FabSwingers.com forum: do muscles matter?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking across this site there is all shapes of guys.

Do ladies tend to enjoy a guy what works out or the natural man look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 packs scare me. I prefer blokes that are natural. Any size apart from the extremes of really skinny or really huge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a guy who looks after himself that dont mean he has to have a six pack tho

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

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like guys who have fit toned bodies... not necessarily living in a gym but not neglected bodies either.

Not the fittest woman in the world but not too bad either so like my guys to be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 packs scare me. I prefer blokes that are natural. Any size apart from the extremes of really skinny or really huge. "

LOL six packs aren't unnatural, they're just well toned bods xxx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking."

I'm confused what that's got to do with six packs lol and I'd beg to differ, he's sexy as fuck! Mind you most of his sexiness is down to his attitude and sheer brilliance. Yeah, I'm a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking.

I'm confused what that's got to do with six packs lol and I'd beg to differ, he's sexy as fuck! Mind you most of his sexiness is down to his attitude and sheer brilliance. Yeah, I'm a fan

well, i guess i am saying that muscles dont matter, because men without them still look ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking.

I'm confused what that's got to do with six packs lol and I'd beg to differ, he's sexy as fuck! Mind you most of his sexiness is down to his attitude and sheer brilliance. Yeah, I'm a fan

well, i guess i am saying that muscles dont matter, because men without them still look ok."

I concur but they are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'm probs confusing you now, I just didn't understand why poor Robbie was getting picked on lol I'm sure he cares of course lmao but still ...

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goldiefunlocks, you should venture south sometime...

Oh I often do

in all contexts lol

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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Goldiefukinlocks, you should venture south sometime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goldiefukinlocks, you should venture south sometime...

pmsl i answered that before you deleted it

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Goldiefunlocks, you should venture south sometime...

Oh I often do

in all contexts lol

Ha ha, I bet. You'd love Leeds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'm probs confusing you now, I just didn't understand why poor Robbie was getting picked on lol I'm sure he cares of course lmao but still ..."

i just seen a picture of him and thought he is starting to look old.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Goldiefukinlocks, you should venture south sometime...

pmsl i answered that before you deleted it

Ha ha, I know! Spelt your username wrong.

It was a typo. Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference, obviously, but for me I love a big muscley guy. The bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tight ripped forearm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personal preference, obviously, but for me I love a big muscley guy. The bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tight ripped forearm here"

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'm probs confusing you now, I just didn't understand why poor Robbie was getting picked on lol I'm sure he cares of course lmao but still ...

i just seen a picture of him and thought he is starting to look old."

my point was, his attitude and personality is what makes him a superstar ... and correct me if I'm wrong but you're advocating seeing past looks?

anyway nuff said, I'm not getting into a who likes Robbie discussion lol the point is what it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tight ripped forearm here"

Why the fuck did I only see the flabby one

that was yer arm wasn't it?

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I think most women like to see a toned body, I have certainly noticed that the women at work don’t look me over so much since I stopped going to the gym and the and lost a bit of my muscle mass L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have a right arm like popeye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tight ripped forearm here

Why the fuck did I only see the flabby one

that was yer arm wasn't it?

musta been that highly corrosive ugly fanny juice u squirted on me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tight ripped forearm here

Why the fuck did I only see the flabby one

that was yer arm wasn't it?

musta been that highly corrosive ugly fanny juice u squirted on me!!!!

That was the capri sun you sat on

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

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"Looking across this site there is all shapes of guys.

Do ladies tend to enjoy a guy what works out or the natural man look. "

The only one that matters is the one between your ears!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women didn't like muscles, acts like the Chippendales would never have got off the ground!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tight ripped forearm here

Why the fuck did I only see the flabby one

that was yer arm wasn't it?

musta been that highly corrosive ugly fanny juice u squirted on me!!!!

That was the capri sun you sat on

and I havent washed since xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a word I see crop up so often in these sorts of discussion, 'toned' - from the way people use it, I'll assume they mean not particularly muscular, at least not HEAVING under the weight of them like some sort of living action figure, just fairly moderate and athletic in build, perhaps with a bit of smoothing fat all over, like they work out but not particularly hard, is that the 'toned' people keep referring to?

The modern perception of what constitutes 'muscular' has been badly skewed by advent of steroids in the 50s, and especially likes of Joe Weider and Arnold Schwartzenegger. If you take a look at the physiques of bodybuilders and strongmen prior to then, barring a few gifted specimens you'll see that many of them would only qualify as 'toned' by todays perception of what a strong, masculine physique is supposed to look like, as the general public have been exposed to so many steroid built physiques over the years that most of them are completely unaware that those sort of muscles are, for the VAST majority, unnattainable without the use of chemicals.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"i like a guy who looks after himself that dont mean he has to have a six pack tho"

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"Thats a word I see crop up so often in these sorts of discussion, 'toned' - from the way people use it, I'll assume they mean not particularly muscular, at least not HEAVING under the weight of them like some sort of living action figure, just fairly moderate and athletic in build, perhaps with a bit of smoothing fat all over, like they work out but not particularly hard, is that the 'toned' people keep referring to?

There is no such thing as toned that people go on about so much either.. What people call a toned body is basically a body with good muscle and low body fat,therefore making the muscle more defined...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and then again there are some guys who just keep fit and fair play to them, there's nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is a strongman so muscly but not cut. I love his arms and muscly back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 packs scare me. I prefer blokes that are natural. Any size apart from the extremes of really skinny or really huge.

LOL six packs aren't unnatural, they're just well toned bods xxx"

Oops sorry! I didn't mean they are unnatural.

Well toned bodies scare me too as I feel self conscious in comparison. Mad I know, just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 packs scare me. I prefer blokes that are natural. Any size apart from the extremes of really skinny or really huge.

LOL six packs aren't unnatural, they're just well toned bods xxx

Oops sorry! I didn't mean they are unnatural.

Well toned bodies scare me too as I feel self conscious in comparison. Mad I know, just me.

Not at all, we are all a bit like that, but we just have to stop worrying and enjoy the fekin view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like guys who have fit toned bodies... not necessarily living in a gym but not neglected bodies either.

Not the fittest woman in the world but not too bad either so like my guys to be the same

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

muscles on a great big lad look great but on a 4ft 8" little fella look not so great to show off.

i'm well over 2 stones lighter dropping down from 18 stones to 15 somthing and going for the tanned and toned 6 pack look but fook me it better be worth it as this allbran diet is giving me the shits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they help me to stand up... and move around sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"muscles on a great big lad look great but on a 4ft 8" little fella look not so great to show off.

i'm well over 2 stones lighter dropping down from 18 stones to 15 something and going for the tanned and toned 6 pack look but fook me it better be worth it as this allbran diet is giving me the shits

Not necessarily so, many great body building champs were/are only short in stature.

Its considerably easier for a small guy to look impressive than a big guy.

A 5'4" guy with only a 44" chest and 18" upper arms would look pretty chunky, whereas a 6'4" guy with the same measurements wouldn't look as muscular.

The taller guy has to build a good deal more muscle for the same effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its considerably easier for a small guy to look impressive than a big guy.

A 5'4" guy with only a 44" chest and 18" upper arms would look pretty chunky, whereas a 6'4" guy with the same measurements wouldn't look as muscular.

The taller guy has to build a good deal more muscle for the same effect.

XXXX"

Depends on what you define as impressive, personally I've always thought that well muscled yet athletic looking physiques like Frank Zane were more impressive than thick, hulking ones like Ronnie Coleman. Both guys were gassed up to the eyeballs though so neither a natural trainee should aspire to.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no beer bellies hanging out is a gud look !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, I wouldn't say so as I was at what I would call my physical peak at about 32, though that's down to my working hours and I'm still in good shape, however I still had no problem attracting fair ladies when younger, despite having a 16 year olds whippet-thin under 10 stone body at about 24, lol!

I think there's many ways a guy can be attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I have found , some women really like athletic toned muscular . Some women like it but feel self conscious and won't chat and some don't like it one bit , some don't care .not really possible to generalize x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is that some will, some won't! I have found that what women don't like is muscled men who think they don't need any substance behind the muscles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered to be honest but I am not keen on the body builder types, just really doesn't do it for me

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

actually that's not quite correct , the definition of a toned body is exactly as above an amount of muscle and reduction in fat that allows the definition of the muscle shape to shine through .

what is often said however is the idea of toning is misunderstood and needs to be explicitly broken down to the fundamental fact fat needs to be burned , this is often within the context of a larger man /woman who ask to be toned and spend ages doing useless toning exercise when large compound moves and interval training would give the right effect

where toning is really misused is the belief that one can tone a specific area when it is the overall reduction in body fat that is required .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking across this site there is all shapes of guys.

Do ladies tend to enjoy a guy what works out or the natural man look. "
only the love muscle matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sign of the times that we associate defined muscles with sporty people or gym addicts, but that's mainly down to the way our working lives have changed over the last 20-30 yrs.

My Grandad was a blacksmith who never went inside a gym once he left the army, but his party piece was to "play the drums" with 2 x 28lb hammers on his anvil. He had amazing arms and upper torso.

You rarely saw fat builders when they traditionally stripped to the waist as soon as the sun came out.

Moms were usually quite lithe until they aquired the modern labour saving devices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think if your the "Total Package" ie fit fun+fuckable and can chat nice without sounding desperate or sleazy you stand a greater chance on here of interesting other people,theres no harm improving things and i'd welcome any fellas who do work out and know what they are doing giving me a few pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a sign of the times that we associate defined muscles with sporty people or gym addicts, but that's mainly down to the way our working lives have changed over the last 20-30 yrs.

My Grandad was a blacksmith who never went inside a gym once he left the army, but his party piece was to "play the drums" with 2 x 28lb hammers on his anvil. He had amazing arms and upper torso.

You rarely saw fat builders when they traditionally stripped to the waist as soon as the sun came out.

Moms were usually quite lithe until they aquired the modern labour saving devices.

I've always said that practical physical labour trumps weights and machines when it comes to both developing real world strength, hence why I included a log pressing pic on my profile - strangely though, its never garnered the same sort of attention on here as simply getting my cock out!

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"muscles on a great big lad look great but on a 4ft 8" little fella look not so great to show off.

i'm well over 2 stones lighter dropping down from 18 stones to 15 somthing and going for the tanned and toned 6 pack look but fook me it better be worth it as this allbran diet is giving me the shits

Eating all bran ain't gonna give you a six pack thats for sure ...6 packs are made in the kitchen ,so your diet needs to be spot on with a decent amount of cardio and also a good weight training programme..

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

actually that's not quite correct , the definition of a toned body is exactly as above an amount of muscle and reduction in fat that allows the definition of the muscle shape to shine through .

where toning is really misused is the belief that one can tone a specific area when it is the overall reduction in body fat that is required .

So am i wrong in believing you can't actually tone a muscle ? You have ti build muscle and lose body fat to get the toned look that peopke desire ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've got no muscle structure or muscle bulk, then you've got nothing to tone.

Build muscle, lose the fat, then you're on the way to getting toned.

It's not rocket science, but it's fookin' hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, build muscle and lose fat. If you just do one without the other you will not get the toned look people refer to.

Unfortunately its not the easiest thing in the world to do, the easiest mistake is to do one too much and the other not enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking.

I'm confused what that's got to do with six packs lol and I'd beg to differ, he's sexy as fuck! Mind you most of his sexiness is down to his attitude and sheer brilliance. Yeah, I'm a fan

X 2 love him x

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"Yes, build muscle and lose fat. If you just do one without the other you will not get the toned look people refer to.

Unfortunately its not the easiest thing in the world to do, the easiest mistake is to do one too much and the other not enough."

No it takes much dedication and disapline which many people don't have.Thats why when you do work out you admire other guys would good physics " in a none homo way " because you know how much it takes ..

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"robbie williams is muscly and i wouldnt say he is good looking.

I'm confused what that's got to do with six packs lol and I'd beg to differ, he's sexy as fuck! Mind you most of his sexiness is down to his attitude and sheer brilliance. Yeah, I'm a fan

well, i guess i am saying that muscles dont matter, because men without them still look ok."

Robbie williams isn't muscley you see the pic of him with his baby in the paper?

If thats muscley i'm the pope !!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

actually that's not quite correct , the definition of a toned body is exactly as above an amount of muscle and reduction in fat that allows the definition of the muscle shape to shine through .

where toning is really misused is the belief that one can tone a specific area when it is the overall reduction in body fat that is required .

So am i wrong in believing you can't actually tone a muscle ? You have ti build muscle and lose body fat to get the toned look that peopke desire .."

you can't tone a muscle x you can change its shape and reduce the fat that covers it . It is this is giving tone to a body area

the misconception is that

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Love my hubby's muscles + his GSOH to go with it.Always nice to play with cpl's or singles were male is same but often other fem gets my nice hubby whilst I end up with average lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like builders muscle over whats been done down the gym...much more sexy

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"I like builders muscle over whats been done down the gym...much more sexy"

Had to ruin your fantasy but muscle is muscle weather its been built at a gym or by some other way.i think you may find that even builders goto a gym..

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

looking through veris it does seem to be the six pack gym bunnies that predominate, and as befits this site these are on profiles of large ladies more often than not........one way street on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"muscles on a great big lad look great but on a 4ft 8" little fella look not so great to show off.

i'm well over 2 stones lighter dropping down from 18 stones to 15 somthing and going for the tanned and toned 6 pack look but fook me it better be worth it as this allbran diet is giving me the shits

yep thats true,i got a mountain bike to do more excercise,walk more and eat less and stick to all bran and weetabix etc,me slight kebab belly has dissapeered now and i'm over the moon at the change. Do you know of any good sites for info on getting started on me 6 pack please or what routines are best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gym bunnies"

I don't recall ever seeing any bunnies down the gym, though there are plenty of juice heads making noises like rutting wilderbeasts as they furiously heave and clang the weights around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow..

Some great responce from this thread.

Juding by most I need to put a little work into my body.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"muscles on a great big lad look great but on a 4ft 8" little fella look not so great to show off.

i'm well over 2 stones lighter dropping down from 18 stones to 15 somthing and going for the tanned and toned 6 pack look but fook me it better be worth it as this allbran diet is giving me the shits

Everyones got a 6 pack its just covered by a layer of fat..try HIT cardio for 20 -30 mins 3 times a week 3 mins normal pace 1 min sprint. Work out your weight,then work out what your daily maintenance calories are for your weight,eat a little under that amount of calories.Eat high protein and as clean as possible no processed crap with lots of sugar or saturated fat.

Loads of exercises you can do planks,leg raises,sit ups,just google a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow..

Some great responce from this thread.

Juding by most I need to put a little work into my body."

your body looks very nice to me young man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hardest workout i ever had was putting twelve bricks in a hod and running them up a ladder all day...six days a week...i have seen many gym junkies try this and fail to even get to the top of the ladder..the gym will give you muscle,but it won't give you stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest workout i ever had was putting twelve bricks in a hod and running them up a ladder all day...six days a week...i have seen many gym junkies try this and fail to even get to the top of the ladder..the gym will give you muscle,but it won't give you stamina."

Its referred to as 'the law of specificity' - basically, you have to train for what you want to get better at, carrying brick hods won't make you better at curling big weights and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow..

Some great responce from this thread.

Juding by most I need to put a little work into my body.

your body looks very nice to me young man.

Why thank you.

And that brick sound very much hard work. I'm thinking about getting into mountain biking as the chase is only a ten min drive from where I live.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Of course the gym will give up stamina,depends what your goals are when training...

Lots of young lads train for looks to get the girls,having good muscle mass doesn't mean your strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its referred to as 'the law of specificity' - basically, you have to train for what you want to get better at, carrying brick hods won't make you better at curling big weights and vice versa. "
I now employ ten brickies and two hod carriers..the two hods are amateur boxers and their trainer has told me their job will give them more fitness than any gym work and circuit training.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowowow am I missing something? Robbie williams is muscly?!?! Lol I don't even think he was in his pomp let alone now! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh they matter but not for getting girls anymore. its a personal thing now and all about physical development

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the look and feel of sacks of potatoes, however, I do like a nicely toned body with a well-defined six-pack and Apollo's Belt.

However, it takes more than just a good looking body to make me want to meet and play with a gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course body shape matters! This isn't a dating site, it's a sex site so you can be as fickle as you like! The fact i'm surrounded by fit soldiers helps to!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"gym bunnies

I don't recall ever seeing any bunnies down the gym, though there are plenty of juice heads making noises like rutting wilderbeasts as they furiously heave and clang the weights around."

Pretty much my gym too. Plus they all have identical tribal tattoos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their preference but not a big fan of huge muscles, find it a turn off when we get sent pictures of guys flexing there biceps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has their preference but not a big fan of huge muscles, find it a turn off when we get sent pictures of guys flexing there biceps "

I don't think I've ever actually seen any biceps pics on here, its not a particularly easy muscle to photograph.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all guys well apart from the jimmy 5 bellys he needs to be good looking not being shallow but an ugly face ie bad teeth and well rotton looking can bolt lol but he doesnt have to have a 6 pack tho i love a natural shape to

a wee bit off flab wouldnt put me off !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the look of well defined, athletic men but I tend to avoid them as I don't see why someone who works hard on their physique would want to meet someone who is a doughball.

A great body isn't a prerequisite for me to want to play with someone, nor would it be enough, by itself, to make me want to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has their preference but not a big fan of huge muscles, find it a turn off when we get sent pictures of guys flexing there biceps

I don't think I've ever actually seen any biceps pics on here, its not a particularly easy muscle to photograph."

I've seen a few. Abs are much more common. And glutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the look of well defined, athletic men but I tend to avoid them as I don't see why someone who works hard on their physique would want to meet someone who is a doughball.

Joking apart, this is quite a common concept and sometimes the reason women say they don't like muscular guys.

Another example is T.V's Take Me Out.

An obviously gym fit guy will come out in a T-shirt to a chorus of OOOOH's and AAAAAH's but the minute he says he frequents the gym or is a fitness instructor the majority of lights go out.

It seems many women are intimidated by the thought that the guy may want to rope them into his gym life style.

XXXX

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

If you work hard and you've got it why not show it off... I think if you took 1000 women and lined up 3 men, a fatty,a skinny little bloke or a fit bloke with a fit muscular body i bet most would choose the fit bloke..based on looks alone btw and not personality and all that garbage,remembering this is swinging and 1st attraction is looks ...

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

An obviously gym fit guy will come out in a T-shirt to a chorus of OOOOH's and AAAAAH's but the minute he says he frequents the gym or is a fitness instructor the majority of lights go out.

Well it makes sense I mean the Worzels never really seemed like the type to frequent the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the look of well defined, athletic men but I tend to avoid them as I don't see why someone who works hard on their physique would want to meet someone who is a doughball.

Joking apart, this is quite a common concept and sometimes the reason women say they don't like muscular guys.

Another example is T.V's Take Me Out.

An obviously gym fit guy will come out in a T-shirt to a chorus of OOOOH's and AAAAAH's but the minute he says he frequents the gym or is a fitness instructor the majority of lights go out.

It seems many women are intimidated by the thought that the guy may want to rope them into his gym life style.

XXXX"

I wouldn't mind a guy wanting me to train with him sometimes. I actually enjoy martial arts, the gym (cardiovascular and resistance) and swimming.

My doughballness isn't to do with a dislike of exercise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent fitness/workout routine doesn't have to give you bulging muscles. I'm 55 now and have been a regular in the gym for 30 odd years.

I'm not defined, I still carry an extra few pounds, but I'm quite physicaly strong for an old bloke.

The main benefits I enjoy is that my posture is good, and I think that if your posture is good, your clothes will hang better and look better.

I've been doing it so long now that I couldn't stop training, it's become a way of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An obviously gym fit guy will come out in a T-shirt to a chorus of OOOOH's and AAAAAH's but the minute he says he frequents the gym or is a fitness instructor the majority of lights go out.

Well it makes sense I mean the Worzels never really seemed like the type to frequent the gym."

Very droll !

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I guess it depends on what sort of shape women are looking for. I think it does guys a favour if they put what sort of body they are after, cos if some put they want rugby build guys then i wouldnt bother to message them, cos im the complete opposite - more Mo Farah than Arnie lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not built like a Rugby player either, but will still message ladies seeking such guys on account of my impressive tackle.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

handsome over 6ft and muscly with big shaved dick ohhh yesss

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

so many misconceptions about what a person who goes to the gym can and can't do and their potential personality and preference for a type of lady ...

a person that understands how the body works and how to train can pretty much adapt their body to do anything they wish x including stamina with strength .

then oddly for some reason it is assumed that all these people with muscular bodies only go to gym and don't do other athletic activity .

it is true that some young boys go only to gym build big relatively useless muscles , but many after their teens with intelligence progress to understand the concept of fitness

I would always suggest that sex should be part of anyone's fitness x

as for personalities , those that go to the gym will mirror the wide spectrum of personality types and intelligences that none gym goers have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you work hard and you've got it why not show it off... I think if you took 1000 women and lined up 3 men, a fatty,a skinny little bloke or a fit bloke with a fit muscular body i bet most would choose the fit bloke..based on looks alone btw and not personality and all that garbage,remembering this is swinging and 1st attraction is looks ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

I work in a ware house and have done for 15 years, ive spend 40 hours a week for the past 15 year, lifting and carrying heave goods, pulling pallets that weight over a ton on pump trucks, racking away heavy boxes, i have arms that would put most men to shame lol and get asked regular if i go to the gym, you dont have to go to the gym to get a work out, i probably spend more time working out than most gym junkies, weight is weight and it dont matter if that wights made up of steel or 10 2 ltr bottles of pop, which is a lot heavier that it sounds when you lifting that over your head by the way, theres been guys twice my size start where i work and cant do what i do without moaning, strength is not always about size, ive just built the stamina up over the years of doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most women like to see a toned body, I have certainly noticed that the women at work don’t look me over so much since I stopped going to the gym and the and lost a bit of my muscle mass L

sadly mistaken there, the majority of women prefer a guy who looks after himself and keeps in shape naturally but these steriod induced fake muscle men are a big turn off for most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see toned is what most women like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think most people like to see a body thats well maintianed and looked after, including men, when you go round clubs etc you cant help but notice its the women who look after themselves that get the most looks too

Thats not to say people wont go for other people, we all have a prefered taste dont mean its our only taste tho

Fab disclosure: nowhere in that post did i suggest that women who have not got a well maintained body didnt get any attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most women like to see a toned body, I have certainly noticed that the women at work don’t look me over so much since I stopped going to the gym and the and lost a bit of my muscle mass L

sadly mistaken there, the majority of women prefer a guy who looks after himself and keeps in shape naturally but these steriod induced fake muscle men are a big turn off for most women."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the majority of women prefer a guy who looks after himself and keeps in shape naturally but these steriod induced fake muscle men are a big turn off for most women."

That would seem to be the case. I often come across guys profiles on here who I strongly suspect are using steroids, and are thusly carrying alot more muscle than myself, and yet they rarely have much in the way of verifications - whilst I most certainly do believe that its important to be strong and healthy, theres little point being ripped and muscular if you don't know how to actually TALK to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to like a face shot and chat and if attracted then i play i never ask to see body shots as its more facial and personality that work for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

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over a year ago

"the majority of women prefer a guy who looks after himself and keeps in shape naturally but these steriod induced fake muscle men are a big turn off for most women.

I think it's naive to assume anyone with more muscle than you is on steroids. I know some naturally very big guys. I also know people on steroids who you wouldn't think were taking them due to bitch tits and little muscle.

A lot of hard work has to go into building a body.

I'm just starting my journey and in as little as 3 weeks I've noticed a massive change. Okay, I'm female so it's different but I'm doing the same weight exercises as most men. I even use free weights instead of machines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan."

ur clued in better than half the boys down the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan.

ur clued in better than half the boys down the gym

Let's just say, I train the right place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan."

You should watch the documentary Bigger,Faster,stronger , it's a good watch with a different take on steroids .

I've not been to gym for over 2 years, it's all about how you fuel your body , steroids arent a magic potion that you take an suddenly become muscular .

I admire people who go to the gym all the time , it takes a certain kind of person to set a goal an day in day out strive for that goal, eating 6 meals a day , pushing your body to its limit, that has I be admired but I'm still no a fan of gyms , I think there are better ways to achieve fitness (I didn't say size) .

Everyone has different likes and dislikes , I've been knocked back loads a times cause of the way I look and I accept that, along with the shear number of guys on here , I'm not to everyone's taste .

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Of course they matter... we'd find it very difficult to get anything done without some muscles. Mine are well hidden but I know they are there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan.

You should watch the documentary Bigger,Faster,stronger , it's a good watch with a different take on steroids .

I've not been to gym for over 2 years, it's all about how you fuel your body , steroids arent a magic potion that you take an suddenly become muscular .

Everyone has different likes and dislikes , I've been knocked back loads a times cause of the way I look and I accept that, along with the shear number of guys on here , I'm not to everyone's taste .

I have seen that documentary x

I have changed my opinion on steroids somewhat in recent months, but too many people taking them without putting in the hard work required.

I'm currently training to take part in Britains strongest woman and that's training 4 days a week eating a very clean diet of 6 meals a day. So far I've dropped 4kgs and 10 inches in 3 weeks. So a lot can be achieved with the correct nutrition etc. anyway, this is off topic lol.

I like muscles but not everyone does, do it depends who you want to attract lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that it depends on the woman but there are those who do like the look of muscles but would not want to get stuck into them for long.

Insecurities can run rife here.

I myself go to the gym 5 times a week because I enjoy it. whats 90-120 minutes out of my day doing something I enjoy and has a great benefit to it?

I am not a bodybuilder but I've told people what I do to stay in-shape and they always assume that.

if a woman doesn't like what I do then I dont really care, I do it for myself but so many guys do it for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has their preference but not a big fan of huge muscles, find it a turn off when we get sent pictures of guys flexing there biceps

I don't think I've ever actually seen any biceps pics on here, its not a particularly easy muscle to photograph.

I've seen a few. Abs are much more common. And glutes

Muscular abs and glutes are far more impressive than biceps ever could be.

They're harder to train aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go out of my way to meet a man with muscles, i enjoy the conversation and exploration or someones mind and body not how many muscles i can count on thier chest :/

Maybe i'm odd, i've spoken to alot of women that want the young, hung, ripped guys...i prefer mine with nice arms and enough staying power to get a job done :D other than that nothing else matters much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seen bigger, faster stronger aswell

im lucky with my arms as have good genetics/aesthetics in that department. triceps are more impressive looking than biceps but i have both so cant complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"taking steroids doesnt give you a chiseled physique people

its alot of hardwork and disciplined eating

Steroids would be a total waste if money without a decent training and diet plan."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with naughty in that physical exercise is not necessarily done in gym... Seen some muscular African men and women in their 60's.... Pure hard work heavy lifting in 90 degree heat.... Yet they are not bulky... Just lean and muscular....

Also some have said a good discipline with training and diet is good too... At the end of the day it's people's personal preference on what kinda body they find attractive and how it moves and or feels when it comes to sex...

Ebony

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fooked if they do so hope not

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow there are some good comments, and some silly comments, I'm currently in fat reduction phase of my training, so in a month or so I'll start seeing some abs, and toned muscle, but normally due to my specific sport (amateur strongman) i normally carry a little excess body fat to help with the weights in competitions, and the fact i won't eat all day during a competition. I train for power, strength, and recovery, this makes me a rather big 20+ stone muscle bear naturally.

Steroids are like protein powder, a supplement used to aid your already prefect diet and training.

Vid (hubby)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i have no preference in lady size, i do prefer a curvy lady, but that's just me.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Steroids are ok if used properly and there are many body builders or gym rats that wouldn't have half as good a body they have without some help,no matter how good the diet or training is you'll only get to a certain level naturally...

The problem is to many youngters want the great body in 5 mins without putting in the effort.

Living a healthy lifestyle takes alot of dedication and more often than not the people that put down these guys or girls down are envious people that could never do it themselves ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there are some good comments, and some silly comments, I'm currently in fat reduction phase of my training, so in a month or so I'll start seeing some abs, and toned muscle, but normally due to my specific sport (amateur strongman) i normally carry a little excess body fat to help with the weights in competitions, and the fact i won't eat all day during a competition. I train for power, strength, and recovery, this makes me a rather big 20+ stone muscle bear naturally.

Steroids are like protein powder, a supplement used to aid your already prefect diet and training.

Vid (hubby)"

whoa whoa whoa, you dont eat during strongman competitions?

Its part of the whole thing for many, the cramp in your stomach isn't pulling a car deadlift or squat mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steroids are like protein powder, a supplement used to aid your already prefect diet and training.

Vid (hubby)

whoa whoa whoa, you dont eat during strongman competitions?

Its part of the whole thing for many, the cramp in your stomach isn't pulling a car deadlift or squat mate!

I too find this very strange, if your not fueling the body where does your energy come from ?

The 1st thing your body will do is to start eating an breaking down your muscle to feed itself if you don't ?!

This is why most strong men are big guys and not many chiseled dudes, the need to eat so many calories to train at that intensity .

I'd never do a race or major physical activity without fueling my body or eating between disciplines ?

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over a year ago

Given he's quite successful and trains with some of the worlds strongest men he must be thing something right...

He has high calorie high sugar snacks between events but not a full meal until after the competition. Eating as normal would make him feel sluggish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also not forgetting the carb loading the day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh ur bod isnt gonna go catabolic from a days fasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's naive to assume anyone with more muscle than you is on steroids."

I'm quite aware of the fact that some guys are simply bigger built than others and are thusly capable of gaining a larger amount of muscle, however, I'm also aware of the fact that everyone has limits to just how much muscle they can gain, and when I see a physique with disproportionately large shoulders and traps, along with a bloated, water logged look to their muscles, then its clear to me that that person hasn't made those gains simply through hard training and sound nutrition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

That's an excellent point. I found during my first days at the gym I was stronger than most skinny guys my own size and put it down to the same kind of work.

Though the best workout is to combine both, after lifting for five or si years I'd be hefting chimeneas and garden sets up to 50kg onto the seven foot top shelves to save on space in the warehouse.

Though I did make more work for myself as there was only myself and one other lad who could pull the buggers down lol!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realize you're interested in the opposite sexes perspective primarily - that aside..

Muscley men are plasticy in feel and uncomfortable during intimate contact.. nothing better than a little cushion to go with the pushn'(emphases on a little!) morbid obesity would be as unpleasant as a hard plasticy physique in a sexual partner presumably.

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over a year ago

"Given he's quite successful and trains with some of the worlds strongest men he must be thing something right...

He has high calorie high sugar snacks between events but not a full meal until after the competition. Eating as normal would make him feel sluggish."

I'm sure he is successful , it was just the way he worded it , he said he "didn't eat all day" during a competition , that lead me to believe he was almost fasting on the day of a competition and I don't think it's possible to compete at that level and no fuel your body but if he's taking the energy snacks that's a whole different thing.

When I'm competing in my races, I'll have breakfast and nothing else till the race, maybe an energy gel during but that's dependent on the distance .

I used to train with Britains strongest man(for his catagory) and have nothing but respect for those boys , if Terry Hollands can stay injury free he may well win it one day but it's a sport where injury goes with the territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, its all about the person.... body shape is somewhat irrelevant....

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one who has just recently started an addiction with exercise, I find these responses very informative! Wishing you weren't all down south boo hoo.

As to the original question from OP. In the past I would have knocked back a ripped guy if he approached me through sheer self consciousness, but now as my body changes, I know I still have a long way to go, but I can hold my own stamina wise, and I am strong enough to give as good as I get.

So maybe very soon I will (for the first time ever) get my chance to run my fingers over toned, ripped, bronzed and oiled male muscles! And just pray to her upstairs that he has a cock to match! Lol xx

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"As one who has just recently started an addiction with exercise, I find these responses very informative! Wishing you weren't all down south boo hoo.

Conspicuous by its absence there is any reference to chemistry, intellect, stimulating conversation, imagination, creativity, nous..........you know, the irrelevant things that actually go to making good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread.

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread."

good for you pal, not sure why you're telling me though

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over a year ago

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread.

good for you pal, not sure why you're telling me though

Because your post claimed an absence of them?

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread.

good for you pal, not sure why you're telling me though

Because your post claimed an absence of them?"

yes but my post wasn't directed at you, it's addressed to somebody else's post

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over a year ago

"Given he's quite successful and trains with some of the worlds strongest men he must be thing something right...

He has high calorie high sugar snacks between events but not a full meal until after the competition. Eating as normal would make him feel sluggish."

Yeah, like the other guy said I thought he meant zero food for the day during the competition.

Snacks are what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i'm running my hands over a body that good, i don't really want them to open their mouth and spoil it.....lmao.

I am jesting of course (maybe). It is very sexist of me I admit!

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over a year ago

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread.

good for you pal, not sure why you're telling me though

Because your post claimed an absence of them?

yes but my post wasn't directed at you, it's addressed to somebody else's post"

Kinda makes the forums pointless if your not expecting people to reply to your posts !

Oh and this post is only for the intended recipient so no one else reply

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I have all those things written in my verifications, and thusly didn't feel it was necessary to bring them up in the thread.

good for you pal, not sure why you're telling me though

Because your post claimed an absence of them?

yes but my post wasn't directed at you, it's addressed to somebody else's post

Kinda makes the forums pointless if your not expecting people to reply to your posts !

Oh and this post is only for the intended recipient so no one else reply

blimey, the Chippendales are ganging up on me.....help!

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm happy with my 'toned bod' thankyou very much :P

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

so many misconceptions about what a person who goes to the gym can and can't do and their potential personality and preference for a type of lady ...

a person that understands how the body works and how to train can pretty much adapt their body to do anything they wish x including stamina with strength .

then oddly for some reason it is assumed that all these people with muscular bodies only go to gym and don't do other athletic activity .

it is true that some young boys go only to gym build big relatively useless muscles , but many after their teens with intelligence progress to understand the concept of fitness

I would always suggest that sex should be part of anyone's fitness x

as for personalities , those that go to the gym will mirror the wide spectrum of personality types and intelligences that none gym goers have

Hit the nail on the head exactly. There seems to be so many preconceptions about people who work out. Not everyone muscular lifts only weights, wants their woman to work out or wants a skinny woman. Just like everyone else, they are also entitled to their preferences and I think it's a shame that a woman would not consider such a guy because of their own insecurity. If someone showed enough discipline and grit to look after themselves and the intelligence to understand their body and to improve their health, what's the issue?

I find it baffling why anyone would see that as a negative....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"like guys who have fit toned bodies... not necessarily living in a gym but not neglected bodies either.

Not the fittest woman in the world but not too bad either so like my guys to be the same

ditto that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 packs scare me. I prefer blokes that are natural. Any size apart from the extremes of really skinny or really huge. "

They "scare" you.........

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reckon what scares many women, especially the ones on Take Me Out, is the fact that a guy who's an obvious gym user might want to take them to the gym with him.

That's what put's the fear of God into many of them.

We've personally known lots of body builders who's looks have attracted women, however when they have him in their clutches the first thing they want him to do is pack the gym in.

Rather than go with him, they live in fear of the type of women he may meet at the gym. Weird!

XXXX

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"We reckon what scares many women, especially the ones on Take Me Out, is the fact that a guy who's an obvious gym user might want to take them to the gym with him.

That's what put's the fear of God into many of them.

We've personally known lots of body builders who's looks have attracted women, however when they have him in their clutches the first thing they want him to do is pack the gym in.

Rather than go with him, they live in fear of the type of women he may meet at the gym. Weird!

XXXX"

Interesting read, that.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

fitness is a huge part of my daily routine ...im not huge by any stretch of the imagination but i do need to exercise daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women like muscles but not like the steroid using bodybuilding type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muscles are natural people, since when did sitting on your arse become natural behavior?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got the package, 6 pack and combat thongs for the beach lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a body builder for a while. He was the sweetest man and not obsessed with his body he just enjoyed what he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just train to keep fit .Not everyone wants a ripped body xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just train to keep fit .Not everyone wants a ripped body xx"

Too much dieting to get 'ripped', but a good degree of definition isn't especially hard to achieve with the right approach to calorie control and training.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got the package, 6 pack and combat thongs for the beach lol x."

I fear I may regret asking this but what are "combat thongs"?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We reckon what scares many women, especially the ones on Take Me Out, is the fact that a guy who's an obvious gym user might want to take them to the gym with him.

That's what put's the fear of God into many of them.

We've personally known lots of body builders who's looks have attracted women, however when they have him in their clutches the first thing they want him to do is pack the gym in.

Rather than go with him, they live in fear of the type of women he may meet at the gym. Weird!

XXXX"

I don't get that at all. I'd be happy to either train with him, (if he wanted me to) - it'd encourage me to get back to the gym - or trust him.

If the first thing I wanted a man to do was change his hobbies then he's not a good choice to be with IMO.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And yes, I like muscles.

I need a personal trainer with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like wirey and strong always have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 3hr session in the gym tomorow morning, including 1hr on the treadmill and I downloaded few new songs like will young and the track jealosy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like wirey and strong always have

I hear a lot of people use the term 'wiry strength', and wonder what they mean by it - is it when someone is stronger than they look?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I like wirey and strong always have

I hear a lot of people use the term 'wiry strength', and wonder what they mean by it - is it when someone is stronger than they look? "

Actually, thinking about that last remark it is strength I like more than muscles per se I think. I really don't do skinny, but a strong, slim frame is fine my me, I don't need or even desire a heavily muscled look.

But that wide-shouldered naturally strong frame is a huge turnon. I like my horses like that too - haha!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

But that wide-shouldered naturally strong frame is a huge turnon. I like my horses like that too - haha!!

I always had my suspicions about you horsey types....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 3hr session in the gym tomorow morning, including 1hr on the treadmill and I downloaded few new songs like will young and the track jealosy lol

thats why you are not that big.dont do cardio

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I got the package, 6 pack and combat thongs for the beach lol x.

I fear I may regret asking this but what are "combat thongs"?"

I. for one an inordinately glad this question was left unanswered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love a big muscular guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of the broad shoulders, wide back and massive thighs kind of guy.

Abs is not my interests. As much as i enjoy to train, i love my food too. The balance is there. But, you won't get that ripped look again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 3hr session in the gym tomorow morning, including 1hr on the treadmill and I downloaded few new songs like will young and the track jealosy lol

thats why you are not that big.dont do cardio"
lol I am quite big

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

But that wide-shouldered naturally strong frame is a huge turnon. I like my horses like that too - haha!!

I always had my suspicions about you horsey types...."

Haha, it's true - well-trained horseflesh is a glorious sight, all that smooth round muscle on an animal with 'good bone', yowser! I like my horses and my men looking equally 'well-covered' now I come to think about it, lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a man with a 6pack

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ive found the last muscle to get definition is the one going from your shoulder to your neck ..if you bust that beauty !!

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