FabSwingers.com forum: NSA

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having been on here for a while (previous profile), I am confused but came back for more. met a number of lovely women who, despite being on a swingers site, made me feel like they wanted so much more, commitment etc. Having been in a sexless marriage for a long long time, and having sepereated which is when I joined the site, the last thing I want is commitment. Not sure what the future holds, but one things for sure, it won't meet my needs sexually. I have been told to 'look elswhere' which I'm sure if my wife was confronted with my actions would mean istant divorce, I have a dependant son and, despite the sex, I love my life. But seems to mean 'what she doesn't know gets me off her back' if you know what I mean. My friends and doc are surprised at my commitment. As a result I just want NSA fun with women in the same position. Am I deluded? or are there any women in the same position. I wish my wife wanted me like she used too. I never shut down, but I accept that she has. dont want love, need sex and intimacy. Feel like I have her blessing in a 'what she doesn't know wont hurt her' kind of way. Given the honesty on this site, feel like I might get an honest answer. Should I fulfil my needs or close my profile. I love you all, x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Your post reads like you have made your own mind up and the fact you were here, went and came back reinforces that...

You are going to play regardless.

My only advice is put it on your profile and then people can make an informed choice to meet a married guy.

All the best and hope whatever works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a tortoise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a scooby what your trying to say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a scooby what your trying to say!!

Me either???

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

There are plenty of women on here who simply want sex. However if that is what you are looking for then phrases such as ' Like to caress and kiss, very considerate and caring' are perhaps misleading and attracting the ladies who perhaps are looking for more.

Of the guys I know/chat to it seems that the ones who are too nice, refer to the future, maybe inadvertently make promises do give this type of lady false hope, and they become attached and hurt when it doesn't work out that way.

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think your just after reasurance of playing when theres clearly a relationship problem with your wife "shutting down"?????

Hmmmmmmmm Dude think you will get slaughterd on here.

Soooooo glad my partner knows everything

Honesty works best pal goodluck

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