FabSwingers.com forum: Should I lose the beard?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker but as a whole, I think men look sexier with beards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a deal breaker but as a whole, I think men look sexier with beards."

Noted. I feel much the same about women in red dresses

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.

Don't change to suit others on here.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"Not a deal breaker but as a whole, I think men look sexier with beards."

I hope most on here prefer beards I don't want to shave mine off at all at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.

Don't change to suit others on here. "

Thanks Mrs x

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.

Don't change to suit others on here. "

This.

I’ve got one too. You take me as I am or not at all.

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By *avid4olderMan
over a year ago

North Coast

"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"

Don’t mean this to sound harsh but even if you shave it off, is it suddenly going to make those who don’t like beards automatically like you? Just do what you want - if you fancy a change to see how you get on, shave it off. Can always grow it back.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC "

Thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC "

Is that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs PD) personally don't like them but would never ask anyone to get rid of theirs.

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

I shave mine every year for movember but would never live without my beard x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Flik isn't a fan but plenty of women do like them and you should just be who you are.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Only lose it if you want to. People Don't like it move on. Had a couple who I had been chatting to block me after showing face pic. Reply was don't like beards blocked

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

Keep the beard in fact more beard.

As a barber you can take that as a professional opinion. It’s like your doctor telling ya.

In the words of lord flash heart

‘Like the beard gives em something to hold on to . Woooof!’

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

It's rare that I find a man attractive if he has no facial hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of ours, who we meet regularly, sent a little whatsapp video prior to our last meet. He wanted to share that he'd grown a beard and he really hoped it wasn't a problem

So cute.

I'll say to you what I said to him - it's your face, your facial hair. You do what you like with it!

It's nice that you guys care enough to ask though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A friend of ours, who we meet regularly, sent a little whatsapp video prior to our last meet. He wanted to share that he'd grown a beard and he really hoped it wasn't a problem

So cute.

I'll say to you what I said to him - it's your face, your facial hair. You do what you like with it!

It's nice that you guys care enough to ask though xx "

That’s very considerate - I’ll bear that in mind.

You two look like you have plenty of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dye it pink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (Mrs PD) personally don't like them but would never ask anyone to get rid of theirs."

this from both of us, cant stand them, especialy on ladies, but would never ask someone to get rid, we just wouldnt meet them

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"I (Mrs PD) personally don't like them but would never ask anyone to get rid of theirs."

this

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By *appyharryhMan
over a year ago

Burntwood

If you like the beard keep the beard, If you want a change get rid of it. It shouldn’t matter what other people think, it’s upto you.

Winter is coming so I’ll probably let mine grow a bit to keep me warm. My heads going to get cold but I can try and keep my face warm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the beard in fact more beard.

As a barber you can take that as a professional opinion. It’s like your doctor telling ya.

In the words of lord flash heart

‘Like the beard gives em something to hold on to . Woooof!’"

My hero! If it’s good enough for Rick, it sure works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you should make any decisions with the expectations it's going to get you more meets. If you do something, do it because you want to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't change his I look for people on the net and neither should anybody else. However if you're just canvassing opinion in the same way I might ask my mates if they think shorter hair would suit me then I think you should keep it, it suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like the beard, keep it! Why would you shave it off to, 1) Please someone you don't know at all, and 2) For the slight possibility that they will now consider having sex with you? Stay you and aim for your people!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had a first contact message from a couple telling me to lose the beard or they wouldn't meet me. Bad enough coming from someone I had already been chatting to but ridiculous as they assumed I was interested in meeting them and desperate enough to do as I was told.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Beard looks ok, I would lose the untidy background

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC

Is that right?

It is. Hubby doesn't have one so I obviously like men without beards too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s very considerate - I’ll bear that in mind.

You two look like you have plenty of fun.

We try!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even myself without a beard these days.

Looks decent on you though mate and if you like it that’s what matters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beard looks ok, I would lose the untidy background

Not the first time I’ve heard that!

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

Beard looks good on you.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

I have a beard too. Sometimes it’s shorter, sometimes it’s longer but it’s always there. I also see plenty of profiles saying they don’t like men with beards. I just don’t message them. There are plenty who enjoy a good beard and they are more my type

I have been told in the past ‘we’d meet you if you want to shave your beard off’ urm, no you’re alright. I’ll pass on that thanks

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC

Is that right?

It is. Hubby doesn't have one so I obviously like men without beards too

You have the best of both worlds x

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I never thought I'd like men with beards, but it turns out that I do!

Mrs NC

Is that right?

It is. Hubby doesn't have one so I obviously like men without beards too

You have the best of both worlds x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your beard suits you. They're not a deal breaker for me at all. But, it's your beard, you do what you want with it.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Only if it's what you want to do, don't do it for the sake of someone else.

I love a guy with a beard but it's not a deal-breaker for me of he doesn't for example

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"Only if it's what you want to do, don't do it for the sake of someone else.

I love a guy with a beard but it's not a deal-breaker for me of he doesn't for example"

Well said

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"

Keep it i love a nice groomed beard and so do a lot of other women x

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Fuck no!

Although I have to say of the beard compliments I recieve they come from men probably twice as often as they come from women so it might be something men appreciate more than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think of you like having a beard why would you even think of shaving it off just because a few people you don't even know don't like beards.

Don't change to suit others on here. "

Definitely this ^^

And it has nothing to do with my preference for guy's with beards.

But why on earth would you shave it off, in the hope that some random stranger on here might like it?

That's like me thinking, if I dye my hair blonde suddenly I'll be noticed more!?!? I'm very happy being a brunette thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that! Change for no one!

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Someone who'd shaved his beard because his mrs told him to once said to me "A man who shaves his beard for a woman deserves neither" it made me chuckle and is very applicable here.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Personally clean shaven looks better. Beard can look good but only certain beards. If you have pubes on your face just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"

Maybe a lil trim if it's too bushy like Chubakka

but wouldn't change myself just for a meet, they like you as u are in your pic or they don't. simple

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

You chose to have a beard for a reason, so I certainly wouldn’t be getting rid of it just because a few profiles don’t like it! Chose what you want to do, not what you think others would prefer! Having said that if Mr suddenly shaved his off, I’d cry for at least a week haha

Miss pc

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"

Grow a set be yourself if it is not good enough for others fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a nice, well groomed beard. But they don't suit every man

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Obviously I am biased but it looks great to me. touch of Sir Francis Drake.

Loads of women like beards. Concentrate on them.

Beards could well tickle the fancy so what is to lose by keeping a well groomed one?

At the other extreme, the avuncular Father Christmas look sits well with many women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously I am biased but it looks great to me. touch of Sir Francis Drake.

Loads of women like beards. Concentrate on them.

Beards could well tickle the fancy so what is to lose by keeping a well groomed one?

At the other extreme, the avuncular Father Christmas look sits well with many women."

Francis Drake? I'll take that!

Thanks all. Some lovely comments so far. Who knew it was such a rich topic?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If you like it, keep it. Don't rule your life by what some fab profiles say.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Are you mad???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never get rid of a beard!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip a coin, if ur disappointed with the outcome, u know what u wanted.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Whip it off and see how you feel. It’s not like it won’t grow back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Let that silky mane shine

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yours definitely isn’t a deal breaker for me. You shouldn’t change it for anyone else anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely its about what you want not what others want ?? i totally dislike facial hair but id never expect anyone to shave to meet (yep lots offer but i see that as desperation) and with the amont of post about beards on here it seen alot will get rid of just to have sex that to me is not you being your true self and desperation setting in ....guys if you what a like your beard the own it with pride plus there are a lot more that like them than those that dont

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Yep because you currently look like a cross between the Sheriff of Nottingham and Jimmy Hill off match of the day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep because you currently look like a cross between the Sheriff of Nottingham and Jimmy Hill off match of the day."

Always nice to spread good cheer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with everyone that you shouldn't bother what any strangers online want. But, for what it's worth, this stranger online would say grow it more! I love beards and you suit it.

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

gleneagles

Would never meet a man with a beard ..I just think it ages men .and not at all nice to kiss..bit I understand they are otherwise popular.

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Keep the beard.... Mmmmmmmmm, men with beards.... So hot

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I seem to keep coming across profiles with a firm line on beards. You can see mine - is it a definite dealbreaker? what are your thoughts, Fab?"
do you like your beard ? If you do then why lose it to suit others !?

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By *avid4olderMan
over a year ago

North Coast

"Fuck no!

Although I have to say of the beard compliments I recieve they come from men probably twice as often as they come from women so it might be something men appreciate more than women. "

Amazing how many men compliment. I was shocked. Also the number who say they’re jealous and wish they could grow one similar.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

He kept the beard but lost the profile

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Amazing how many men compliment. I was shocked. Also the number who say they’re jealous and wish they could grow one similar. "

I wish people would understand the simple difference between 'jealous' and 'envious'.

99% of the time people really mean 'envious',thankfully. Envy is a fairly normal activity.

Jealousy, on the other hand, is a totally different beast and not something anyone needs to get caught up with,EVER.It is nothing but destructive and ruins people's lives. I've been on the wrong end of it twice and that is more than enough.

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