FabSwingers.com forum: First time in a swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First time in a club

For First timers how was it

For woman men couples looking to experience clubs but not sure what to expect

Or have imagined what it is like please experienced swingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Before the first time I went to a club I imagined it would be a lot of d*unk horny people walking around naked and being invited to join

Thank god I wasn't let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go to a club night where I’m allowed to wear just a pair of knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous and apprehensive. Didn't go with the intention of playing. But once there seeing and feeling the vibe started to make me feel really horny.got talking to a great guy, so hubby suggested that we all go in the jacuzzi. Soon became relaxed as hands were starting to touch me all over. Then the next thing we were all in a room having a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very nervous and apprehensive. Didn't go with the intention of playing. But once there seeing and feeling the vibe started to make me feel really horny.got talking to a great guy, so hubby suggested that we all go in the jacuzzi. Soon became relaxed as hands were starting to touch me all over. Then the next thing we were all in a room having a great time

I bet you got a lot of attention, you look amazing. I’d have loved to have been in that jacuzzi with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I bet it felt great the first time in a long time you had another guy inside you than your hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet it felt great the first time in a long time you had another guy inside you than your hubby

How do you know it was the first time in a long time that someone other than her hubby was inside her? She didn’t say that was the case.

She didn’t actually say that the other guy was ever inside her, she just said they had a great time which could mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet it felt great the first time in a long time you had another guy inside you than your hubby

How do you know it was the first time in a long time that someone other than her hubby was inside her? She didn’t say that was the case.

She didn’t actually say that the other guy was ever inside her, she just said they had a great time which could mean anything. "

It was my first time in a club and yes they both had a pleasurable time inside me. But that was not my first time feeling another cock other than my husband's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first visit was a nervous affair, we went with zero expectations and just played by ourselves on that night.

We just wanted to have a good look around and take it all in.. but we still must have looked like rabbits caught in the headlights.

We've loved clubs ever since although we haven't visited one for a good while now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heading away the weekend to the canaries and might try go to a club if possible, will be my first time and only reason I’d be worried / nervous is because I’m a younger single male and not sure what way the others there would react to it wether they’d just sort of ignore me or whatever , I think I’m thinking too much into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was rather nervous, and had no idea what to expect. Didn't have any expectations other than to enjoy the experience. Was a great afternoon, met some lovely people, and look forward to my next visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I bet it felt great the first time in a long time you had another guy inside you than your hubby

How do you know it was the first time in a long time that someone other than her hubby was inside her? She didn’t say that was the case.

She didn’t actually say that the other guy was ever inside her, she just said they had a great time which could mean anything.

It was my first time in a club and yes they both had a pleasurable time inside me. But that was not my first time feeling another cock other than my husband's

I'm sorry

what I ment was that your first time with another man since you got married

Also being in a club really opened my eyes.. There was one thing I didn't expect that was to realise that women are just as in fact a lot more kinky than men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I need advice

I'm meeting this woman beautiful small and sexy.

Great as sex she wants to start swinging but she hasn't been with many guys or girls but she wants to

So what is the best way I can introduce her to swinging without being to much for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples only night at a club there's no pressure to play. Just socialize and take in all the delights of the evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples only night at a club there's no pressure to play. Just socialize and take in all the delights of the evening"

When she told me what she was to try swinging but she knows i have a small bit of experience but she wants me to organise

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Glad this thread come up, we was only talking about wanting to try a club yest, any info for newbies very welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Glad this thread come up, we was only talking about wanting to try a club yest, any info for newbies very welcome xx"

Well its an experience that is unforgettable

but I have never been to a club as a couple but couples in there really enjoy themselves it all depends what you want to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went with a couple with whom I was playing already, Who had been before. The couple provided a girlfriend for me as well. We had fun as a foursome and then swapped in the public area.

Very horny, very wonderful.

PM for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad this thread come up, we was only talking about wanting to try a club yest, any info for newbies very welcome xx"

We went for the first time recently and had an amazing time. Didn’t go with the expectations of doing anything but ended up playing together in various rooms although didn’t feel the need to have anyone join us despite one or two offering.

Only advice I would give is go with no expectations, be really honest with each other and only do what you are both happy doing. Everyone was super respectful and no-one there will judge you whether you do everything or nothing, that’s the best part!

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By *iJandJCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We were very nervous on our first time

Both had bi fantasies, now a reality rather than fantasy so went to bi night at Townhouse

A complete mixture of ages, shapes and attire

After a few drinks we went upstairs, dressed down and got to play in the main rooms

Great fun and have since been back and to Cupid’s and looking for more

Still nervous before going through the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We were very nervous on our first time

Both had bi fantasies, now a reality rather than fantasy so went to bi night at Townhouse

A complete mixture of ages, shapes and attire

After a few drinks we went upstairs, dressed down and got to play in the main rooms

Great fun and have since been back and to Cupid’s and looking for more

Still nervous before going through the door"

How did you find planning out your bi fantasies

for me going into the main room dressing down the first time in front of multiple people was the most nervous I had been

it was a good thing I was d*unk

but being invited by a woman to join the fun with other couples and her husband really calmed my nervous especially when she dropped on her nees

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

"Glad this thread come up, we was only talking about wanting to try a club yest, any info for newbies very welcome xx

Exactly what we both say to be honest, no expectations at all and if anything we are going just to see if its for us. Thank you for the info xx

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I want to go to a club night where I’m allowed to wear just a pair of knickers"

Why wouldn't you be allowed to wear just a pair of knickers? In my opinion, it's perfectly acceptable, particularly in dress down clubs. The night club style ones- that's a bit more tricky but once you're in play areas, then you can dress down to just your knickers.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I got taken to Jaydees as my very first club shortly before my 40th birthday. A guy I was seeing suggested going to their Halloween party together. It was amazing!

I'm almost having the "first time in a club" experience tomorrow when I'll be going to an event on my own. Getting nervous but excited.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I was excited and nervous in equal measures, for my first club experience, and with over an hour's drive to get there, the closer I got, the more nervous I became. It was nice enough inside, but a very quiet night, not many people in, and overall it felt like a Sunday afternoon in a working men's club, rather than what I imagined what a Friday night in a swingers' club might be. It was, quite literally, an anti-climax for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you got a lot of attention, you look amazing. I’d have loved to have been in that jacuzzi with you. "

Well thank you

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I want to go to a club night where I’m allowed to wear just a pair of knickers"

So pretty all of them..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whats the most guys/girls u have taken on in the club in one season

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

"I got taken to Jaydees as my very first club shortly before my 40th birthday. A guy I was seeing suggested going to their Halloween party together. It was amazing!

I'm almost having the "first time in a club" experience tomorrow when I'll be going to an event on my own. Getting nervous but excited. "

Good luck xx

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

I’ve been keen for a club for so long but still so unsure about going as a single gent, and as a younger guy too! People keep telling me it’ll be fine but feel like I’d get judged for just going for one thing

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

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By *alsaGuy77Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

Either get a FB that you trust or a wing woman. Or find a night on here that looks good and put your name to it and let people know you are new to it and they'll look out for you. Chose the right club and it isn't just a few women with loads of men ready to pounce but a big social event where everyone talks to each other.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I got taken to Jaydees as my very first club shortly before my 40th birthday. A guy I was seeing suggested going to their Halloween party together. It was amazing!

I'm almost having the "first time in a club" experience tomorrow when I'll be going to an event on my own. Getting nervous but excited. "

you'll be fine and sext with it, walking around in your knickers, or maybe not.

xxx

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

Come to Jaydees near Bedford, as it's a brilliant first timers' club, I did it solo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had nerves going into the club but once we were given a tour and got changed we felt more relaxed.

Decided to have some fun in the watching room, once we'd seen people watching it felt like a huge weight off the shoulders.

Once finished we jumped in the jacuzzi and had a craic on with a few others, followed by drinks at the bar.

We're now confident to explore other clubs.

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

I’ve looked at Jaydees before and Bedford isn’t too far! May have to give it a try soon and just go for it

Come to Jaydees near Bedford, as it's a brilliant first timers' club, I did it solo."

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

Feel the exact same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to go to a club night where I’m allowed to wear just a pair of knickers

So pretty all of them..

Thank you, I’m glad you like them, I feel pretty when I’m wearing them....although I probably don’t look as pretty as I feel...

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

I'm there this Saturday...come and say hi

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

Its important to build trust and understanding of each other and a first visit together and I'd be happy to accompany you to a club visit I would look after your welfare at all times xxxx

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Our first time was great, we'd only been on Fab for a week or so, we met a couple for a social on christmas day night I think it was who told us about Chams and said they were going the next day if we wanted to pop along so we did.

We were both nervous and are both quite shy with no expectations but it was a fairly quiet night and we spoke to most people in the club at some point including a couple of single guys and briefly a polish couple who were there with 2 other couples. We put on a bit of a show at various points throughout the night and were having one last bit of fun in a playroom with the door closed when the polish couple from earlier popped their head in and asked to join us.

So a week after deciding to try swinging we had our first experince, shortly followed by a slightly rushed goodbye, a trip down the m6 at naughty speeds and a quick change into my work uniform to get to work as we'd only planned on a quicky before leaving when we went into the playroom.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to go to a club or meat ,but think lack the confidence to go on my own . Like the idea of it . Guessing there’s a lot of mingling going on !!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Before the first time I went to a club I imagined it would be a lot of d*unk horny people walking around naked and being invited to join

Thank god I wasn't let down

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I've never been to a club where thats been the case for the majority to be fair.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Clubs for me are my happy place.. my safe place. I've accompanied many a newbie lady or couple to a club and spoken to many newbie gents at events. For me it's as much about the social aspect as anything else.

It's none pushy, no pressure safe place ..where play may or may not happen. Should be full of like minded people who I can chat with and have a good laugh with

Anything else is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs for me are my happy place.. my safe place. I've accompanied many a newbie lady or couple to a club and spoken to many newbie gents at events. For me it's as much about the social aspect as anything else.

It's none pushy, no pressure safe place ..where play may or may not happen. Should be full of like minded people who I can chat with and have a good laugh with

Anything else is a bonus "

Hey

To be honest it’s sounds like a better place for me then on sites !!! Not very texty !! Think it’s easier to chat face to face

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"I really want to go to a club, but don't want to go alone and not sure who I should go with

A single guy or single female

Bit anxious about being left on my own if the person I'm there with decides to go off and play

I'm there this Saturday...come and say hi"

I'm working unfortunately but thank you for the offer

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I got taken to Jaydees as my very first club shortly before my 40th birthday. A guy I was seeing suggested going to their Halloween party together. It was amazing!

I'm almost having the "first time in a club" experience tomorrow when I'll be going to an event on my own. Getting nervous but excited.

Good luck xx"

Thank you. Some of my friends are going to be there, so that'll ease me more gently in. Also, I know that I will be well looked after by the amazing Jaydees crew.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"I got taken to Jaydees as my very first club shortly before my 40th birthday. A guy I was seeing suggested going to their Halloween party together. It was amazing!

I'm almost having the "first time in a club" experience tomorrow when I'll be going to an event on my own. Getting nervous but excited.

you'll be fine and sext with it, walking around in your knickers, or maybe not.

xxx"

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Honestly first time was a Friday night and we hated it we had a guy following us around all night trying to play we wasn't interested but we decided to go back on the Saturday night and it was amazing lots more couples and people. in the end we ended up regularly going.

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