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Adapting to civilian life after a meet/club visit

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By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Does anybody else find it hard to slot back into civilian life after a meet/club visit? After what we got up to at the recent Hotwife night, it was difficult to look friends and family in the eye in the days/weeks that followed!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's all part of the fun of the lifestyle for us. To go back into the Vanilla world knowing the carnal naughtiness that we have been upto. Makes it our dirty little secret x

Mrs N

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By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"It's all part of the fun of the lifestyle for us. To go back into the Vanilla world knowing the carnal naughtiness that we have been upto. Makes it our dirty little secret x

Mrs N"

Very true - we did say that we like having our little secret life as well!

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By *estSussexCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Crawley

Same for us

On our drive back from Kestrels we slip into vanilla mode after hours of fun.

Knowing that only us know…adds to the naughtiness of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all part of the fun of the lifestyle for us. To go back into the Vanilla world knowing the carnal naughtiness that we have been upto. Makes it our dirty little secret x

Mrs N"

That's the way it should be x

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Oh my nickname at work is "smiler" as I always have a wouldn't-you-like-to-know Cheshire Cat grin on my face... I got all the cream... Meow... Purrr purrr purrr...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not at all, there is nothing better than smiling secretly to yourself as you response to the question "did you have a good weekend" with the comment, "nothing special just a boring weekend of cooking, cleaning and ironing."

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By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Not at all, there is nothing better than smiling secretly to yourself as you response to the question "did you have a good weekend" with the comment, "nothing special just a boring weekend of cooking, cleaning and ironing." "

Ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after 29 years its all normal to us no to and fro ... swinging is our fifestyle

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Does anybody else find it hard to slot back into civilian life after a meet/club visit? After what we got up to at the recent Hotwife night, it was difficult to look friends and family in the eye in the days/weeks that followed! "

We call it swungover.

Although we don’t get the embarrassment, although probably cos we’re sort of out!

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

It's a big part of the fun for me, knowing that if I told my vanilla friends what I'd recently been upto that it would blow their minds.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

When we started it certainly wasn't easy to do the school run, or go to church, or even kiss our kids the day after a get together.

Now, fifteen years later we barely think about it

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Feels like the t.v show Stars In Their Eyes for us. Walk through the door innormal attire and return semi undressed. Monday morning questions about the weekend are met with non desript answers while inside we are still smiling

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yep, the few days after our events usually take a bit of getting used to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we started it certainly wasn't easy to do the school run, or go to church, or even kiss our kids the day after a get together.

Now, fifteen years later we barely think about it"

Love the idea of a swinger being a church goer, perhaps wearing the stockings and suspenders under the church outfit as part of the secret!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Does anybody else find it hard to slot back into civilian life after a meet/club visit? After what we got up to at the recent Hotwife night, it was difficult to look friends and family in the eye in the days/weeks that followed! "

Interesting thread.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Love the idea of a swinger being a church goer, perhaps wearing the stockings and suspenders under the church outfit as part of the secret! "

Shhhhh... Have you met the Vicar...?

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