FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing or no kissing?

By *watugot OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were dead set on no kissing, not my thing at all.

Then we had our first meet

and I totally loved the kisding the most.

Broke our own rules straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing*

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By *exy6pack1Man
over a year ago

London

Hey,

Personally kissing is a major turn on.

I’ve been swinging for 8 years now, I still don’t understand how some people can enjoy having sex without kissing and foreplay.

But each to their own.

James xx

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kissing is a must

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"
its not that I dont allow but it's rare I kiss single guys..

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes kissing as long as they are good at it

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

No kiss no sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual partners on the mouth.

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By *unCuriousHarryMan
over a year ago

somrwhere over the rainbow, The Shire

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

If there isn’t any kissing the whole situation to me feels cold. Kissing is such a big turn on and needed for mutual pleasure in my opinion.

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By *arks hammerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never come across this. Not sure if be interested if kissing wasn't involved

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By *erncoupleCouple
over a year ago

newquay

Kissing. For us. We also like kissing each other when giving and receiving oral on meets. Very hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An Ingrid Bergman kiss….oh yes please.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn't meet anyone who didn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a must the start I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything starts with kissing

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By *exyCon87Man
over a year ago

galway

Love kissing

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Got 2 b the most important part that 1st kiss .love kissing x

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Kissing a must do for us wife likes a spunky one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a “kisser “ anyways and don’t kiss him much…. So it’s not a deal breaker for me .

I can get very turned off very quickly by someone who isn’t a good kisser ….

Always find women to be ‘better ‘ kissers than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We understand some don't want to as it's the pretty woman effect (that's what I call it anyway).

But the Mrs. She has to have kissing as she loves it and gets her engine going. Me I'm happy to kiss other parts of the body if the lips are of limit's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes kissing as long as they are good at it"

Good kissing takes two..its all about the connection...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I enjoy kissing but if someone doesn’t want to than that’s fine.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Kissing it's a must...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Love to kiss

When I meet with my partner we both kiss, I can see why some keep it for themselves, but it's not for me.

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By *hrobinsonMan
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

Kissing gets the meet started, a meet without is too cold and detatched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is all part of the fun

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Kissing is the most thing intimate!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Kissing is part of it for us. So, yep! Nothing is sacred for us physically.

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Kissing is a must for the Mrs, really gets her going!

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Kissing is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An absolute must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there unattractive in my personal opinion well then no !

Maybe on the cheek I suppose

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

We couldn't imagine a meet without kissing

Its a huge part of the build up for both of us, getting to know the person.

If a couple don't kiss then we wouldn't meet them.

Each to there own though just what we prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots and lots of kissing please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is such an important part of play, its almost more erotic than anything else that can happen. Definitely all for it here! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its simple if i dont want to kiss then there no chance hes going to fuck me so its kissing or nothing for me .,..i do understand why some dont though ..

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I rather would as o think it helps the sax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing everytime otherwise what's the point

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

Love a good kiss, build up the passion and shows you how much they want you

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I think I've made it pretty clear in my profile. (It's a deal-breaker if there's no kissing).

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Oh got to kiss, it’s so sensual.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Oh it's got to be kissing all the time for me...

X Storm X

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Kissing always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always kissing, passionate sex is the best sex. You can’t have the same passion without kissing xx

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

Was once told by an old sage that if a women is happy to French kiss you, she will have sex with you.

I have proved that to be true on quite a few occasions in my 64 years!

Deep kissing is VERY intimate.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Single guys yes, in groups nope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. It’s a huge turn on when done right so is a must for me.

I have done a meet with none and it’s weird and not for me x

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Kissing and lots of please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a personal thing personally kissing and snogging a plus as is spooning in the evening and morning x

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

We are kissing or I'm dismissing!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Single guys yes, in groups nope x"
see this is perhaps why I dont kiss much. I pretty much only do gangbang type play... there is no real place for kisses in that.. but saying that. I avoid kissing even if it's in 121 with guys most of the time

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

It’s the biggest turn on. Has to be kissing. Ooh and neck kissing, ear nibbling

yum

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton

Has to be kissing!!!!

All part of the fun, wouldn’t seem right without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Kissing is a must, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both meets with and without but with kissing is always better as it’s more sensual but we would meet non kissers again if the connection is there

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s the biggest turn on. Has to be kissing. Ooh and neck kissing, ear nibbling

yum "

You read my mind

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Kissing, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have to kiss, just love it x

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

I love it….. can’t get enough of a good kisser. It’s very important for me as part of a meet …. Very sensual

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

Kissing for me, definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

Personally I love it

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

"What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her "

Most certainly lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Kissing all the way....

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Sensual kissing all the way

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Each to their own but if you're going to be balls deep in my lady then you shouldn't have an issue with kissing her and vice versa.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Passionate kissing is a massive turn on and a must from me

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Couldn't imagine having sex without kissing, it's like the ice breaker lol

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"Couldn't imagine having sex without kissing, it's like the ice breaker lol"

No kissing = no fun for me

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By *ikeymMan
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Think it’s nice when couples keep kissing just for them however for us watching the wife being kissed is the biggest turn on ever, better than any other play!

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By *aul100Man
over a year ago

blackburn

I always thought passionate kissing and sex was done at home .sex as a swinger is sex not making love .just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is what leads to more intermit sex so a big yes from us xx

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't be interested in meeting anyone who didn't want to kiss.

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By *aul100Man
over a year ago

blackburn

Wow I'm surprised by all the comments. Can't you tell I've never swung lol x

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By *-aint-a-crowdCouple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

We’re both huge fans of kissing and it’s a massive turn on, so for us no kissing means no sex x

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Definitely kissing

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

As I'm usually meeting couples I totally respect their "rules" whatever they may be. I do find about half the people I meet have a "no kissing rule", guess I mean on the lips. Am willing to put up with the deal but agree with others it takes a lot of the passion and energy out of the meeting. Further, seems strange you might do everything else but not kiss! Personally I find (good) kissing hugely erotic and as other people say gets the whole erotic process rolling mmmmmmm!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A long sensual kiss tells a lot of stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t imagine a meet without kissing. That’s my biggest turn on

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Kissing is essential. Would be cold, sterile & passionless without it.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Got to have kissing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing but the wife in the couple I meet regularly won't allow me to do so, which I think a real shame.

At least my bi male friend likes it too, so I do have some.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

Kissing definetly, all part of stimulating the minds snd get the juices flowing, nothing better thsn passionate kissing

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

Sex without kissing is cold and mechanical. I (Rob) love to see Liz kissing, giving herself completely to the guy who's fucking her. Her pleasure is my pleasure, without the intimacy that kissing gives it's nothing

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Definitely kissing, and lots of it!! Miss pc

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I'm not a fan of no kissing, it lacks the excitement and passion for me when you can't kiss someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing always!

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

If meeting a woman I’d kiss her but not a man

It’s rare I find a man attractive anyway, I’m happy to be fucked hard by a guy but the thought of kissing one is just a NOPE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing , both of us love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing for us

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

Kissing is all part of the experience, no? Helps get us in the mood xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing, love it and gets the juices flowing lol. Can't imagine just going straight into foreplay without lots of kissing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be kissing . Kissing is a huge part of

Foreplay for me

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By *rSmith9Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London

Personally I love kissing on a meet! With the little whispers between kisses!! Just helps the meet feel more connected

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Has to be kissing…it sets the mood…

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By *anuel ducatiMan
over a year ago

leyburn

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing

If there isn’t any kissing the whole situation to me feels cold. Kissing is such a big turn on and needed for mutual pleasure in my opinion."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kissing

turns me on the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing I a big turn on couldn't imagine a meet without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big part of being intimate with someone so we are cool with kissing. If I can put their penis inside me, kissing them is tame in comparison.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We started out swinging journey with a firm ‘No kissing rule’.

We thought that kissing would be too intimate and we would save it for just ourselves.

We broke that rule on our first meet and realised pretty quickly you can’t really have a meet without kissing!

That and kissing really turns Lily on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely prefer to have kissing involved in play

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

Exactly this!

Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it

I’ve only had one guy moan that I wouldn’t kiss him... kept trying every few mins and I kept moving my head each time, plus at the time I was in a relationship so it was very much I only kiss my partner but even now the thought of kissing a man is just nah

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

Kissing is a form of fire play a build up to sexual arousal. I think kissing is an important part to the build up of good sex. I have met couples and ladies who say no kissing on the lips is allowed but kissing any other part of the body performing oral and full sex is perfectly acceptable. Seams strange a women/couple think kissing betrays the love they have for each other but being stripped naked and given a good fucking doesn’t.

Personally I prefer to kiss but equally if it’s not allowed then I’ll do what ever else is on offer to achieve sexual satisfaction for all.

I recall one lady (married) did not want to cheat on her husband but found kissing and a clothed fumble turned her on so much she went home begging for her husband to give her a good fucking. Win, win, win I got my pleasure preparing her, she got hers from being turned on then finished off, he got his reward for having a sexy wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is everything!! That’s how I know it will be a good meet.

It’s that connection

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Kissing is a form of fire play a build up to sexual arousal. I think kissing is an important part to the build up of good sex. I have met couples and ladies who say no kissing on the lips is allowed but kissing any other part of the body performing oral and full sex is perfectly acceptable. Seams strange a women/couple think kissing betrays the love they have for each other but being stripped naked and given a good fucking doesn’t.

Personally I prefer to kiss but equally if it’s not allowed then I’ll do what ever else is on offer to achieve sexual satisfaction for all.

We don't think kissing betrays our love. Lots of people think that's why we don't kiss. The very fact that here we are, together, meeting people to share sexual activities with is a pretty strong indication that we're not worried about betrayal.

Kissing and bareback sex require a level of intimacy we don't need from our casual partners. As is made clear many times people don't want to meet us because of the kissing thing which is fine we don't want to meet them, everyone's happy

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

Kissing is a definite yes. it makes the connection between everyone and shows noinhibitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. No kiss no play

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

Definitely kissing for us all part of foreplay.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

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I also smile at the no kissing no meet. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been refused a meet because I dont kiss... to be honest its rarely even noticed that I don't

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

As Hot Chocolate said "It Started With A Kiss".

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

I also smile at the no kissing no meet. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been refused a meet because I dont kiss... to be honest its rarely even noticed that I don't "

We've been here before many times haven't we

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Kissing is very much at the heart of our fucking ... x Anne

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

Exactly this!

Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it

Exactly. Judging by most of the responses here anyone would think Fab is a dating site rather than a swinging site. I love kissing women, but have no desire to kiss another man, yet in all the years we've been swinging no man has ever refused to play with me, suggested that sex with me is 'cold' or for that matter even tried to kiss me. To the contrary they usually come back for more. For me kissing and 'connection' are for romance not for scratching a sexual itch. After all how many women think that it's necessary to kiss their vibrator, or men kiss their hands before getting sexual pleasure.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Is kissing not mandatory

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Kissing means it's a much better meet for me

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Prefer kissing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is kissing not mandatory

Nothing is mandatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that adds to the experience is welcome as long as everyone agrees.

For us kissing is a real turn on, both doing it and watching.

Kissing during play also lets you know when you are doing something just right, especially when the other person cannot control their mouth.. a real turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always need kissing in meets xx

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"How does everyone feel about kissing? We’ve seen some couples/singles that won’t allow kissing"

My view, kissing is a sensual moment made ordinary when couples/partners kiss as habit instead of kissing because of its importance. This is what makes kissing someone else somewhat more lustful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a most and adult why meet for fun and have sex if no kissing.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I met a couple and before i went to where the wife was - the hubby said - no kissing, she wont suck you - you can’t lick her - no fingers - she wants to be spanked and fucked. I was thinking ok thats different but ok. It was a totally soulless experience and i totally lost interest. No connection at all so no interest at all. Plus there was a weird dynamic that just put me ill at ease between them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh….."

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, kissing, and erm.... oh yeah, kissing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"
yea about 4 times in 2 decades

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By *udley hotwife86Couple
over a year ago

DUDLEY

We've done a complete 180 on this when we started it was an absolute no now we can't play without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss? yea about 4 times in 2 decades "

Exactly!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"

No but we do have it on our profile so they're warned beforehand. More people have turned us down because we're soft swap or because I (f) have pubic hair. I accept that people won't want to meet us, it's fine.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss? yea about 4 times in 2 decades

Exactly! "
I do on occasion now kiss.. and it's rare with couples or ladies that I don't... but single guys..nooooo it is something I will avoid 99% of the time. And its rarely an issue. It is partly why I avoid 121 play as it's much harder to avoid in that situation. But not the only reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing too. It’s such a lovely part of foreplay which I love too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?

Having said all that we do get guys who just want to watch us take photos outside or take the photos for us. It's not something we've done but it does show that there really is room for all of us

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing other girls but not so keen on kissing men, girls are always better kissers from experience

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"What about in a mmf situation if the female is sucking her partners cock would you still snog the face of her "
this is for the straight guys be honest i would not kiss a female in that situation otherwise no problem

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?

If its a social meet then id agree but if we were arranging to meet for more then you said I don’t like kissing I probably wouldn’t meet. I don’t want to marry you but I do want a connection and for me kissing is connecting. Swinging for me is more than just fucking someone xx"
it's funny you mention socials. As I've had more guys try to kiss me on socials that meets. I dont mention I dont kiss but it is always clear that i do just group as in greedy girl and gb fun with guys. So i dont think it needs mentioning as someone isnt going to kiss me when ive got another guy in my mouth or covered in cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is amazing as long as you get a good one

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By *eachboy123Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"Think it’s nice when couples keep kissing just for them however for us watching the wife being kissed is the biggest turn on ever, better than any other play!"

Couldn't agree more,it's so hot and horny watching her having a long kissing session,as when we started out, full sex didn't happen on the first couple of meets,just kissing and a feel and suck of her breasts,she did give him a blow job,we met the same bloke a few times for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just constantly have a mouth covered in cum and most guys won’t try to kiss you? Good strategy, why didn’t I think of this before hahaha

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"All the men with “no kissing , no meet “

Okay - yet why do I see 50 million messages about how hard it is to be a single male on here ???

Oh…..

I’ve never had anyone turn down a meet because I won’t kiss. It BS if you ask me. Any ladies here been turned down by a single guy because they won’t kiss?

If its a social meet then id agree but if we were arranging to meet for more then you said I don’t like kissing I probably wouldn’t meet. I don’t want to marry you but I do want a connection and for me kissing is connecting. Swinging for me is more than just fucking someone xx it's funny you mention socials. As I've had more guys try to kiss me on socials that meets. I dont mention I dont kiss but it is always clear that i do just group as in greedy girl and gb fun with guys. So i dont think it needs mentioning as someone isnt going to kiss me when ive got another guy in my mouth or covered in cum. "
Socials for me are just that but if you really hit it off at a social then there’s no hard and fast rule. If you’ve made it clear you don’t kiss then it wouldn’t happen. But a subsequent meet for more wouldn’t either.

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By *eachboy123Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"Sex without kissing is cold and mechanical. I (Rob) love to see Liz kissing, giving herself completely to the guy who's fucking her. Her pleasure is my pleasure, without the intimacy that kissing gives it's nothing"

Definitely agree

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Very passionless without kissing in my option… like drinking water at the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a major turn on for both of us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

I'm genuinely interested in what makes you feel that having sex with people who don't kiss makes them no better than masturbation aids. Not in an aggressive way but more to understand why you feel able to demote us to the status of a sex toy because of one thing we won't do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else."

I'm not offended

, I know it's not true.

You're perfectly entitled to need a certain thing to be able to enjoy sex.

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"It depends on the level of connection with the person really. Kissing , for me, has an element of emotional intimacy involved which isn't necessarily something I want with just anyone.

I do smile at some of the adamant "no kissing, no meet" type comments on posts like this. Pretty sure a lot of them would suddenly drop that rule if a hot person/couple offered them a meet for sex.

Exactly this!

Like I’m on here for sex, don’t wanna get attached to anyone, don’t want anyone getting attached to me so yeah if that makes me “cold” then so be it

Exactly! My profile makes it very very clear that I just want to be fucked and that’s it

Yet I’m still getting men in my messages wanting it to be more than that

And in all fairness even when I had a partner, we wouldn’t even kiss that much when fucking, considering my favourite position is doggy so yeah not exactly the easiest position to kiss in unless you’re flexible and I’m not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing.

I don't engage in no kissing.

Met a right fittie on Friday but no kissing. Could be Channing Tatum but if no kissing, no play.

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I love to kiss the passionate the better even with a couple

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else."
I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed.

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Kissing is a must, I could never imagine a meet with no kissing.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

I probably should have worded it better, apologies if I have offended you or anyone else. I have enough verifications showing how passionate I am to show that you dont always need kissing on the lips to equal passionate. I'm am lustful passionate and even at times sensual person... I just rarely kiss as it can trigger for me something I avoid thinking about. So I've learnt to adapt. Then again I tend to skip foreplay all together with being a greedy girl . I used to never kiss anyone.. not even my partner. This changed over time. But I'm still in single figure numbers for men I've kissed. "

Cali, I don't mean to take anything away from the experiences that shaped you, they are yours, but just because you don't kiss and have many verifications doesn't mean those passionate experiences wouldn't have been better for the other people involved if kissing was included. Obviously with the exception of your greedy girl encounters.

I've been involved in meets as a single guy where kissing was off the table and yes, they can be passionate. However, my best meets have always included kissing, that's why no kissing is a deal breaker on our couples profile as we both feel the same way about it.

Frank

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

Frank"

Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

Frank

Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them?

Yes, I have. I know you don't kiss either, and obviously that's your choice, but, if the person you're playing with prefers kissing but respects your choice not to, then surely it's stands to reason they would have enjoyed the encounter even more if kissing was involved?

Frank

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love kissing and exploring with my tongue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both think kissing makes or breaks a meet

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Love kissing

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By *luffymummyCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We love the whole kissing with meets , feel like it makes more of a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes, I love kissing

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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

No kissing no meet, it’s a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing love it so passionate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No kissing no sex!

If I wanted a robotic fuck I would just use my fleshlight

Nothing against you, it's just how I view sex. I associate sex with passion and I personally don't think I can feel that without kissing during sex.

Frank

Have you seriously just told someone that people would have enjoyed meeting her more if she'd kissed them?

Frank"

I think you should give people credit for being able to enjoy sex in all its glorious forms.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Kissing for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get that it’s too intimate for some couples and that’s fine but whenever it’s on the table, I’ll always vote for nice long passionate kisses

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Kissing is a must for me

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By *otwifedundeeWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Kissing is a must for me x

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