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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime But the best advise is to listen to your partner, advise them of your inexperience and let them guide you coz there is no one shoe fits it when it comes to giving pleasure Good luck in you quest Bx" What a lovely response. | |||
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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime But the best advise is to listen to your partner, advise them of your inexperience and let them guide you coz there is no one shoe fits it when it comes to giving pleasure Thanks for the advice x Good luck in you quest Bx" | |||
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"Enjoy and explore. Take your time. Most importantly, be honest and tell her it's new to you and ask her to tell you how she likes it... there's no definitive right and wrong as everyone is different. Do what she wants and you'll both have a great time... And remember that the next time... with someone else... her preference might be completely different. As with all sex, communication is key!" Thanks, will take that on board. | |||
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"Do not rush it. Go slowly and listen to her for any moans of pleasure. I couldn't have penitrive sex for 10 years so oral only,during that time i became very good at it. Look up where to locate the g spot as you switch to this with your finger when your tongue needs a rest." Thanks for the advice. I need to do a bit of research on the g spot lol. | |||
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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime But the best advise is to listen to your partner, advise them of your inexperience and let them guide you coz there is no one shoe fits it when it comes to giving pleasure Good luck in you quest Bx What a lovely response." Agreed. | |||
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"he means can you please give me some wanking material" 
Ask an escort as they have tons of experience | |||
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"My trick is, enjoy "Thanks. I certainly intend on doing just that. | |||
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"Don’t take your tips from porn. Contrary to what you may see there, a majority of women don’t like to be finger smashed, or tongue lashed at 300 flicks a second. " Thanks. I will take that on board. I can imagine how that would be a bit much for most women | |||
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"Ask her what she likes. Everyone is different " Came to say the same ! Just ask ! I would much rather someone asked what I liked ! Also - when she says it’s good , or she is going to cum , don’t change what your are doing !!! Just do the same ! So many men and women speed up or do it harder faster ! Very frustrating ! Just stay the same | |||
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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime" I understood that reference | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Whether im right or wrong i dint know, but if im with a new lady, i always start off soft slow, and sensual, and gauge the reaction, then go harder or faster depending on what that reaction is | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Whether im right or wrong i dint know, but if im with a new lady, i always start off soft slow, and sensual, and gauge the reaction, then go harder or faster depending on what that reaction is" Oh and enjoy it. She will know if youre doing it just for the sake of it | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Make it noisy as in let her know your in to it not by words just using your mouth and lips to make it sound hot never rush in mate take your time pull Away every now and again make her want it then when your going harder grip your hands around her legs and pull her against your mouth then maybe slip a finger or 2 in see how she responds! Hope that helps OP I’m off for a wank | |||
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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime Good luck in you quest Bx" That from anchorman the 60% quote? | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Whether im right or wrong i dint know, but if im with a new lady, i always start off soft slow, and sensual, and gauge the reaction, then go harder or faster depending on what that reaction is" Thanks for the advice. | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. " Thanks. I might check that book out. | |||
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"Light soft and simple, go with the movements of her body and the sounds she makes. Dont go full force on the clit or you will over stimulate her and she will struggle to climax. Gentle is key." Cheers for that bit of advice. | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Make it noisy as in let her know your in to it not by words just using your mouth and lips to make it sound hot never rush in mate take your time pull Away every now and again make her want it then when your going harder grip your hands around her legs and pull her against your mouth then maybe slip a finger or 2 in see how she responds! Hope that helps OP I’m off for a wank " Yes noisy everytime for me. ND LOTS OF PATIENCE | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Make it noisy as in let her know your in to it not by words just using your mouth and lips to make it sound hot never rush in mate take your time pull Away every now and again make her want it then when your going harder grip your hands around her legs and pull her against your mouth then maybe slip a finger or 2 in see how she responds! Hope that helps OP I’m off for a wank Yes noisy everytime for me. ND LOTS OF PATIENCE " She knows  | |||
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"Everyone is different, pay attention to her moans and movements. And whatever you do, if she says don't stop, don't change what you are doing and don't stop!!!! I hope your first time is brill for you and her "Thanks. I'm certainly looking forward to it. | |||
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"I got my tips from a lesbian friend she let me lick her to get tips she loved it and I became better fucking horny because she wouldn’t let me fuck her but better" I don't think I would ask any of my lesbian friends. | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. Thanks. I might check that book out. " Can confirm, I have this book and it's really good | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. Thanks. I might check that book out. Can confirm, I have this book and it's really good " Is it an example of the strange notion that all women MUST cum first, before a man does? | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. Thanks. I might check that book out. Can confirm, I have this book and it's really good Is it an example of the strange notion that all women MUST cum first, before a man does? " It's probably not a must, but with myself (and I believe many blokes) once I'm done, I'm done for a while until recovered. Therefore, it's polite to ensure that my partner gets to be as satisfied as they require by that point (you don't want to leave someone hanging!). And to address the OP's question, as with just about everything else in life, if you talk to the person involved before starting the results tend to be better. I think especially within the FAB arena, where people have a much clearer view of their requirements, and are more willing to chat about these. And finally, as with every skill, practice makes perfect. You need to clock that 10,000 hours to become an expert! ;-) | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. Thanks. I might check that book out. Can confirm, I have this book and it's really good Is it an example of the strange notion that all women MUST cum first, before a man does? It's probably not a must, but with myself (and I believe many blokes) once I'm done, I'm done for a while until recovered. Therefore, it's polite to ensure that my partner gets to be as satisfied as they require by that point (you don't want to leave someone hanging!). And to address the OP's question, as with just about everything else in life, if you talk to the person involved before starting the results tend to be better. I think especially within the FAB arena, where people have a much clearer view of their requirements, and are more willing to chat about these. And finally, as with every skill, practice makes perfect. You need to clock that 10,000 hours to become an expert! ;-) " ...and men wonder why we fake it! The focus of the attempt to make women cum before men do, puts as much pressure on us to cum as it does on telling you not to. It's not 'polite' or expected, just have a read of the women replying on the 'I love oral' threads who are mostly meh about it or can happily never have oral again. Sure, there are plenty of women who love it, enjoy it and cum from it but from my time on this planet and reading the forums here for over ten years, I see the reality, step away from tit for tat sex and start thinking of all of us as individuals. On a personal level, oral is a small part of a bit of foreplay for me, I'm not that bothered and have faked an orgasm nearly every time, what I REALLY love is fucking and I don't give a monkeys about achieving orgasm. As Leonards mother once said "I've been in charge of my own orgasms for 30 years, I'm not going to stop now". | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. Thanks. I might check that book out. Can confirm, I have this book and it's really good Is it an example of the strange notion that all women MUST cum first, before a man does? It's probably not a must, but with myself (and I believe many blokes) once I'm done, I'm done for a while until recovered. Therefore, it's polite to ensure that my partner gets to be as satisfied as they require by that point (you don't want to leave someone hanging!). And to address the OP's question, as with just about everything else in life, if you talk to the person involved before starting the results tend to be better. I think especially within the FAB arena, where people have a much clearer view of their requirements, and are more willing to chat about these. And finally, as with every skill, practice makes perfect. You need to clock that 10,000 hours to become an expert! ;-) ...and men wonder why we fake it! The focus of the attempt to make women cum before men do, puts as much pressure on us to cum as it does on telling you not to. It's not 'polite' or expected, just have a read of the women replying on the 'I love oral' threads who are mostly meh about it or can happily never have oral again. Sure, there are plenty of women who love it, enjoy it and cum from it but from my time on this planet and reading the forums here for over ten years, I see the reality, step away from tit for tat sex and start thinking of all of us as individuals. On a personal level, oral is a small part of a bit of foreplay for me, I'm not that bothered and have faked an orgasm nearly every time, what I REALLY love is fucking and I don't give a monkeys about achieving orgasm. As Leonards mother once said "I've been in charge of my own orgasms for 30 years, I'm not going to stop now"." Did I say "cum", or "as satisfied as they require" which can be anything up to and including the big O. I purposely worded it so as not to suggest the woman has to cum, at any point before or after the bloke. Just to indicate that one of my tools to achieve that will be unavailable for a while, so it would be nice to know that everyone was happy at that point. I wasn't even talking about oral at either there (that came later in response to the OP's question). So no pressure on anyone to do or achieve anything. | |||
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"Don't assume all women want it or want to have it done for a long time or will cum from it. Just make it part of the whole experience." This! We met a girl recently who genuinely didn't like having oral sex done to her. | |||
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"Don't assume all women want it or want to have it done for a long time or will cum from it. Just make it part of the whole experience." Exactly that. Ignore all the male experts who think they can make any girl cum from it - the amount of self professed experts on here Possibly women faking so they'd stop. And ignore porn techniques.
Search old threads for this and similar topics
Some women put up with oral; some like it but will never cum from it; some love it; some cum easily from it.
Some women never cum from sex, some sometimes do, some always do.
Some women hate anal; some put up with it; some like it; some love it; some will cum from it - some won't.
Some women can cum easily from anything (BITCHES!!!!!!!!!!! ). Some can't or struggle to cum at all  but enjoy the fun along the way. And some (most?) sit somewhere between the two.
Of course, it takes two to tango - and getting a *click* between the two is what matters. But don't think that technique works on everyone - and don't be dissapointed. Have fun, give fun, be guided, but if they don't scream their heads off every 2 seconds you've not failed - its the real world 
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"Don't assume all women want it or want to have it done for a long time or will cum from it. Just make it part of the whole experience. This! We met a girl recently who genuinely didn't like having oral sex done to her. " Is that uncommon? | |||
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"I highly recommend seeing a sex therapist. They can give you the best and clearest advice. I did it several years ago and it was one of the best investments I ever made. Luke " That doesnt sound like a traditional counsellor .. what sort of training does this type of sex therapist have? | |||
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"I highly recommend seeing a sex therapist. They can give you the best and clearest advice. I did it several years ago and it was one of the best investments I ever made. Luke That doesnt sound like a traditional counsellor .. what sort of training does this type of sex therapist have? " That would depend on the therapist. I'll PM you the name of the lady I went to see. She's likely to be too far from you but you can look her up and get an idea. I'm sure she's not the only one who does this. | |||
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"Take your time, listen to the way she reacts, feel and watch the way she moves. Even when you're more experienced at it, never stop doing this or letting the lady guide you. If you're doing something she seems to like, stay there for a bit, but change it every now and again. I love it when my Sir does that. Just as my hips start moving and pushing into him, he changes something very slightly and gives me a new sensation. There's one bit he knows drives me crazy, so he switches to that every now and again to catch me off guard. It's something that either only he has discovered or only he can do like that. Everyone is different and every time is different. Be prepared to be guided, listen and watch, enjoy and if you're not, change what you're doing to something you do enjoy or stop completely." Thanks. Really helpful advice. | |||
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"Slow and steady wins the race, pay attention to her reactions and go with it. " Absolutely agree with the above. And also follow the mood of the meeting. If you have along session planned then tease to a point let it drop and build again. If a short meet then keep the intensity of feeling going. And remember not all women are multi-organising people who squirt | |||
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"Slow and steady wins the race, pay attention to her reactions and go with it. Absolutely agree with the above. And also follow the mood of the meeting. If you have along session planned then tease to a point let it drop and build again. If a short meet then keep the intensity of feeling going. And remember not all women are multi-organising people who squirt" #orgasming not organising (spell correction- grrr) | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Read She comes first by Ian Kerner Will tell you everything you need to know. My knowledge and tips are secret.. | |||
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"Slow and steady wins the race, pay attention to her reactions and go with it. " this | |||
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"Slow and steady wins the race, pay attention to her reactions and go with it. Absolutely agree with the above. And also follow the mood of the meeting. If you have along session planned then tease to a point let it drop and build again. If a short meet then keep the intensity of feeling going. And remember not all women are multi-organising people who squirt" Unless, like me and loads of other women, if you do that I don't cum. | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Read She comes first by Ian Kerner Will tell you everything you need to know. My knowledge and tips are secret.." Is it a man telling men how to make women cum? | |||
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"Step one kiss the pussy all over Step two lick slowly from botom of pussy to top Step three lick clit flicking side to side as you wiggle a finger up and down between pussy lips untill she cums" ...unless she hates that or doesn't cum with oral or won't cum with you or.... | |||
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"Step one kiss the pussy all over Step two lick slowly from botom of pussy to top Step three lick clit flicking side to side as you wiggle a finger up and down between pussy lips untill she cums" Please don’t do this  | |||
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"Step one kiss the pussy all over Step two lick slowly from botom of pussy to top Step three lick clit flicking side to side as you wiggle a finger up and down between pussy lips untill she cums Please don’t do this "But that's the way! He said so, so it must be true | |||
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"The best advice anyone can give is communication. Everyone will be different, just like a blow job Some will like very gentle, some will like quite aggressive and all points in between. Some will like a mix depending at what stage of arousal they are at. Best advice is have shit loads of fun learning " Thanks for the advice. I look forward to having fun learning. | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." *sorry my spelling was shite I love this, you go and explore man! Wish you all the best, we only have one life and all that. Every girl likes it differently, some take ages to cum whilst others take seconds. Some like slow, some fast others need a finger into the G-spot too whilst others don’t. I lick slowly with the larger flat area of my tongue (about an inch up from the tip). You will naturally be able to feel her hips go and sense what movements she is responding to. If not, just ask her. Seriously, just ask, she’s the expert in how she likes to be licked. Again, wish you all the best man. Love it | |||
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"Listen to feedback if you hear moaning keep going also if it's like Sahara it's not working" | |||
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"Honestly people can give you tips and advice and claim to make women cum 60% of the time, they’ll cum everytime But the best advise is to listen to your partner, advise them of your inexperience and let them guide you coz there is no one shoe fits it when it comes to giving pleasure Good luck in you quest Bx" THIS | |||
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"Don't eat raw chillies beforehand. " I'd give some advice on how I do it but I'm not giving away my secrets | |||
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I'd give some advice on how I do it but I'm not giving away my secrets "Whisper it in my ear. | |||
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"Make sure you don't use mouthwash. Did that once....ex Mrs was ot chuffed "Intake it she wasn't into oral hygiene then! | |||
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"Make sure you don't use mouthwash. Did that once....ex Mrs was ot chuffed
Intake it she wasn't into oral hygiene then! "Oh no, she was.....just not straight on her clit | |||
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"Make sure you don't use mouthwash. Did that once....ex Mrs was ot chuffed
Intake it she wasn't into oral hygiene then!
Oh no, she was.....just not straight on her clit "There's no pleasing some people. | |||
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"Grab a copy of a book called "she comes first" will do two things firstly give you a better idea of the anatomy, secondly give you some great tips and techniques. " I will vouch for this one…I am not one to learn sex from books but did listen to the audiobook as I drive a lot and then tried out some of the theory…let’s just say the effort was clearly appreciated | |||
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"Make sure you don't use mouthwash. Did that once....ex Mrs was ot chuffed
Intake it she wasn't into oral hygiene then!
Oh no, she was.....just not straight on her clit
There's no pleasing some people. "To be fair, she got her own back after eating some hot sauce. Pleasure/pain conundrum | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks. Read She comes first by Ian Kerner Will tell you everything you need to know. My knowledge and tips are secret.." Another vouch for She Comes First…I always new my academic inclination would amount to something | |||
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"Make sure you don't use mouthwash. Did that once....ex Mrs was ot chuffed
Intake it she wasn't into oral hygiene then!
Oh no, she was.....just not straight on her clit
There's no pleasing some people.
To be fair, she got her own back after eating some hot sauce. Pleasure/pain conundrum "Ouch. | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Kinda need to know how they like there oral iv eaten alot of pussy I absolutely thrive on it but sometimes I'm like a bull in China shop and I go hard I there clit proper working it side to side or circle motion I generally alternate different motions and pressures and ur know from there reactions if ur hitting the spot so to speak but also iv met women who are super sensitive and they have had to tell me to not go so hard so like I said maybe start slow and work up to a pace like like! I like to suck on a pussy aswell on the vital or lips just play with it but always just with lips on teeth it's a delicate area it needs respect! And if they cum sometimes there try and pull away at that point I fucking lock there legs down and then go hard on the clit again until there squirtimg all over me fuck yer!! | |||
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"And if they cum sometimes there try and pull away at that point I fucking lock there legs down and then go hard on the clit again until there squirtimg all over me fuck yer!!" Are you serious?? | |||
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"And if they cum sometimes there try and pull away at that point I fucking lock there legs down and then go hard on the clit again until there squirtimg all over me fuck yer!! Are you serious?? "?? About what I get told all the time that I give amazing oral?  | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Treat it like a buffet | |||
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"And if they cum sometimes there try and pull away at that point I fucking lock there legs down and then go hard on the clit again until there squirtimg all over me fuck yer!! Are you serious?? "My varifcations speak for themselves | |||
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"Don't eat raw chillies beforehand.
I'd give some advice on how I do it but I'm not giving away my secrets
Whisper it in my ear. "You know | |||
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"Step one kiss the pussy all over Step two lick slowly from botom of pussy to top Step three lick clit flicking side to side as you wiggle a finger up and down between pussy lips untill she cums Please don’t do this "Yeah, that's never going to work | |||
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"I'm a 31 year old guy. Always thought I was gay. Recently realised that I'm probably bi. I'm hoping to have my first experience with a woman soon and would appreciate any tips. Especially when it comes to licking pussy. As I have no practice at it lol. I've not made any plans on when my first time will be. Sooner the better. The thought of licking pussy really turns me on and I want to make a decent attempt first time. Thanks." Hold your nose and it'll taste like an onion.... Possibly... | |||
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The mind is an amazing tool and you can actually flap around down there and do not really alot and pop goes the weasel if youve done the prelude well.
Likewise if you get the prelude wrong it won't matter what you do down there it will rarely result in oolaalaalaaaaaa!
FWIW when you arrive at the gateway to heaven - have a little scout around it, give it a good looking at and take it all in. Be gentle and feel it with your forefinger and thumb.
Feel for the wetness with your fingers and gently probe it. Taste the wetness on your fingers and savour it, it's exquisite  nibble the inside of her thighs, watch the pulses in her body, look for a rythym and roll with it.
Flick your tongue along the entire area of the pussy and watch for twitching - concentrate a little in areas you get a reaction from. Play a little with your fingers too. You'll learn the individuals trigger areas and mutually enjoy the reaction. Play with pressure with both your fingers and tongue and rythym.
Observe, Ovserve and do more observing! Oh and relax - people sense tension and react well to being confident and attentive.
lastly if it doesnt look like its going well - this isnt a perseverence sport - stop, come up for air, head back to the embrace and some sensual kissing to reset the moment
good luck OP
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"Providing a world beating clitoral stimulated orgasm starts quite a long way before going anywhere near a pussy
The mind is an amazing tool and you can actually flap around down there and do not really alot and pop goes the weasel if youve done the prelude well.
Likewise if you get the prelude wrong it won't matter what you do down there it will rarely result in oolaalaalaaaaaa!
FWIW when you arrive at the gateway to heaven - have a little scout around it, give it a good looking at and take it all in. Be gentle and feel it with your forefinger and thumb.
Feel for the wetness with your fingers and gently probe it. Taste the wetness on your fingers and savour it, it's exquisite nibble the inside of her thighs, watch the pulses in her body, look for a rythym and roll with it.
Flick your tongue along the entire area of the pussy and watch for twitching - concentrate a little in areas you get a reaction from. Play a little with your fingers too. You'll learn the individuals trigger areas and mutually enjoy the reaction. Play with pressure with both your fingers and tongue and rythym.
Observe, Ovserve and do more observing! Oh and relax - people sense tension and react well to being confident and attentive.
lastly if it doesnt look like its going well - this isnt a perseverence sport - stop, come up for air, head back to the embrace and some sensual kissing to reset the moment
good luck OP
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