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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey thought I would ask as why not I regularly last easy 45 mins to 90 mins and onwards. Not including foreplay

So I am wondering is that to much as so sometimes I get tired after awhile lol and dont even arrive and if in the mood I happily want to go again a few more times.

So for you ladies out there is this a good or bad thing and any dudes also like this and find it frustrating as sometimes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are great then that isn't long enough...if not then it's 45min too long at least

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Some times a quick passionate fuck is good, other times to go as long as we can both continue is good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey thought I would ask as why not I regularly last easy 45 mins to 90 mins and onwards. Not including foreplay

So I am wondering is that to much as so sometimes I get tired after awhile lol and dont even arrive and if in the mood I happily want to go again a few more times.

So for you ladies out there is this a good or bad thing and any dudes also like this and find it frustrating as sometimes I do

"

Easy 45 mins ????

Yeah I’m best staying out of this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly enough, I always last longer when I've had a beer.

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By *ust MikeMan
over a year ago

Yaxley

I can only offer 5 mins…but at least 2 of those minutes will be great

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Too long for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oddly enough, I always last longer when I've had a beer."

Yeah there are other things that can effect that tend to notice if I drink to much its longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some times a quick passionate fuck is good, other times to go as long as we can both continue is good too "

Oh i get that sometimes I just can't take anymore lol and I give in so I have had it in the past where she's trying to get me to cum and I am like sorry definitely not happening but like it's not you it's me kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are great then that isn't long enough...if not then it's 45min too long at least "

Aha I get that luckily no complaints well jot to my face lol

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I never want it to end

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never want it to end

R"

Aha so not a bad thing I know everyone is different

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I never want it to end

R

Aha so not a bad thing I know everyone is different "

Not for me. If you crave that person and what they are doing makes you crave them more there is no time limit on that. If you think up to 30 mins is enough then there is something missing in my eyes

R

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I would be bored to death.

Think foreplay should be intense and exquisite.

Humping for hours doesn’t for fill that in my head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never want it to end

R

Aha so not a bad thing I know everyone is different

Not for me. If you crave that person and what they are doing makes you crave them more there is no time limit on that. If you think up to 30 mins is enough then there is something missing in my eyes

R"

Oh I get that been with a few ladies where time never seems to end and it's mind blowing I was just meaning on average I can last quite long, so would that be a turn off etc

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x"

Oh I get that and thank god I don't go limp lol I would die just find it frustrating sometime be cool to see if any other dudes like this tho

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Too long for me, I'd rather multiple short sessions, with breaks rather than going at it for that amount of time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x"

Ha ha, totally agree, if you are a limp dick, as you implied, there isn’t enough intensity in the play, well in my head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x

Ha ha, totally agree, if you are a limp dick, as you implied, there isn’t enough intensity in the play, well in my head."

Oh sorry if I implied that not what I meant

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x

Ha ha, totally agree, if you are a limp dick, as you implied, there isn’t enough intensity in the play, well in my head.

Oh sorry if I implied that not what I meant "
Sorry, lost me at “if I implied” and you didn’t know. Just different perspectives, difference is what make the difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If those 45 to 90 mins are hard then great, quite boring when it is just a limp cock which won't ejaculate x

Ha ha, totally agree, if you are a limp dick, as you implied, there isn’t enough intensity in the play, well in my head.

Oh sorry if I implied that not what I meant Sorry, lost me at “if I implied” and you didn’t know. Just different perspectives, difference is what make the difference.

I am an idiot I thought you replied to me you was just replying aha lol maybe it's my bed time been a long day lol

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

I find that I last an extremely long time. Sometimes we’ll over an hour and a half, it’s great especially if we are both enjoying each other but sometimes it can be a little bit inconvenient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that I last an extremely long time. Sometimes we’ll over an hour and a half, it’s great especially if we are both enjoying each other but sometimes it can be a little bit inconvenient "

Aha my man get its I mean it's pleasurable all the way through but sometimes its like come onnnnn aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton


"I find that I last an extremely long time. Sometimes we’ll over an hour and a half, it’s great especially if we are both enjoying each other but sometimes it can be a little bit inconvenient

Aha my man get its I mean it's pleasurable all the way through but sometimes its like come onnnnn aha "

Exactly, like it really depends on what we are both in the mood for sometimes it can be amazing having passionate sex for hours other times it’s like “hurry the fuck up” haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that I last an extremely long time. Sometimes we’ll over an hour and a half, it’s great especially if we are both enjoying each other but sometimes it can be a little bit inconvenient

Aha my man get its I mean it's pleasurable all the way through but sometimes its like come onnnnn aha

Exactly, like it really depends on what we are both in the mood for sometimes it can be amazing having passionate sex for hours other times it’s like “hurry the fuck up” haha"

Oh it's good to know I am not the only one out there tell you what don't drink gin and lots of it as sometimes it just goes on - she will love it however you will be dying lol

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Well you should organise a reverse gangbang I.e. 90mins split in to 15mins x 6 girls let's say, great cardio workout as well and not too much for any one woman. Assuming you know what you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you should organise a reverse gangbang I.e. 90mins split in to 15mins x 6 girls let's say, great cardio workout as well and not too much for any one woman. Assuming you know what you are doing. "

Oh I would love most ladies I have entertained is 3 and that was only once which was major fun lol aha maybe that is something to put on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, yeah, too long. I used to see someone who was literally all night long and could just repeat and repeat. Seemed like a jackpot at first, but it just got tedious as I'm more likely to cum through through foreplay/oral.

Does it just take you a long time to cum or do you try delay for the woman as it's good to feel out whether that's what she wants?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I often like it when guys cum quickly - it means I turned them on. 45 minutes and I'd think I was doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, yeah, too long. I used to see someone who was literally all night long and could just repeat and repeat. Seemed like a jackpot at first, but it just got tedious as I'm more likely to cum through through foreplay/oral.

Does it just take you a long time to cum or do you try delay for the woman as it's good to feel out whether that's what she wants? "

Honestly depends on mood but just takes a lot to get me going and let's say its suprisingly quicker than average its rare I am satisfied as usually I need a few rounds - ladies always seem happy tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often like it when guys cum quickly - it means I turned them on. 45 minutes and I'd think I was doing something wrong. "

I have had this twice In my life so far and they got it after I explained definitely not them lol

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"I often like it when guys cum quickly - it means I turned them on. 45 minutes and I'd think I was doing something wrong. "

This is the problem sometimes. Personally, if I'm enjoying the sex, I don't want it to end, so I've been known to keep going over an hour. However, I like to communicate with my partner, and if she's ready to finish then I'll happily cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...with a nutcracker tight arsehole, I doubt very much you’d last 45-90mins...

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"...with a nutcracker tight arsehole, I doubt very much you’d last 45-90mins... "

Lol, the challenge has been set, OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...with a nutcracker tight arsehole, I doubt very much you’d last 45-90mins... "

Aha oh my lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...with a nutcracker tight arsehole, I doubt very much you’d last 45-90mins...

Lol, the challenge has been set, OP "

Always love a challenge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’m game boys, cum and say hi

winner takes all

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By *ndreisabelCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Hey thought I would ask as why not I regularly last easy 45 mins to 90 mins and onwards. Not including foreplay

So I am wondering is that to much as so sometimes I get tired after awhile lol and dont even arrive and if in the mood I happily want to go again a few more times.

So for you ladies out there is this a good or bad thing and any dudes also like this and find it frustrating as sometimes I do

"

Wat too long for me. It just gets boring, doesn't matter how good you are. But there are definitely women that enjoy that.

Isabel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lucky if i last 30 minutes but i have a great reload time. Ive had partners say that can be too long as they start to get a little sore.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Sorry but if you are pounding away for 45 mins you are doing something wrong. I would be contemplating my list of chores for the next day or maybe my 5 year plan.

I'm all for long sessions just not boring ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to self - proof read before posting.

I'm with Sassy on this. I'd be bored; or sore, in that 45 minutes.

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Love long sessions. I've been up all night before. Love guys with stamina x,

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton


"For me, yeah, too long. I used to see someone who was literally all night long and could just repeat and repeat. Seemed like a jackpot at first, but it just got tedious as I'm more likely to cum through through foreplay/oral.

Does it just take you a long time to cum or do you try delay for the woman as it's good to feel out whether that's what she wants? "

It just genuinely takes me that long to cum as I’ve said previously it a blessing and a curse more so the curse I find

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Do you long timers not get friction burns lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you offer half time or full time oranges after 90 minutes?

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Was at a club once and this guy went for like 30 mins and my ex was in the room watching and I’m looking at him like had enough now is he gonna fucking finish

Like it stopped feeling good 15 mins ago and I just faked a load moan and he was like oh did you cum I was like uh yeah

Then got dressed within seconds and left him to finish himself

Prettyyyyy sure he took viagra previous as he told me he could last for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester

Love a long session... as long as I know the guy cab to long and it's not just cos he's not turned on! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you long timers not get friction burns lol"

Not that I have noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a long session... as long as I know the guy cab to long and it's not just cos he's not turned on! Lol"

Oh for me I am still really turned on, however tbh I am a people pleaser so I am happy for the lady to get hers till she's done as that is still very exciting to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, I have had meets that were wrapped up in a few hours and the longest we were going at it for about 7-8 hours. It's all about what works for both of you, as long as you both have a good time that's all that matters.

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

If you got plenty of time for it then why not

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

This really depends on whether she can cum and cum and cum or whether she is a one and done. Weve met both so both types do exist

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Do you offer half time or full time oranges after 90 minutes? "

And for that matter, do you change ends at 45 mins in?

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By *oBeRodeMan
over a year ago

clifton ish

About 8-9” lol it’s been too long for some and lost in others

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Would far rather have three passionate intense 20 minute sessions over a 2-3 hour period than bang away for 45-90 mins non stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree with this, passion duration everytime

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Depends on the person, I have had meets that were wrapped up in a few hours and the longest we were going at it for about 7-8 hours. It's all about what works for both of you, as long as you both have a good time that's all that matters."

You know we should x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it all depends on the lady, I’ve had women who live to go for hours and then women who enjoy shorter sessions as they start to get sore if it’s too long.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Sometimes it's a quick fuck in the shower or bent over the kitchen table. Other times it's an hour or so in bed with a long lazy foreplay and a few deep orgasms Depends on the mood and time available.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Sometimes it's a quick fuck in the shower or bent over the kitchen table. Other times it's an hour or so in bed with a long lazy foreplay and a few deep orgasms Depends on the mood and time available. "

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Hey thought I would ask as why not I regularly last easy 45 mins to 90 mins and onwards. Not including foreplay

So I am wondering is that to much as so sometimes I get tired after awhile lol and dont even arrive and if in the mood I happily want to go again a few more times.

So for you ladies out there is this a good or bad thing and any dudes also like this and find it frustrating as sometimes I do

"

Hey Op you're not alone, I find it hard to actually achieve an orgasm and after an hour of fucking (not including foreplay) I'm usually too tired to carry on.

But serious answer, I'm happy the other person has had a few orgasms and the experience on the whole is great, but I would like one too!

I think for me personally I might be thinking too much in my head, as I feel like not only have I let myself down, but also feel like I've unintentionally insulted the other person by not achieving an orgasm.

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