FabSwingers.com forum: Meets without penetration

By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I'm really interested in the idea of a meet without penetration. And I don't just mean a social meet. I mean a sexual meet, where the focus is on sensuality, teasing etc. Kissing, touching, mutual masturbation, oral could all come into play, just no penetration.

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a couple of meets like this, and they were extremely erotic.

it drove me wild the slow, sensual touching and kissing, focusing on eachother, crazy intense oral.

i wouldn't normally jump at these types of meets, because im a whore for a decent dicking. but they were brill, and made the anticipation for the next time almost unbearable.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I'm really interested in the idea of a meet without penetration. And I don't just mean a social meet. I mean a sexual meet, where the focus is on sensuality, teasing etc. Kissing, touching, mutual masturbation, oral could all come into play, just no penetration.

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?"

Not for me. After all the touching and teasing I want sex.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Most of my meets are this, and men love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I’ve always wanted to organise with a willing lady/wife.

Something so erotic and hot.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Most of my meets are this, and men love it x"

Who can blame them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent meets no penetration by the stranger and only light touching they watched us make love.

Once a woman allows a lot of touching and kissing in my experience my wife always goes for a good fuck

My wife and I have recently kissed, I've rubbed her pussy hard tried the new sex toy, fingered her hard and dildo action but by the time I was ready to go in, it was all over for her so I had to self please watching the wide open pussy of my wife

So it can work as everyone is different

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"ive had a couple of meets like this, and they were extremely erotic.

it drove me wild the slow, sensual touching and kissing, focusing on eachother, crazy intense oral.

i wouldn't normally jump at these types of meets, because im a whore for a decent dicking. but they were brill, and made the anticipation for the next time almost unbearable.

Px "

This is exactly what I'm talking about, sensuality, intensity, crazy anticipation. It sounds incredible!

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Most of my meets are this, and men love it x"

That's so awesome, I would love it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds a bit too gimmicky and not a very organic way to spend time indulging in intimacy with someone you like

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

see I have and would be happy to play like this. though I know even the hubby is of the opinion it's something and nothing and we have had many a conversation about what we both see as something and what we both see as nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like mutual masturbation.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

That would be torture for me

that's like the middle ground between a social and sex isn't it in a way? In a way, it would be an amazing feeling of course but at some point that urge will get too strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called as soft play meet ...

Simple definition

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I had a meet like that a few years ago it was all about her sitting on my face for 3 hours after which she gave me a foot job with nylon clad feet

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"It's called as soft play meet ...

Simple definition

Thanks, I didn't know it was called that

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By *niceoneMan
over a year ago

South Glos

I met a couple a few times, one of which was non penetrative at their request. I didn't think it would be my thing but got on with them so well I thought I'd give it a go.

What followed was one of the most amazing evenings I've had. It was so sensual, intimate and erotic as well explored!

You need to have a good connection though to be that intimate and have the trust.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Happened to me by accident.. met a very naughty couple in Cyprus and there was so much going on when we all finished I’d realised I’ve no actually fucked the wife ! Was a great meet .. so no hesitation having a non penetration meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t mind trying this sometime! Some of the experiences sound quite exciting!

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

A bit like a first date.

Hopefully not the £140 short the next day with a hangover kinda date

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Fliwick

If penetration didn’t follow the soft play we’d not be meeting again, yes it’s erotic and sensual but I’m more than capable of getting myself off

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the oral and foreplay was good then it would be fun. But when meeting men I always expect penetration tbh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds rather good to us. Excuse one ignorance but isn’t this what “soft play” is? If not, then we’ve been looking all wrong.

It’s very often the case that MissJ wants to be fucked by the other guy but not a requisite. However, a guy who is a bit nervous or who just generally prefers to be sensual on other ways could be fun too.

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We had soft play meets x very sensual x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the oral and foreplay was good then it would be fun. But when meeting men I always expect penetration tbh xx"

Yeah agreed - it’d be fun but then things would take over haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive had a couple of meets like this, and they were extremely erotic.

it drove me wild the slow, sensual touching and kissing, focusing on eachother, crazy intense oral.

i wouldn't normally jump at these types of meets, because im a whore for a decent dicking. but they were brill, and made the anticipation for the next time almost unbearable.

Px "
well you just made me horny lol

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"If penetration didn’t follow the soft play we’d not be meeting again, yes it’s erotic and sensual but I’m more than capable of getting myself off

Mrs "

Well it would obviously depend how everyone is feeling. There is nothing to say penetration couldn't happen if everyone gets all riled up and wants it

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Fliwick

"If penetration didn’t follow the soft play we’d not be meeting again, yes it’s erotic and sensual but I’m more than capable of getting myself off

Mrs

Well it would obviously depend how everyone is feeling. There is nothing to say penetration couldn't happen if everyone gets all riled up and wants it

Exactly so but if a couple suggested we meet for soft play only we wouldn’t meet after all I’m a nympho

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I love these types of meets.

It really turns me on to become a couple's cuckolded sexual butler.

The feeling of arousing a women and awakening her body only to feel your own manhood literally aching for attention whilst the husband or boyfriend shows you the pleasures you have been made to crave.

It's always good to be left wanting more, to be a guest in a couple's relationship and to show the husband that he is the alpha male

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We wouldn't do a soft meet normally. But thinking about it could be a fun kind of orgasm denial punishment if she was being a little brat hah. Soft teasing does drive her absolutely insane and to deny an orgasm after that would be quite a punishment.

Maybe. Just thinking out loud haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this aswell.

It can be a relaxing way to start a sexual connection, especially on a very first meeting.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?"

Done this many many times. Good sex isn't all about penetration.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Most of our meets are erotic foreplay .. leading to more later if the mood takes ..

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Weird, the way its the Ladies, who dont enjoy this kind of meet.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

In my first years of swinging I had a lot of sex. But I wanted more.. Is that possible? Yes, I wanted intimate, sensuous connection. I had had so much sex, fucking, bonking, call it what you like, I had become numb . And I realised I was simply performing. So, after a five year break, I came back to swinging with a different approach. I dont offer penetrative sex, but for me something more intimate, connected, sensuous, and more conscious. Its not for everybody, but those who find me love it.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"In my first years of swinging I had a lot of sex. But I wanted more.. Is that possible? Yes, I wanted intimate, sensuous connection. I had had so much sex, fucking, bonking, call it what you like, I had become numb . And I realised I was simply performing. So, after a five year break, I came back to swinging with a different approach. I dont offer penetrative sex, but for me something more intimate, connected, sensuous, and more conscious. Its not for everybody, but those who find me love it. "

Seems popular, judging by your veris

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's called as soft play meet ...

Simple definition

I was thinking, soft swap without the swap but this makes far more sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weird, the way its the Ladies, who dont enjoy this kind of meet."

Penetration is vitally important, at least to me xx

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I have...it's erotic and frustrating in equal measures

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?"

That's how we play! It's incredibly horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very hard to find a couple who are interested in this ,i was lucky to find a lovely couple and boy it was so erotic and would love to play this way again .

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I have. Not all planned that way either. On occasions I found it to be far more intimate and more satisfying.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

All our meets are of this nature in so much that we are a soft swing couple own partner penetration only. That said we have had penetration with one and another and so have our playmates. We even continued with additional oral simulation whilst the act took place.

Non have complain but they are probably just polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?"

I think those could be the best meets.. meaning the excitement and anticipation for 2nd or 3rd meets just intensifies

The worst meets I have had are ones which are just sex, which. Always end up rushed and feeling anti climatic

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

To me sex is more than just the dicking. So that would be fine with me.

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

I have done this a few times and like a few have said on here it’s been so erotic and sexy! I was rock hard for 3 hours solid....the teasing the licking the stroking......OMG was the best meet I have ever had.....

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By *anny345100Man
over a year ago

thetford

I have given out a fair few massages like this I’ve stripped off in front of them then spent about an hour massaging, it’s great from behind as I kneel over the lady’s bum and place my cock down inbetween her cheeks as I massage their back.

The lady’s I done it too really enjoyed it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love these meets, i used to meet someone on here that was along these lines

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I have given out a fair few massages like this I’ve stripped off in front of them then spent about an hour massaging, it’s great from behind as I kneel over the lady’s bum and place my cock down inbetween her cheeks as I massage their back.

The lady’s I done it too really enjoyed it !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun to us

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Soft play its called, lots variations

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By *anny345100Man
over a year ago

thetford

"Sounds like fun to us

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oh it is a lot of fun, especially for the lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A foreplay only meet would be fun. I enjoy the build up and giving lots of attention to the female. Kisses everywhere and sucking toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our main way to play.

We fuck as others watch and do their thing aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it. It can be amazing. Does leave me wanting more though!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

That sounds like a great exploration

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Fine by me, and have done it before.

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've had many meets like this for various reasons I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was like this.... Loved it... Hours of play

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Our last two meets were just oral from Tani whilst they played with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F@ck that. I want to pound that pu$$y

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Weird, the way its the Ladies, who dont enjoy this kind of meet."

lol That depends on the lady and who she's going home with. Not all couples are here because the female is entirely starved of good sex because she's shcakled to a guy with a tiny limp dick. Some ladies here use meetings with other guys as an hors doeuvre prior to the main course.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I've had several meets that haven't involved penetration and they've still been fantastic.

I'm a very tactile guy and absolutely love kissing and especially giving oral so for me I'm perfectly comfortable with non penetrative meets.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think it would be something I'd be interested in.I like the teasing and kissing and erotic build up to penetration if it stopped before that then I'd be disappointed and would probably wouldn't meet the person again.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Frankly, we'd far rather spend an evening enjoying erotic soft fun with a nice respectful guy than having an anonymous fuck with some random guy who's desperate for sex. Desperation is not attractive to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very erotic, right up my street ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very erotic, right up my street ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what butters my muffin. Anybody interested please check out our profile.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"Weird, the way its the Ladies, who dont enjoy this kind of meet.

Nicely put how many couples have foreplay to the same extent that we have. We know quite few full swap couples that say that the play was fun and cum back for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of it being a bit different to just meeting for sex, that's exciting to me.

Has anyone done this kind of meet? What are your thoughts on it?"

Many many times with one guy.

I found the whole experience much more intense - plus we experimented loads .....

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Had a few meets without penetration. A good meet doesn’t come down to a fuck

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Sounds perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soft play does nothing for us but fairplay to those who do like we cant all be the same

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met a lot of couple who are soft swap. It’s fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn't do a soft meet normally. But thinking about it could be a fun kind of orgasm denial punishment if she was being a little brat hah. Soft teasing does drive her absolutely insane and to deny an orgasm after that would be quite a punishment.

Maybe. Just thinking out loud haha "

There you go, spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people on here are into soft play meets x each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like penetration, but that's not everything. If I was getting on well with someone, I'd happily not have that in favour of foreplay, kissing and sensuality.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I’d happily meet for just a coffee to get an actual meet ??

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I’d happily meet for just a coffee to get an actual meet ??"

Good for you man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have PME problem. So penetration is the last thing I want in my meet

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Not for me. I enjoy the full experience.

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