FabSwingers.com forum: Anal Fisting - Hints, Tips & Advice Please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After a few months of trying, lots of douching, copious amounts of J lube, poxxers and beer, we haven’t quite got it home yet! It’s that last knuckle lol, and no, Dick hasn’t got hands the size of shovels, just Mr Joe Average.

Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far

So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"After a few months of trying, lots of douching, copious amounts of J lube, poxxers and beer, we haven’t quite got it home yet! It’s that last knuckle lol, and no, Dick hasn’t got hands the size of shovels, just Mr Joe Average.

Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far

So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people."

Learning to relax when every part of your body is trying to tense, for me is the key. After some trying your body tends to be more attuned to tensing ….. at this point if it’s getting difficult take a moment lie forwards on the bed let your head arms etc drop to a relaxed state with him still keeping some pressure, concentrate on relaxing all down your body then your hole…after he feels you relax he goes in. You ignore the brief pain of stretching and the urge to back off, bear down if anything on his hand and breathe ( normally accompanied by a bit of a growl lol) and pop! He’s in!

I hope this helps it’s really hard to describe. We use crisco when Domme does me and jlube for others (criscos not condom safe) crisco works better! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks for advice and guidance, we will persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something Sir has been working on with me and he has god shovel hands so it's going to be a while.

Patience is key, lots or lube and as said above relax mind body and soul.

So excited for you

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Skin has a lot of friction even with lube, have you tried wearing gloves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe consider visiting a pro domme? Many will see couple’s. If you find one who has experience in anal fisting, they could maybe refine your technique and help you with the last little bit. It is the hardest part after all !

I have only ever been fisted by pro mistresses and it’s unbelievable

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By *tubonCouple
over a year ago

midhurst

We fist constantly and love it. She’s the fister, he’s the hole!

It’ll take a long time and please do not rush.

Skin to skin then crisco works but is expensive. Trex (found near butter and pastry in your local supermarket) is identical to crisco but much cheaper and available.

Jlube is very good indeed but a bugger to wash off.

Having a few drinks beforehand helps and a sniff of popps is usually necessary too.

You’ve just got to put up with the immense pain at the last minute on entry because once it’s in you’ll be addicted.

Probably best on your back initially and do not rush…. enjoy!

PS We’re in the south of England if anyone wants to get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.

Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands

Lube - plain old coconut oil works well.

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

It's so lovely to read your message and more so coming from the male side,you don't normally get that on here.

As you see I'm a TV and seeking to be fisted but finding a trust worthy person to train me us proving very difficult. I seem to get that relation is the key and definitely smaller hands help.just wish guys or gals near chester woukd message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.

Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands

Lube - plain old coconut oil works well."

2 hands OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relaxation is the key. Try a deep breath in, then breath out focusing on the feeling of the breath leaving your mouth.

Keep trying because it feels amazing, and then you can try two hands

Lube - plain old coconut oil works well.I

2 hands OMG "

Oh boy one would be just fine to start with

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I found poxxpers work best for me and coconut oil just to help with the skin on skin.

You do need to be relaxed no point trying if you are not and you will simply tense up.

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By *irenisMan
over a year ago

Dundee

the best way to get the point of being able to take a fist is to play with toys. Using ever bigger toys and plenty of time and lube get to the point of using a toy that is the same circumference as your partners fist or bigger if you can. It wont happen overnight and can take a couple of weeks of constant ass play to get to that level. Time and patience is the secret. Using toys by yourself or with an audience takes away the anticipation of pain as you are in total control, not someone else.

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By *teveandrocMan
10 weeks ago

Southampton

Whilst we’re both having tremendous fun trying, I know Tom is craving getting it in the goal. And when it happens, it’ll be fecking awesome, going on his reactions so far

So, any hints, tips or advice would be greatly received. Thank you, kind Fab people."

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By *evergiveupMan
10 weeks ago

derbyshire

I've been pussy fisting with my naughty FB for a while

We have tried anally but although she can take a lot up there it is so far impossible - and my hands are not huge

Great fun trying though

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
10 weeks ago

Newport

Try an inflatable butt plug. Put it in and then inflate it and push and pull it out. Slowly blow it up larger and larger to help stretch the anus. Things slide out much easier than go in your bum. That is the way it is designed!! Don't force it you should not feel intense pain ever. It can be very intense but not with pain....

Also get a syringe or similar to put lube right inside you as most of the lubes get wiped off as your anus grips whatever is going in and scrapes it off....patience and keep it fun is the key!!

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By *jekimMan
10 weeks ago

Wigan

I'd love to find someone who'd let me try this on them

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By *uyandGirl42Couple
10 weeks ago

Perth

This is the same for me and the hubby, He has taken some impressive things, and I swear he takes different objects that are bigger than my hands (which I don’t believe are big) however we just struggle to get all the knuckles in for that perfect pop ha

Kat xx

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By *ommenhimCouple
10 weeks ago

wigan

"I'd love to find someone who'd let me try this on them

I’ve offered!

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By *ete22002Man
3 weeks ago

Rawtenstall

I'd love to take you both up on this offer if it's open to me

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

Ouch!

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