FabSwingers.com forum: Slow, intimate sex

By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d find it boring. Sorry! Hard and fast is my preferred method.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I’d find it boring. Sorry! Hard and fast is my preferred method."

No apology required! Everyone is different and there's nothing wrong with hard and fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you have had this on a meet? I'm talking holding each other close, long, lingering kisses... just basically taking the time to enjoy every minute, and constantly showing your partner how much you're enjoying them.

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Yes indeed for me its the best, but it rarely happens on Fab meets due to natural boundaries. This kind of sex creates a more intimate connection than most swingers are looking for i think.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters.

Yes indeed for me its the best, but it rarely happens on Fab meets due to natural boundaries. This kind of sex creates a more intimate connection than most swingers are looking for i think."

Yeah I had a feeling it wouldn't be the norm. It usually develops over time, but I've been lucky before and clicked with someone early like this.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We done this on our early meets…I showed C that slow sensual sex brings out earth shattering orgasms, with the right connection

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Not from fab ever- but it is my preference to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a meet with both. 121 with a guy. Hard, fast, passionate sex with cuddles and affection in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it both ways especially kissing and getting to know the opposite Body feeling up and down all the curves and slowly taking clothes off and then nice and gently have some foreplay with touching kissing and nice soft sex just getting all the right areas but ghem I love a good hard fuck too give it so hard grabbing and holding on for dear pleasure I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 can follow the other. A partner who can do both is mindblowing for me!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"1 can follow the other. A partner who can do both is mindblowing for me!

I completely agree, variety adds to the excitement

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

So sexy!! Love it.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Me always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This photo is IT with my FWB! sensual, gentle, caring.. and sooo passionate off camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I love this sort of thing but yeah, is rare with NSA. Still, it you work up to the meet and set it out and both of you are into it, it can happen.

I prefer long daytime sessions for this sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always a time and place for slow and sensual and yes, I've had that from being on here.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Intimate and sensual for me please .

For anonymous sex … I have a wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, I always mention I prefer slow, passionate and sensual sex with lots of teasing foreplay

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By *aughtynick000Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

Intimate slow passionate sex with lots of kissing and fore play is amazing. Really get to know and explore each other.

Hard fast sex is good too in the right circumstances

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By *ackFromTheDead2Man
over a year ago

London/Surrey

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Love this slow 1s but I sometimes get too carried away & do love bites Which isn't ideal loool

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

Why can't you have both

With the best will in the world even when we were 18 going at it like rabbits for 3 or 4 hours wasn't really realistic.

So some frantic wild hard and fast sex

Then resting together kissing cuddling getting your breath back to start again

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I dream of a meet like this. All romantic lovemaking with lots of eye contact and kissing. Making me feel like Im his girl and hes my man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intimate and sensual for me please .

For anonymous sex … I have a wand

Doesn't your wand have a name then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have, I always mention I prefer slow, passionate and sensual sex with lots of teasing foreplay "

Totally agree, else it is just a posh wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But i always cum faster when I’m being rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Something I enjoy lately. The connection has to be right though. Don't see myself enjoying it with just anyone.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."
I think more and more guys are looking for this currently. I avoid this by not even doing 121 now. But your not on your own for looking for it. It's not for me as I am only after group fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dream of a meet like this. All romantic lovemaking with lots of eye contact and kissing. Making me feel like Im his girl and hes my man. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dream of a meet like this. All romantic lovemaking with lots of eye contact and kissing. Making me feel like Im his girl and hes my man. "

The right guy will make you feel like that and I hope your paths cross soon x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds more like dating than swinging - which is fine if that's what you want, but it's certainly not for me. I have all the closeness and romance I need with my partner. I swing to satisfy my sexual fantasies."

I have my Sir for the dating/boyfriend closeness, but there's another guy I meet from here who I have a level of closeness and intimacy with as well. Out of everyone I've meet, it's only those two I'm like that with.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Taunton

I’m with you op .., slow sensual approach for me wham bam thanks see you later don’t leave me fulfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love it slow and sensual but sometimes I also just need to be fucked hard.

I'm greedy and want both!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yes I love the intimacy and passion of that kind of sex. That’s usually the meet before the one where you fuck the hell out of each other and break some furniture

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Yes I love the intimacy and passion of that kind of sex. That’s usually the meet before the one where you fuck the hell out of each other and break some furniture

Love it. I find that slow and sensual often builds to frantic fucking in the same meet

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I’m with you op .., slow sensual approach for me wham bam thanks see you later don’t leave me fulfilled "

Yeah, I find sometimes myself prolonging the sex and foreplay as I enjoy it so much I don't want it to end.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Oh you only have 2 guys for this?? Poor girl

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Yes. Something I enjoy lately. The connection has to be right though. Don't see myself enjoying it with just anyone."

Yeah you can't do it with someone who you don't click in that way with. There has to be real chemistry

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Why can't you have both

With the best will in the world even when we were 18 going at it like rabbits for 3 or 4 hours wasn't really realistic.

So some frantic wild hard and fast sex

Then resting together kissing cuddling getting your breath back to start again

You can have both. ALL SEX MATTERS!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Yeah, I love this sort of thing but yeah, is rare with NSA. Still, it you work up to the meet and set it out and both of you are into it, it can happen.

I prefer long daytime sessions for this sort of thing."

Yeah it's possible, when I was here before I actually arranged a meet with this in mind. We ended up having a very intimate encounter in a club.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes with the female from a couple, we had a deep connection and so often used to play like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you only have 2 guys for this?? Poor girl

I know, it's a sad life

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Is there just one way? I think it varies on the situation. One fab part of this lifestyle is that be so different from one moment to another. It is being able to read the situation and what instinctively right. That variation makes this lifestyle so attractive and fun.

NB Nothing should be taken too seriously or you lose the fun and the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood and who your with really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both! Sometimes only slow and sensual will do and other times I just wanna get gangbanged x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer slow and sensual but have discovered a lot of wives won't kiss you as the stranger, which detracts a bit from the idea. Nice to start slow and end more robustly.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Sloppy sex is not for me and certainly don't expect or want it on here. In fact it would put me off someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh yessss please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Sounds great to me

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Tbh this is the type of encounter I'm aching for. Engaging feeling, intimacy and the body.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

There’s a place for both. Sex is about variety

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Variety is the spice of life! Great sex is more about the journey than the destination, however great the latter is! Taking time is an essential ingredient. The Wham Bam Thank you Maam milkman method may be satisfying and even necessary when time pressures are at play but it is not a recipe for the most fulfilling experience. Taking the time to be slow can really enhance things... and I’m not just saying that because I’m an old codger over 25!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both, only had one that was slow and intense though. Licking, sucking, stroking and very sensual kissing for over an hour before he put his cock in me and then very slow passionate sex where our tongues rarely left each others mouth.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters.

Sloppy sex is not for me and certainly don't expect or want it on here. In fact it would put me off someone."

Sloppy sex isn't for me either!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I like both, only had one that was slow and intense though. Licking, sucking, stroking and very sensual kissing for over an hour before he put his cock in me and then very slow passionate sex where our tongues rarely left each others mouth."

This sounds pretty perfect

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

It’s the only way for me.....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed.

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

I find the majority of my private (non club) meets are of the very intimate sensual erotic variety. Whereas most of my club meets are a little feisty and frantic!

It's good to mix it up. The best times are the intense sensual sessions before going to a club night. Fucking like a whore at the club. Then back to the snugglefucks when back at the hotel

I think a lot of people confuse intimacy with 'feelings'. It doesn't work like that. They are very separate entities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Really enjoy it. Being horny and rampant is great but so is being close and comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife had slow intimate sex with a guy off fab on friday she said it was the best ever but she does like hard and fast as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right people, I fucking love it!

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By *uicypeaches77Couple
over a year ago

Torquay

"Intimate and sensual for me please .

For anonymous sex … I have a wand

Doesn't your wand have a name then?

Wanda ?

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

heathrow

Like a bit of both. I find that the slow, soft, highly charged, intimate stuff only come once you have a good connection and sometimes not even then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been lucky enough to experience this getting totally lost in each other.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed."

That's pretty good going for a first meet! I remember mine (about 13 years ago) being with a woman I wasn't super attracted to, but I was a pleaser and went through with it because I was too awkward to say no. I have grown a lot since then!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I’ve been lucky enough to experience this getting totally lost in each other. "

It's pretty special isn't it!

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Not on a first time meet but after a few .. possibly the most kind blowing sex ever, slow sensual just the thought has my toes twinging

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, a long time ago..

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the way my wife likes it with her lover

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By *obby210Man
over a year ago

Ashford

I love this kind of sex with the right person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

I prefer this over wham bam. Though you've really gotta be careful you don't catch the feels if you're repeat meeting, gotta constantly tell yourself it's just sex.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I think a lot of people confuse intimacy with 'feelings'. It doesn't work like that. They are very separate entities.

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Yes and No.

I prescribe to this type of tactile sex and complement it with the hard and intense sex plus any subtle kink.

I'm looking for feelings and intimacy which are both intrinsically linked. That doesn't mean I'm looking for romance and relationships and binding love.

Because without "feelings" and "intimacy" the sex is hollow, mechanical and transactional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's dependent on mood and setting. If it's first thing in morning before work you might want a quickie before a shower. At night I tend to be more sensual and not mindful of time

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It may sound soppy, but I've found that when the connection is right, these can be the most exciting and fulfilling types of encounters."

Not had sex in a very very long time. I'd probably bust a nut as soon as I'm in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

We should play together....make up for lost time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

We should play together....make up for lost time

Lol sorry but you're out of age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

Wow kitty I love that. Sorry you've not felt that intimacy for a long time.

Maybe have a chat if you're interested? X

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

We should play together....make up for lost time

Lol sorry but you're out of age range

So I am! I'd happily bribe you with wine, chocolate and flowers if you nudged the age limit....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed.

Yeah, he spoilt me, set the bar very high!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Yes, my first proper meet was a whole afternoon of just that. I've never felt so relaxed.

Yeah, he spoilt me, set the bar very high!"

I hope the rest of your meets haven't been a letdown in comparison!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I prefer passionate rwmpant horny fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally it's not something I'd look for from here but I do meet seni regularly with a guy from fab that gives me exactly that and it's nice to have a different dynamic sometimes.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

There is most deafly a time and a place for that. But most importantly I think it’s mood depending

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

Same as me I like the sound of that lol

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just love it this way yes. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy connection of minds is needed for intimacy. I like intimacy, some people don’t. Go figure.

It’s not soppy op, it can be intense and fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love slow and intimate sex even though it's been a long time since the last time I had sex

We should play together....make up for lost time

Lol sorry but you're out of age range

So I am! I'd happily bribe you with wine, chocolate and flowers if you nudged the age limit....

Flattery will get you nowhere

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

"I’d find it boring. Sorry! Hard and fast is my preferred method."

My kind of fab meet

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nearly all of my vanilla meets are like this

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Very much my preference and have had a few meets been very sensual, the build up and time pleasing each other is the best x

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Love sensual pleasure either with female or a guy it’s very intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the mood and moment your in can dictate the sex your going to have

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

Hard, fast and dirty is the way to go

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By *adgetgeek69Man
over a year ago

barnsley

This is my preferred option , absolutely get a huge kick out of slowly teasing the woman and getting her more and more turned on with sensual kissing and touching . Possibly even a blind fold ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer slow, sensual and intimate sex, sure ill fuck you silly hard and fast if thats what you want and it can be fun, but imo taking the time to find their buttons, building up the sensations until youre absolutely bursting and POP! Now thats a lot of fun

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Hard, fast and dirty is the way to go

Definitely, my kinda woman

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Nearly all of my vanilla meets are like this"

Do they also come with a sprinkling of hundreds and thousands and a Flake?

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