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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a couple with a family we find it very difficult to accommodate.

We can find loads of men who will visit us, is it against the norm for men to accommodate hot wives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess not many "single" guys do, personally I prefer a hotel as 1. My son lives at home and 2. I work away most the week so easier

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By *onballer9Man
over a year ago

west midlands


"As a couple with a family we find it very difficult to accommodate.

We can find loads of men who will visit us, is it against the norm for men to accommodate hot wives?"

Hi I can accommodate and I’m only in Sutton Coldfield so not too far from Lichfield x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate. "

You may not expect someone to accomodste you. However, if your ever in Scotland, you may find I am more than accomodating

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I can and do accomodate, some guys dont/cant because they arent single thats true, but there can be other factors like kids or flatmates or relatives that they live with and cant really be doing the things we like to do, with so many people in the home.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I can accommodate in comfort at my nice cosy house.........

Daytimes are often good, and evenings too!

A bottle of Prosecco ready in the fridge, and a friendly, non pushy welcome!

Delicious erotic pleasures ready to be shared......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to accomodate...but i wouldnt visit anyone until we have had a social....filter put the lunatics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate. "

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Married here but happy to accomodate if the Mrs is happily occupied too

But not on a 1st meet normally as its our family home and there are a few crazies out there. A social or at a minimum neutral territory of a club or hotel much preferred.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We had a nice guy accommodate us from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to accommodate. I find it more relaxing and shows fully who you are

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By *aughtynick000Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

I’m happy to accommodate

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

I accommodate, just rarely get a knock at the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I house share to save money so I don't accommodate

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We noticed this. Lots of local guys can’t accommodate. Our situation would be leaving mr at home and sending mrs out. On the few occasions we have wanted to try it we haven’t been able to to find the right person not to far away.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate. "

This

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By *xsportMan
over a year ago

chester

i have a lovely home close to Chester very private with a hothub love to accommodate but normally like to meet for a social and a flirt first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have and always will offer to accommodate as i have nothing to hide. House is always clean and ready so never the " oh please excuse the mess " nothing worse than turning up at someone's house and you have to start thinking of reasons to leave due to lack of hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can easily accommodate at my house and I'm happy to for the right people

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By *RP-007Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I would accommodate however there is that slight doubt at the back of the mind about giving away the home address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually meet men at their place. It can be slightly more tricky if they have kids xx

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Happy to accommodate.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’m happy to accommodate, but in a weird way I worry that inviting a couple into my ‘safe, personal, private space’ will feel weird and somewhat sordid the next morning.

A woman on her own, absolutely fine, but waking up in my bed the following morning, knowing another guy was doing his stuff in it might just make me feel awkward.

These are just my personal thoughts, I’m not asking for agreement nor criticism.

It might, however, partly explain why single guys prefer not to accommodate couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d accommodate, but nobody wants to come and visit

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate. "

100% agree

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Hotel hook ups can be so naughty

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By *harlieRiderMan
over a year ago

Vauxhall/Waterloo

Happy to accommodate in London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess not many "single" guys do, personally I prefer a hotel as 1. My son lives at home and 2. I work away most the week so easier"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't want anyone to be expected to accommodate me .I prefer hotel meets especially the first time I meet someone as a play meet.

I know I will only accomadate once I know someone well and I always presume that is the same reason why other people don't accomadate. "

rightly so.

I was told coz i could not accom no. Neither could she accom. Cant see why the head fuck. Makeing demands upon others. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to accommodate, pending negotiations with my s/o!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always been happy to accommodate, I guess it depends on individual's circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can accommodate in comfort at my nice cosy house.........

Daytimes are often good, and evenings too!

A bottle of Prosecco ready in the fridge, and a friendly, non pushy welcome!

Delicious erotic pleasures ready

to be shared...... "

Go on fella. Ave it large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have and always will offer to accommodate as i have nothing to hide. House is always clean and ready so never the " oh please excuse the mess " nothing worse than turning up at someone's house and you have to start thinking of reasons to leave due to lack of hygiene."

110% spot on. Well done mate. A top man you are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m happy to accommodate, but in a weird way I worry that inviting a couple into my ‘safe, personal, private space’ will feel weird and somewhat sordid the next morning.

A woman on her own, absolutely fine, but waking up in my bed the following morning, knowing another guy was doing his stuff in it might just make me feel awkward.

These are just my personal thoughts, I’m not asking for agreement nor criticism.

It might, however, partly explain why single guys prefer not to accommodate couples?"

Very true and makes full sense.

Others may not wish to understand your stance or view point. Many are self orientated..

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I live with a female friend (we're not involved) who's ok with me swinging and doesn't mind me bringing women home, but due to her own past personal experiences with men she doesn't like the idea if me bringing them back, even as part of a couple.

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By *JonaMan
over a year ago

walsall

I accommodate and very local OP

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Surely it's not beyond the realms of possibility that other reasons for not being able to accom, which are accepted for women or couples, can also apply to men without immediately assuming they're cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple with a family we find it very difficult to accommodate.

We can find loads of men who will visit us, is it against the norm for men to accommodate hot wives?"

Most men aged 25+ have their own place and the reason most can't ccomodate or prefer hotels is that most are lying @@@ and are married etc.

Most couples have children/parents living with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live with a female friend (we're not involved) who's ok with me swinging and doesn't mind me bringing women home, but due to her own past personal experiences with men she doesn't like the idea if me bringing them back, even as part of a couple.

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Does she not work or go out, on hols work etc?

You are a man and I'm sure she works with men

when you return with a couple, you are a man she trusts then the man you bring back will have a wifr/GF

Odd really, what happens when you want to bring a mate a male mate back home yourent pay for

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I accom people I know well

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I live with a female friend (we're not involved) who's ok with me swinging and doesn't mind me bringing women home, but due to her own past personal experiences with men she doesn't like the idea if me bringing them back, even as part of a couple.

Does she not work or go out, on hols work etc?

You are a man and I'm sure she works with men

when you return with a couple, you are a man she trusts then the man you bring back will have a wifr/GF

Odd really, what happens when you want to bring a mate a male mate back home yourent pay for"

Firstly, she was a hairdresser so most of her clients were women, but due to health issues she's now retired.

Secondly, knowing her personal history I understand why she has an issue with men she doesn't know.

Thirdly, if I were to bring a male mate back she knows there would be no sex involved.

Fourthly, and most importantly, our relationship in terms of our friendship is important to both of us. We're kind of like brother and sister in a way and I'm very protective over her in the same way I am with my real sisters.

It's really not a big deal for me. I'm a member of Jaydees and am lucky to be f*ckbuddies with ladies that can accommodate, but it does irk me slightly when folk assume that if a guy says he can't accommodate there must be something dodgy about it.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I can't accommodate, because I have a tiny bed room and living room. A single bed and two seater couch is not comfy for two.

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