FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guy for bi couples

By *imon says bi OP Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in the same boat having messaged a lot of couples. I have had some replies, but mostly from wannabes or single guys pretending to be a couple.

I think that couples can't have it easy on here, as they will be bombarded with messages, and they have to try and sort the good ones from the bad ones, and then the "honestly I'm bi but my profile says straight" would get annoying very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a few public pics might help people look at you more.

Couples have a huge choice of guys and you need to tempt them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up

and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP ...I think lots of couples have been caught out in the Bi trap , whereby a man introduces himself to a couople as being Bi, but in reality he is straight and all he is looking for is the opportunity to fuck your partner - harsh I know, but the stories I have heard from some couples seems to back that up

and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages

J x

And this is the problem, its very hard to trust what people say on here

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By *imon says bi OP Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Well why dont they insist on the 2 males play first then they would know they are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would prefer a couple with a bi guy. Would be more fun than just a threesome.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I find most bi couples are really blokes..

But they get more messages using a couples profile..

A true bi profile where bot are really into it is very rare

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages

J x

And this is the problem, its very hard to trust what people say on here"

I've had the same conversation with lots of couples on here and it is down to trust

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

It might be that you're not what they are looking for? Just because a couple are bi doesn't necessary mean they want to meet single guys, some only meet other couples... They might be looking for a different body type/facial hair, any number of reasons. We get a lot of messages from single bi guys and do occasionally meet them if they're our type and we are in the mood. Keep trying, and good luck! xx

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Bi guy here looking for fun with a couple. Essex or Harlow area. Can travel.

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By *imon says bi OP Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

"It might be that you're not what they are looking for? Just because a couple are bi doesn't necessary mean they want to meet single guys, some only meet other couples... They might be looking for a different body type/facial hair, any number of reasons. We get a lot of messages from single bi guys and do occasionally meet them if they're our type and we are in the mood. Keep trying, and good luck! xx"
I will do thanks

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

There has to be a chemistry between all who are involved and conversations instead of explicit messaging.

And if its a polite no,take it as a learning curve not as a insult.

It has to be fun and not mechanical or one-sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us

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By *imon says bi OP Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "
but that's silly really cause what excuse is the guy gonna have if they meet? Like oh sorry I was just pretending to be bi I'll just bang your wife if that's ok.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "

We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.

Mr Hayes

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

We are looking for an Orally bi guy, but probably are a bit too fussy with the type of guy we want generally. Orally bi is a tick in the box, but there are many other factors. Suggest not to be pushy (not saying you are) and just be polite. Also maybe try a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly !

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us but that's silly really cause what excuse is the guy gonna have if they meet? Like oh sorry I was just pretending to be bi I'll just bang your wife if that's ok."

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By *exylegs and dirkCouple
over a year ago

bodmin

"I am in the same boat having messaged a lot of couples. I have had some replies, but mostly from wannabes or single guys pretending to be a couple.

Hot the nail on the head there, we get it all the time, even had a lad turn up after lots of chat saying he was Bi then when we got down to it he clearly wasn’t and was asked to leave.

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages

J x

Yeah, we've had this happen. As the female half I can safely say it feels fucking horrible after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real struggle but don't give up. There are plenty of real people, singles and couples on here. I agree the fakes are very annoying and we all get them. It just takes time and dedication to find the right match, but they are there.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Its not just you op...too many of us and not many genuine people like us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us

We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.

Mr Hayes "

Shame we never met x

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

At least with your verifications you do have one from another guy, possibly a few more from other men may help to prove that you really are bi and not a straight guy acting bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had messages from straight couples few times where the male wanted to play bi obviously to get my wife in bed . When we asked about their wives, we was told " she is not into Asian men and she won't play or attend "

We was like WTF!

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sex Bi The Sea

"Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here "

I’m a genuine fully Bisexual man I love playing with couples such a horny dynamic

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sex Bi The Sea

"Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here "

I’m a genuine fully Bisexual man I love playing with couples such a horny dynamic

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Not easy to get a meet on here due to all the fakes that claim there bi

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

I am a fully bi male willing to meet male half first and have done only to discover there was no female to meet in the first place he kept up the pretence until he got what he wanted which was my ass plenty frauds on here

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I’ve met most bi couples at clubs or parties. Feels very horny when everyone is naked and touching each other. Very horny playing with a bi couple where the hubby hasn’t played with a guy before and you are the lucky one.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us "

My bf and I have separate profiles and when I point these "bi" guys to his profile saying...

"get dirty flirty with him, he loves that"...

they quickly bite the dust...

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here

I’m a genuine fully Bisexual man I love playing with couples such a horny dynamic

That’s what we want everyone playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just wondering if any bi guys on here feel it's a huge task finding a bi couple for fun? I have messaged loads of bi couples within a 30 mile radius of where I'm based but just cant seem to get no where. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks si "

As a lot of people have already said, there are so many profiles on here of people pretending to be something they're not.

Maybe going to a club when they hold a bi party will be a good way to meet lots of like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here "

Yep genuine bi man here, pity you’re so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my Mrs used to meet a bi man off here,,, we had some great times

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By *arks hammerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I fall into the boat that I am straight but when meeting a couple I have no issues with the husband playing with my cock and my ass. I am happy to even give their cock a stroke or kiss. Just never had a guys cock inside my ass

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

We used to hold parties and invite biguys, tgirls but just so many no shows. In the end just gave up and now just meet at clubs and parties

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
over a year ago

warwick

"For us it’s something we’ve been looking for but to many men on here are ‘acting’ bi to get to the woman , countless messages have been like this for us

We've pretty much given up with fab for this reason amongst others, only really use it to stay in touch with friends now. And I like to browse the forums.

Mr Hayes "

Pretty much us too

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By *anMigelMan
over a year ago

Sheffield/Alderley Edge

I’ve had some and still have good times, with bi couples. There are a big number of fakes either side but if you sieve through it all, there’s genuine people who want to have fun. Read through their verifications, it gives you a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had messages from straight couples few times where the male wanted to play bi obviously to get my wife in bed . When we asked about their wives, we was told " she is not into Asian men and she won't play or attend "

We was like WTF!

A very common trap of the oversexed man with his own agenda - not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my Mrs used to meet a bi man off here,,, we had some great times

Ditto - but it was me and my long term FB and we would ONLY meet Bi men or women - but after a few "hoaxed" meetings of men trying it on, we always insisted them proving they where bi etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not easy to find genuine ones on here

Yep genuine bi man here, pity you’re so far away

But it says your "straight" on your profile ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, you've been here three weeks..... We're in middlesbrough and are both openly bi..

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By *enny63Man
over a year ago

Stafford and Wolves

"Well why dont they insist on the 2 males play first then they would know they are genuine

This is exactly what me and a FB do. We make it clear that she gets off watching me paly with another guy before she joins in. Believe me, if they are genuine they don't regret it, because she is a wild beast if we get the right guy, but so many back out when you tell them that they must play man to man first.

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By *anMigelMan
over a year ago

Sheffield/Alderley Edge

"Well why dont they insist on the 2 males play first then they would know they are genuine

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

No visible pics; cannot accom (99% = married playing away, so not for us); safe-sex not ticked; threesomes not ticked; oral not ticked; searching 18-99 just a catch all.

So reading it, you want 1-on-1 bareback and no oral with people of any age without the wife finding out.

So we'd just delete message and move to the next. Yes, we could get into conversation and ask for clarification as I'm sure the assumptions are wrong, but its not worth bothering with when there are others there with pics and profiles that match more.

Having to ask questions is a lot of work and you tend to get answers they think you want (aka lies) - so we'd prefer to read profiles that match what we want from the outset.

Good luck

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By *euve4usCouple
over a year ago

Teddington

"I find most bi couples are really blokes..

But they get more messages using a couples profile..

A true bi profile where bot are really into it is very rare"

We like to think we are unique rather than rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve managed to meet two now but very rare and difficult to make happen, for various reasons.

I’m very comfortable being bi and enjoy playing with the guy as much as the lady.

Sometimes you’re just not what they are looking for but persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and yes - Some say they are Bi, but have straight on their profile - mixed messages

J x

We can back this up, especially single guys sadly.

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By *yes146Man
over a year ago

London / Bournemouth

Love bi play with couples. I guess a lot of talk but most times nothing happens(from both sides) Been lucky to have met a couple I play with twice a year.

Any couples?

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By *imon says bi OP Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Thanks for the positive advice everyone

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
over a year ago

Inverclyde

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe a few public pics might help people look at you more.

Couples have a huge choice of guys and you need to tempt them.

Definitely this

You need to offer the tastiest bait to get bitten!

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