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1st time at a club

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By *leopatra 64 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

"

Never been

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By *r.MorningstarMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

I'm curious to see people's opinions on this

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

"

All depends on the club, some are smart dress only, others accept casual, some are dress down only. Ideally you need to speak to the club in question

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Go in whatever you are comfortable in, and take an outfit to dress down into if you feel like it(some clubs insist on dressing down and some dont) again as little or as much as you feel confident in, x

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

Just wear something you feel sexy in. Usually people are dressed nicely. After a while people get changed which is usually women in underwear and men with a towel or underpants on. There are lockers where you can keep the discarded clothes. We always go with a mindset of just having fun and chatting to people. We have still not met a couple we wanted to play with so it's a bit hit and miss in that respect. Have fun!

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

All depends on the club, some are smart dress only, others accept casual, some are dress down only. Ideally you need to speak to the club in question "

This is the best advice. I stay naked but that probably wouldn't go down well in some clubs

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

"

Which club are you going to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what ever club it is make sure as a couple you have your rules and stick to them ie if you get pestered do not be afraid to say no do not allow others to rule you ...its not just men some couples are worse for not taking a no thanks ...to succeed you need thick skin if you can do that you'll love it

only going by the clubs we know of course not all will be this way..

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By *leopatra 64 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

Which club are you going to? "
Abfabs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm curious to see people's opinions on this "

Do a forum search for all the other answers to this topic

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By *leopatra 64 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"what ever club it is make sure as a couple you have your rules and stick to them ie if you get pestered do not be afraid to say no do not allow others to rule you ...its not just men some couples are worse for not taking a no thanks ...to succeed you need thick skin if you can do that you'll love it

only going by the clubs we know of course not all will be this way.."

Thank you for the advice

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury


"We are going to our first club , what should we wear ? Do we take a change of clothes ?

Appreciate some advice .

Which club are you going to? Abfabs "

Sorry, can't help as not been. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went for the first time recently and had an amazing time! We went in clothes we would normally go out in although Evie maybe a little more revealing than she normally would and I took a towel and she had some sexy lingerie just in case we wanted to take things further.

We went with the intention just to have a nice night out together and see what it’s all about with absolutely no expectations of doing anything. Everyone was so friendly and respectful, far more so than a normal club and we just went with the flow and played together in various rooms. We didn’t feel the desire to have anyone join us although one or two offered but were completely respectful when we politely declined and we just had the best time and can’t wait to go back!

The one piece of advice I’d give is go with absolutely no expectations and just do what makes you feel comfortable, no-one will judge you if that’s nothing or everything. Well that was our experience anyway, hope yours is just as good!

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By *leopatra 64 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"We went for the first time recently and had an amazing time! We went in clothes we would normally go out in although Evie maybe a little more revealing than she normally would and I took a towel and she had some sexy lingerie just in case we wanted to take things further.

We went with the intention just to have a nice night out together and see what it’s all about with absolutely no expectations of doing anything. Everyone was so friendly and respectful, far more so than a normal club and we just went with the flow and played together in various rooms. We didn’t feel the desire to have anyone join us although one or two offered but were completely respectful when we politely declined and we just had the best time and can’t wait to go back!

The one piece of advice I’d give is go with absolutely no expectations and just do what makes you feel comfortable, no-one will judge you if that’s nothing or everything. Well that was our experience anyway, hope yours is just as good!"
we will do , thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club I regularly frequent has a casual policy on dressing down. You only dress down when going to the playrooms otherwise stay as you are

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