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By *eardsandboobs OP   Couple
over a year ago

near lincoln

Do you ever look at photos on profiles and think jeez does that person(mostly females) even know that photo is on fab. There’s some pretty poor/weird/unflattering poses that look like someone has just clicked their phone for a quick snap of their partner and then shoved it on here, and ones where there is a complete shit tip behind them . Pretty sure if the person had seen their photo they would not have allowed it be put on to public view. We tend to avoid profile that have these kind of photos on.

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

Around here

Yes I think it all the time actually. Those profiles stand out a mile.

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We study everyone’s photos to check for cleanliness.

I really think some people just don’t seem to care what is in the pictures. Dirty floors, dirty clothes everywhere, unmade beds, dirty finger nails etc lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever look at photos on profiles and think jeez does that person(mostly females) even know that photo is on fab. There’s some pretty poor/weird/unflattering poses that look like someone has just clicked their phone for a quick snap of their partner and then shoved it on here, and ones where there is a complete shit tip behind them . Pretty sure if the person had seen their photo they would not have allowed it be put on to public view. We tend to avoid profile that have these kind of photos on. "

Hope you don’t think that of my pics

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Not everyone has a creative eye, so I guess some people may see their images as ok, and not see anything wrong with them! We can only hope they know about it! I can’t say we’re a fan of the pics with dirty laundry, kids in the background etc, slightly distracting, but they must see it as ok and decide to show it! I’m sure there’s plenty of folk who wouldn’t care too much, someone for everyone and all that Miss pc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not everyone has a creative eye, so I guess some people may see their images as ok, and not see anything wrong with them! We can only hope they know about it! I can’t say we’re a fan of the pics with dirty laundry, kids in the background etc, slightly distracting, but they must see it as ok and decide to show it! I’m sure there’s plenty of folk who wouldn’t care too much, someone for everyone and all that Miss pc "

If you see kids in the background, even in photos report it so they can be removed, it's against site rules although some slip through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We study everyone’s photos to check for cleanliness.

I really think some people just don’t seem to care what is in the pictures. Dirty floors, dirty clothes everywhere, unmade beds, dirty finger nails etc lol. "

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes op, especially some of the face pics - i even feel at times that someone else has used not only the female pic but that of the couple

we never do face pics here so many ask for a fcae pic after one mail with a few words in iy - we are not looking to marry them and block them.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I agree, there's an awful lot that look like a mixture on non sexy holiday snaps and a few sneakily taken on a phone.

Also, there's an awful lot of rooms that need to be tidied. Don't know if that puts me off becatthey are untidy people or impressed because they are clearly to busy doing other things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*runs away to delete all my pics*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon there have been whole profiles created using pics of a woman/women who are completely unaware that their face is on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can massively tell that lots of action shots are taken without the female knowing! I can’t stand action shots anyway but some are really grim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Quickly runs to check and delete photos

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Seen a few like this yes

On our couple profile we were messaged by a supposed couple, they looked like pics he'd hastily taken of her, none of him and no verifications.

The profile is still there and I think she won't have a clue she's on here.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Do you ever look at photos on profiles and think jeez does that person(mostly females) even know that photo is on fab. There’s some pretty poor/weird/unflattering poses that look like someone has just clicked their phone for a quick snap of their partner and then shoved it on here, and ones where there is a complete shit tip behind them . Pretty sure if the person had seen their photo they would not have allowed it be put on to public view. We tend to avoid profile that have these kind of photos on. "

Often. Many single Mens profiles seem to have photos of ex's and escorts. We feel a little sorry for Women who have no idea their pics are on a swinging website.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I do have a habit of looking at the background of pics, it amazes me how much money people spend on hotels

Mr Hayes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I reckon there have been whole profiles created using pics of a woman/women who are completely unaware that their face is on fab "

^^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are a bit eye-watering, but that can be the background or the content. Still, each to their own, eye of the beholder and all that...

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

We don't pose or doctor pics in anyway other than to hide faces. If a discarded sock in the background puts anyone off then that's a lucky escape as for us far as we are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the solution?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"What is the solution?"

Single profiles should only include photos of the individual. Couples should only include photos of the couple. Even then, it's clear some couple accounts are just one person (most often the man) and are using pics without the knowledge or consent of the partner.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We often think the same and some photos we think what where they thinking? However photos are subjective and therefore the photos we put on thinking are good others may think yuck, WTF.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wife always checks what photos are uploaded.some not great but limited in room where taken for space , totally agree some rooms are totally untidy and no effort made to make place look respectable . But in saying that about 90% of pictures on here are of guys cocks lol

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I reckon there have been whole profiles created using pics of a woman/women who are completely unaware that their face is on fab "

This. But also any single man who messages me but has pics of himself with women on his profile (or worse, sends direct photos including women) immediately goes on my block list. I’m never sure those women have any clue their pics are being used on here.

When my partner died I put the pics of us together into my private folder: wasn’t quite ready to remove them altogether but also didn’t feel right having him on the profile any longer

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"We study everyone’s photos to check for cleanliness.

I really think some people just don’t seem to care what is in the pictures. Dirty floors, dirty clothes everywhere, unmade beds, dirty finger nails etc lol. "

We do this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is great! We live in an era where our smart phones can take fantastic pictures of ourselves, and it's not rocket science to achieve decent results!! The amount of terrible photos, and I mean just headshots is staggering! FAB should make every user take a basic smart phone camera course, before you're allowed to sign up

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Any action shots on single accounts, I doubt the person has got permission from others in the pic. It’s the first thing we think when we see them.

Checking pics carefully for signs of cleanliness or their status is something we do.

A pic often tells us more than words ever could.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do some dont i guess ..very wrong if they dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to judge people with a conversation, not shallow pic scanning. I guess this is an insta-generation thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to judge people with a conversation, not shallow pic scanning. I guess this is an insta-generation thing"

This is a very valid and fair comment.

Thinking about it you are right as I too am not great with pics.

Whilst there may be a few pics on every site that have been put up without the owners consent/knowldge on the whole most are genuine.

That you for a balanced post.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We prefer to judge people with a conversation, not shallow pic scanning. I guess this is an insta-generation thing"

I don't think so if a person's pictures don't appeal to me I'm probably not going to enter into conversation with them. Accusations of time wasting or leading people on are often levelled at you of you do and the conversation subsequently leads nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer to judge people with a conversation, not shallow pic scanning. I guess this is an insta-generation thing

I don't think so if a person's pictures don't appeal to me I'm probably not going to enter into conversation with them. Accusations of time wasting or leading people on are often levelled at you of you do and the conversation subsequently leads nowhere"

IMO, I beleive both of you have valid points and it's usally some of both of what you guys have said.

Always do your research, ask questions and more questions - the others may not like it and if thats the case it saves you wasted time.

Look at pics, chat for a while, and though we do not do this anymore, we agree with the people that say meeting in a swingers club etc often gets the best results but this site works to and has done for us and we we ask quesrions and time wasters either fall away or turn not so nice and its a block - either way, this site does work imo.

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