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By *unmidwcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

leicester

How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you doing sex chat? Chat about what sex stuff you will do?

They had a wank and don't need you anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes constantly that's all we seem to find finding it hard to find anybody genuine on here lately

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes it happens to us, often we get to the arranging a social part, and then they disappear! Sadly I’ve now got that level of expectation with everyone we message, if they don’t disappear it’s a bonus! Seems to just be part of fab at the moment Miss pc

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

never had a no show on a meet

a few cancelled before hand, us, or them, but never been left waiting.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Happpens lots - turn up to meets and no shows or verbally abused is quite common

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Just don’t understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single I've never had a no show but certainly a couple of very last minute cancellations and never hear from them again, but maybe I did something to piss them off haha

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear? "

We never have because we don't engage in dirty talk with guys here or anywhere else online. Most time wasters here are guys looking for wank material - pics, chat or both. They have no intention of meeting, just getting what they want for as long as they can before disappearing when they can't delay meeting any longer.

Don't play their game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear?

We never have because we don't engage in dirty talk with guys here or anywhere else online. Most time wasters here are guys looking for wank material - pics, chat or both. They have no intention of meeting, just getting what they want for as long as they can before disappearing when they can't delay meeting any longer.

Don't play their game."

A brill post.

We get daily contacts about wanting to fuck the wife, when do we meet etc.

No socials etc for us but they can refuse but we/I ask for evidence of where they live and their name and about 90% droop out and a few after that - this way you are sure who you are dealing with and 4 meets here past few months, all were there.

We do not like bs, cocky guys those that state they look good as its up to us to decide, no bs 'bulls' and self proclaimed studs etc - it works for us.

Look at it like this - was going to a going to someones house, lets say hours drive and all along the person/s on the other end were taking the p. Alternatively you was waiting for a couple/single to turn up, no show - to get some details and if males are serious, they will provide evidence.

look at their pics, if they say they are single, cant accommodate or bedroom looks like a couple they are married etc -

forget the dirty chats, forget the socials - tell them what you expect and if they can do - avoid those that brag etc

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By *unmidwcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

leicester


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear?

We never have because we don't engage in dirty talk with guys here or anywhere else online. Most time wasters here are guys looking for wank material - pics, chat or both. They have no intention of meeting, just getting what they want for as long as they can before disappearing when they can't delay meeting any longer.

Don't play their game."

Great advice thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had a few, we never do dirty chat with people unless we have met before, so its not that, think some like the idea but bottle it when it comes down to actually meeting, but most show up, we do vet people as well as we can first tho, and usually meet for a social first, that way if they dont show atleast we get a night out, so its not the end of the world, never had someone who showed for a social let us down, sometimes people have to cancel for many reasons, as we have had to in the past, but always a good reason and the meet just get rain checked until another date, no problems, we all have a live outside of fab and things happen

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally, if I agree to meet, I am there but I also get drawn into sex chats with couples.

These tend to be cuck couples, who are genuine folks, but who want to build a picture of how they like to play.

If it's a 1 on 1 man and woman meet it can probably go with the flow but couples often have fantasy scenario they wish to live out. So to shut down a chat the instant sex is mentioned is a little bit drastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imo, a phone chat non dirty chat to start off with and take it from there

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By *ruxruMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear? "

Looking at your sexy pics I don't get why ppl don't show up for the fun.

however I just want to reflect similar disappointment from the other end (single male looking for a meet with a cpl).

Basically, from my experience: one needs to chat with the hubby for prescreening, then send off 1) face pic 2) body pic, 3) cock pic to get shortlisted. Once shortlisted the Hotwire making the decision for that specific date... Then sending one more polite message to the hubby about an update and reading "she is sorted for tonight". As you see it looks like a job application process LOL

and I doubt when looking for a job, we apply just once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear?

Looking at your sexy pics I don't get why ppl don't show up for the fun.

however I just want to reflect similar disappointment from the other end (single male looking for a meet with a cpl).

Basically, from my experience: one needs to chat with the hubby for prescreening, then send off 1) face pic 2) body pic, 3) cock pic to get shortlisted. Once shortlisted the Hotwire making the decision for that specific date... Then sending one more polite message to the hubby about an update and reading "she is sorted for tonight". As you see it looks like a job application process LOL

and I doubt when looking for a job, we apply just once."

when you are taking your wife to some strangers house you need to be careful and even more careful when the mans coming to our house. We do alsmot the same as you posted and if you don't like it - NO one is twisting your arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a fair few. Message for days and then they no show and block. Not sure if they get nervous or are just time wasters.

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sussex Bi The Sea

A lot of guys are just on hear for the wank, on my joint profile we get messages and it’s the ones that do lots of one line messages and ask us stuff which is clearly stated on the profile then to be the ones that are no shows. The best way is to arrange to meet a few as we do hotel meets and the law of averages a few will drop out, it’s the same when organising house parties.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I went on one only to find nobody there then got a message you sad old tear as if I would fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a shame all you nice couples have been stood up by- literally - wankers.

I would live to have a meet. I’d show up without any doubt!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

This proves that socials first are needed

And keep it simple and cheap such as a walk in the park or a coffee

That way if a no show happens which unfortunately is all too common you haven't wasted to much effort or money in setting it up

I'd much rather a no show on a social than an actual play session

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear? "

Happens all the time. We've found non-verified accounts are most recently worst....obvious really - new accounts and they are mostly looking for wank fodder (we'll send a face pic, but there's enough other pics on our profile for someone to decide if we're for them or not) or they are getting cold feet when it comes to actually turning up for a meet.

We do understand that guys first few meets are going to be nerve-wracking so do our best to try and come over as easy going, but guess it's just too much for some people.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on one only to find nobody there then got a message you sad old tear as if I would fuck you"

Report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many couples out there get a lot of no shows or lots of chat then go to meet and they disappear?

We never have because we don't engage in dirty talk with guys here or anywhere else online. Most time wasters here are guys looking for wank material - pics, chat or both. They have no intention of meeting, just getting what they want for as long as they can before disappearing when they can't delay meeting any longer.

Don't play their game.

A brill post.

We get daily contacts about wanting to fuck the wife, when do we meet etc.

No socials etc for us but they can refuse but we/I ask for evidence of where they live and their name and about 90% droop out and a few after that - this way you are sure who you are dealing with and 4 meets here past few months, all were there.

We do not like bs, cocky guys those that state they look good as its up to us to decide, no bs 'bulls' and self proclaimed studs etc - it works for us.

Look at it like this - was going to a going to someones house, lets say hours drive and all along the person/s on the other end were taking the p. Alternatively you was waiting for a couple/single to turn up, no show - to get some details and if males are serious, they will provide evidence.

look at their pics, if they say they are single, cant accommodate or bedroom looks like a couple they are married etc -

forget the dirty chats, forget the socials - tell them what you expect and if they can do - avoid those that brag etc

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Give me your id first... Who do you think you are to ask for proof of id or proof of address? Are you being serious?

And the tread was about no shows, but you quickly transformed it into your favourite subject, "let's bitch about single guys".

Not even the police asks about proof of id or address if you don't break the laws...

You do this because there are enough thirsty simps out there ready to jump through your hoops for a meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after years of being on here they become easy to spot and block .....not had a let down now for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had more no shows than meets annoyingly.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"I went on one only to find nobody there then got a message you sad old tear as if I would fuck you

Report them. "

They blokes me straight after so couldn’t find name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on one only to find nobody there then got a message you sad old tear as if I would fuck you

Report them.

They blokes me straight after so couldn’t find name"

you can still report them no need for abusive messages and you can block them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on one only to find nobody there then got a message you sad old tear as if I would fuck you

Report them.

They blokes me straight after so couldn’t find name

you can still report them no need for abusive messages and you can block them too "

You can report from the message they sent. Or type their profile name into your block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it says in my profile. My time is the most valuable thing I have to give. I value the time peeps give to me too.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"We've had more no shows than meets annoyingly. "

That’s why I meet people in a club

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