on entering, and when I went upstairs I found her sprawled out naked on the bed alongside an empty wine glass and bottle...

....on rousing her, she was apparently still up for it, as she immediately grabbed for my crotch and fumbled to unzip and unbutton my jeans - she was quite obviously out of it, however, and all she got from me was a glass of water before I headed back out the door, making sure it was firmly locked behind me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve met folk for flirty social only meets and walked away, not least because this was the original plan but also because there wasn’t a spark worthy of another meet. Each has been relaxed and friendly though and no hard feelings because the meeting itself is horny and exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times.

Always meet for a social first, and if no attraction over a coffee/drink then there will not be a second meet.

Have also had the guy not wanting to meet again after a social.

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

Three times all social meets and all couples.

First was she clearly didn't want to be there and was like a scared rabbit. Later found out he had been using her phone and was pretending to be her.

Next was a couple that were just "odd" and lived in a caravan.

Finally a woman that was so pissed she was embarrassing.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Once told a guy to leave

Once the guy was that nervous he left

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Twice times from socials, but that's why I have socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years I have had 3 thanks but no thanks. I walked once on a woman who was nothing like her profile; once a couple decided I wasn't for them... I reckon they weren't for swinging at all! And once I said no when something didnt seem right....I felt I was being set up somehow. But a very small percentage compared to the no shows!

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