FabSwingers.com forum: Fab fulfilled?

By *icola2202 OP Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

We have been on here while now and met a guy from here which was random. Another who's profession has helped us (nothing sexual there)

Other than that seems we're kind of just here from habit!

Would you say you found what you came looking for on fab?

For us it's a unfortunate no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that most people on here are still looking for the special ones x im sure that most people are having fun still looking x lots of people on here have different things they are looking for x each to their own x

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By *rsandBooMan
over a year ago

Reading

Hi OP

We have.

We specifically only look for men to enhance the bedroom experience for Mrs.

Do hope to meet couples purely for socials at some point which I think will get there.

What is it you want or wanted from the site that you're not getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I think I'm the perfect candidate for being here. I'm female, single, emotionally detached and live in a highly populated city. I can see why it's a completely different experience for couples, single men, those who want more than NSA and people who live in less populated areas.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Our foray into the world of fab was to find a few likeminded couples where we could all become friends both in and out of the bedroom. Where all or some of us could get together for sexual fun as well as vanilla(ish) nights out.

In our naivety we didn’t realise we were asking for the swinging utopia. So no, we haven’t exactly found what were looking for. Although the search has provided us with plenty of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes and yes fab has given us the tools to do so much ...the problem with many is they think fab should offer things on a plate .... thats not how fab works the provide the tools rest is down to what you put in to get out .....

fab has worked from the first day we joined when fab first started yes ill agree it was a little easier then not so much blocking but it still works today but you need to be more blunt to do so hence way more blocking to sideline those your not interested in then it works

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By *icola2202 OP Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

"Hi OP

We have.

We specifically only look for men to enhance the bedroom experience for Mrs.

Do hope to meet couples purely for socials at some point which I think will get there.

What is it you want or wanted from the site that you're not getting?

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looking for the illusive unicorn but on the verge of giving up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab can be very up and down but try not to let it get to you, finding everything we want isn't easy x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

it's on-going, we hope, so we can't say we have, there's still lots more we have in mind and hope to find here....

I got more than I bargained for actually, my husband found me here lol

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Fab is what you make it. We enjoy putting up photos and videos. Chatting to friends on here we know and meeting new people. As a couple fab is fun x

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By *rsandBooMan
over a year ago

Reading

"Hi OP

We have.

We specifically only look for men to enhance the bedroom experience for Mrs.

Do hope to meet couples purely for socials at some point which I think will get there.

What is it you want or wanted from the site that you're not getting?

looking for the illusive unicorn but on the verge of giving up haha

Ah I see, read your profile now lol

It's quite difficult from what I've seen with people searching for the unicorn. Never give up.

Have you tried clubs? That could be a possibility too or maybe search for couples with a bi fem?

Wish you luck

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi OP

We have.

We specifically only look for men to enhance the bedroom experience for Mrs.

Do hope to meet couples purely for socials at some point which I think will get there.

What is it you want or wanted from the site that you're not getting?

looking for the illusive unicorn but on the verge of giving up haha

The problem with finding a unicorn on fab is that many couples don't want to put in the effort to make the lady feel comfortable.

It's almost expected that all single women are unicorns when many times this isn't the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, we met someone, it was ok, but .........

Then Mr decided he didn't want all the attention on me

Cant find someone to give him full attention

He only wants couples or single women, which are hard to come by.

So basically im here to read the forums and thats about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, we met someone, it was ok, but .........

Then Mr decided he didn't want all the attention on me

Cant find someone to give him full attention

He only wants couples or single women, which are hard to come by.

So basically im here to read the forums and thats about it

Ouch! sounds like hubby got cold feet. Did you enjoy the meet though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, we met someone, it was ok, but .........

Then Mr decided he didn't want all the attention on me

Cant find someone to give him full attention

He only wants couples or single women, which are hard to come by.

So basically im here to read the forums and thats about it

Ouch! sounds like hubby got cold feet. Did you enjoy the meet though? "

Loved it, then overthought it, now hubby doesn't want to meet with men, only bi ones as a last result. Im gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, we met someone, it was ok, but .........

Then Mr decided he didn't want all the attention on me

Cant find someone to give him full attention

He only wants couples or single women, which are hard to come by.

So basically im here to read the forums and thats about it

Ouch! sounds like hubby got cold feet. Did you enjoy the meet though?

Loved it, then overthought it, now hubby doesn't want to meet with men, only bi ones as a last result. Im gutted

Lol what a bummer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not yet beginning to think its trying to find rocking horse poop.From my experience a lot of couples think you should be grateful they even look at your profile and want guys to jump through hoops just to get even a social,may be i'm talking to the wrong folk as i'm sure there are genuinely nice folk on here somewhere.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've quite enjoyed my time on fab so far. Ok, it hasn't been easy with lockdown happening but I've chatted to some great people, got to know them, met a few, had my 1st club visit but there is a huge world out there to explore, people to see and meet, new experiences.. so yeah, I would like to say my journey is only the beginning but you never know, it could all change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come and go from fab ! I stay a month maybe 2 have fun then disappear again x made a few friends along the way which I keep in touch with so yes x

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
over a year ago

I came to fab looking for sex and over the years it's given me that yes. It's also given me friendships and connections with people that mean more to me than sex ever could, now that I wasn't expecting.

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We never found here what we looking ,no lucky with meets arrange (not sure why), so far only clubs where we have quiet successful meets.

Not sure is it our profile text,pictures os something different .

Mostly use to get info about events in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, we met someone, it was ok, but .........

Then Mr decided he didn't want all the attention on me

Cant find someone to give him full attention

He only wants couples or single women, which are hard to come by.

So basically im here to read the forums and thats about it

Ouch! sounds like hubby got cold feet. Did you enjoy the meet though?

Loved it, then overthought it, now hubby doesn't want to meet with men, only bi ones as a last result. Im gutted

Oh no sounds like a uturn after one meet, heard it happen before though, has he asked you what you want? Perhaps a single profile each would be a good way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found what I was looking for outside fab. Am still here as I like the forums and can post naughty pictures. And I know there are some new friends on here who are waiting to be found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use it fir educational purposes at the moment. Can't really say what the future will hold......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But never say never. I’m not sure Fab promised me anything or I actually am looking for something specific. But even life doesn’t give me everything, and I am never easily satisfied

Give it time.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We came here to find people who we get on well with who are sexually open. Aside from the pandemic restrictions when we couldn't meet anybody, I'd say we've done pretty well, although there have been some disappointments along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I leave I miss that excitement, that spark from meeting someone new x

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

100% yes we’ve met some amazing people from here and nice to keep in touch with people we’ve met at clubs.

The site works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was .... but I'm not now

Mine is circumstantial now, not bring able to accomm or have the days to myself to accomm like I used to. Now it's down to the fab gods to materialise someone that I have sexual chemistry with, locally to me, who can accomm when I am able to meet, when I actually can get some time to myself

it's not happening for me anymore!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I haven't found what I'm looking for yet. Still hopeful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider ourselves lucky. We have met couples and single guys who we have gone on to be friends with and meet regularly for fun. We still get interest from 'new' people too.

So it's a yes from us.

On the flip side, Fab is also a habit. We both check Fab as often as we do Faceb**k and Insta. Probably too much.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I did once x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We have found all we have wanted to find on Fab

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Absolutely not, no. It's been almost as disappointing as every other site I've tried.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve had some amazing meets, so we certainly have Fab to thank for that.

We exclusively came here for FFM meets though, and we had a wonderful meet with a wonderful woman who contacted us from the first ‘Meet’ advert we put up here, so let’s just say our expectations were a little unrealistic for a while after that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had some amazing experiences, met some fantastic people with lots of laughter and sex along the way.

Fab is what you make it..not sure we would want to go back to Vanilla now.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Fab has been very good to me. I’ve met some lovely people. A good number, I’m in regular contact with and we still meet up with.

Fab has been a source of interesting stories and given me many adventures and road trips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes. I met a lovely couple with a bi husband which is exactly what I wanted; we meet regularly, and I have a bi male friend too, so feeling blessed.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

Pretty much, yes. We came here looking for guys, couples and single women for Char, and have met plenty of guys, some more than once. We've made friends with a few couples and do "vanilla" stuff with them, too.

Lately there's been more no-shows and idiots, and Char's health has meant we can't do as many meets as we'd like, but it's still a good way to meet those that we want to.

(Bry)

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By *anny345100Man
over a year ago

thetford

I haven’t lots of fantasies still not achieved.

Would love to meet an older women as a regular FWB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My needs change. So yes I have found what I want from fab.

But I want to explore more to discover new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really sure what I came here looking for originally but I found more than I ever thought I would. I'm only really here to keep in touch with friends now and perve occasionally

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We’ve had some fantastic meets and met some really lovely ladies! But due to the sheer amount of timewasters we’ve come across over the last few months, it’s sadly tainted our view of the site! I’m a positive thinker, so we will stay for now! I think also other little things have niggled slightly over time, such as the right to an opinion on forums without being launched into at times, and not being able to be honest on our own profile update without it being taken down! Clubs definitely work out better for us tbh, but it’s great to see that so many others are enjoying their fab time

Miss pc

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

Fab has been a huge success for me.

I've met and continue to meet three couples through Fab and recently got invited to the Greedy Girls night at Jaydees.

My visit allowed me to meet some lovely people, some of whom I hope to reacquaint myself with this coming Friday, as well as meeting new ones.

I suppose ones perspective of whether membership of Fab has been a success or otherwise depends largely on their objectives and expectations at the outset.

For me though it's been brilliant.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve met like minded people and had great times with them. Single females, single males, couples.

I would say if you aren’t getting everything from FAB then go to socials, clubs, parties…we’ve tried them all.

What you are wanting is tough to get as you’ve explained you are inexperienced and also wanting your partner to watch…the single girl has a lot of expectations on her then! I’d say without going to socials or clubs and letting them speak to you face to face it would be very hard to get what you are after.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"We have been on here while now and met a guy from here which was random. Another who's profession has helped us (nothing sexual there)

Other than that seems we're kind of just here from habit!

Would you say you found what you came looking for on fab?

For us it's a unfortunate no

Well OP I haven’t found mine as of yet, was looking forward to meeting new abs exciting females/couples hey ho though not many chats I’m afraid or play

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By *icola2202 OP Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Don't get me wrong the forums are good to look at and looking at profiles and pictures is good but that's about as exciting as its got

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