FabSwingers.com forum: Regulars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How safe is it?

I've read a lot of posts with the subject of people having sex with regular partners and having sex without condoms.

Can you be 100% certain that the partners are exclusive to each other, or are they meeting others and doing the same with those, without the other people involved not knowing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx"

Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx"

Me too. Afterall, this is a swingers site and not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx

Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis. "

I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx

Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis.

I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx"

Exactly, as everyone who’s willing to play bare should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since when has regular meant exclusive ?? i have 2 regular guys but im exclusive to no one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone has their own choices and persuasions, everyone has their own kind of fun.

Does it matter that the ones you play with could be playing with those that don't get tested?

A test will only let you know if you have or haven't caught something, not prevent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular just means meeting them more, both sides still fuck others as they please. Regular testing is always needed.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"How safe is it?

I've read a lot of posts with the subject of people having sex with regular partners and having sex without condoms.

Can you be 100% certain that the partners are exclusive to each other, or are they meeting others and doing the same with those, without the other people involved not knowing?"

In my experience they lie and say not having sex others then you find out having unprotected sex with st least 2 others who have no idea

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx"

Exactly this!

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

Wife and I met a regular guy for 17months but always condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet with a few regulars always safe

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always play safe no matter how regular I see someone

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Allways play safe even regulars x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand people telling they play bare back with regulars and they test regularly. Doing test doesn't protect from catching a disease.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I don't understand people telling they play bare back with regulars and they test regularly. Doing test doesn't protect from catching a disease. "

If it's someone they trust and both parties agree they'll only play bareback with that person then it's not really any different from a couple, that said it isn't our bag, someone you're not in a relationship with owes you nothing and people lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume the person I'm have sex with has multiple partners, regular or one offs. Xx

Same, and I take my own health serious so I’m checked on a regular basis.

I'm happy to play bare, but I do get checked at least monthly xx"

Getting checked monthly doesn’t protect you from catching an incurable STD from someone you have unprotected sex with though. It stops you spreading it if you do catch something so it’s definitely good to get checked regularly but unless you only have unprotected sex with someone who’s been checked and given the all clear recently you’re putting yourself at risk no matter how regularly you get checked.

Do you ask when the person was last checked before having unprotected sex?

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