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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views.

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

I absolutely adore kissing..long slow passionate toungs

Gives me a stonking hard on..!!

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By *anuel ducatiMan
over a year ago

leyburn

Mmmm kissing, I would be content to meet a woman just for that.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I like to think I'm basorexic. It's a deal breaker for me if there's no kissing. Kissing is important!

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By *urassic CoasterMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Kissing is key for making a connection for me. You can tell a lot from a kiss.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "
I rarely kiss on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing too xx but there's a lot of people on here who are totally against it x

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By *uscle88Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

I love a good passionate kiss, sets everything off, especially when you stimulate the ear lobes and neck downwards

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont enjoy kissing, not sure why, im not great at it. Kissing was out of bounds with other people for us but last week I actually kissed someone other than OH and loved it they were soft sensual kisses and I want to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing. "

Definitely x but i wouldn't say no to a facefull of fanny in my life lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy a nice long sloppy kiss x

If my cocks not hard after one there's something wrong xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Kissing just adds to the pleasure unless their bad at it

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By *urassic CoasterMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

That's great, I do get how it's different for a swinging couple though, kissing is a more intimate thing than penetrative, weirdly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is awesome. And I'm awesome at kissing. Would be such a waste not to use the natural talent I have!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I dont think i would ever plan a meet with someone if there was no kissing. Personally i understand that you can put your bits in my bobs, but kissing is too personal. I would of thought a facefull of fanny or a mouthfull of cock is more Personal than kissing.

Definitely x but i wouldn't say no to a facefull of fanny in my life lol xxx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a beautiful woman feels oh-so-good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss while inside her on top. Any other position feels like cheating when I swing in a couple, in previous experiences.

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

‘Men don’t give a fuck about kissing. Used to like kissing when we were in our early teens. Then someone sucked our dick. And then, What’s this kissing thing? Why would I ride on the swings? I’ve already been to Disneyland.’

~Jim Jefferies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing as this really turns me on and I feel I bond and connect with the lady better which ultimately leads to better sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing…. I mentioned recently how important this is. A good smog could go a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a good snog

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's not a deal breaker as there are lots of things you can keep your mouth occupied with....

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

kissing an absolute must for us

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I love kissing. You can't beat a good snog to get the juices flowing and the blood pumping to my dick.

I've had a few meets where she hasn't wanted to kiss and I found it the strangest thing to have sex with someone without ever having kissed them before or during. It's just not the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet if there was to be no kissing. I absolutely love slow passionate kissing

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I wouldn’t meet anyone if they said no kissing. It’s very important to me

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By *ndwhynot42Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We didn't when we first started but found it made it alittle awkward and realised how much we like kissing. Glad we changed our minds.x

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

No kissing would be a dealbreaker… we love a good snog x

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Definately kissing, but not so much in clubs for some reason

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "

its a deal breaker for us if no kissing, cant understand people who dont xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me depends solely on the meet

1 on 1 or a small gathering I'll kiss but long ago I was part of a huge bukkake/blow bang .....not the place for kissing

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kissing is everything It can make or break what follows

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I really enjoy kissing when I’m with a woman. Soft and sensual, then getting more passionate. Always guaranteed to get me going.

Weirdly it’s different if I’m with a man. I don’t mind kissing men, but it’s less of a thing for me because my experience of kissing men hasn’t been as good.

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

I think you can make any action with another really personal or really transactional, it's all to do with the feelings you put into the experience. You can kiss and it be the most lusty sexual experience or your life, you can kiss and it be the most loving intimate moment with the love of your life, or you can kiss and it be nothing, like in a game of spin the bottle. I prefer to kiss as it helps me get into it, but there is a huge difference between how I feel when I kiss my husband and when I kiss someone I'm having fun with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss when we meet others.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Kissing is very intimate for me. I’ve kissed everyone I’ve played with in the past, but it’s been a long time since I’ve played with someone new and if I did I’m not sure if I would kiss now.

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wouldn’t meet anyone if they said no kissing. It’s very important to me"

Likewise xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing guys or women but if they dont i will hold back on the kissing.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I kiss a lot , even people I have no intention to take things further with . What can I say I’m a snogger

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Kissing is so sexy for us....mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a must.

Its the first test.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

I would not be meeting without kissing, sets the mood for me, all that sizzling chemistry...

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We both love kissing, so it’s an important one for us in a meet! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along with regular kissing, I also like Australian kissing.

It's like French kissing, but down under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is all part of the fun

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

I like to kiss but accept the fact that certain couples might not want this as part of thier swinging experience.

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"I think you can make any action with another really personal or really transactional, it's all to do with the feelings you put into the experience. You can kiss and it be the most lusty sexual experience or your life, you can kiss and it be the most loving intimate moment with the love of your life, or you can kiss and it be nothing, like in a game of spin the bottle. I prefer to kiss as it helps me get into it, but there is a huge difference between how I feel when I kiss my husband and when I kiss someone I'm having fun with. "

Very true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Men don’t give a fuck about kissing. Used to like kissing when we were in our early teens. Then someone sucked our dick. And then, What’s this kissing thing? Why would I ride on the swings? I’ve already been to Disneyland.’

~Jim Jefferies "

Funny, but I have to disagree. For me kissing is a fundamental part of foreplay. There's something very intimate about it though, I can understand why others don't go for it

It's funny how some husbands are happy to see their wife slurp on your dick but get mad jealous if you kiss her on the lips

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to kiss but accept the fact that certain couples might not want this as part of thier swinging experience. "

You see there's that one tiny but all important word "accept". So many people find it difficult to accept that others have a preference that's different to theirs.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We accept that everyone has a choice. Each to their own and all that. Our choice is definitely to only meet couples that kiss. It’s part of the intensity and passion for us. Of course not everyone is looking for the same thing, so it always surprises us when you see comments from people like “we’re all here for the same thing.” The variety of opinions on this subject alone proves we’re not!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I could probably orgasm from a good kiss.

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"Along with regular kissing, I also like Australian kissing.

It's like French kissing, but down under "

Hahaha… I think I like Australian kissing too x

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I do love to kiss as I enjoy passionate kissing and long and sensual wrapping my arms around them

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "

Kissing is an important part of intimate play for me, so after one bad experience where the lady doesn't kiss others, I now ask before a meet is planned

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Absolutely manadatory. I could leave a lot of other activities at the door, but never kissing.

I remember my first kiss like it was half hour ago, there's no sensation like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the other member said important part of foreplay. Kissing. How else would you approach a partner if not for Kissing. Kiss the back of the hand, it's a start but not the same thing, wadge my hand between her legs will probably get me a slap in the mouth .hug them close but won't let them know my full intentions Either. Nope only a kiss on the lips will let a partner know my full romantic intentions. (Probably) .

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

don't like kissing when i meet but a guy is welcome to kiss my boobs, fanny and arse

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago


"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x"

I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x

I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!"

I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago


"I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x"

To quote the great hot chocolate … it started with a kiss.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Is kissing not mandatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x

To quote the great hot chocolate … it started with a kiss. "

Certainly get the juices flowing

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By *rcool67Man
over a year ago

London

I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

On a one to one meet kissing is a must but in a group situation kissing is not necessary for me although can be nice if it happens.

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets"

I think that might be a soft swap… penetration with your own partner only

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is kissing not mandatory "

Nothing in swinging is mandatory

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x

I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!"

ROFL yep. We invite a guy round, stare at him for five minutes, throw our clothes off, fuck like rabbits with no foreplay whatsoever, put our clothes back on and kick him out.

Of course we don't do that? .

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Love kisses as he caaress my boobs xx

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I love kissing

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I could never meet anyone who doesn't/want kiss. A kiss so passionate and deep which leaves me breathless turns me on so much. I'd find the whole thing to clinical without that kiss x

I don’t understand how people don’t kiss. Like what do you do? Just stare at each other then take your own clothes off. I think kissing is like the first step that leads to other things!

I dont either. A kiss can tell you so much about a person x"

It's all about feeling the passion rise in someone, there's no better way than through kissing

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I met a couple before where I could kiss, do oral but no penetration. It was a bit of a shock at first but because I absolutely love kissing I was alright with it in the end, but normally kissing is a must for me on meets"

The worst meet I ever had, was a last minute affair with a couple who had been let down by another guy. I jumped in my car and was round to theirs in a flash, to be confronted with a very sexy, but worse for wear young woman. "I don't kiss sorry" she said. "I don't suck cock either" she said. I thanked them both for their time, and left, as it wasn't working for me. I've never done a last minute meet since because of that night, and I always ask if the lady kisses beforehand

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By *ustcurious1000Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

A must for it’s a part of the build up …

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By *ack and jill123Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I love kissing and it's even better if you're kissing someone who, like me, likes to take their time and enjoy the sensuality.

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By *asters_kittenCouple
over a year ago

Luton

Kissing is the only way to start the fun.

Omg I know lots of people leave kissing for the partner/husband but could not imagine playing without it.

At first I thought it too personal but what's more personal than sharing ya partners private parts with another, not much left after that haha..

It's a HUGE must for me, nothing more sexy than kissing him once he's been down on you or vice versa.

Yes, yes and yes.

If u don't kiss it isn't happening.

Kitten x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t meet but if I did kissing would be essential. I love kissing

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By *mileyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when my ex army mates visit my wife incists on kissing them lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd pay good money for a kiss tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet without kissing. Itd be too mechanical feeling.

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago


"I'd pay good money for a kiss tonight "

What’s the going rate? I don’t come cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very sad that the wife of the couple I meet regularly won't allow me to kiss her, which I would very much like to do. That's not the first time I've come across that prohibition in couples. Luckily my bi male friend makes up for it when we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, but I’d rather not.

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best not to during Covid.

Sadly, my wife used to enjoy kissing strangers more than me whilst being fucked. Intially she denied then she admitted it but never gave a reason - i' was happy she was fucking strangers which is/was a biiger turn on for me

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yes we love it

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By *ark RumMan
over a year ago

Bucks

I really love a good kiss. Makes the hairs stand up on ya neck and your cock stand up in ya boxers

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Love it - slow and sensual xxx

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"Love it - slow and sensual xxx"

Me too… kissing rocks x

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Love it - slow and sensual xxx

Me too… kissing rocks x "

Even more sensual for some

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We both love kissing and thoroughly enjoying kissing other people. We couldn't have fun with others if they didn't kiss.

We do respect other people's boundaries and would never force kissing upon them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is so much better with lots of sensual slow passionate kissing.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know."

I'm very much the same - I love kissing other women, but not guys. I'm turned on by other women, but don't have romantic feelings for them, and for me kissing men is associated with a romantic connection: I have absolutely no desire to be romantic with anyone other than my partner. I'm here for sex, not dating.

Despite all the people on this thread claiming that kissing is essential, nobody has ever suggested that sex with me is either 'clinical' or 'cold'. Quite the opposite in fact - they usually come back for more!

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

I love kissing, and don’t think of it as romantic. When I kiss in a swap, it’s sexy and fun, but when I kiss my partner, it’s different because there are so many feelings involved.

Everyone has their boundaries, but we wouldn’t play with a couple if kissing wasn’t part of the swap.

No kissing is definitely a dealbreaker xx

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"I have my curious head on tonight. Does anyone not kiss when they meet others. I love kissing so can’t imagine not doing it but just wondered others views. "

We won’t meet with couples who don’t kiss, respect their decision but we would both really struggle with this so its a must.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t kiss, we’re not meeting. Simple.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I love kissing, it's all part of the build up

I understand why some couples don't, but when I meet with my partner we both kiss others.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We both kiss xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'd pay good money for a kiss tonight "

I can offer you a bulk discount

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know."

I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.

I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't meet a non kisser

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.

I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.

I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't? "

I don’t think any one’s being judgemental, it’s absolutely fine to have boundaries, we all do to some extent. Each to their own, and what one person sees as an intimate act, someone else doesn’t x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this always the start of good things to come before any clothing is removed?

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"If you don’t kiss, we’re not meeting. Simple. "

Yep I much prefer meeting couples who kiss. Many don't though unfortunately.

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

Adore kissing men or women. The longer slower with lots on tongues the better.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.

I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.

I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't? "

If they can't accept it then they aren't the right people for you x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Kissing is mandatory.. no kissing no meet

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Always kiss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I love kissing. When my partner and I first met (just for a drink) I asked him for a kiss as we left. It made me absolutely weak at the knees, and that gorgeous kiss is still something I have flashbacks to now, 3 years later. However, when we meet others, I love kissing ladies but am really not fussed about kissing men. Oddly it feels like I'm being disloyal and feels uncomfortably intimate - even if we're all about to fuck, suck, DP, whatever else. And again oddly, I find watching my partner fuck & be sucked by other women very sexy but seeing him kiss them is something I find hard to watch. Does anyone else have that or is that just my insecurity? I know everyone's different but I would be really interested to know.

I don't think that makes you insecure, we all have things we don't like or find hard to watch. Choosing not to kiss is just one preference among all the others but for some reason a lot of people find it really difficult to accept, although most would claim to be open minded and non judgemental.

I don't know why this is, I'm happy to accept that some people need that intimacy before they can fuck casually why can't they accept that I don't?

If they can't accept it then they aren't the right people for you x"

Oh I know that . I do get a bit meh about the constant insistence by people saying they would never meet us, we don't need to be told ad nauseam, we know and accept we're not compatible.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Really struggle not kissing.. what’s the point on a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive part of a meet for us.

Love seeing cherry kissing another guy or girl.

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By *rincess 1973Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Love a good kiss good indicator for connection for me and a great icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t tell a lot from a kiss I think. Id not even be sure I’d want more from anyone unless there was mucho kissing beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a lady that knows how to kiss with tongues its such a turn on

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

It's a deal breaker for me. I enjoy kissing so much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a Kiss.

Those whom dont, Carry on.

But dont stop others from being themselves..

Kiss kiss kiss kiss away 110%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing and eye contact is a must for me

understand couples who don't wanna kiss others a bit but that's not for me

100 million % kissing is a must

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By *xx_F_xxxCouple
over a year ago

Northants

Without kissing I think I’m out

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Adore kissing lips that can kiss back. Face chewing isn’t sexy ha ha

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldn’t meet a woman who didn’t kiss. It’s a dealbreaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i fancy someone one enought to fuck then kissing is a must .... if i dont want to kiss we would not be fucking

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

never kiss, taboo or stranger meets

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town


"if i fancy someone one enought to fuck then kissing is a must .... if i dont want to kiss we would not be fucking"

We are kind of similar. If we don't enjoy the kiss we question whether we'd take it any further. An enjoyable kiss is a sign that fucking would be good too.

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I’ve turned down meets from couples who insist on no kissing. I feel it becomes a mechanical exercise if there’s no kissing involved. I’ve no problem with those who don’t want to involve kissing - it just isn’t really for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple who on the first time we met had a no kissing rule.

Next time we met the lady decided she was kissing — she was a fantastic kisser and it changed the meet from good to bloody fantastic

For me it matters - sexy and intimate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met with a couple where there is a no kissing rule, its so difficult not to kiss her but I always play by the rules. I've had a few meets with them and although the sex is always good it does however detract from the meet when there's no kissing. More clinical I think and less sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive turn on for me

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the best forplay and if it’s good it gets me so exiting and horny.

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