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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Personally we love it, watching each other too! Girlie fun and soft play

(Full swappers only who have clicked on this thread, feel free to comment "not for us" )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it. Sensuous, erotic, touching and teasing. So horny xx

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Personally we love it, watching each other too! Girlie fun and soft play "

We've not yet had a "soft swap" meet and unfortunately only Char plays and we don't do clubs....but we still perv your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what we are looking for!!!!!

Soft swap, same room fun, girl on girl play….

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Don't know if unusual to really enjoy soft swap as a single male.....but gets a thumbs up from me.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We only did soft swap for first 3 years when we started.

Actually found it far more erotically charged due to the fact more effort is put into a meet.

Lot's of teasing and touching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t managed it yet but this is definitely how we intend to start and go from there…..

Good to see others enjoy it so much!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We love it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Soft swappers here but we're both straight

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

It always starts as soft and sometimes stays that way, we just like the option of going up another gear

But not as far as the different rooms or separate meets variations.

So I guess we're 3rd gear swingers

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

We definitely ready for it!

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Our meets have been soft swing xx

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Softies here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand up

Xxx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're open to soft and full.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We generally consider ourselves as soft swap (every thing bar fucking each others partners). We're not for people who full swap is a very much a must. On a couple of occasions the moment has felt right and its naturally flowed beyond soft swap. But the mood, moment and the people we're with has to be just right for that to flow there.

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Personally we love it, watching each other too! Girlie fun and soft play

We've not yet had a "soft swap" meet and unfortunately only Char plays and we don't do clubs....but we still perv your pics"

Perv away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are love soft swap as this is what we have done previously. Open to full as well but it isn't a must. But who doesn't love a good free to roam group hug

Mr

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are very much soft swingers and love it....not sure that we would ever progress past this.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"We are very much soft swingers and love it....not sure that we would ever progress past this."
thats what we said until recently.... those goal posts can move a little

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all we do as well.

We decided at the start the it would only ever be soft for us.

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Newbies and happy to try soft swap as a start, with right couple x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"We are very much soft swingers and love it....not sure that we would ever progress past this.thats what we said until recently.... those goal posts can move a little "

You never know, right

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

The way I love full sex I'd be so frustrated ....

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ? "

The way we see it. But everyone's idea of soft may not be exactly the same. Some have bigger lists of stuff they don't do. Then you even have full swap couples who don't kiss (that for us kissing is a must). Everyone's individual I guess.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ?

The way we see it. But everyone's idea of soft may not be exactly the same. Some have bigger lists of stuff they don't do. Then you even have full swap couples who don't kiss (that for us kissing is a must). Everyone's individual I guess."

That definitely wouldn't be for me I want it all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ?

The way we see it. But everyone's idea of soft may not be exactly the same. Some have bigger lists of stuff they don't do. Then you even have full swap couples who don't kiss (that for us kissing is a must). Everyone's individual I guess.

That definitely wouldn't be for me I want it all lol "

But as a couple you get to have full sex with your own partner so that gets the all bit sorted I guess!

Mr

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Don't know if unusual to really enjoy soft swap as a single male.....but gets a thumbs up from me. "

What does a single person swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if unusual to really enjoy soft swap as a single male.....but gets a thumbs up from me.

What does a single person swap?"

Phone numbers?

Mr

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By *ateDazBL40Couple
over a year ago

cambridgshire

When we do - we’re softies!

Own partners next to others & then playing together with plenty of hands & mouths!

We both have a list of things we’d like to try next too, including a whole series of threesome variations (two cocks, two mouth blowjobs, etc!). Like to both be involved, and neither of us has any desire to actually full swap. It’s been something that’s turns us on together, rather than for each of us separately if that makes sense!

D & K xxx

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

This is us. Would be lovely to meet like minded couples. We are jt and val hello everyone

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We love soft swap and have enjoyed some great evenings doing just that. Our interpretation of it being everything except actually fucking......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain to me what exactly this means please? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been soft for 20 yrs ff fun and occasional mff but voyuer exhib fun is our start point and see where it goes.

Looking for couples is getting harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve found it to be just as erotic & sensual

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Don't know if unusual to really enjoy soft swap as a single male.....but gets a thumbs up from me.

What does a single person swap?

Phone numbers?

Mr"

Fair point.

They have nothing else to swap!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We love soft swap just as much as full swap

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Can someone explain to me what exactly this means please? X"

To us it means everything including oral but no penetration

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"Personally we love it, watching each other too! Girlie fun and soft play

(Full swappers only who have clicked on this thread, feel free to comment "not for us" )"

I think soft swap can be intensely erotic and very hot to be a part of. A very different dynamic but lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After joining in and reading through this thread we wonder if we should organise a party for soft swap couples only.

Sensuous, erotic and everyone relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very soft swap.

Mildred just enjoys being watched as we play with no touching opposite partners

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Late to party but yep everything bar penetration unless its toys

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Soft Swap, can't beat it. Slow and sensual, what's not to love

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By *idnightTaskCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are considering soft swap if we make it to a club

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Can someone explain to me what exactly this means please? X

To us it means everything including oral but no penetration"

That's how we perceive it too

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"Can someone explain to me what exactly this means please? X

To us it means everything including oral but no penetration

That's how we perceive it too "

Yep thats the same as us slow and sensual multiple O

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By *xx_F_xxxCouple
over a year ago

Northants

Yup! Soft swap for us!

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We love soft swap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very much enjoy soft play..

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Sounds a good way to gently entice partner who may be a bit nervous. I'd be more than happy if the opportunity ever arose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only done soft swap so far but it’s been a gee free at experience!

Looking forward to more in the future also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love soft play and girl on girl.. only been in the game a couple of months xx

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By *efinitely Maybe 94Couple
over a year ago

On the coast

works well for us x

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pretty much exactly what we're here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only done full swap but would love to experience a soft swap, such a turn on in our heads x

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By *untime1969Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Soft swap couple! Every now and then not all the time! The turn on lasts months!

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Soft swap so far. X

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By *pencoupleslCouple
over a year ago

South London/Surrey

This is us!!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We LOVE soft swapping. Love to hear from other couples into this. Or just sharing a bed and watching each other. Cam be so erotic x

Mrs N x

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"This is us!!"

Very hot indeed

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By *oftSwingCpl1980Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Soft players here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love soft swap.

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By *ew pennysCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Hi all. We are soft swappers too, always say we will eventually full swap, but have been saying that for a long time now and still happy soft swapping lol.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap here.

We are both new to each other and feel that soft swap is perfect for us right now.

Lots of communication afterwards as well.

Although, with that being said we never leave the dance floor when we go to a club so haven’t had the opportunity in a while! Lol

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By *r and Mrs KCouple
over a year ago

rugeley

our first meet 2 years ago wasnt really a swap we played girl girl but then just stuck with same partners it was really hot but thats been our only experience but we would like to try it again just hard finding the time and couple in same situation experience wise xx

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Us..

Would love to find another couple who attracts us enough to repeat..

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By *oris and doris wolvesCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By *oris and doris wolvesCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Personally we love it, watching each other too! Girlie fun and soft play

(Full swappers only who have clicked on this thread, feel free to comment "not for us" )"

Soft swop here... had lots of fun without full on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*wave *

I’m happy to play with another fem , and to be fair have no qualms about him touching / playing with other fem but no extra dick for me !

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We only soft swap. Girl fun and oral only with other couples. Always have a great time.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

We full swap but are more than happy to soft swap... Enjoy watching and being watched and there is so much to soft play..

X Storm X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer soft swap, lots of fun can be had with a little imagination and eroticism.

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We would love to try this out with another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this is us too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and girlfriend love to try it

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

This would most definitely be us.

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Agree

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By *urreynudistMan
over a year ago

staines

love soft swap meets

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By *unlovinCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Love soft swap fun with like minded couples

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We love soft swap with couples such fun ,thou we are full swap if that’s what the other couple wants

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We are getting disappointed with this site in general, however on the club scene had a soft swap and enjoyed it. So see what the future holds......

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

We are happy with full or soft play. Some of our the soft meets

Have been more enjoyable than full meets just depends on the mood and other couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with interest. We only watch or soft swap. Hello

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Don't know if unusual to really enjoy soft swap as a single male.....but gets a thumbs up from me.

What does a single person swap?"

a 99 with a flake?

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By *ravefuncplCouple
over a year ago

Durham/Newcastle

Hi guys, soft swap couple m straight f bi we like to keep something just between the two of us

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By *lydeandbonnieCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Purely soft swap here. Had some very erotic fun doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching with interest. We only watch or soft swap. Hello "

Hi guy's we are looking for the same kind offun,we are close to you so if you fancy a chat feel free to message us

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We like the idea of soft swap so are looking at starting out like it.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We feel that soft swapping relies on more imagination, which helps to increase the eroticism of the moment. Some things shouldn’t be rushed

Ed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing would/is perfect for me.

I love it,so erotic and much more pleasing.

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By *uzyamCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Definitely our thing

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By *ndwhynot42Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

So many great soft swap couples, all bloody miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love girl on girl and are soft swap

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London


"We feel that soft swapping relies on more imagination, which helps to increase the eroticism of the moment. Some things shouldn’t be rushed

Ed x"

Very much agreed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ? "

I was wondering the same the other day.

Is it just, kissing, groping and hand stuff? Is oral considered full swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many great soft swap couples, all bloody miles away. "

Haha yes always the way on here.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"So I'm guessing soft swap is anything goes but pentration ?

I was wondering the same the other day.

Is it just, kissing, groping and hand stuff? Is oral considered full swap? "

If you read the whole thread you will see it has been discussed

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"We love soft swap and have enjoyed some great evenings doing just that. Our interpretation of it being everything except actually fucking......"

Agree with this… although I’m not adverse to seeing the guys go at each other though!

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By *ewstaffscoupleCouple
over a year ago

cannock

Why do you consider as soft swap, sorry for sounding a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many great soft swap couples, all bloody miles away. "

Oh hey *wave *

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Why do you consider as soft swap, sorry for sounding a newbie "

I assume you meant what So traditionally it’s usually manual stimulation, flirting, caressing, kissing and potentially oral sex. But different people have different variations of it, the only thing that doesn’t change is the none penetration part.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Hi there

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We have done this for 20 years but our version is erotic photos (wife posing with men).

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