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By *onnie 90 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thought I'd dip my toe's into the gang bang arena. Now I've never done this before, so I'm a complete novice and was thinking of inviting three guys initially. I'm just wondering how to set this up and what to expect during the encounter. Could anyone suggest the best ground rules, boundaries and safety tips. All advice would be genuinely appreciated.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Find a trusted gangbang organiser. Or a friend (probably male) who's prepared to enforce the rules. They may also host in some circumstances - neutral ground.

Your boundaries are your own to set, and should be non-negotiable.

Invite three times as many as you expect to show up.

The men should bring condoms/lube but bring some yourself anyway, some will take the piss.

Make your needs known and don't be shy about enforcing them.

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster

"Thought I'd dip my toe's into the gang bang arena. Now I've never done this before, so I'm a complete novice and was thinking of inviting three guys initially. I'm just wondering how to set this up and what to expect during the encounter. Could anyone suggest the best ground rules, boundaries and safety tips. All advice would be genuinely appreciated. "

One that did work well & quite festive, is buy a santa hat, get the men around you.

Whoever has the santa hat on, gets sucked then passes it on.

Instead of pass the parcel, it's suck the cock

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By *entlemale69Man
over a year ago

nuneaton

Well, I'd suggest finding a good male friend to look after you just in case. Then find twice as many men as you'll think you need, as half will drop out with crazy excuses and find somewhere safe and sensible like a hotel room, but you'll need one that won't notice 10 blokes all going to the same room. Plenty of condoms and loads of fun !!!!

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Find a trusted gangbang organiser. Or a friend (probably male) who's prepared to enforce the rules. They may also host in some circumstances - neutral ground.

Your boundaries are your own to set, and should be non-negotiable.

Invite three times as many as you expect to show up.

The men should bring condoms/lube but bring some yourself anyway, some will take the piss.

Make your needs known and don't be shy about enforcing them."

Agree totally with the above. I would add ...

Meet in the room and before you start ask if everyone wants to play. You should bear in mind the guys will not know one another.

Get a safe word for EVERYONE. On occasions guys need to indicate the need to stop.

Have preplanned breaks as 4 or 5 men on one woman, whilst lovely, is quite physical and it is nice to have a breather.

only have one photographer; your own guy. Tell the players they will get selected copies and to give over their email address.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Well, I'd suggest finding a good male friend to look after you just in case. Then find twice as many men as you'll think you need, as half will drop out with crazy excuses and find somewhere safe and sensible like a hotel room, but you'll need one that won't notice 10 blokes all going to the same room. Plenty of condoms and loads of fun !!!!"

She said she's thinking of three guys not ten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of very good advice.

A little to add. If you want to break the ice once everyone has arrived pick a game. Dominoes springs to mind. Make a list to use with the game. You can start off with a list to break the ice like kissing, remove a top etc. One things have moved up a gear have a second list ready. Two lists can be more than enough but you're in control and can make as many as you wish to speed things up or slow things down.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Find a trusted gangbang organiser. Or a friend (probably male) who's prepared to enforce the rules. They may also host in some circumstances - neutral ground.

Your boundaries are your own to set, and should be non-negotiable.

Invite three times as many as you expect to show up.

The men should bring condoms/lube but bring some yourself anyway, some will take the piss.

Make your needs known and don't be shy about enforcing them.

Agree totally with the above. I would add ...

Meet in the room and before you start ask if everyone wants to play. You should bear in mind the guys will not know one another.

Get a safe word for EVERYONE. On occasions guys need to indicate the need to stop.

Have preplanned breaks as 4 or 5 men on one woman, whilst lovely, is quite physical and it is nice to have a breather.

only have one photographer; your own guy. Tell the players they will get selected copies and to give over their email address. "

And I would add. Do some planning as to what sexual scenarios you want to experience. For example, if you fancy DVP then don't leave it to chance and "go with the flow". Get the right hand man to sort out two men happy to do it and get it organised.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Go to a greedy girl night at a club as a good way of finding plenty of guys without the worry of trying to organise something with the issue of people not turning up.

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sex Bi The Sea

I’ve organised house parties I made some jumbo dice up and got people to write different sex acts on them and some had to the left right etc a great ice breaker

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Our meets have all been with several gentlemen. Really difficult to arrange as we like to find the guys ourself rather than leave it to someone who claims they can do so. We like to have an idea of the person first. Extremely time consuming and really annoying when you are trying to make up numbers last minute because guys who promised for weeks have suddenly gone offline. Great fun when the action starts but can be stressful getting there. Don’t think the guys appreciate the effort ladies and couples go to to arrange such events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask about a club, many eager males there, none usally know eachother and they will behave as the others will ensure as will the police a no means NO and stop means STOP otherwise its breaking the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is planning one in or near London, I would love an invite

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