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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need to cum to enjoy sex?..

Personally I don't but bonus if I do. Also met a few guys who say they can't cum but enjoy the physicality....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally can’t help it!

I’d be fine if I didn’t though as I just love the feeling of intimacy anyway

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

No, I don't need to.

In fact sometimes I cum too early and can't always cum again and so it tapers off the excitement for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I generally can’t help it!

I’d be fine if I didn’t though as I just love the feeling of intimacy anyway "

Absolutely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the least. I’d like to be able to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I would be disappointed if I didn't cum. I really like it and for me it's part of fantastic sex. And that's what I'm here for after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe you don't need to, don't get me wrong it's a great feeling if you do but there's been times where I haven't and I didn't mind. Blue balls is the out come but she's always sorted it out after which feels so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not important for me. I enjoy touch, connection, chemistry, seeing the other person react and just the general sensations of everything it involves. The feeling of being desired is probably the high for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not important for me. I enjoy touch, connection, chemistry, seeing the other person react and just the general sensations of everything it involves. The feeling of being desired is probably the high for me. "
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By *addynLouCouple
over a year ago

Mad House

It's not a problem if I don't. It's the experience & connection that thrill me most...Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This maybe sounds stupid but i prefer the girl to cum 1st x obviously i love to cum too but it's not like the b all and end all for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I don't need to.

In fact sometimes I cum too early and can't always cum again and so it tapers off the excitement for me.

Brilliant comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger - was essential, not so now, even though I'm confident I could probably cum every time, sometimes I'm content to leave it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I do but then I'm really orgasmic and cum very easily.

Mr loves sex and doesn't have to cum to enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, can quite happily go down on a lady, lick and play until she's satisfied and call it a day at that!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I like reciprocity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I feel it's always a good bonus ( personally, most of the time, I can't help it

) and also important to the other person you're with, even if for self esteem reasons sometimes.

For example, I like making women cum and feel better about myself because of it, and same thing in reverse, where women have felt very self conscious that I didn't cum even though they had been amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I feel it's always a good bonus ( personally, most of the time, I can't help it

) and also important to the other person you're with, even if for self esteem reasons sometimes.

I definitely don’t need to cum to enjoy sex, it’s always fun do or don’t. But I do get what you’re staying about self esteem. I wouldn’t feel great if I had not helped my partner to orgasm and I have been in the situation where a partner has been self conscious that I didn’t even though the sex was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I’m always involved in play I don’t need to cum during a meet. I enjoy the visuals as much if not more than the physical side of it all. When it’s only us I usually like to cum.

Mr NE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although I’m always involved in play I don’t need to cum during a meet. I enjoy the visuals as much if not more than the physical side of it all. When it’s only us I usually like to cum.

Mr NE "

Mrs NE is the opposite though. If she didn’t cum on a meet it would be the first thing we did when we got home. When it’s just the 2 of us she likes the intimacy as well as the pleasure so cumming is not always essential

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I can't anyway but I'm not fuss. As long as we both enjoying ourselves then why not

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Not a must at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can enjoy sex without cumming, it doesn't often happen but it's not a problem if it does.

The wife must be one of the easiest people in the world to cum so it's never going to be an issue for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to. I enjoy the process and prefer when I don't cum early in the session as then it's almost a "game over" for a little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are exploring Tantric sex as a couple, for men they teach that and orgasm can occur without ejaculating. A stronger full body orgasm can be achieved and allow you to keep your sexual energy to go again if done correctly. Breathing, connection and slow build up is the key... I think? Anyone experienced this?

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I’m all about the person I’m having sex with enjoying themselves and cumming.

It really turns me on watching and feeling her cum so that’s my enjoyment....me cumming towards the end is a great feeling but is also for her pleasure.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"We are exploring Tantric sex as a couple, for men they teach that and orgasm can occur without ejaculating. A stronger full body orgasm can be achieved and allow you to keep your sexual energy to go again if done correctly. Breathing, connection and slow build up is the key... I think? Anyone experienced this? "

Yes we have

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I (Bry) don't need to - spent all my life NOT being able to cum from anything other than wanking myself (with the people that have made me cum by wanking me countable on one hand!) so have learned to get enjoyment from everything else.

Char on the other hand....she's not had sex unless shesx cum four times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum with meets. Sex is enjoyable without orgasms.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like to cum because otherwise I remain horny after the play is over and get frustrated.

Much more than that though I love others to cum, especially if I had been involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t necessarily need to cum to have enjoyed the sex. The mental and physical sensations are a huge turn on as they are. That said, cunning does feel f’kin awesome so if I get there as well, winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more enjoyment out of pleasuring someone than being pleasured myself. Yes I do love cumming really hard but I’ll cum even harder if I’ve heard a woman moaning for the last couple of hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Orgasms used to hurt so I can enjoy sex without the need to 'come'.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

It's not the be all and end all for me

I like to enjoy sex over a few hours so being able not to cum to early is the trick for me

If it happens great if it dosnt happen as long as my partner is left satisfied I'm equally as happy

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester

"I don't need to. I enjoy the process and prefer when I don't cum early in the session as then it's almost a "game over" for a little while."

Absolutely this as a guy

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"No, I don't need to.

In fact sometimes I cum too early and can't always cum again and so it tapers off the excitement for me.

I’m very similar, once I’ve cum I lose most of the sensation so it isn’t the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If the other person is enjoying it then that pleases me.

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