FabSwingers.com forum: ENM

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ethical non-monogamy, like.

What are your thoughts? The pitfalls? The perks?

Mrs Justme & I have been doing it about 18 months. It’s been great, though not without strains.

Tampering jealousy and setting ground rules have worked best for us. And you?

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I am in an open relationship with my partner, that has always no 1 rule. As I like sex, get different things from sex with different people, and was not prepared to give it up for anyone.

We've been together just over 3 years now, with ups and downs (like any normal couple), and whereas I was able to find someone quite easily/had FBs or FWBs from before, he could not find anyone. Finally, things started happening for him at our local club, and last time, he had full sex with a lady he didn't know before. No jealousy here, and as I was "entertaining" her husband, I didn't feel like I was being left out. It felt great, to see him with another woman.

I'd say make sure you both communicate, set soft rules and hard rules and don't have secrets from each other.

By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

She's absolutely right. Teamwork is great, when you agree the rules from the start.

And breaking that particular duck in front of her was amazing. Such a rush. Sexy=confident=sexually attractive=sexually active.

Swinging is all getting the best experience, by putting in the effort: right place, right time and the right people. The last bit has been the hardest, until now.

Find the right partner. It's the most important and hardest thing to do on FAb. But when it happens, it's magical and this is where the keepers need to be found, kept and spoilt rotten.