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why have a porifle with no pics at all ???

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By *e ja vue 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone doesn't have public or friends only pics doesn't mean they don't have private pics , maybe they send them with any message they send.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "

Will be getting some done soon, just not got round to it yet - busy lives and all that ...not that it's anyone's business what I'm "trying to achIEve" on here.

We're certainly not time-wasters if that's what you are trying to suggest? We have had meets and have visited clubs ...but as I said, that's our business....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I wouldnt initiate contact with someone that didnt have pics on show, but as long as they have some they can send with their message I dont have a problem with it.

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By *e ja vue 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER


"Just because someone doesn't have public or friends only pics doesn't mean they don't have private pics , maybe they send them with any message they send. "

Or maybe they don't send them with messages. Which is more true to form. They send you messages and ask for meets socials etc and still no pic.

Just baffling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just saying to a mate yesterday I want a T-shirt printed with the silhuouette on one side and 'Hi how R U' on the other... to wear to the next social

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

it's not dating at all though is it? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if anyone has none on their profile if they have some privately to send but in my experience, a fair number of men on here actually expect me to invite them round to my house to have sex without having a clue what they look like!

And some of them actually get angry when I try to point this out to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people still think its like personal ads in newspapers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just saying to a mate yesterday I want a T-shirt printed with the silhuouette on one side and 'Hi how R U' on the other... to wear to the next social "

Love that!

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By *e ja vue 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark

Will be getting some done soon, just not got round to it yet - busy lives and all that ...not that it's anyone's business what I'm "trying to achIEve" on here.

We're certainly not time-wasters if that's what you are trying to suggest? We have had meets and have visited clubs ...but as I said, that's our business...."

this is not aimed at anyone in particular, why on earth would you think it was aimed at just you, after a month and still no pictures doesnt make sense when most use this site as a means to meet others.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Just because someone doesn't have public or friends only pics doesn't mean they don't have private pics , maybe they send them with any message they send.

Or maybe they don't send them with messages. Which is more true to form. They send you messages and ask for meets socials etc and still no pic.

Just baffling

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As I said; we don't yet have pics, however, I would never message, make contact or ask for a meet with anyone on Fabs without first supplying pics. Fabs isn't just about arranging private meets though; many people use it to arrange club meets, where seeing a pic is not necessary ...you actually get to see real flesh and blood, boobs, cock etc. This should not be too hard for you to understand, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "
They like to send on email and MSN .. I normally never give it out.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


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this is not aimed at anyone in particular, why on earth would you think it was aimed at just you, after a month and still no pictures doesnt make sense when most use this site as a means to meet others.

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You can't force other people to conform to your idea of how the Fabswingers website should be used, so repeatedly criticising others for using Fabs in a different way just comes across as trolling, and a to be frank, a little bullying.

I have offered a very simple explanation of why Chez and I don't yet have pics on Fabs; if you remain baffled by this simple explanation, which may well apply to other profiles without pics, then I in turn, am completely baffled

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By *e ja vue 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

No its not hard to understand, however you still need to know who you are going to meet, a simple refreshing face pic would be nice to accompany the message if they are keeping pics in private.

And love the t'shirt comment

It's soooooo true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone doesn't have public or friends only pics doesn't mean they don't have private pics , maybe they send them with any message they send.

Or maybe they don't send them with messages. Which is more true to form. They send you messages and ask for meets socials etc and still no pic.

Just baffling

As I said; we don't yet have pics, however, I would never message, make contact or ask for a meet with anyone on Fabs without first supplying pics. Fabs isn't just about arranging private meets though; many people use it to arrange club meets, where seeing a pic is not necessary ...you actually get to see real flesh and blood, boobs, cock etc. This should not be too hard for you to understand, surely?

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Yeah, I think the OP is having an opinion that alot of the fab 'people' who dont have pics expect meets.As I see from ur profile, u have no pics, one verify...thats cool...and u appear to know how to get meets, via clubs or socials.

but the vast majority of the non-pic fab people...dont, and expect meets,attention etc...without any pics..and dont seem willing to get out to clubs.

fab is an empty plate...it needs filled on most occasions...doing somwe work urself is how to achieve more meets...pretty standard I would assume, however many think that merely having a profile up is enough to generate interest.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Took us about six months to put any profile pics up...and so what? Like every single thing on here, it's no-one elses business but the people concerned.

Yet another pointless thread on Fab, to which there can only be pointless replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it funny when people judge others who dont have pics on display... for a large amount of people on here the only things showing on pics are either cocks or an up close pic of a covered tit or a leg or a foot or a hand or a a a. .... So you could say why bother with any pics unless it shows your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a single male commenting on a similar post, said he was doing very well and he had no pictures either, and he had been a member for a year as I peaked so to be honest, maybe its how you portray yourselves that matters more to some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where can we get one of these porifles?

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"No its not hard to understand, however you still need to know who you are going to meet, a simple refreshing face pic would be nice to accompany the message if they are keeping pics in private.

And love the t'shirt comment

It's soooooo true. "

Of course, we would both want to see a pic before arranging private meets on Fabswingers, and we would make sure we supplied some in turn. Your original comment however, was a general criticism of profiles without pics - this should be, and is in fact a personal choice. Unless the site owners make it mandatory to have profile pics, no amount of you thinking otherwise will change that.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm baffled why some people spend an inordinate amount of time pondering how others use the site instead of arranging their own meets!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

For me when I joined I lived in a big city. Having no pics cut down on the bombardment of my mailbox and allowed me to seek out what I was looking for.

Upon moving to a quieter area I felt the need to raise profile a little, so added a couple of shots.

Its all about finding a balance and what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm baffled why some people spend an inordinate amount of time pondering how others use the site instead of arranging their own meets! "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have chatted to a couple who had no pics at all, got on well and a meet was suggested they asked us for face pics, we agreed as long as they they sent us some..they actually said that they have a rule not tp send any pictures until we met, needless to say the meet didn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although a face pic or any pics atract us to a profile its not essential but if said person is trying to arrange a meet with us then pics are a must even if they are private and mailed to us like said before this isnt blind date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "

I have been on here a long time and only yesterday added a pic.. it hasn't stopped me meeting and having fun its just something I wasn't comfy with, actually i'm not sure if i'll keep the pic up.

I love looking at other pics and I do understand it seems odd but if like me it takes a while then i'm just a slow coach lol. maybe in a year I might add another

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "

Stick to those with pics then and leave the rest of us to run our own lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the OPs question as being that different to when 'we' advise cpls on their profiles why they dont have pics of the male half up-as it'll normally achieve better results.

Both sides of this debate i'd say show a lack of understanding on how some people wish to meet, I dont believe the OP in question have a problem with getting meets(i peeked as per normal), they just see it as pointless profiles not advertising themselves well enough to be considered for meets.

Oh...and the fems saying this and that about about not needing pics on their profile..well that mainly cos uve a fanny and can probably find a shag no matter if u dont supply one, the dynamics change when its single men and cpls(wishing to meet cpls and fems) in most cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none on display but lots in private, which is where i choose to keep them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not help that on this site pics can be easily downloaded unlike other sites.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


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Both sides of this debate i'd say show a lack of understanding on how some people wish to meet, I dont believe the OP in question have a problem with getting meets(i peeked as per normal), they just see it as pointless profiles not advertising themselves well enough to be considered for meets.

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I do not consider our profile to be pointless at all. We get plenty of offers for meets, and many would be happy to meet us without ever seeing a pic. We don't need better results either; we've already attracted enough attention. We do intend to upload pics at some point ...but only when we're good and ready ...and it's our business when! As regards the "both sides of the debate" comment; there really is no need for any debate. Fact: it is not yet mandatory for pics to be included on profiles at Fabswingers. Therefore if you don't like our profile, then go away and leave us alone. We're happy without you ...very!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm baffled why some people spend an inordinate amount of time pondering how others use the site instead of arranging their own meets! "

That said I,m sure you have never met a guy who has never shown a pic!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

We only reply to ppl with pics,we visiual + enjoy profiles with sexy pics,thats us + works well!...We have no probs with ppl who don't show any JUST:don't bother us,read our profile + stick to ppl with similar attitude to pics...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Both sides of this debate i'd say show a lack of understanding on how some people wish to meet, I dont believe the OP in question have a problem with getting meets(i peeked as per normal), they just see it as pointless profiles not advertising themselves well enough to be considered for meets.

I do not consider our profile to be pointless at all. We get plenty of offers for meets, and many would be happy to meet us without ever seeing a pic. We don't need better results either; we've already attracted enough attention. We do intend to upload pics at some point ...but only when we're good and ready ...and it's our business when! As regards the "both sides of the debate" comment; there really is no need for any debate. Fact: it is not yet mandatory for pics to be included on profiles at Fabswingers. Therefore if you don't like our profile, then go away and leave us alone. We're happy without you ...very!!! "

I am sure you are correct when you say you have had loads of offers without pics (as I myself had for the one day I didnt have pics on my profile) but to be fair, the people that dont need a visual stimulant in my eyes are desperados who will see any meet as "a hole is a goal". Would you want to meet someone who has that in mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Both sides of this debate i'd say show a lack of understanding on how some people wish to meet, I dont believe the OP in question have a problem with getting meets(i peeked as per normal), they just see it as pointless profiles not advertising themselves well enough to be considered for meets.

I do not consider our profile to be pointless at all. We get plenty of offers for meets, and many would be happy to meet us without ever seeing a pic. We don't need better results either; we've already attracted enough attention. We do intend to upload pics at some point ...but only when we're good and ready ...and it's our business when! As regards the "both sides of the debate" comment; there really is no need for any debate. Fact: it is not yet mandatory for pics to be included on profiles at Fabswingers. Therefore if you don't like our profile, then go away and leave us alone. We're happy without you ...very!!! "

I did point out it appears u have claimed ur doing well for meets, clubs etc....but I believe that is rarer amongst the vast amounts that dont.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


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...but to be fair, the people that dont need a visual stimulant in my eyes are desperados who will see any meet as "a hole is a goal". Would you want to meet someone who has that in mind?"

No ...and we don't

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


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I did point out it appears u have claimed ur doing well for meets, clubs etc....but I believe that is rarer amongst the vast amounts that dont."

Well, we're certainly happy - it should also be remembered that there is a world outside of Fabswingers ...and out profile does not reflect those encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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...but to be fair, the people that dont need a visual stimulant in my eyes are desperados who will see any meet as "a hole is a goal". Would you want to meet someone who has that in mind?

No ...and we don't "

Well I have to be a little controversial here as I could never meet (club or otherwise) somebody who I have never seen before.For one its dangerous but secondly, I need to fancy someone Im meeting! For me its a nsa site so Im really not into meeting guys to have as friends, if I make them along the way then thats great but that is def not the purpose of my being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd never contact anyone who didn't have profile pics, fair enough if the sent them with a message but we'd never instigate communication with a photoless profile.

There are far too many profiles with attractive pics to risk taking pot luck with those that haven't.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take pics down when I'm not looking for new contacts. Those who know me already know what I look like, after all it's a window which says this is me come and have a look.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm baffled why some people spend an inordinate amount of time pondering how others use the site instead of arranging their own meets!

That said I,m sure you have never met a guy who has never shown a pic!"

No, that's not the issue though is it? When I'm meeting I block those without profile pics from contacting me, I don't waste my time wondering why people don't have pics and start threads querying how other members choose to use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm baffled why some people spend an inordinate amount of time pondering how others use the site instead of arranging their own meets!

That said I,m sure you have never met a guy who has never shown a pic!

No, that's not the issue though is it? When I'm meeting I block those without profile pics from contacting me, I don't waste my time wondering why people don't have pics and start threads querying how other members choose to use the site.

"

Who said she has spent an inordinate amount of time? Its a one off question that doesn't hint in any way that she has spent a long time pondering the thought.Its an off the cuff thought and doest really need disecting. Most of the forum posts are about other people and how they use the site (the others being those "fuck the one above " ones that irritate me.

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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Pics or not,verifications or not(in some cases too many),age,Bi/straight....what difference does it really make? We all have different preferences and let's be honest,most of us make an instant judgement on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just cant understand why if you have been on here for more than a month to have no pics at all on your profile, what are you trying to acheive , its not dating in the dark "

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Anoher thread where everyone that it refers to has to jump on the defensive nd get arsey...

Get a life ffs is just a question why do people have to get so irate !!

If it doesn't bother you that much why waste time defending yourself..

One things that a huge turn off is insecure people !

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