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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not a brand new profile on here but relatively new compared with most of you on here. I think it’s normal that lads have to try harder on this site than ladies do. I put it down to girls being spoiled for choice in terms of men to women ratio. Not only that but girls want to know you’re meet verified, which I understand completely because there are a lot of nutters about and you need to be sure you’re not putting yourself at risk. So I’m thinking it’s difficult to establish yourself as a new profile because you will have no comments published that girls can reference and therefore would be reluctant to meet because there is nothing there to reassure them that it’s safe. There must be other guys that have had this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only as difficult as you make it for yourself.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I agree it is difficult and that is why engaging in forum chat, attending clubs and socials is the best way forward for single men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You can genuinely be yourself and hope that’s enough but from a women’s point of view they want to feel 100% safe. Most of us lads feel confident we can look after ourselves if you put yourself in a situation and there was a chance it could become dangerous, plus it’s unlikely To happen to a dude but a female going to meet a stranger from the internet alone is risky IMO

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

That was a difficult title to get my head around…

Look, guys just have to accept that part of the process is putting themselves out there over snd over again without getting anything back. It’s the way the cookie crumbles. Put your big boy pants on and suck it up darlings. (To all the butt hurt guys who give every other decent guy a shit name)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure where that came from, was just making an observation I’m not on here to bitch about it. Just saying I understand why females have to be extra careful, but the other side of the coin is that it has proved difficult to gain trust when you’re a stranger that has sent a message on the internet

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other


"Not sure where that came from, was just making an observation I’m not on here to bitch about it. Just saying I understand why females have to be extra careful, but the other side of the coin is that it has proved difficult to gain trust when you’re a stranger that has sent a message on the internet "

Don’t be sensitive - it certainly wasn’t aimed at you, it was a generalisation of what we all know does and should happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I wasn’t sure what you were getting at. Just came to the conclusion as a lad it’s not that easy because from the POV of a girl on here, they have no idea who you are

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By *rcasual84Man
over a year ago

derbyshire

I was literally just saying the same thing to someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not a brand new profile on here but relatively new compared with most of you on here. I think it’s normal that lads have to try harder on this site than ladies do. I put it down to girls being spoiled for choice in terms of men to women ratio. Not only that but girls want to know you’re meet verified, which I understand completely because there are a lot of nutters about and you need to be sure you’re not putting yourself at risk. So I’m thinking it’s difficult to establish yourself as a new profile because you will have no comments published that girls can reference and therefore would be reluctant to meet because there is nothing there to reassure them that it’s safe. There must be other guys that have had this problem "

You don’t have any visible public photo so that’s your first obstacle. You won’t have any women wanting to approach you.

Second, your profile goes too head on into how you want to dominate a woman. And I think that can be off putting to them, as it’s the kind of thing you need to build trust with someone to explore.

I don’t mean those as criticisms, just suggestions as to why you might be finding it difficult

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