FabSwingers.com forum: Is kissing very important in sex?

By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

Personally i would not have sex if the lady says no kissing... what do you all think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's part of the foreplay and teasing that leads to the passionate sex, I see it as a pretty key part tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t kiss other than each other. Yet that doesn’t appear to have stopped or lessened any of the fun we’ve had. X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Personally i would not have sex if the lady says no kissing... what do you all think?"
I mostly dont kiss during or prior or after sex. Its never really caused me an issue.

To some it seems to be the holy grail but I'm proof that you can have lustful passionate sex without it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing at meets it makes it for us.

When we have mmf hubby loves me deeply kiss other guy and it turns me on more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! If the kissing doesn’t work, then nothing else will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

For me it’s a must. I need the kissing to get the fire started

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Love deep passion filled kisses and lip biting

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By *arks hammerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes it's a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing isn't a must. It's nice and I love a good kiss, but it wouldn't stop me from meeting as you would be surprised how many other parts of the body you can put your lips on

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I prefer to keep kissing on the mouth for people I have an emotional connection with, plenty other things to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, sex is no where near as intimate without kissing, just my opinion anyway

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Kissing is a big part of sex for us xx

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I see kissing as a test ..

A good kisser is usually a good lover ..

Bad kisser and I make my excuses..

No kissing ?? Wouldn’t even bother replying to them .. they just want a desperate sex robot .. alas there’s plenty on here for them though..

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By *werty987Couple
over a year ago

hull

Full pretty women for us too.

And we’ve never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do kind of understand where a hubby may say kisses are for them only but it also seems slightly odd it's OK to have full sex lol

I personally think kissing is near enough essential

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Absolutely, sex is no where near as intimate without kissing, just my opinion anyway

.... and many people see intimacy as a part of romance and dating not swinging.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Absolutely, sex is no where near as intimate without kissing, just my opinion anyway

.... and many people see intimacy as a part of romance and dating not swinging. "

Good point

. Likewise for holding hands and long cuddles. Though some may do it, we've not seen swingers hold hands or snuggle anyone apart from their partner.

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I see kissing as a test ..

A good kisser is usually a good lover ..

Bad kisser and I make my excuses..

No kissing ?? Wouldn’t even bother replying to them .. they just want a desperate sex robot .. alas there’s plenty on here for them though.."

“Desperate Sex Robot” here

Just because someone won’t kiss you doesn’t make them bad in bed

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Absolutely, sex is no where near as intimate without kissing, just my opinion anyway

.... and many people see intimacy as a part of romance and dating not swinging. "

Exactly!

I would never date anyone off of here

So I don’t need to be intimate with anyone

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Absolutely it’s a must all part of the intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely it’s a must all part of the intimacy

^ ^

This...

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By *lexdander45Man
over a year ago

leeds

love kissing woman when having good sex love kissing her all over body kissing lips sucking boobs nipples big turn on for any one

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By *elmc1Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably my biggest turn on.

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By *olfie26Man
over a year ago

Brierley Hill

It's key as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing as part of foreplay and the passion during the act of having sex.

The lips and tongue are sensitive and can be stimulated by kissing and licking. Biting at the lip can also provide stimulus.

If ‘no kissing’ was a given stipulation then I’d respect boundaries. Focusing my attention elsewhere… lol

…probably her clit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and cuddling before sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a good snog during

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We don't mind either way

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I love to kissing, but it is not essential to enjoying sex. Just ask the men who thrust their cock through a glory hole. And there are swinging couples who reserve kissing for each other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I see kissing as a test ..

A good kisser is usually a good lover ..

Bad kisser and I make my excuses..

No kissing ?? Wouldn’t even bother replying to them .. they just want a desperate sex robot .. alas there’s plenty on here for them though.."

We don't want desperate sex robots, we just want people who are compatible with us.

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

It is part of the connect for me. It's at the core.

It's a treat when done well, a trigger for bigger things to come, and delicious way to say thank you.

..and you can put them anywhere!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We much prefer it when we can kiss the people we meet. We have had a couple of meets where the other people didn’t do kissing and for us it did feel like something was missing. I guess for us it just comes naturally that with sex comes kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must! It's like eating custard without a spoon

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I don’t understand sex with no kissing. I can’t fathom it. Kissing is the biggest part of it for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is very important

I met a couple for the first time and the rule was “ no kissing”. I of course did as they requested and we enjoyed a great meet.

When we met again kissing was on! Wow - how it changed the meet

So much more passion.

Whether it was as, I often find, second meets are even better or it was kissing I don’t know but it felt fantastic.

Next meet arranged

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By *atty39Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Think kissing is important for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer to this - ‘absolutely yes’ for me. It’s apart of the chemistry and passion.

Each to their own I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, kissing, if done properly is one of the most erotic things going, but I always respect it's the other person's choice whether to allow it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 %

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Definitely

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If we aren't good enough for someone to kiss us then they certainly wouldn't be fucking us.

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By *ovelife8Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Simply put. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% kissing plays a big part for me, I don't think I could pursue anything further without that aspect.

If the kiss is good...

Well you know the rest

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes

Kissing is a huge part of sex for me. I seriously enjoy kissing and cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very important, I think sex with out kissing would just feel very cold. There has to be a connection and I find that starts with the first kiss. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing before, during and after sex

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Super important to me...I love kissing

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Love kissing, it’s mega important to me. It makes for the intimacy and that’s an essential part of sex for me.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

In my opinion it is haha I don't think I could have sex of I couldn't kiss the woman aswel it's definitely a big turn on to if she is a great kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like kissing but on some meetings it does fit in with scenario,so for me it all depends on who and what I am doing to them. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing too xx but there's a lot of people on here who don't want to x each to their own x got to respect peoples wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a must...it's the initial step towards the physical act...love slow & gentle kisses building up to hard & passionate & making my body want to be touched.

Never tried not kissing & don't want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's a must...it's the initial step towards the physical act...love slow & gentle kisses building up to hard & passionate & making my body want to be touched.

Never tried not kissing & don't want to..."

Nice comment x

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m not one sided when it comes to it unless stated what’s actually wanted by the other party/ parties

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"For me it's a must...it's the initial step towards the physical act...love slow & gentle kisses building up to hard & passionate & making my body want to be touched.

Never tried not kissing & don't want to..."
I tend to just go straight to sucking a guys cock. Its rare a guy touches me to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my wife it's a must. A good man kissing her is what she wants and needs before going further

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By *ingleman2020Man
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me - I have read some people think it’s too close to the line and too intimate. Fair enough, but not all kissing is the same. Some might be suited to a lover, where as there’s other types that is just raw with a little nibble of the lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely important

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Kiss is important to us definitely to get things started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner love deep long kissing sessions. My partner loves them the most and the only thing she has done with others is to give them a real deep passionate snog, mainly a few ladies but the odd guy too. Is so hot to see

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Kissing for me is the best way to start a good long session, if you wont kiss why would you be more intimate with your partners xx

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